Is waiting a fool's game? (for love)
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yup! she was in my class too. but for me, i dont see her anymore in 2006. not in school... and definitely not in tekong.
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Oh i see, was it hard coping? Same class for how long? Details please?Originally posted by thousandisland:yup! she was in my class too. but for me, i dont see her anymore in 2006. not in school... and definitely not in tekong.
At least you got army to take your mind off her... She gonna be in my class for the next 2 years... so yeah... I just let nature take its course... and hope for the best -
erm she kinda lost interest halfway and yep but i was clinging on too. 2 years. haha.
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Hey same thing happened, lost interest just as I was falling for herOriginally posted by thousandisland:erm she kinda lost interest halfway and yep but i was clinging on too. 2 years. haha.
As told by my friend that is. Guess its not meant to be, cannot be forced.
Wow 2 years, your more dedicated then meh... And now how are you? Dont feel to lonely, cause your not the only one out there. Got me still -
Originally posted by Dendrite88:Yeah, however hard you persuade yourself, you still find yourself looking at her every movements, some more in the same class for my case, how to avoid or ignore?
Its ok, we shall try our best shant we? Happy new year to you
talk about out of sight, out of love. if u can't ignore den dun repress yrself lar. -
If dont control myself, i will love her even deeper, and then if in the end, no acceptance, surely more pain will be felt. I'm currently trying to talk less and avoid her more. But as they say, absence make the heart grows fonder.. >.<Originally posted by Ito_^: talk about out of sight, out of love. if u can't ignore den dun repress yrself lar. -
i'm feeling okay now... haha thanks. i accepted the fact long ago. so now, i'm just waiting to get struck by cupid's arrow.Originally posted by Dendrite88:Hey same thing happened, lost interest just as I was falling for her As told by my friend that is. Guess its not meant to be, cannot be forced.
Wow 2 years, your more dedicated then meh... And now how are you? Dont feel to lonely, cause your not the only one out there. Got me still -
I'm still in the midst of accepting whats left of facts and feelings, its hard but I'm hoping to be determind enough to forget.Originally posted by thousandisland:i'm feeling okay now... haha thanks. i accepted the fact long ago. so now, i'm just waiting to get struck by cupid's arrow.
Good luck dude, wish you much success on your R/S -
dude..we're on da same boat...2 yrs for me alreadt n during tis process she has 2 bf b4...currently in one....
im still waiting..nt giving up the race.. -
Since you still persevering, +1 +1 +1 for youOriginally posted by olala:dude..we're on da same boat...2 yrs for me alreadt n during tis process she has 2 bf b4...currently in one....
im still waiting..nt giving up the race.. HAppy new Year -
Doing foolish and thinks that it's right?
Happy New Year anyway. -
i think jus give up on waiting man seriously. U can get alot of gals during this waiting season. I know u guys are stubborn like me but it doesn't really pay to b one. I'm sure there will b other better gals ard.
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True I can get other girls, but ultimately what I want is a lasting and fulfilling relationship, so must choose wiselyOriginally posted by FBI:i think jus give up on waiting man seriously. U can get alot of gals during this waiting season. I know u guys are stubborn like me but it doesn't really pay to b one. I'm sure there will b other better gals ard. and choosing takes time... -
Originally posted by Dendrite88:
Br strong,buddy! I failed twice with great disaster! But I believe the twice failure make me smarter and allow me to review why I fail and move on..I told myself I will not fail for the third time! In the end,I succeed...Be willin to accept failure and success is just a matter of time!
Hi all, new here
Just wanna post something that has been on my mind for very long time, but dont really have the guts to. ( dont really know if this topic was created before, i apologise if i did a repeat thread)
Just a general statement, is waiting a fool's game (for love).
I know that in my case, I always have been waiting for the girl to accept me. Despite waiting for ages (sec1 - sec 2 End of year ) , all i Got was a negative reply. I put in the effort and time to woo the girl, but still , i guess i dont make the cut. Although the girl said NO to me once before, i continued to woo her still , thinking i can melt her heart.
But, then i asked again after another year, but this time i just realised that she has a boyfriend, so i discontinued my "waiting game". It was devastating, i was totally crushed and felt so lost. I wandered aimlessly in msn, games and all around thinking that this shouldnt be happening.
But i got back on my feet and widened my social circle (I only have a few close friends with me back then), I got to know this girl through IRC (same school) and she is supposedly to be the smart,nice,sweet, girl next door.
Half a year later (sec 3 mid year) , I found that we have common interests and stuffs so I decided to try my luck and began the "wooing process". I admit, i pestered her aimlessly on msn and smses. I told her I would wait for her, which took another half a year , and still we kept in contact and I still waited and waited and waited. But in the end, she gave me a reason to why cannot accept me, all due to studies. I was crushed yet once more, how many times God wanna test me? I asked myself whether is it because of my looks and character?
Then now, I'm in a poly, which i wont disclose, I just recently found interest in another girl (same class) , though she hinted to me many times that I do not stand a chance, I'm still determined to woo her. tell me, is history going to repeat itself and me... am I a fool, for this waiting game? -
waiting is not being foolish...it means that your a sincere guy but you still dunno how to use the waiting tatic...if you wanna learnt a bit on this tatic...
maybe u can watch 'my date with vampire 3' the relationship whereby ma you and mark de love...mark in that show is really a patient guy and knows how to play the waiting guy without making him look like a desperate...
over time, there will be gals who will appreciate your sincerity, and for this, you can take my word for it...it's just that your time isn't up for you to meet the gal yet...maybe when your older...and get to meet more mature minded ladies...who really knows what they want in a real relationship (which leads to marriage)...
be strong...you will find the gal who sees the quality in you...just get on with your life and who knows, the next day/month/year you get the gal that is fond of you...who knows..
stay positive & most importantly
be confident of yourself and learn tricks on entertaining..more jokes... 
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Wah I'm in the same situation as Dendrite, waiting and it's coming to a year.
Err, wait I shouldn't be hijacking a thread, lolx
Not much advises from me, as I'm experiencing the same agony now.
Just some pointers said from my friends that I would like to share...
Is the girl worth the wait? What's you to her now in terms of relationship level (aquaintance, friend, good friend, close friend)? Are you able to communicate well to her?
Try to expand your social circle and get to know more people. As you interact more you will come to know which type of girl suits you, then find your answer to the above questions. -
I open this thread for people to share their advice and experiences also, so hey, no problem.Originally posted by NekoRin:Wah I'm in the same situation as Dendrite, waiting and it's coming to a year.
Err, wait I shouldn't be hijacking a thread, lolx
Not much advises from me, as I'm experiencing the same agony now.
Just some pointers said from my friends that I would like to share...
Is the girl worth the wait? What's you to her now in terms of relationship level (aquaintance, friend, good friend, close friend)? Are you able to communicate well to her?
Try to expand your social circle and get to know more people. As you interact more you will come to know which type of girl suits you, then find your answer to the above questions.
Thanks for the pointers, lemme reply them.
I can safely say I'm her friend, communication as in? we are classmates and going to be in the same class for next 2 years, so communication is alright, just that I dont really have the courage to speak to her.
Mhmm,I'm clear to what type of girl I like, so thus, I still am waiting for the girl :p. Happy new year to you ^-^ -
Yeah I'm also still waiting for acceptance, ....too many things happened during the past year involving me and her. I really don't know I still have the energy to continue on or not haiz
Happy mew year to you too -
Didn't quite agree with your first part, but right on about the highlighted portion.Originally posted by weijian:waiting is not being foolish...it means that your a sincere guy but you still dunno how to use the waiting tatic...if you wanna learnt a bit on this tatic...
maybe u can watch 'my date with vampire 3' the relationship whereby ma you and mark de love...mark in that show is really a patient guy and knows how to play the waiting guy without making him look like a desperate...
over time, there will be gals who will appreciate your sincerity, and for this, you can take my word for it...it's just that your time isn't up for you to meet the gal yet...maybe when your older...and get to meet more mature minded ladies...who really knows what they want in a real relationship (which leads to marriage)...
be strong...you will find the gal who sees the quality in you...just get on with your life and who knows, the next day/month/year you get the gal that is fond of you...who knows..
stay positive & most importantly be confident of yourself and learn tricks on entertaining..more jokes... -
Sorry for interrupting..
I encounter this myself,
what if the girl lied you more than one time (Go out with her so called short-term bf, guy).. on top of that trying to initimate and flirting with u. Is there still a Trust In Her? i done my best for her b4, kanna neglect and rejected.. Should i Still Wait? -
Hey I dont think you should be waiting for this breed of girls. She tried to flirt you and have a boyfriend at the same time? This sounds so wrong already..Originally posted by Rod1984:Sorry for interrupting..
I encounter this myself,
what if the girl lied you more than one time (Go out with her so called short-term bf, guy).. on top of that trying to initimate and flirting with u. Is there still a Trust In Her? i done my best for her b4, kanna neglect and rejected.. Should i Still Wait?
Although if you ask me whether am I in this kind of situation, I would say not yet.
Mhmm if you personally feel you stand some kind of chance or just cannot give up on her, Just carry on waiting for girls like me and some of the people out there -
thx Dendrite88.. i dun hav courage to give up. haha.. prehaps my new year resolution is to find a suitable one..Originally posted by Dendrite88:Hey I dont think you should be waiting for this breed of girls. She tried to flirt you and have a boyfriend at the same time? This sounds so wrong already..
Although if you ask me whether am I in this kind of situation, I would say not yet.
Mhmm if you personally feel you stand some kind of chance or just cannot give up on her, Just carry on waiting for girls like me and some of the people out there
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hi guys.. probably as u guys know already, i was dumped by my gf of 7 mths right in the midst of my A lvl exams last month..
and.. i think i'm still waiting for her.. more or less i'm ready to wait for her. If cupid decides to strike me with a different gal, i would give this other gal a chance.. but she has to be one remarkable gal for me to accept her..
because now, i'm scared of rltnshps already.. relationshiphobia.
it's the same thing i've encoutered in each r/s.
happy, love each other, high hopes, fun, GONE.
happy, love each other, high hopes, fun, GONE.
i wanna get a job. pls enlistment letter, come quick. -
perhaps we shld expan our horizons and look towards the north for lurve...foreign brides are getting cheaper by the day.. [/quote]
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nope, u shld not wait...she is just trying to make use of u to spike probably the guy she likes...
or when she feels lonely, then she ask u out...she takes u for a spare tyre only...dun even wait or let her have a 2nd chance to make u her dummy bf...
be smart...
the more ur scared of it...the more u shld break free of its crutches...and get up from where u have fallen down...no one can help u to get up unless u urself want...don't try to avoid it...unless u intend to stay single ur whole life...i hope u don't....get a gf la...if not when go enter nsf, super bored de...nothing to look forward to except for book out...life will be better if u have a gf...but beware...lots of break-ups happens during nsf the bmt period...take note...Originally posted by Rod1984:Sorry for interrupting..
I encounter this myself,
what if the girl lied you more than one time (Go out with her so called short-term bf, guy).. on top of that trying to initimate and flirting with u. Is there still a Trust In Her? i done my best for her b4, kanna neglect and rejected.. Should i Still Wait?
as for ur encounters on relationship...u have to face it...when there is happiness...of course there are parting...
just learn from ur mistakes...and try to improve on it...if your not sure where ur mistakes are...post ur story here and perhaps...we can be of any help...Originally posted by sinicker:hi guys.. probably as u guys know already, i was dumped by my gf of 7 mths right in the midst of my A lvl exams last month..
and.. i think i'm still waiting for her.. more or less i'm ready to wait for her. If cupid decides to strike me with a different gal, i would give this other gal a chance.. but she has to be one remarkable gal for me to accept her..
because now, i'm scared of rltnshps already.. relationshiphobia.
it's the same thing i've encoutered in each r/s.
happy, love each other, high hopes, fun, GONE.
happy, love each other, high hopes, fun, GONE.
i wanna get a job. pls enlistment letter, come quick.