how to save a rushed courtship?
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damn!!! this is the reply i like! =xOriginally posted by Devil1976:You can't be totally wrong since they also mentioned that you're earning good impression of this girl...?
Try 'APOLOGISING' to her at your friend's house... Let her know how you feel and you're sorry for any awkardness that you might be causing her... Hopefully she's respond and open up in chatting more in how she might be feeling...?
and also the one i waiting for. but of course all other insights are appreciated too. but i also dont know how to apologize. i also dont know what else to do. hmm.
nevermind, i shall listen to mc2 and dokoho advice + refer to devil1975 advice.
i had earned, her good impression. but i think i destroyed it already. -
I didn't advice anything.....Originally posted by bladez87:damn!!! this is the reply i like! =x
and also the one i waiting for. but of course all other insights are appreciated too. but i also dont know how to apologize. i also dont know what else to do. hmm.
nevermind, i shall listen to mc2 and dokoho advice + refer to devil1975 advice.
i had earned, her good impression. but i think i destroyed it already.
Don't drag me into this....
Cheers
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ya. i agree. i tried to decide by myself. but i ended up screwing up even more.Originally posted by M©+square:I don't want anything from you, I stand neutral between views of Yun and Dokome.
You should decide and stop asking people to help you in all the details.
Got to learn why you lose the bait to the fish and how you catch the fish.
Cheers
thanks mc2. i think you understand me the most in this forum. ahaha.
yun is to not give up.
dokome is to act cool.
both methods i agree. but i cant do both ... can i? -
huh you didnt?Originally posted by M©+square:I didn't advice anything.....
Don't drag me into this....
Cheers
ook you didnt. shall not drag you into it. -
Originally posted by bladez87:huh you didnt?
ook you didnt. shall not drag you into it.
Really, i had a good laugh. -
i know. haha at my fooliness.Originally posted by M©+square: Really, i had a good laugh. -
You reminded me of myself 10 years ago.Originally posted by bladez87:i know. haha at my fooliness. -
got so long meh. you only a few years older than me ma...
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heh....if you consider yourself a young guy, then you wouldn't want to be associated with me.Originally posted by bladez87:got so long meh. you only a few years older than me ma...
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you at most 28 only what?Originally posted by M©+square:heh....if you consider yourself a young guy, then you wouldn't want to be associated with me.
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Originally posted by bladez87:you at most 28 only what?
You like going out with older people ah?
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experienced what. gain more experience from you all.Originally posted by M©+square:
You like going out with older people ah?
Cheers
i originally wanted to celebrate this year birthday with her.
this year my chinese and english birthday fall on same day.
19 years happen once i think. thought of celebrating this ultra special day with her...haiz... -
how come u noe so much abt gals?Originally posted by dokono:dun waste ur time waiting for her la..go look for other gals
The truth is that no matter how long u wait for a gal, once she gets turned off by ur actions she will never ever be intereseted in u again. Be ready to accept this real-world situation.
Who knows the next gal who comes along u will be interested haha. -
latest update. i not going for the sat thing...
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I'll give u an advice, and its up to u whether u want to do it. Whether u can bring urself to do it.
Call her, admit to her that its really very rushed. Ask her if u can start over again, and just be friends.
This time, take it slow. Get to know her as friends first.
This way, she knows u are serious. When guys try to rush relationships, the girl will feel insecure. SHe wont' know if u are serious or u are just playing with her. So show some sincerity. -
will do it. but not yet. now if i tell her that. i myself think will be super rush. although this is my style, but lets just say my style is always the rush style. lol.Originally posted by Shotgun:I'll give u an advice, and its up to u whether u want to do it. Whether u can bring urself to do it.
Call her, admit to her that its really very rushed. Ask her if u can start over again, and just be friends.
This time, take it slow. Get to know her as friends first.
This way, she knows u are serious. When guys try to rush relationships, the girl will feel insecure. SHe wont' know if u are serious or u are just playing with her. So show some sincerity.
wait ba
maybe 2 weeks to 1 month later i might have a talk with her. after she not so scared of me liao. -
maybe u make her feel pressurised by rushing things.
allow urselves some time to know each other better.
dun distance urself away like one month or so.. she might be mistaken that u are giving up. i duno about her, but for me, if a guy seems so interested at first and suddenly MIA, then i wun give a damn already.
maybe like wat devil advised u to do, apologise to her, and take things slow.
8 Feb? 3 ple i know of, birthday falls on that day... one is my ex.
and yup, u are not bad looking de, have some confidence in yourself. -
ya lor. too rush le right. some time to know each other. hard leh. i also dont know how. you see how impatient i am in class liao. lol. one month, no la. i will make it clear i giving her space, not giving up.Originally posted by browniebaobao:maybe u make her feel pressurised by rushing things.
allow urselves some time to know each other better.
dun distance urself away like one month or so.. she might be mistaken that u are giving up. i duno about her, but for me, if a guy seems so interested at first and suddenly MIA, then i wun give a damn already.
maybe like wat devil advised u to do, apologise to her, and take things slow.
8 Feb? 3 ple i know of, birthday falls on that day... one is my ex.
and yup, u are not bad looking de, have some confidence in yourself.
apologize ah. how to apologize. apologize for what? o sorry for being so rush. can you give me another chance to take things slow and easy? quite weird leh.
i terrible looking lor. omg. miao qin and stallone also said that. you pa jiao ah? lol
aiya. i dont know la. see how. i sat not going her friend house le. then see how lor. 8 feb i pray la.
this year i greedy, i have 2 wishes.
1 she ask me out! give me a present! and give me another chance. wishful thinking part, she would kiss me if i send her home. ( i can dream cant i?)
2 strike ang bao toto , get lots of money. quit school. buy a bungalow. retire.
ok la. i also dont know what to do and stuff.lol -
Originally posted by bladez87:i terrible looking lor. omg. miao qin and stallone also said that. you pa jiao ah? lol
I duno who is miao qin and stallone.. ur frens also very 'GOOD'.. sun u lidat.
aiya. i dont know la. see how. i sat not going her friend house le. then see how lor. 8 feb i pray la.
this year i greedy, i have 2 wishes.
1 she ask me out! give me a present! and give me another chance. wishful thinking part, she would kiss me if i send her home. ( i can dream cant i?)
see, u are rushing again.. are guys born on feb 8 all like that? my ex is also like that.. stole away my first kiss in bus. 
2 strike ang bao toto , get lots of money. quit school. buy a bungalow. retire.
ya i also hope. but quit school? 
ok la. i also dont know what to do and stuff.lol -
edited my above post liao. please refer to the previous post.
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Originally posted by bladez87:edited my above post liao. please refer to the previous post.
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i have yet to know u well ba. u also nv talk to me in class de.Originally posted by bladez87:ya lor. too rush le right. some time to know each other. hard leh. i also dont know how. you see how impatient i am in class liao. lol. one month, no la. i will make it clear i giving her space, not giving up.
apologize ah. how to apologize. apologize for what? o sorry for being so rush. can you give me another chance to take things slow and easy? quite weird leh.
apologise.. say 'sorry, i think i have gave u unnecessary pressure. would u pls give me a chance to know u better and for u to know me better too? we will take things slow ok? blah blah.."
im a girl leh, not a guy.. no experience in chasing girls.. maybe MC, Yun and Devil would like to give u some tips. -
oie refer to previous previous post la. your post to ofast le. i havent edit you post liao. go requote and retype your comments ba. wahahaOriginally posted by browniebaobao: -
hey bladezOriginally posted by bladez87:ya. i agree. i tried to decide by myself. but i ended up screwing up even more.
thanks mc2. i think you understand me the most in this forum. ahaha.
yun is to not give up.
dokome is to act cool.
both methods i agree. but i cant do both ... can i?
im not asking u to act cool. Im asking u to retreat cos u are scaring her.
My opinion is that u should not apologize. That's not what a man should do.
Just withdraw.. not act 'dao'. -
not me fast, it's u slow.Originally posted by bladez87:oie refer to previous previous post la. your post to ofast le. i havent edit you post liao. go requote and retype your comments ba. wahaha
i already quoted and reposted le, u cant see ar?
im v tired le, gg to bed.
nitez.