In Love With A Prositute
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Originally posted by dreamykite:
You talking to me?
bread and butter comes from hardwork - farmers working on the field. not thru easy route of being laid.
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But what do u want me to do? My ex doesn't wants to see me or talk to me. The money is a lot but what can I do. Just make use of the talktime wif her. Hence, I am a bit tight on my allowance.Originally posted by Kdajong99:Everytime you see her u gotto pay ard $40 but you dun have to pay to see your ex!!! So wake up!!!
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Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:But what do u want me to do? My ex doesn't wants to see me or talk to me. The money is a lot but what can I do. Just make use of the talktime wif her. Hence, I am a bit tight on my allowance.
/me shake head.
Karmic relationship defy logics, words, wisdom and all.
Do as you will?
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Hmmm... I need more time... I am just confuse...
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agree.
Karmic relationship defy logics, words, wisdom and all.
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Originally posted by dreamykite:agree.
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But she is calling every alternate days... We will talk abt how's each other day...
I agree she may be toying my feelings... But i just can't help it...
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Not surprising for you to ask this question.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:But she is calling every alternate days... We will talk abt how's each other day...
I agree she may be toying my feelings... But i just can't help it...
Really must let go?
'Deviant's poision'
When conditions are 'thought' unstoppable or impossible. One will not resist any longer and decide on the odds.
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Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:But she is calling every alternate days... We will talk abt how's each other day...
I agree she may be toying my feelings... But i just can't help it...
Really must let go? If you don't see the reason why you should let go, you should go for it... as to allow circumstance to reveal you the reason why you should.
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well said...Originally posted by Yunhaier: If you don't see the reason why you should let go, you should go for it... as to allow circumstance to reveal you the reason why you should.
Cheers
some times when you feel something is not right..you have to learn to let go....
if you persist on, you may get hurt even more when you actually caught ur state red-handed...
we all learn by mistakes, well if your not sure what to do...just let nature takes its own course then... -
Killer, one golden rule of getting involved with pros:Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:But she is calling every alternate days... We will talk abt how's each other day...
I agree she may be toying my feelings... But i just can't help it...
Really must let go?
'F**K & FORGET!!!!' Why you guys don't learn one ah?
You know got how many guys like you were in your position before and walked down the wrong path? I'm sorry man. But this is the real world and the sad thing is, you cannot have emotions if you want to get involved with pros. They are just there to service you. Don't even try to think of all those noble acts you plan to do, it doesn't work.
Pls man.. do yourself a favor, and for her too. If you are the emotional type, nvr touch pros then. Find a proper gf thru the normal means. -
Well said. Its part of their jobscope to service u well. Getting into such a relationship may spells more trouble and upset.Originally posted by MetalGear:Killer, one golden rule of getting involved with pros:
'F**K & FORGET!!!!' Why you guys don't learn one ah?
You know got how many guys like you were in your position before and walked down the wrong path? I'm sorry man. But this is the real world and the sad thing is, you cannot have emotions if you want to get involved with pros. They are just there to service you. Don't even try to think of all those noble acts you plan to do, it doesn't work.
Pls man.. do yourself a favor, and for her too. If you are the emotional type, nvr touch pros then. Find a proper gf thru the normal means.
Have you ever wonder what will happen if she run away with your $$$ one day?
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yeah..agreed..even though she resembles ur ex-gf..u must forget abt ur ex..n ''there are many fishes in the pond''..get wad i mean?Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Well said. Its part of their jobscope to service u well. Getting into such a relationship may spells more trouble and upset.
Have you ever wonder what will happen if she run away with your $$$ one day?
Give yourself some time to think through...
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Maybe i don have the rights to talk abt u because i'm abit like your situation. Well i can only say that no matter how smart or intelligence a person is they will always stupid in some ways. U can plan strategies to set up ppl, getting good grades or exploiting someone's evil scheme.. U will b blinded in love and u will never think abt how this person plans are. Once u think she is good and treats u well u will never find any odds in her. Right now u are like me, falling into a deep well. I admit my mistakes and right now i'm deciding wat options to take. Better b safe then sorry.
Road 1:
Stay and belive in yourself regardless of all odds or watever your friend's concerns.
Pros regarding to this situation:
You MAY end up living with a good life with her down the road happily ever after. U thank yourself for believing yourself regardless of other's comments. U begin to thank god for sending off this gal to yuor life.
Cons regarding to this:
You will MOST likely fall into a deep shit. U will end up getting all your money cheated. Feelings included as well. During this point of sadness u begin to do silly things such as drinking beer (like me), gamble or whacking someone u think he's an eyesore. When your friends gave their concern over you or some sort of scoldins, u felt even sadder. Then u would have your 40 kind of sadness like me. Then u don even have the money to do anything. SO u resort to your last way and that is suicide.
Road 2:
U entrust us with our comments and don give a shit to her. U made yourself to hate her so that u can forget abt her. U do healhty activities such as running or some sort of sports or haning ard with friends. U slowly forget abt your ex and as well that Thai[/i] woman. THen you thank your friends and u invites a new love life.
Pros regarding to this road:
You WILL[b] enjoy your life and thank god and your friends comments. You will thank yourself for believin in us and thus not falling into a deep scheme. U will learnt a new lesson in life. Then u will forget abt your ex and will most likely have a new gal on your bike.
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Thanks felirox... But u see, I am losing my faith in local gals... R u sure there are many fishes in the pond(S'pore)? I thought I should be in the ocean (Global) instead where are even more fishes?Originally posted by felirox:yeah..agreed..even though she resembles ur ex-gf..u must forget abt ur ex..n ''there are many fishes in the pond''..get wad i mean? -
Originally posted by FBI:
Hey FBI,
Maybe i don have the rights to talk abt u because i'm abit like your situation. Well i can only say that no matter how smart or intelligence a person is they will always stupid in some ways. U can plan strategies to set up ppl, getting good grades or exploiting someone's evil scheme.. U will b blinded in love and u will never think abt how this person plans are. Once u think she is good and treats u well u will never find any odds in her. Right now u are like me, falling into a deep well. I admit my mistakes and right now i'm deciding wat options to take. Better b safe then sorry.
Road 1:
Stay and belive in yourself regardless of all odds or watever your friend's concerns.
Pros regarding to this situation:
You MAY [b] end up living with a good life with her down the road happily ever after. U thank yourself for believing yourself regardless of other's comments. U begin to thank god for sending off this gal to yuor life.
Cons regarding to this:
You will MOST likely fall into a deep shit. U will end up getting all your money cheated. Feelings included as well. During this point of sadness u begin to do silly things such as drinking beer (like me), gamble or whacking someone u think he's an eyesore. When your friends gave their concern over you or some sort of scoldins, u felt even sadder. Then u would have your 40 kind of sadness like me. Then u don even have the money to do anything. SO u resort to your last way and that is suicide.
Road 2:
U entrust us with our comments and don give a shit to her. U made yourself to hate her so that u can forget abt her. U do healhty activities such as running or some sort of sports or haning ard with friends. U slowly forget abt your ex and as well that Thai[/i] woman. THen you thank your friends and u invites a new love life.
Pros regarding to this road:
You WILL[b] enjoy your life and thank god and your friends comments. You will thank yourself for believin in us and thus not falling into a deep scheme. U will learnt a new lesson in life. Then u will forget abt your ex and will most likely have a new gal on your bike.
No Cons to this situation. [/b]
If u dun mind can share your story wif us? I am keen to know what really happen? So far, I haf not been cheated of any money as u can see, she (Thai Lady) is different from others. She did tell me that she is not after my money. There are no relationship between me and her. We are just good friends now.
I have just realise why I can't get out of this problem becos I do not haf confidence in myself. My ex-gf destroyed my self-esteem entirely. I am left to "die" when she just ditch me at my lowest pt of my life. Somehow, I haf to admit the Thai Gal happens to make me forget my ex-gf for a moment. She gave me back a bit of self-confidence. But then, its just short term solution. Is your situation similar as mine?
I thank everyone here for your comments. As u can seem FBI is also in confusion. I am like him now still deciding on Road 1 or Road 2. -
aha yes we both are feeling the same way. I'm still deciding the road 2. I already shared my story here with the title "i;m one of the most silly guys ard" U can read abt it there. Like the song " It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday" We are both blinded by love.
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Wow.. Such good replies and advices from curiousOrange, The Emperor, FBI, Yunhaier and all the others..
I don't know why but although I am like not related to any part of this topic I would just like to say a BIG thank you to all u guys for spending time and thought to help out this poor soul. May you all have happy days ahead! =)
Personally, I would say give it some time. Seems like no one has talked about the time factor here. As in since how long have you been "in love" with this Thai lady? And how much time gap was there since you broke up with ur ex and started to like this lady?
I have never been to a pro before and probably nvr will, but thats my personal choice. So please pardon me if I asked something really dumb in this next question.
I don't understand why you MUST pay her to visit only. Can't both of you just meet up out somewhere when she is not working? Can't be they work 24 hrs rite? If she rejects that it MIGHT be possible that she wants the money and hence doesn't want to meet you outside..
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I'm sorry to burst your bubble boy.Originally posted by FBI:aha yes we both are feeling the same way. I'm still deciding the road 2. I already shared my story here with the title "i;m one of the most silly guys ard" U can read abt it there. Like the song " It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday" We are both blinded by love.
Your situation is nowhere near his.
But nonetheless still a problem.
This buddy buddy pity party thingy ain't going to work.
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ern.. It is quite confusing. But it is better that you don fall in love with deeper n deeper. Many things you need to consider 4 the furture.. how old are she, is she married or attached, she gt HIV, will she have to go back to thaliand one dae, k your parent accept her n blah blah so on and so fore.. If you got confidence to answer these question, i will wish you all e best. If nt, wish you k think clearly ba. Or maybe she is replacement or maybe a crush?
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Bro, money hard to earn leah, summor this money is given to you as an allowance hor, which means that person spent hours of hard work earning it, can you bare to spend it just like that? Why don't you put the money to good use? Spare a thought about other peoples feelings before you satisfy your own needs. How would the allowance giver feel if he found out about it?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:But what do u want me to do? My ex doesn't wants to see me or talk to me. The money is a lot but what can I do. Just make use of the talktime wif her. Hence, I am a bit tight on my allowance.
Sorry i sound like a nag and feelingless towards your confusion but i think you should be more mature and rational in your thoughts. -
if its true love, i say y not?
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Somehow it's quite the same and i dunno hjow to explain it. Anyway i have decided the road. And that is to be friend with her and start treating her like a friend only. THis is the best decision i think. Right now i'm contented and no more 40 kind of sadness.
CHeers!
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GIVE UP BOY.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Hey FBI,
If u dun mind can share your story wif us? I am keen to know what really happen? So far, I haf not been cheated of any money as u can see, she (Thai Lady) is different from others. She did tell me that she is not after my money. There are no relationship between me and her. We are just good friends now.
I have just realise why I can't get out of this problem becos I do not haf confidence in myself. My ex-gf destroyed my self-esteem entirely. I am left to "die" when she just ditch me at my lowest pt of my life. Somehow, I haf to admit the Thai Gal happens to make me forget my ex-gf for a moment. She gave me back a bit of self-confidence. But then, its just short term solution. Is your situation similar as mine?
I thank everyone here for your comments. As u can seem FBI is also in confusion. I am like him now still deciding on Road 1 or Road 2.
1. She is NOT your GF. No matter how CLOSE they might resemble each other.... Then again, what would you wanna have to do with your gf now anyway
2. You're not certain of things yourself. How can you INSIST on something when you're not CERTAIN YOURSELF? No doubt, you can say you feel 'love', 'force', 'strong feelings'... WHATEVER... You can only GO ON in ONE WAY... That is BLINDLY.... PURE LUCK... Just like throwing a DICE, if not WORSE... Might even have far less than 1/6 of a chance no matter which way things turn up... If you're gonna let a DICE DECIDES if your HEAD's GONNA BE BANGED, PLS GO AHEAD... -
hey dude
wake up your idea
think you have seen too many movie serials and you are imagining yourself to be the hero..........
she is not worth your help better check up her background first.......
she may be trying to cheat you up to her hook...............
she may just look like your ex but come down to one thing she is just a hooker who looks like your ex.....
may god bless you and help u to wake up