Qns-Would u....?
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wad?!starpuppy u onli 17??i tot u 24 le?!mi 18 tho..and i tot u were older lor..maybe i saw wrongly on ur frenster..muz be..Originally posted by StarPuppy:/me pats binZ back
what about me then?
I am only 17
I gave all my attention on my flower and she treated me like dirt...
but hey...its lucky i never gave her my life and promises to her
so be happy...i will meet my own special flower in life when the time is right
dun worry...u will meet yours too if u dun give up hope in Love
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
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haha.. okie okie..Originally posted by StarPuppy:/me pats binZ back
what about me then?
I am only 17
I gave all my attention on my flower and she treated me like dirt...
but hey...its lucky i never gave her my life and promises to her
so be happy...i will meet my own special flower in life when the time is right
dun worry...u will meet yours too if u dun give up hope in Love
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
but i nv even have a flower before nia~ dun know why wor.. maybe me not shuai enough~ no money too.
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Nah,firstly it's kinda WRONG if your bf/gf goes pub & then ended up in bed with someone else.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Your gf/bf went out with her friends...went to pub...got a few drinks..got drunk and ended up in bed with another person....
He/She regrets it and really loves you
Would you forgive him/her?
P.s:Just want to see the response of ppl in AA
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
ehs,i would have followed my bf go to the pub lor,in case he mess around lols.
So what if he really loves you?
i mean..he/she must have hook up with a few girls/boys at the bar or else how would they even booked into a hotel.haiya,this kind of boy/girl, break for good better
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It depends on how much you love each other or how tolerate you are.
If you yourself is not faithful to your partner, you shouldn't take it for granted by expecting to be treated with the same "faith".
Whatever percentage of soberness is, I think this is just a totally rubbish excusses for a wrong-doing. But, under the effect of alcohol & fake-romantic environment, can someone assure that he/she can resist the "temptation"???. Ask this question: CAN YOU?
So, avoid from alcohol or going to those "fake-romantic" places (e.g. club or party). Even though one can say "well, I can control / protect myself", but, you can't keep yourself from those "hunters". You reject them once, the "hunters" will not give up and will try again and again until one day, when your mental strenght is "weak" (e.g. because of alcohol, loneliness, quarrel with partner, etc), one will get caught!!! Where... in bed, eventually.
I know a gal that she is very fond of clubbing / partying. I am not a clubber but I don't mind to go clubbing with her as if I want to take care of her. No other "bad" intention as I do love her so much. However, she refuses and says I will get boring as she sticks to her gal frd.
She told me she just clubbing and don't bother about other strangers. I kind of believe her as I got no choice as I can't go for clubbing with her.
Few times, I know that she didn't go home and she said she staying at her gal frd home, overnight. I trust her. She also used to get calls / sms from anonymous, who she met in the pub. But, she can't remember in the next day when she got drunk in yesterday night.
Until recently, indirectly, I found out something. She was once drunk and kissing with her ex-uni frd. I feel really disappointed and I start to imagine she used to be like that when get drunk during clubbing. I can't stop my imagination.
She even got into a trouble that a guy pretends as if her in the msn that "she" (pretended by that guy) likes one-night-stand. I helped her to find out that guy (a guy which is her frd and also a clubber). Finally, that guy stops doing that.
Though she just treats me like a normal frd, I questioned her and begged her stop from clubbing as I love her so much. But, she refuses and said she willing to face consequences on her behaviour.
I love her so much and I kind of "forgive" her again and again and try to forget what had happening. Somehow, it is too difficult to be so generosity. What I hope now is she could realise and stop clubbing one day. Until my patient fading out, perhaps, I will give up on her.
Hence, to all gals, please stop clubbing as it really bring no good to you and don't expect you could find a mr-right in clubbing / partying. No prejudice, but, I don't believe that a person would be "true" to you under the effect of alcohol and the "high" feeling when clubbing / partying.
Though it may be right to say that you just go to party for socializing. But, it would be better not get addicted to clubbing / partying and most important, not to alcohol. -
Originally posted by yuko-ogura:steady!
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never have a flower before isn't a bad thing. You are still young...plenty of time to find the right flowerOriginally posted by binZ:haha.. okie okie..
but i nv even have a flower before nia~ dun know why wor.. maybe me not shuai enough~ no money too. -
er... i think i wont.... drunk u will still knw wat u r doing, if u knw u cant stand this temptation den dun go better.... hee..
To bf/gf
follow ur bf/gf to club better -
wait...wait...what friendster?Originally posted by yuko-ogura:wad?!starpuppy u onli 17??i tot u 24 le?!mi 18 tho..and i tot u were older lor..maybe i saw wrongly on ur frenster..muz be..
i didn't give ppl my emal leh...
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got wad..lol..i tot u posted sia..Originally posted by StarPuppy:wait...wait...what friendster?
i didn't give ppl my emal leh... 
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haha.. 3 yrs younger than u isnt all tat young nia~ going 15 next yr wor.. still no flower. sob sob.. die liao wor.. me going to alone for teh rest of my life ler~Originally posted by laosu:never have a flower before isn't a bad thing. You are still young...plenty of time to find the right flower -
Ok....even if you are only three years younger than me...I found my gf this year, so you have another three years to go....be patient!!!Originally posted by binZ:haha.. 3 yrs younger than u isnt all tat young nia~ going 15 next yr wor.. still no flower. sob sob.. die liao wor.. me going to alone for teh rest of my life ler~ -
paiseh..i mistook u for starfish..
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WHAT?!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:It happened to me before when I'm with my ex. Worse is they did it right beside me when I'm sleeping, almost dead drunk. -
So clever
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:Three of us were drunk. I'm dead drunk. Yeah, I forgive her the first time cause I tot it's the first time and it's the first time I know she had sex with another person when they both are drunk.
A whille later...she initiate a break up without giving me a valid reason. For a while I tried to find out the real reason behind the breakup and duely regreted knowing the truth cause I found out all along that she had been sleeping with another friend (the same guy).
FF, I know what you might be thinking. -
So Auntie Yunnie will only remain sexually faithful to MC?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Yunhaier:/me pat pat
P.S: It wasn't me.
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I wanna VOMIT, you're FIFTEEN?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by binZ:haha.. 3 yrs younger than u isnt all tat young nia~ going 15 next yr wor.. still no flower. sob sob.. die liao wor.. me going to alone for teh rest of my life ler~ -
incredible isn't it?Originally posted by FeowFeow:I wanna VOMIT, you're FIFTEEN?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FeowFeow
he said he was 17 in another thread -
typo lah.. 25 next yr nia..Originally posted by FeowFeow:I wanna VOMIT, you're FIFTEEN?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FeowFeow
i cant be 15 meh? i look young mah~ >.< -
I encounter a ger(same gal) who got drunk until cant stand or cant wake up not once but twice. I did sent her back and when reached her place I try to wake her and waited 1 hour+, in the end too tired so I bring her back. But I did not do anything to her. As a ger, what u will think if you are the girl when you wake up.Originally posted by browniebaobao:I have a fren who went thru this before.. feel so sad for him.
for me.. if my bf do this to me.. i will nv forgive him. Coz i believe even when one is drunk, he is still 30% sober. It's not a gd excuse. -
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
FeowFeowOriginally posted by binZ:typo lah.. 25 next yr nia..
i cant be 15 meh? i look young mah~ >.< -
ok lah ok lah. me old lah... oldest in sgforum..Originally posted by FeowFeow:HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
FeowFeow -
I agree... But if u love a person, no matter how many mistakes they made, u will haf to try to accomadate...Originally posted by falling_stars:i think it's kinda harsh to sentence one to death just because of one wrong step made....
everyone should b given a 2nd chance.... but no more than that ever.... cux that will be yi chuo zai chuo, si xing bu gai..
But I believe there will always be a limit...
We can be too judgemental at times. See the whole issue from a larger scale. One mistake does not determine that the person is a failure... -
Theory and practical very different.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I agree... But if u love a person, no matter how many mistakes they made, u will haf to try to accomadate...
But I believe there will always be a limit...
We can be too judgemental at times. See the whole issue from a larger scale. One mistake does not determine that the person is a failure...
Some people have to cope with the fact whether they are inferior to other guys that's why those things happened.
In their mind could be filled with insecurities and fear.
It could be haunting them for years. For a long long time. -
i guess as much your reaction over this sentence.Originally posted by FeowFeow:WHAT?!
FeowFeow
Yah...caught them making love beside me in action.
Although I'm dead drunk and asleep but I'm a rather light sleeper and with all the rockings and soft moanings beside me, I don't think I'll be able to sleep well.
I woke up and turn around to see both of them bottom naked with him still inside her and they still have the cheek to turn and look at me and say "hi". What could I say? Obvious that they are too drunk to even recognised me. I put on my shoes and walked out of the hotel.
Both of them called me the next day and ask to meet me and admit to me that they make love last night but they had no idea at all that I witness the whole thingy (just imagine how drunk are they). What can I say? She told me she love me and she would understand that I won't be able to forgive her. My heart soften then so I told her I'll pretend that I never know this matter which I did.
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Not hard for me to guess what you might be thinking especially for fishes.Originally posted by FeowFeow:So clever
FeowFeow
Ok, I'm a fool and I probably still am one. I choose to trust but once you break it you'll never see me turn back.