[b]3 types of guys from hell?[/b]
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I think they are just treating you as someone to be with while they are lonely. Once they are not, they won't even think of you anymore.Originally posted by sqully:Wow...so many interesting stuff appear here since i logged off last nite.thanks folks.u all really make my day.=)
now that we hav more n less figured out the type 3 guy..i'd like to ask u all abt the type 2,i mean just cast aside the touchy one first.the rest r ok in that aspect that they only hav appropriate physical contact so the thing i'd like to figure out is whether they really regard me as buddy or their 7-11.how do u tell?
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:I dun condemn, i discriminate.
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Btw,wat's lambchop?means can eat one is it?Originally posted by Magnus:... ...
And base on this preception, you are :
1)Emotional Crutch
2)Flower Pot
3)Lamp Chop
I hate guy#2 more. They pretend to be buddies and touches the ladies all over. Cad.
Guy#3, just aviod meeting him totally. Nothing but sex on his mind.
Guy#1, still OK lah. Out of sight, out of mind. Just know what you want.
Do you want to change their preception? Are they worth it?
It's really up to you.
hmm...from everyone's replies it seems like there's nothin i can do to prevent ppl treating me as lambchop or 7-11 cos they classify me as that from first sight n it never changes?so it's all up to luck then? -
To him, you might jus be a back-up when his g/f has no time for him ..... like wat some say, a door mat ....... or someone that he can fool around with and dun have to give any commitment to ..... tats jus my thoughts ....Originally posted by rainee:I think they are just treating you as someone to be with while they are lonely. Once they are not, they won't even think of you anymore.
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Thats not true at all. Be Brave !!Originally posted by sqully:Btw,wat's lambchop?means can eat one is it?
hmm...from everyone's replies it seems like there's nothin i can do to prevent ppl treating me as lambchop or 7-11 cos they classify me as that from first sight n it never changes?so it's all up to luck then?
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you can change it by changing your behavior towards them. if you dun like them treating you that way, then tell them or show them that you dun like it and you would like them to stop.Originally posted by sqully:Btw,wat's lambchop?means can eat one is it?
hmm...from everyone's replies it seems like there's nothin i can do to prevent ppl treating me as lambchop or 7-11 cos they classify me as that from first sight n it never changes?so it's all up to luck then? -
Thats not true at all. Be Brave !!Originally posted by sqully:Btw,wat's lambchop?means can eat one is it?
hmm...from everyone's replies it seems like there's nothin i can do to prevent ppl treating me as lambchop or 7-11 cos they classify me as that from first sight n it never changes?so it's all up to luck then? -
lamb chop = piece of meat = sex objectOriginally posted by sqully:Btw,wat's lambchop?means can eat one is it?
hmm...from everyone's replies it seems like there's nothin i can do to prevent ppl treating me as lambchop or 7-11 cos they classify me as that from first sight n it never changes?so it's all up to luck then? -
Yup.Originally posted by rainee:you can change it by changing your behavior towards them. if you dun like them treating you that way, then tell them or show them that you dun like it and you would like them to stop.
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u put 2 different sex of hammies together, they make babies.Originally posted by rainee:yes, having thoughts...cos it has happened to me...and it just happened recently too.
I have come to the conclusion that a guy and a girl can never be very close frens w/o sexual thoughts coming between them...
so now, nothing to do but to distance myself from him so that I would not jeorpardize my current r/s with my ai ai...
watever it is, the lesson is dun get drunk no matter wat.i encountered one of my female friends who told me oversea pple are very open-minded. i'm shocked to find out she stated dat to them, they treated their friends like f-buddy.
maybe dat jerk know dat u like him, he was tempted to take advantage.
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nabeiz! i'm a perv wif CLASS, ok?!?Originally posted by browniebaobao:I dun condemn, i discriminate. -
actually some animals so cute dat the tiger cant bear to eat.Originally posted by sqully:[
haha..still need to evaluate?type 2 i just cant continue to b their 7-11.n dating them def out of the qns.not interested in other ppl's boys.esp my frds' boys.type 3 wat can i say..still walk into the mountains when u know there r tigers there?
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so u saying the lamb wont become lambchop?Originally posted by 798:actually some animals so cute dat the tiger cant bear to eat. -
I did.after i started this thread.actually the type 2 guys i discovered they r like that a few months ago but they make up the bulk of the ppl i spend the time with(a lot of my girl pals also type 2 lor.in that i always feel like i m some inferior substitute of their bfs) that's why i hesitated over what i should do.it's like deconstructing my whole social world.i mean admitting they r like that means actually i got no true frds at all.sometimes i really feel i m always there for everyone but nobody's ever there for me.i just couldnt go on like that.so i withdrew myself bit by bit n felt even worse.that's why i was so miserable.n then i met the type 3 guy.vicious cycle man.Originally posted by rainee:you can change it by changing your behavior towards them. if you dun like them treating you that way, then tell them or show them that you dun like it and you would like them to stop. -
well when u get drunk don meet up with gals ya.Originally posted by rainee:try having lots of beer one night...until the point you are drunk, then try being alone with a girl in her room...
then tell me if you can still control urself or not.
i will jus jolly go outside living the gal in the room by herself -
I understand how u feel cos I am like you as well...ppl only come to me when they are lonely or when they have problems...and then I will be there for them, but when I need them to be by my side, they will say they have something on, etc.Originally posted by sqully:I did.after i started this thread.actually the type 2 guys i discovered they r like that a few months ago but they make up the bulk of the ppl i spend the time with(a lot of my girl pals also type 2 lor.in that i always feel like i m some inferior substitute of their bfs) that's why i hesitated over what i should do.it's like deconstructing my whole social world.i mean admitting they r like that means actually i got no true frds at all.sometimes i really feel i m always there for everyone but nobody's ever there for me.i just couldnt go on like that.so i withdrew myself bit by bit n felt even worse.that's why i was so miserable.n then i met the type 3 guy.vicious cycle man.
I guess you need to learn to not always be there for them? And then they will know how to cherish you more. Ironic, but this is the best way to make them learn. -
Drunk already can still rationalize so much meh?Originally posted by FBI:well when u get drunk don meet up with gals ya.
i will jus jolly go outside living the gal in the room by herself -
Hi Sqully,
Have it occured to you that you're taking things too hard on yourself?
Cheers -
hey
wake up the bloody idea
the 2nd and 3rd guy r NT frien
he is tryin to get fresh with u
leave them
for some reasons i tink u r abit despo
there are many gd guys out there
y bother with jus such 3 losers
widen ur social circle and u may find urself being in the bottom of the well -
i tried to take things easy,telling myself all these aint a big deal.for years of my life i had been a real rational person,i wouldnt let anythin emotional get me.n so when i feel miserable n start nelgecting my studies i blamed myself real bad.i roasted myself much more than my parents could hav done.i reasoned that these r such trivial things my life has to go on n i shouldnt kick such a fuss over it.but the more i denied myself the worse it became.one day i just could hold it further and started crying n crying a few nights in a row at times.i couldnt be the strong n infallible girl my frds knew anymore.n they seemed rather surprised n disappointed at it. for the last few months i hated myself for it.Originally posted by M©+square:Hi Sqully,
Have it occured to you that you're taking things too hard on yourself?
Cheers
i can longer control my emotions well anymore.getting fits of depression when i m alone.mayb i hav accumulated too many things inside me all these years that i hav lived.n i finally fell.u all must think i m a psychotic girl by now.
but i believe i still hav some sanity.there r still certain things i wouldnt do.i just hope somehow i can make this phase end soon. -
despo?i dun know.after my best frd drifted away from me n i just realised almost all of the frds i had spent time with aint really frds?perhaps i m.Originally posted by rayne_goh:hey
wake up the bloody idea
the 2nd and 3rd guy r NT frien
he is tryin to get fresh with u
leave them
for some reasons i tink u r abit despo
there are many gd guys out there
y bother with jus such 3 losers
widen ur social circle and u may find urself being in the bottom of the well
but apparently not despo enough to give in to what the guys really wanted.or mayb u reckon that i m only a step away? -
You forgot to add ONE more guy from hell.
THE LOVE YOU DON'T LOVE YOU GUY.
He will say that you are the ONE for him, that he love you..or anything.
Then he dumps you just like that for another prettier girl. -
sorry abt that. but i think i don do that!Originally posted by LinLing:You forgot to add ONE more guy from hell.
THE LOVE YOU DON'T LOVE YOU GUY.
He will say that you are the ONE for him, that he love you..or anything.
Then he dumps you just like that for another prettier girl.
Yes i do sweetalk la but after she reject me i go find another gal after a month.
I didn't do the wrong thing right -
can de la.. i believe this kind of thing can control.Originally posted by rainee:Drunk already can still rationalize so much meh?
I cannot be v sure i can make it but i think i can!