GF 3 months pregnant.. no money for abortion
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Mr Seah....you understand english yea?
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ok lor i just trying to help only mahOriginally posted by Stanley Ho:Use PM...
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Use PM also can help.Originally posted by Stanley Ho:ok lor i just trying to help only mah
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i tink its best u 2 have a really gd talk. there is no reason not to seek the mother's approval/feelings. ultimately, she is the 1 who is most affected by it all. u 2 shld really open ur hearts and talk it out. let her know how u feel and know how she feels. do not jus jump into e abortion idea straight away. but if in e end e 2 of u really tink it e best choice... dat is 2 abort, u shld approach someone senior who u trust in. if they care 4 u, they will help. no doubt the scoldings n maybe thrashings will come in. but this issomething u shld face up to... take it like a man... easy 4 me 2 say u might think... i walked e same path b4...
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Originally posted by neverendingtrauma:need $500 more by 1 week.. where to get? im 18 shes 17. 100% cant let our parents know. pro life christians wont allow abortion thinking its murder and we'll go to hell. both our back accounts no more money. we dont have medisave right? cant use ezycash loans either.
100% cant dont abort. she insists too. her mother is psycho.. shant say more here.
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alex ah....i suggest you edit yours...the last part not helping leh.
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think outside the square!Originally posted by M©+square:alex ah....i suggest you edit yours...the last part not helping leh.
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People really crisis la...Originally posted by alexkusu:think outside the square! -
ppl in crisis usually fail to see the light more. There are worse things that could happen if they couldnt see any lightOriginally posted by M©+square:People really crisis la...
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What is the point of giving birth, and not having the ability to take care of the child? You are making your child suffer and that is worse.
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Christians?
Then still have pre marital sex?
Do u know the consequences of abortion?
By doing that, u will become the murderers of ur own flesh and blood.
Maybe now you wun feel bad about it, whatever is on ur minds is to get rid of that baby.
But years later, u will regret.
It's a life afterall. I think abortion is a more serious wrongdoing than pre marital sex. Surely no parents will leave their children in the lurch when faced with such a problem.
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we should help him...how many members are there in this forum?
everyone just chip in $1 or $2 iszz enough? -
I don't know what is happening to Christian now a days? There is only one way,open yr bible and ask God for instructions....
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i believe $1 is nothing. Really have to use abortion as solution ?Originally posted by leo-kun:we should help him...how many members are there in this forum?
everyone just chip in $1 or $2 iszz enough?
No other choice ? -
Adoption, adoption, adoption.
Give the little kiddo a chance at life. -
hey abort if u are not ready...and b4 the preg reaches more than 3 months..Originally posted by browniebaobao:Christians?
Then still have pre marital sex?
Do u know the consequences of abortion?
By doing that, u will become the murderers of ur own flesh and blood.
Maybe now you wun feel bad about it, whatever is on ur minds is to get rid of that baby.
But years later, u will regret.
It's a life afterall. I think abortion is a more serious wrongdoing than pre marital sex. Surely no parents will leave their children in the lurch when faced with such a problem.
Talk to them and resolve the problem than to regret later.
but u shud be ASHAMED!
killed an INNOCENT life..
bcoz of your few minutes of ENJOYMENT!
that's why..always use a CONDOM!
for a few bucks u dont wan...now see what happens?
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too late...3 months d lo..
u abort u go to jail..
but dont abort..u will give him/her undesiable start in life
either way.....haiz..
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please keep the child..i'm sure ur parents will understand..
at least make the child available for adoption..many couples wants to have one but can't.. -
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Just remember, no matter how desparate you are...value life
no suicide, etc.
Perhaps best thing you could do now is talk with your parents and bear with their anger/frustrations/etc. After that, you have to put up with people talking about you.
Well, on the brightside, at least you found your partner in life -
it's easy for us to say "abort", but it's hard for you to make the decision.
the way i see it is that both of you are definitely not ready to accept a baby in your life now. taking care of a child is a big burden, especially when you are due to enter national service, and you have other priorities in your life now, such as preparation for undergraduate study. I think she has other plans now.
Both of you are running out of time. If she does not abort now, you have to live with your mistake for the rest of your life. She has to live with her mistake for the rest of her life. Just remember, it's not the baby's mistake. But the baby has no legal say, since the baby is not considered to be legally alive.
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have the baby then.
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+1Originally posted by fudgester:Let's face it - you don't have the money for an abortion, and she doesn't have a lot of time left for an abortion even if you scrimp and save for the money. Late abortions can be pretty harmful for the mother. It also increases the risk of miscarriage in future pregnancies.
I think right now the best idea is to let your parents know. Her parents as well.
Of course they'll be disappointed and angry at the two of you - nothing much you can do about that. But eventually they're going to have to face the facts and help you solve the issue at hand.
There are childless couples out there who would do anything to have a baby. If the two of you feel that you're not mature enough to get married and raise the child, then consider putting the child up for adoption. Let the child be raised and loved in a loving family, and not in an impromptu unplanned marriage where both parents are still young and ill-prepared.
i would rather my kids to tell me that they r pregnant than to do someting risky.. At least i can do something to solve it. -
thought 3 months is too late for abortion?
Congratulations.. you going to be a father soon.
Let your parents know bah.