How To Win Her Back
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1. Your English is very difficult to read.
2. The emotional burden is zi tao ku chi.
3. If I was shouting, I would've used CAPS, which I didn't, so what's your beef?
4. It isn't just logic, it's more about whether a person is strong enough, or whether he just wants to whine. Don't tell me he's the only 1 with problems. There've been people in AA who've accepted what people told him & moved on, sparing themselves further hurt. But when people try their best to counsel him, what does he do? He argues with the people who've tried their best.
5. Basically, if you have something constructive to say, say it. Otherwise, don't come & tell others what to do & how to feel when our intentions have been good.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by olala:dun shout at him lyk tat la...
its nt easy loh wif all these emotional burden...
by logic everything is so simple n easy...but the human mind is sturbon... -
Hey dude... cool it... Olala and Feow Feow...I really thank you guys for the effort and time and all the advices...
I have to agree the human mind is stubborn but I am slowly accepting it. Time is all I need... But then again its been 8mths and until recently then I started this thread...
I guess the answer for me now by everyone here is to leave her for good...
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Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Hey dude... cool it... Olala and Feow Feow...I really thank you guys for the effort and time and all the advices...
I have to agree the human mind is stubborn but I am slowly accepting it. Time is all I need... But then again its been 8mths and until recently then I started this thread...
I guess the answer for me now by everyone here is to leave her for good...
Why any reason why I must really leave her and not going back for her in future?
Now we must point out reasons for you to leave her?
Must we reason out those points which are logical and valid so that you can leave her alone.
It's your own struggle, and only you can break this bondage.
My friend,
I advise you this.
If you can't learn and see it. You will bear this hurt in your heart for a long time and no one is going to bear for you.
If you can see why you should leave her. You are set free.
Use your heart to see not your mind.
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Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Hey dude... cool it... Olala and Feow Feow...I really thank you guys for the effort and time and all the advices...
I have to agree the human mind is stubborn but I am slowly accepting it. Time is all I need... But then again its been 8mths and until recently then I started this thread...
I guess the answer for me now by everyone here is to leave her for good...
Why any reason why I must really leave her and not going back for her in future? Are you a Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius?
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I am a Virgo. Tell me more...Originally posted by Yunhaier: Are you a Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius?
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Hmm....Yunnie missed all.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I am a Virgo. Tell me more...
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Yup.. I am still waiting for Yunnie's reply... Why so long? Hehe...Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm....Yunnie missed all.
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i understand hw u feel...
me waited 2 years for a gal le..she've been in 2 relatiosnhip..gave her my soul she oso dun appreciate...say im nt tall enuff...al ltat i've done wasnt worth her giving a chance...
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u mean aquarius are stubborn or wat?Originally posted by Yunhaier: Are you a Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius?
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Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm....Yunnie missed all.
Cheers Have to guess between Fixed Aspect or Earth sign... actually was thinking that he was likely to be Taurus or Scorpio.
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Hmm...unlikely sign to be yeah?Originally posted by Yunhaier: Have to guess between Fixed Aspect or Earth sign... actually was thinking that he was likely to be Taurus or Scorpio.
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Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I am a Virgo. Tell me more... Not surprisingly though my guess for you is likely to be Taurus: they are both Earth Sign. In fact, for a Virgo, you have a structured mindset that follows a civil form of thinking. It works in a way where organization, law and order must exist... exact cause must mean exact effect... the world is either black or white sort of thoughts.
When your world falls into the grey area, you find difficulty in the new environment. A Virgo has a system and when that system is inapplicable to his/her own reality, it will become a huge problem.
By mere Sun sign (that is his/her astrological sign without inclusion of Birth Chart), Virgo is one of the three signs that value security terribly and will do anything to guard them (this also includes Financial security). With the absence of it, the lack of security will severely threaten his/her relationship and clouding his/her vision towards his/her own Love. A Virgo will then find it more difficult to function.
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Aiya... guess mah. Not say I am some fellow with psionic powers.Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...unlikely sign to be yeah?
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OT:haha i understand how u feel dude... wat have u done actually maybe can discuss in private?...been in same situation as u b4..Originally posted by olala:i understand hw u feel...
me waited 2 years for a gal le..she've been in 2 relatiosnhip..gave her my soul she oso dun appreciate...say im nt tall enuff...al ltat i've done wasnt worth her giving a chance...
bt god bless u...hope u can overcome this hardship
AnimalArmy:keep yourself occupied in other things.... time will heal.. -
But what has my horoscope got to do with me? Can u further enlighten me? Thanks.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Not surprisingly though my guess for you is likely to be Taurus: they are both Earth Sign. In fact, for a Virgo, you have a structured mindset that follows a civil form of thinking. It works in a way where organization, law and order must exist... exact cause must mean exact effect... the world is either black or white sort of thoughts.
When your world falls into the grey area, you find difficulty in the new environment. A Virgo has a system and when that system is inapplicable to his/her own reality, it will become a huge problem.
By mere Sun sign (that is his/her astrological sign without inclusion of Birth Chart), Virgo is one of the three signs that value security terribly and will do anything to guard them (this also includes Financial security). With the absence of it, the lack of security will severely threaten his/her relationship and clouding his/her vision towards his/her own Love. A Virgo will then find it more difficult to function.
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8 mths already and I am still feeling the same way... Any other ways?Originally posted by Brightday:OT:haha i understand how u feel dude... wat have u done actually maybe can discuss in private?...been in same situation as u b4..
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ah, she is a type of heartless gf, if not she is like not treasuring u, if u rly like her, MOVE ON, if u dont , MOVE MORE ON, she will treasure u if she finds that ur sincerity and real love to her is more important to the guy who is just a third party, forget bout her, in my mind, for wateva reasons, in my image she is a fierce and heartless woman ( no offence )
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No worries. I am used to it. I thought I can change the way she thinks and feels.Originally posted by Swordyx:ah, she is a type of heartless gf, if not she is like not treasuring u, if u rly like her, MOVE ON, if u dont , MOVE MORE ON, she will treasure u if she finds that ur sincerity and real love to her is more important to the guy who is just a third party, forget bout her, in my mind, for wateva reasons, in my image she is a fierce and heartless woman ( no offence )
I see my other friends' relationship all went so well. Why am I the unlucky one?
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Originally posted by AnimalArmy:But what has my horoscope got to do with me? Can u further enlighten me? Thanks. I think I have just said it in my prior post. Just replaced the word 'Virgo' with 'You'?
Actually your sign may not have anything to do with you (without birth chart). I am just relating the common denominator between you and your sign.
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I can't seem to forget her now.
Its a mixture of hatred and love again.
As i say, I hate her for cheating on me and love her for being so nice and sweet.
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hmmmOriginally posted by AnimalArmy:I can't seem to forget her now.
Its a mixture of hatred and love again.
As i say, I hate her for cheating on me and love her for being so nice and sweet.
Tell me what to do? I am having sleepless nights.
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Counting days and nights and I am still back to square one. I still love her.
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She does not cherish how you feel for her.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Counting days and nights and I am still back to square one. I still love her.
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I dunno what went wrong till now. I am a wonderful bf. U can name what I haf not done but the fact is I done them all to make her feel love. Things just happen like that...Originally posted by rainee:She does not cherish how you feel for her.
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Sometimes being too nice is destroying to a r/s.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I dunno what went wrong till now. I am a wonderful bf. U can name what I haf not done but the fact is I done them all to make her feel love. Things just happen like that...
Anyway, it is over...so you should concentrate on forgetting her instead of trying to find the reasons for her leaving you.
The fact is that she has already left you. Don't go after someone who wouldn't even glance back and know what you have been going thru.