How To Win Her Back
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I love her a lot. How can I move the Heaven so that God can return her to me. She is the one for me and I just like her "Diao Man" character.Originally posted by mancha:You say you love her genuinely.
You will accept her flaws.
LET HER GO, on account of your love for her.
Your future with her will be frequently marred by quarrels.
Let her go live the life she wants, because you love her.
Not easy to accept her flaws.
The man who chopped his wife at Tuas Sony factory also loved his wife and tolerated her flirting, until he snapped.
Can you take the humilation of other men dating your wife, and you waiting at home?
Have you considered that you are the "third party" to her other relationships?
When a man loves a woman, he wants her to be happy.
When a woman loves a man, she will be devoted to him.
I don't see any of these in your case.
She just says she cannot accept the way I am. I have been spending so much time reading on books that are on relationships eg Man Are From Mars and Woman are from Venus. Hoping that the knowledge I gained can improve our relationship. However, at the final stages leading to the breakup, she seems reluctant to discuss abt marriage and attending those pre-marrital course. Maybe those are the signs. I am not Steven Gerrand who can change the whole course of a soccer match single handedly. Like wise, I can't be the one who is putting so much effort to improve the relationship. I really gave my best shot and u will get such a bf in those fairy tales movies or Korean dramas. What do I get in return? Not even her love. That's sadness.
Why am I called the third party of all her relationships? Even those guys she went off wif still haf the cheek to say I am the third party? The pot calling the kettle black. Damn. -
hm..i've oso got love problem lah..but nt not gf kena snatch or wat is gal dun gime me chance even so long...
if i were u...i'll ask myself if the reason she broke wif me is bcuz of my attitude or charecter...if so i'll change n wait for her,bt waiting dosent guarantee a reutrn...
bt if she leave me bcuz of her change of feelings lyk tat of changing clothes den i dun tink i'll b wiating...it shows the "flirtyness'' -
MC, lets have a game of Tekken. i gonna kick yor arse so bad u gonna fly go china town
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hur...start a Thread in Chit chit on this. We'll fight there.Originally posted by FBI:MC, lets have a game of Tekken. i gonna kick yor arse so bad u gonna fly go china town -
You can't be giving 'YUOR BEST SHOT' FOREVER...? And she probably knows that too...Originally posted by AnimalArmy:True enuff but how can I show her enuff concern when I am stress up myself too. I gave my best shot to change to be more understanding and accomadating. I became more than a bf and I think it is more than a husband role. And there she goes again the second time. Now I dunno who she is really after now. Stress and sad. I cannot imagine her holding and kissing another guy. ArgggHHHHHH!!!!!!
Besides.. She already suggested that you're not what she wants. Why bother yourself with further questions...? -
Pls READ what you've written in RED AGAIN... And AGAIN... And AGAIN...Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I apprenciate her and yet she can tell me she dunno how to apprenciate me. Why?
I agree in treating her so well. I did a lot of things for her that I can put some guys to shame. I think she is just too pampered. And I hate gals who in times of needs they will look for u and when they are having a better life, they will simply discard. She simply forgotten the tough times we had together and now just becos she is a bit successful n becoming more chio, she feels that I am not good enuff for her. With her mentality being like that, no wonder her feelings can be gone for me. -
It's not really that 'difficult'... Just that you're STUCK in your OWN STUPID MENTALITY by 'setting the criteria'.... Are you telling me that you CAN PICK on people and people CAN'T PICK on YOU...? WELL... She's PICKING on you now... Whatever the REASON... You're NOT IN...Originally posted by AnimalArmy:It is really hard... Its been 7 mths since we broke up and I am getting worst everyday. I went out wif my friends and some new activities but still it is not helping me. Everywhere I go, the places can only remind me of her and our happy times.
It is very difficult to find tat gal that really apprenciates me. She has set the standard for me. The criteria is somehow similar as her. How can I find someone as similar as her?
Every single night when I hug my pillow, it will only reminds myself of hugging her. It is so painful every night. -
SERIOUSLY... Do YOU THINK you're 'WAITING' for ANYTHING...?Originally posted by AnimalArmy:She can be a good wife. She is very talented n noes how to cook, sew and do household chores. I am willinging to stand by her even though she cheated on me twice is becos I believe everyone has a goodness in them. I never gave up on anybody in my life.
In army, I never give up on my recruits esp those who are physically weak. I motivated them and slowly they gained their confidence and are able to pass their IPPT. I dunno why I cannot apply this to my relationship.
I have seen couples break and patch many times. Some of them got stronger after each breakups. Sometimes, I think it is healthy in a way. Like u say, there are Pros and Cons.
Seriously, now, I dunno whether I should wait for her?
And IF you STILL THINK you ARE...
WHAT would that be
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Originally posted by AnimalArmy:
Personally, I think you might have an EGO PROBLEM...
I love her a lot. How can I move the Heaven so that God can return her to me. She is the one for me and I just like her [b]"Diao Man" character.
She just says she cannot accept the way I am. I have been spending so much time reading on books that are on relationships eg Man Are From Mars and Woman are from Venus. Hoping that the knowledge I gained can improve our relationship. However, at the final stages leading to the breakup, she seems reluctant to discuss abt marriage and attending those pre-marrital course. Maybe those are the signs. I am not Steven Gerrand who can change the whole course of a soccer match single handedly. Like wise, I can't be the one who is putting so much effort to improve the relationship. I really gave my best shot and u will get such a bf in those fairy tales movies or Korean dramas. What do I get in return? Not even her love. That's sadness.
Why am I called the third party of all her relationships? Even those guys she went off wif still haf the cheek to say I am the third party? The pot calling the kettle black. Damn.[/b]
She's NOT accepting you probably because you are...
1. A CONFUSED IDIOT. Telling us how SHE's NOT WORTH IT on one hand, while DYING to get back to her ON THE OTHER....
2. You're simply not what she's looking for right now. Not even if you're the best bf or husband in this world... -
FOR YOU....Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I am in the same situation before... Someone whom I known for 8 years and together for 2.5 years also left me. Indeed, she was all so nice and sweet. And like in your case, she changed. Somehow, I am no longer part of her life long plan.
And she was pretty heartless. The reason the DUMPER is heartless is that they do not want u to haf false hopes. U must understand... I been tru more hell than u. Can u imagine my ex-gf got her friends to scold me right in front of public. That's painful.
I was like u been so foolish and waiting for reconcilation one day. But when a woman has made up her mind or her heart changes, it is very hard to change that. Even God can't help. Take your time to process what everyone has say here. I am here to help u to tide tru. It wasn't easy in the first place but U just got to take the first step. Even till now, I am not fully recovered. -
err... are you sure she is the most suitable for you as u say? u are disgruntled that she cheated on on you lei...
lovely that you think of her good points and forgotten her flaws for the time being...but remember that there are other people out there who may complement you in other happier and more meaningful ways.
don't try to win her back anymore. the harder u try, even if she comes back...it won't be like in the korean dramas.. she won't treat you well, probably treat you as doormat.
think about that.
usher in a new year with a new you. be brave.
it was not meant to be and just thank fate that it has turned out this way earlier for you. she already not interested to talk about marital issues with you...face it, you are not the one for her. maybe someone else out there needs a person like you.
don't worry. crying in pain is a natural healing process. you have abundant love and it's a wasted affections and efforts of 2 years...but hey! look forward to a better tomorrow of many many years with your future love.
cheers dude.
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Man,
I can understand why she leaves u man!!! You are behaving like a WUSSY!!! If you are a man, you should have earned her respect. No women is going to go out with a wussy, someone she have no respect for. So go out there and get a gal 2000X better than her.. there are a lot of gal out there..
But please remember, never go back to that wussy guy mode. There is simply no attraction. -
That's becoz you dunwan to accept the situation and move on. Who ever wants to be in a state of uncertainty. Noone!Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I tried to open up but then I still find her the most suitable of them all.
You must have lots of heart to be broken over and over by the same girl. We are impressed by that. Maybe 'impressed' is not the word.
Get some guts and move on. Many fishes out there. -
well....threadstarter
from what i have read from this thread, i think that you cant blame her, in fact, sadly, you have ruined your own "happy dream" by your high expectations. Its all YOUR side of the story, do you think that her really felt it?
2 years of relationships may seem alot to you, but it's not the time that matters. Quality over Quantity is the phrase for it. there are people who are having 5 years of relationship and don't even talk about marriage yet, ask your self, are you rushing it.
another point, self-confidence is important, if you think you are a scum, you will act like one....but think....which girl will like a scum??? when she when away for another guy the first time and came back to you, it shows that she IS GIVING YOU ANOTHER CHANCE, but you disappoint her again.....so she scolded you i think is that she is trying to make you "break" with her.....perhaps she is too shy to do so....
in short, GO FIND SOMEONE BETTER, SHE IS NOT WORTH IT IF SHE DID WHAT SHE DID TO YOU........at the same time, do reflect on your part...... and try to understand your partner's feelings next time *which you can't get it off a book*.
remember, every individual is different, a same tactic do not have the same result each time......
finally i'm done....someone give me a drink....=) -
Impress is not the word... I think I am foolish. Most of my guy friends will just leave the gal if she ever cheats on them. I am just plain foolish.Originally posted by Croaking_Toad:That's becoz you dunwan to accept the situation and move on. Who ever wants to be in a state of uncertainty. Noone!
You must have lots of heart to be broken over and over by the same girl. We are impressed by that. Maybe 'impressed' is not the word.
Get some guts and move on. Many fishes out there.
Fishes out there? She has left me with a huge scar!!! -
Dear AnimalArmy,
I have a question for you: Why are you so silly? It's obvious to an outsider that she doesn't treasure you, No matter how she claims that you can be the best bf.
Despite the many setbacks, & how you claim that you're the victim, do you honestly think it's wise to try & win her back from the other guy? What are the risks that she will stray again? You KNEW that she'd strayed once, & there would've been a possibility that she would stray again. You'd accepted her back even though you knew the risks. Granted, some people only do that once, but now, she cheated on you a 2nd time. And you still want to win her back? How can you claim to be a victim this time? You'll be going into this with your eyes wide open.
If you really DO win her back, then you may hafta psycho yourself into accepting her cheating ways, & Not make it an issue, since you already KNOW that she has a tendency to cheat.
However, why hurt yourself time & again? It's quite emotionally masochistic to do so. It's better to take the time to let go & let your heart heal. Afterall, if you were right for her, she wouldn't have needed to cheat on you, more than once.
Remember the wise saying (I can't remember the exact words anymore), but let's adapt it to your situation. Cheat on me once, shame on you. Cheat on me twice, shame on ME. Now, if you really wanna go into this a third time, there may need to be a harsher continuation of this proverb, Cheat on me thrice, & I'm a ______________
to be filled in if you've made that mistake.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by AnimalArmy:
Hi peeps,
Seriously need everyone's help? Anyone actually patches back with his ex-gf before? I haf bottle my problems for months. I cannot take it anymore. Pls help.
[b]My Story
The relationship was like a fairy tale initially. But then, neglection, misunderstanding and disagreements set in...
Broke off twice. An on both occasions, third party was involved.
1st occasion, she went steady with another guy without letting me noe. I thought the breakup was just as simple as that but until my friend told me that she is in fact seeing another guy even before we broke up. However, I accepted her again.
2nd occasion, happens 6 mths later, this time she was close with another guy and went out with him behind my back. However, I tried to accept her back but she told me the feelings are really gone for good.
Question 1: I cannot believe that if u (as in her) claim to love someone so dearly, how can u hold someone's hand and become a 2-timer? Are her words too cheap to believe?
Question 2: I did all I can when we patched back the first time round. Sincerity and hard work does not help to save the relationship. I dunno what else I can do to save the relationship?
Question 3: My love for her is genuinue and I can accept her flaws and even accept the fact that she 2 time me. I dunno what she wants from me? Even though she claims I can be the best boyfriend?
Question 4: How can I save this relationship cos I did hate her after the 2nd occasion and pester her non-stop by calling her and waiting for her to come home. End up we quarrelled and at some time, it was pretty ugly. I regretted my actions and now she does not even want to talk to me. What can I do? I cannot be blamed for what I did cos I am the victim...
Question 5: She grew from strength to strength and yet I am living in a pathetic world of my own. I am lost, very lost. What can I do?
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AnimalArmy,
I've tried Not to flare up whilst reading all your replies to The Emperor. Even when he said you're weak, you'll still blame it on your ex. Wake up, ok?
The fact is, the decision to change was YOURS. Whether it's because you wanted to be a SNAG, or whatever for her, the fact is that, YOU made the choice to change. She may have wanted someone more caring, but I don't see anything about her wanting you to start acting like a wimp?
Your changing may have been due to her, but you becoming a weak human being, as far as I've seen, has Nothing to do with her?
When you love someone, you become a BETTER person, NOT become a WEAKER person, & then push the blame to another person. It's all so easy to point fingers when your ex is Not even here to defend herself.
I'm sorry if my post offends, but I just feel that we should all take some responsibility for our actions & choices in life, be it career or relationships.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by AnimalArmy:Well, I wasn't like that. I was a bit MCP. But because I love her, I tried to be accomodating and be a SNAG for the sake of her and I din noe, I became weaker and weaker in the process.
I cannot strike a balance. But I did flare up in front of her during the difficult times cos she was too hot-tempered too. I felt that she has done me wrong and still have the cheek to pin point me. I mean everyone has their limit. -
The answer is very simple. If u love a person, u got to accept her flaws...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear AnimalArmy,
I have a question for you: Why are you so silly? It's obvious to an outsider that she doesn't treasure you, No matter how she claims that you can be the best bf.
Despite the many setbacks, & how you claim that you're the victim, do you honestly think it's wise to try & win her back from the other guy? What are the risks that she will stray again? You KNEW that she'd strayed once, & there would've been a possibility that she would stray again. You'd accepted her back even though you knew the risks. Granted, some people only do that once, but now, she cheated on you a 2nd time. And you still want to win her back? How can you claim to be a victim this time? You'll be going into this with your eyes wide open.
If you really DO win her back, then you may hafta psycho yourself into accepting her cheating ways, & Not make it an issue, since you already KNOW that she has a tendency to cheat.
However, why hurt yourself time & again? It's quite emotionally masochistic to do so. It's better to take the time to let go & let your heart heal. Afterall, if you were right for her, she wouldn't have needed to cheat on you, more than once.
Remember the wise saying (I can't remember the exact words anymore), but let's adapt it to your situation. Cheat on me once, shame on you. Cheat on me twice, shame on ME. Now, if you really wanna go into this a third time, there may need to be a harsher continuation of this proverb, Cheat on me thrice, & I'm a ______________ to be filled in if you've made that mistake.
FeowFeow
I noe I am wrong to push the blame to her but then it is normal for someone to haf such a thought for awhile when the going gets tough.
U understand what I mean?
Cheat on me once, shame on you. Cheat on me twice, shame on ME. But what isit that is shameful abt? At least it shows I am faithful and committed...
I haf let my heart and soul heal for 7 mths leh... and it is not of use... My heart is still wif her and i noe I want her back for good. And hence I started this thread so that u people can help me figure out and analyse the whole situation and tell me how to win her for the very last time. -
1st sentence: Exactly. If you accept her flaws, then if you wish to STILL make the decision to pursue & forgive & pester her to come back to you, then it's time to STOP making yourself out to be a victim, because you are NO longer 1. You're going into this with your eyes wide open.
2nd para: No, it's Not normal, it's COMMON. Usually, it's the people who want to portray themselves as victims do that. I could be wrong, but anyway, I don't think it's fair to your ex when she isn't here to defend herself. I got this done to me before, Not that I cheated, but due to other reasons. Believe me, I was freaking FURIOUS when I found out. Now, of course, I'm over it. But I'm using it as an e.g. to tell you how it'll feel from the other side.
3rd para: I understand, but does Not mean I condone it.
4th para: Shame on you for going into this with eyes wide open & making yourself out to be a victim. You KNEW that there was a possibility, yet you continued to go ahead. It's just a proverb which I used for your situation, I just can't recall the exact wording of that oft-used phrase. I'm Not saying you're shameful in particular. I'm just quoting a proverb to try & help you see things. By the way, it does Not necessarily show that you're committed etc, your persistence may be due to your unwillingness to accept the truth that she's moved on, &/or plain stupidity.
5th para: I believe the other forumites have given you very good views & opinions. I myself have already give you my point of view. Instead of whining about how you want her back, ask yourself if you're prepared to take her cheating. If you can tolerate her constantly cheating on you, then go ahead & pursue her again. Even tell her that in future, No matter how many times she cheats on you, you'll forgive her. If you can't be prepared to do/accept that, then what's the point of hurting yourself over & over? Wouldn't you agree that it's PLAIN STUPIDITY?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by AnimalArmy:The answer is very simple. If u love a person, u got to accept her flaws...
I noe I am wrong to push the blame to her but then it is normal for someone to haf such a thought for awhile when the going gets tough.
U understand what I mean?
Cheat on me once, shame on you. Cheat on me twice, shame on ME. But what isit that is shameful abt? At least it shows I am faithful and committed...
I haf let my heart and soul heal for 7 mths leh... and it is not of use... My heart is still wif her and i noe I want her back for good. And hence I started this thread so that u people can help me figure out and analyse the whole situation and tell me how to win her for the very last time. -
Nope. It's ALREADY OVER. What's there to 'commit' to?Originally posted by AnimalArmy:The answer is very simple. If u love a person, u got to accept her flaws...
I noe I am wrong to push the blame to her but then it is normal for someone to haf such a thought for awhile when the going gets tough.
U understand what I mean?
Cheat on me once, shame on you. Cheat on me twice, shame on ME. But what isit that is shameful abt? At least it shows I am faithful and committed...
I haf let my heart and soul heal for 7 mths leh... and it is not of use... My heart is still wif her and i noe I want her back for good. And hence I started this thread so that u people can help me figure out and analyse the whole situation and tell me how to win her for the very last time.
It just shows that you're BLIND and STUPID... That's ALL... -
I gentle that time, you very blunt.
When I blunt that time, you super gentle.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Devil1976:Nope. It's ALREADY OVER. What's there to 'commit' to?
It just shows that you're BLIND and STUPID... That's ALL... -
Originally posted by AnimalArmy:
Since mc request for short and sweet advice I will give it to you in a nice way.
Hi peeps,
Seriously need everyone's help? Anyone actually patches back with his ex-gf before? I haf bottle my problems for months. I cannot take it anymore. Pls help.
[b]My Story
The relationship was like a fairy tale initially. But then, neglection, misunderstanding and disagreements set in...
Broke off twice. An on both occasions, third party was involved.
1st occasion, she went steady with another guy without letting me noe. I thought the breakup was just as simple as that but until my friend told me that she is in fact seeing another guy even before we broke up. However, I accepted her again.
2nd occasion, happens 6 mths later, this time she was close with another guy and went out with him behind my back. However, I tried to accept her back but she told me the feelings are really gone for good.
Question 1: I cannot believe that if u (as in her) claim to love someone so dearly, how can u hold someone's hand and become a 2-timer? Are her words too cheap to believe?
Question 2: I did all I can when we patched back the first time round. Sincerity and hard work does not help to save the relationship. I dunno what else I can do to save the relationship?
Question 3: My love for her is genuinue and I can accept her flaws and even accept the fact that she 2 time me. I dunno what she wants from me? Even though she claims I can be the best boyfriend?
Question 4: How can I save this relationship cos I did hate her after the 2nd occasion and pester her non-stop by calling her and waiting for her to come home. End up we quarrelled and at some time, it was pretty ugly. I regretted my actions and now she does not even want to talk to me. What can I do? I cannot be blamed for what I did cos I am the victim...
Question 5: She grew from strength to strength and yet I am living in a pathetic world of my own. I am lost, very lost. What can I do?
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1) grow up and be mature.
She finds that you are too childish.
2) stop pestering her.
Enough is enough. you will not like someone to keep asking you to love her if you do not like her at all rite?
3) She does not love you
Many people do not get the idea but I wish to drill it into your head.
She does not love you but you love her. Thats all its plain and simple. If you wish to say other wise then by all means go ahead and try.
If she really loves you then why is she kissing someone else? Look at yourself your love her so much did you ever looked at another gal?
Just wake up lar thats all is OVER. -
Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Hi peeps,
Seriously need everyone's help? Anyone actually patches back with his ex-gf before? I haf bottle my problems for months. I cannot take it anymore. Pls help.
My Story
The relationship was like a fairy tale initially. But then, neglection, misunderstanding and disagreements set in...
Broke off twice. An on both occasions, third party was involved.
1st occasion, she went steady with another guy without letting me noe. I thought the breakup was just as simple as that but until my friend told me that she is in fact seeing another guy even before we broke up. However, I accepted her again.
2nd occasion, happens 6 mths later, this time she was close with another guy and went out with him behind my back. However, I tried to accept her back but she told me the feelings are really gone for good.
Question 1: I cannot believe that if u (as in her) claim to love someone so dearly, how can u hold someone's hand and become a 2-timer? Are her words too cheap to believe?
Question 2: I did all I can when we patched back the first time round. Sincerity and hard work does not help to save the relationship. I dunno what else I can do to save the relationship?
Question 3: My love for her is genuinue and I can accept her flaws and even accept the fact that she 2 time me. I dunno what she wants from me? Even though she claims I can be the best boyfriend?
Question 4: How can I save this relationship cos I did hate her after the 2nd occasion and pester her non-stop by calling her and waiting for her to come home. End up we quarrelled and at some time, it was pretty ugly. I regretted my actions and now she does not even want to talk to me. What can I do? I cannot be blamed for what I did cos I am the victim...
Question 5: She grew from strength to strength and yet I am living in a pathetic world of my own. I am lost, very lost. What can I do? You are so narcissistic to think that this Love revolves on you and simply by burning great effort onto your relationship, you naturally (and naively) thought that certain result must be harvested from this heavy investment. Love doesn't work like your trainees in Army because Love follows an irregular flow and outcome doesn't equate to captial invested.
When she decides to cheat on you WITHOUT you consciously realising it, you are a FOOL to accept a patch back. This is your first mistake. Forget about the latter episode because once a wrong footing, it became a wrong route altogether.
And you are still so deluded about your side of Love, when in fact, she doesn't even give a damn, as Love probably never existed, as far as she is concerned.
I don't understand why must you keep emphasizing on the fact that you sacrifice your world to someone who doesn't love you and you wants her to know about this. Does KNOWING how much hardship you went through make any difference to someone who doesn't even feel for you?
Quit grouping all those metaphors and personification to conjure a tale-like story from this scenario, in order to justify a aimless waiting for someone who doesn't love you. She cheated you a second time and you still have thoughts of patching up?? Your Love is so gawd damn narcissistic and self absorbed... that you only want her to be with you AND choose to ignore the fact that emotionally, for her, it has vanished into a pall of smoke.
You keep saying she is the one for you... ARE YOU THE ONE FOR HER??
What you are doing is not out of Love nor faithfulness or whatever term you wish to call them - it's already beyond that when you start to pester her. From a position of a boyfriend, you are reduced to an irritant and you are still unable to get that message into your muddled head... that because this relationship is impossible, you have to release her back to the wilds. You cannot force someone to accept a Love she doesn't desire.
You are acting like a child when mummy doesn't want to buy you toy; this child would stubbornly kick a fuss and sit there, refusing to budge an inch. Ultimately when mummy walks off, the child has no choice but to run after mummy, fearing that she would abandon him.
You can choose not to move on and dwell in this karmic relationship for as long as you will. Meanwhile, you probably learn nothing in Love and at the same time, confirmed with her that her decision to leave you was paramount to her own happiness, which also implied that she made the right choice.
You should learn to wake yourself up and not harbour on winning her back.
Cheers -
My advice...
Pick yr phone...
Dial...
62410241...
Order 2 large piz
Wait 45 minutes
Tell yourself this...
"It's over! It is over! IT IS OVER!!! No matter how much love i shower on her, no matter how much i care for her, no matter how great my sacrifices i make for her...she won't care! She doesn't give a shit! She won't love me anymore!"
Repeat that over and over again...
and over and over again until you are convinced...
truly convinced that her heart will never return to you...
Look at your pizzas...
Look at them again...
Rejoice! Celebrate! Because you have truly broken up with her!
Don't let her take advantage of your love again...
Because she doesn't deserve love..
Not anymore. -
I just feel that she ought to learn how to treasure me. To be able to wake up and feel that someone is missing u, is such a fortunate and blissful feeling.Originally posted by wa|th3r:My advice...
Pick yr phone...
Dial...
62410241...
Order 2 large piz
Wait 45 minutes
Tell yourself this...
"It's over! It is over! IT IS OVER!!! No matter how much love i shower on her, no matter how much i care for her, no matter how great my sacrifices i make for her...she won't care! She doesn't give a shit! She won't love me anymore!"
Repeat that over and over again...
and over and over again until you are convinced...
truly convinced that her heart will never return to you...
Look at your pizzas...
Look at them again...
Rejoice! Celebrate! Because you have truly broken up with her!
Don't let her take advantage of your love again...
Because she doesn't deserve love..
Not anymore.
I miss those days where I wake up and start my day by telling myself in the mirror, "Wow, today, I'm meeting her again!"