*Le Café Rosâtre* Part IV
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ooh.....i guess its the awkward silent moments thats hard to bearOriginally posted by laosu:]
Duno...
My mood seemed to be worse than the market shares.
Sometimes can joke until alll pengsan on the floor..
then suddenly can just keep quiet and dun talk
its tough when your emotion are like on a roller coaster ride -
It is special to me, because it is spent with my Hamster.
And every V Day, we create our own memories together, be they funny or playful, whatever.
Those memories are what make V Day special to me.
But then hor, that's just how we feel lah
FeowFeowOriginally posted by dcx:In what ways is Vday special to you? -
hMz...only every V day then will you both create your own memories and spent with your HAMSTER?Originally posted by FeowFeow:It is special to me, because it is spent with my Hamster.
And every V Day, we create our own memories together, be they funny or playful, whatever.
Those memories are what make V Day special to me.
But then hor, that's just how we feel lah
FeowFeow
Actually, everyday also can leh....then everyday will be special liao leh...
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Yes.Originally posted by dcx:hMz...only every V day then will you both create your own memories and spent with your HAMSTER?
Actually, everyday also can leh....then everyday will be special liao leh...
Somehow, my buddies didn't celebrate V-day with their GF.
And the funny thing is that... his gf told me that she don't want him to spend so much money on Vday, christmas or whatever special occasion..
She just want a Good (of coz more expensive) present for her birthday will do..
Geez... I would definitely want a thoughtful GF like her..
Coz it's a headache and will gonna burn a hole in ya pocket because there's so many special days you have to celebrate.... anniversary, Christmas, Valentine's, birthday... I would rather make it a special and memorable one for her on her birthday. or simply self-declare a special day for both of us to make it more unique.. -
Nope, every day that I meet Hamster is special to me.
And V Day is special to me too, because of the memories we create. Afterall, No day is the same, & the memories we have between us always makes V Day special to us.
You wouldn't understand, & I don't blame you : ) Because we CHOSE to make V Day more special, that's all. You CHOSE Not to, that's your perogative.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by dcx:hMz...only every V day then will you both create your own memories and spent with your HAMSTER?
Actually, everyday also can leh....then everyday will be special liao leh... -
Do i know you???Originally posted by Mao x 2:Yes.
Somehow, my buddies didn't celebrate V-day with their GF.
And the funny thing is that... his gf told me that she don't want him to spend so much money on Vday, christmas or whatever special occasion..
She just want a Good (of coz more expensive) present for her birthday will do..
Geez... I would definitely want a thoughtful GF like her..
Coz it's a headache and will gonna burn a hole in ya pocket because there's so many special days you have to celebrate.... anniversary, Christmas, Valentine's, birthday... I would rather make it a special and memorable one for her on her birthday. or simply self-declare a special day for both of us to make it more unique..
How come ur above story so similar to mine??? hahaha....
But only difference, Good present (Need not to be expensive)...
Special day........can be everyday??? Or any day........as long as i happy happy song song one day wan her to feel special on that day, no problem de~~~~ Special, Splendid & Surprise..... -
haha..i chose to make Vday special......but in another way.....Originally posted by FeowFeow:Nope, every day that I meet Hamster is special to me.
And V Day is special to me too, because of the memories we create. Afterall, No day is the same, & the memories we have between us always makes V Day special to us.
You wouldn't understand, & I don't blame you : ) Because we CHOSE to make V Day more special, that's all. You CHOSE Not to, that's your perogative.
FeowFeow -
As long as you're happy, then you go ahead lorr
If your way similar my way, similar to DRX's way, similar to everybody's way, then we'll again have the same "I love you" at every table situation, except maybe Not "I love you" itself lah
FeowFeowOriginally posted by dcx:haha..i chose to make Vday special......but in another way..... -
It's always sharp pain that I felt whenever I call her "dear" or "laopo". Sometimes I'll forget. Too used to calling her that.Originally posted by pinkygal76:ooh.....i guess its the awkward silent moments thats hard to bear
its tough when your emotion are like on a roller coaster ride
Pink jie...sometimes I really feel I can't breathe..
Confused....I tried to sort out the mess in my heart but seemed like the harder I try the harder it is to sort things out -
Laosu, because you hu si luan xiang, then you'll yue xiang yue luan, then you yue luan yue fan, then you yue fan yue miao, then you yue miao yue hei...
Solution
Bie xiang zhe yang duo...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:It's always sharp pain that I felt whenever I call her "dear" or "laopo". Sometimes I'll forget. Too used to calling her that.
Pink jie...sometimes I really feel I can't breathe..
Confused....I tried to sort out the mess in my heart but seemed like the harder I try the harder it is to sort things out -
well, i dun need a man to buy a good expensive gift on my anniversary. Christmas, V day to make me feel special and loved....Originally posted by Mao x 2:Yes.
Somehow, my buddies didn't celebrate V-day with their GF.
And the funny thing is that... his gf told me that she don't want him to spend so much money on Vday, christmas or whatever special occasion..
She just want a Good (of coz more expensive) present for her birthday will do..
Geez... I would definitely want a thoughtful GF like her..
Coz it's a headache and will gonna burn a hole in ya pocket because there's so many special days you have to celebrate.... anniversary, Christmas, Valentine's, birthday... I would rather make it a special and memorable one for her on her birthday. or simply self-declare a special day for both of us to make it more unique..
to me quality time spent togather is more impt than gifts and presents.......
be it cooking a meal togather, a stroll at the beach, exercising or just sipping wine by the beach .....
pinky choose to make a simple home cook meal for Somebody becoz i have never cook a full proper meal for him before....
that makes him feel special...gift or no gift ....he oso happy
Uniqueness and special differ from people to people....as long as the couple is happy....everyday is
V-day........ -
Sigh..... i understand..... i can comprehend yr situation as my situtation with my ex is kinda of similarOriginally posted by laosu:It's always sharp pain that I felt whenever I call her "dear" or "laopo". Sometimes I'll forget. Too used to calling her that.
Pink jie...sometimes I really feel I can't breathe..
Confused....I tried to sort out the mess in my heart but seemed like the harder I try the harder it is to sort things out
....see each other day in and day out..... all the time i have called him nothing but darling.......
how to change !!! Nowadays whenever i run into him....i will force myself to call him by his name....it is kinda of
awkward initially...but its just takes getting use to...i noe its tough but we have no choice rite?
Its time to let go...a relationship wont work if its one sided......
Have to agree with Feow...dun think too much.....its something we cant sort out over a day or two....
getting over a relationship takes time..... dun be too harsh on yrself mousey....
REMEmber.....DUN THINK TOO MUCH -
wo du zhe ge du dao yue du yue luan!!Originally posted by FeowFeow:Laosu, because you hu si luan xiang, then you'll yue xiang yue luan, then you yue luan yue fan, then you yue fan yue miao, then you yue miao yue hei...
Solution Bie xiang zhe yang duo...
FeowFeow
Eyes cross ler lah!!!
Honestly trying not to think...
but it's those small little things that keep slapping me across the face. Everything always seemed fine until I forget and open my mouth and call her "dear" or "laopo". -
Orh, very easy lorr, just replace "darling" with "MORON" lorr
FeowFeowOriginally posted by pinkygal76:Sigh..... i understand..... i can comprehend yr situation as my situtation with my ex is kinda of similar
....see each other day in and day out..... all the time i have called him nothing but darling.......
how to change !!! Nowadays whenever i run into him....i will force myself to call him by his name....it is kinda of
awkward initially...but its just takes getting use to...i noe its tough but we have no choice rite?
Its time to let go...a relationship wont work if its one sided......
Have to agree with Feow...dun think too much.....its something we cant sort out over a day or two....
getting over a relationship takes time..... dun be too harsh on yrself mousey....
REMEmber.....DUN THINK TOO MUCH -
It's ok, because everytime you think about this dear & laopo thing, you can always remember about the hu si luan xiang, yue xiang yue luan, yue luan yue fan, yue fan yue miao, yue miao yue hei
Or, remember the melting keyboard
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:wo du zhe ge du dao yue du yue luan!!
Eyes cross ler lah!!!
Honestly trying not to think...
but it's those small little things that keep slapping me across the face. Everything always seemed fine until I forget and open my mouth and call her "dear" or "laopo". -
Like you say...Originally posted by pinkygal76:Sigh..... i understand..... i can comprehend yr situation as my situtation with my ex is kinda of similar
....see each other day in and day out..... all the time i have called him nothing but darling.......
how to change !!! Nowadays whenever i run into him....i will force myself to call him by his name....it is kinda of
awkward initially...but its just takes getting use to...i noe its tough but we have no choice rite?
Its time to let go...a relationship wont work if its one sided......
Have to agree with Feow...dun think too much.....its something we cant sort out over a day or two....
getting over a relationship takes time..... dun be too harsh on yrself mousey....
REMEmber.....DUN THINK TOO MUCH
It's definitely easier if I know it's just a one sided feeling but the situation now is...it's not.
Not that I dun agree with you gals or that I'm stubborn and let myself drown further. After my previous r/s, I won't let someone who don't love me to pull my life down again...that I'm sure of it.
It's obvious that we still have deep feelings for both. -
*Kitty moves his luggage over~~
wah all left me alone there T_T
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I did....I call all sorts of names...she too...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Orh, very easy lorr, just replace "darling" with "MORON" lorr
FeowFeow
but when it comes to serious time...it just come naturally out of our mouth.
I really hope I did hear wrongly...
just few nights ago...I had an asthma attack middle of the night...was panicking and midst of it I tot I hear her calling me "dear". -
Originally posted by NekoRin:*Kitty moves his luggage over~~
wah all left me alone there T_T
Welcome over Kitty!!! -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:Orh, very easy lorr, just replace "darling" with "MORON" lorr
FeowFeow -
"MORON" is considered mild le..Originally posted by FeowFeow:Orh, very easy lorr, just replace "darling" with "MORON" lorr
FeowFeow
i would have replaced it with 'Jerk", "Bas***d" and "Sun of a beach" (not the other version... coz it's too insulting..better censored it away..).. -
Originally posted by Mao x 2:"MORON" is considered mild le..
i would have replaced it with 'Jerk", "Bas***d" and "Sun of a beach" (not the other version... coz it's too insulting..better censored it away..).. 
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She may have, or she may have Not. Why didn't you ask her, silly?
Could've led to a good talk between both of you.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:I did....I call all sorts of names...she too...
but when it comes to serious time...it just come naturally out of our mouth.
I really hope I did hear wrongly...
just few nights ago...I had an asthma attack middle of the night...was panicking and midst of it I tot I hear her calling me "dear". -
Huh??Originally posted by Mao x 2:"MORON" is considered mild le..
i would have replaced it with 'Jerk", "Bas***d" and "Sun of a beach" (not the other version... coz it's too insulting..better censored it away..)..
Mao...you teching my wifey to call me those names or I call HER those names?? -
its ok la.... i no longer feel any hatred towards him...... its his lost not mine for lossing meOriginally posted by Mao x 2:"MORON" is considered mild le..
i would have replaced it with 'Jerk", "Bas***d" and "Sun of a beach" (not the other version... coz it's too insulting..better censored it away..)..
I have put in my best for this ex-relationship and since he does not treasure me and still want to continue to act like a victim...
let him be the weakling lor
But honestly..... i like the ring of "Sun of a beach"