has she become attention-seeking?:(
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ee..acting cute at ur age would be sth i want to see last..Originally posted by 798:chiu tink eberone like yuko-ogura see horny polar bear act until so innocent meh?
dat polar bear was a disaster for yuko hor..and u guys were luffing over it in the thread last time..some inconsiderate,uncaring peeps u are..
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when the day comes you see her wearing nothing, that is when you can be sure she is attention seeking.
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people fashion sense changes to fit into the environment they are in. accept it. -
You've come up with a solution yourself but you don't want to follow through.
The issue is not that you don't know what to do, it's that you don't want to.
If you have to suffer more for now, then go ahead & indulge. One day you will give up when you've reached your breaking point, or you've found someone else to obsess over , or some other push factor.
And 798 has a point. Celebrities are perfect because they're made to act that way. In reality nobody is cute or innocent 100% of the time. If you compare girls around you with ideals, you will always be disappointed.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:the prob is..how?
she harps on my mind like some persistent kiddo hooked on an intriguing toy gun.
'stop thinking of her' is sth i would like to do too..even tried by not replying to her smses..but this means we can't even be frens?
remaining as frens would result in me thinking of her..definitely...
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i feel sad for the polar bear. he must have hurt itself badly.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:ee..acting cute at ur age would be sth i want to see last..
dat polar bear was a disaster for yuko hor..and u guys were luffing over it in the thread last time..some inconsiderate,uncaring peeps u are.. 
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yuko too..she fell down.Originally posted by 798:i feel sad for the polar bear. he must have hurt itself badly. -
hmm yuka i think u think too much, relax a bit yea...other than the earrings did her fashion sense change? as in the way she dresses, maybe shes just trying to look better. Anyway u going to ns soon right, u can try to forget her while inside there
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its called about knowing how to dress urself...dun u feel better when u wear the things u think look better???Originally posted by yuko-ogura:this gurl i liked for over a yr..she wasn't materialistic..at least i knew her to be that wae during the times i met her. she didn't wear earrings (din have earholes..)
however,when i went to receive my A lvl results(din see her for 4 mths..)..i saw her wearing earrings..and those earrings were dangling kinds(4-5 cm long chain-like earrings..enuff to attract pple?)..not studs..which is diffferent from most of the girls i knew who were 'ai mei(love to be pretty)'..
she looked different....
at once,the innocent and non-materialistic image of her shattered...i would hate to hear the truth..but...
has she become materialistic and want to attract attention?
if not..then why din she wear ear-studs like most gers did instead?
i dunnoe, but it works for me. its fun to try out new hairstyle/colour and new clothes etc....
i realli dont see whats the big deal, its all part of being a teenager. try it while ur still young if nt cfm will regret!!! -
btw, no offense man but i tink uve taken ur obsession with that yuka gal too far!!! shes kinda cute and stuff, but dats abt it...
plus dat gal ur talking about juz changed her godamn earrings!!! maybe shes an attention-seeker, but who doesnt wan others to give a damn abt them??? plus, ur not realli in a position to judge her. funny thing is, my mum asked me to pierce my ears but i dun wan!!!!
and i wouldnt go so far as to say shes materialistic, its not like shes collecting prada bags and stuff......i think u hav 2 chill man, and see the beauty of life frm a diff view..........hav a nice dayyy -
yuko-ogura:
i won't scold u like everyone else here. i'll give u some practical advice to help u.
1. Call her. tell her the new earrings are very pretty and make her look very chio! that will make her feel happy n good mood. then u can ask her how come she suddenly change her style.
2. pls dun spend so much time worrying abt EARRINGS. much better if u worry about getting into university all the best!! -
everybody wans 2 luk gd. tts human nature.
ultimately,its e inner beauty tt is most important.
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Hi, I did not read thru all the messages, but from what I had read, I feel that maybe you dun really like her deeply, cos you are unable to accept the changes in her. The one you like in your heart is the her innocent image, but once she changes, you are unable to accept the new her. That mean maybe what you like of her is just her image, her face. You may know her for a year, but do you really understand her fully? If a gal who dun have ear holes is not materialistic, den how about those who have a lot of ear holes? Are they materialistic?
Dun torture yourself by not reply to her msgs or whatever things, just take it one at at time. If you got her msg, reply her, dun alien yourself to her. Maybe she just want to take things slowly in r/s. cos she might had got hurt badly last time. So she dun want to go thru all the hurts again. I had a friend who like gal for 2 - 3 years, who reject him a few times, who had a few bf, but my friend still quietly wait by her side, be her support when her r/s fails, who help her alot. He finally wins her heart with his patience.
So dun lost heart, gd luck -
yeah you are, just lay back and take things one at a time. always remember that you have to be clear headed.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:maybe im juz worrying too much..paranoid side of me alwaes acting up... -
dude look at yourself in the mirror and see what happen to u.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:ya hor..can still care for her...
but the feelings suck sia..especially whenever i feel that i can't be with her..kana rejected by her on V-dae last year too..
den her occasional smses make me feel like i've got hope..but i noe im juz deceiving myself..
wad to do..get to know more naughty gers like u and viciouskitty lor..
Just becos of this girl you became so upset and lost confidence in yourself.
Shakes head
Girls look for guys whom got the guts and confidence who can look after them in time of need.
Without her your life will not lose anything rite?
So why worry so much.?
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earrings only...wat's the big deal?
wear dangling earrings = attention seeking?
then im considered more attention seeking to u ma? i wear crystals dangling earrings.
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4 god's sake, its just a pair of earrings! I would be surprised if girls don't wear earrings...n honestly, who doesn't want to look good? Tio bo...Talking about ear studs, i last time got 1 ear stud like a big cross so damn shiny i also wear 2 poly u know? It doesn't mean anything, attention seeking maybe a bit, but look it from a bright side, wanting pple 2 look at you is not really wrong rite...Originally posted by yuko-ogura:this gurl i liked for over a yr..she wasn't materialistic..at least i knew her to be that wae during the times i met her. she didn't wear earrings (din have earholes..)
however,when i went to receive my A lvl results(din see her for 4 mths..)..i saw her wearing earrings..and those earrings were dangling kinds(4-5 cm long chain-like earrings..enuff to attract pple?)..not studs..which is diffferent from most of the girls i knew who were 'ai mei(love to be pretty)'..
she looked different....
at once,the innocent and non-materialistic image of her shattered...i would hate to hear the truth..but...
has she become materialistic and want to attract attention?
if not..then why din she wear ear-studs like most gers did instead?
What matter most is still her character...Everything on the outside can change coz its the only constant but character is still the most important...Would u like a girl who looks exactly the same as before but has totally changed into a different person character wise or u want a girl who looks prettier than before but is still the same person u like a few year ago? -
eh... ur version of inner beauty I like.. D cup and above.Originally posted by Sleeping Forest:everybody wans 2 luk gd. tts human nature.
ultimately,its e inner beauty tt is most important. -
jialat..she alwaes appears in my dreams..how to not think of her..Originally posted by agnelli:hmm yuka i think u think too much, relax a bit yea...other than the earrings did her fashion sense change? as in the way she dresses, maybe shes just trying to look better. Anyway u going to ns soon right, u can try to forget her while inside there -
hmm..true..but i still can't accept the fact that she changed drastically over the mths..Originally posted by alkaiden:its called about knowing how to dress urself...dun u feel better when u wear the things u think look better???
i dunnoe, but it works for me. its fun to try out new hairstyle/colour and new clothes etc....
i realli dont see whats the big deal, its all part of being a teenager. try it while ur still young if nt cfm will regret!!! -
Obsession?Originally posted by yuko-ogura:jialat..she alwaes appears in my dreams..how to not think of her.. -
it's yuko btw..Originally posted by alkaiden:btw, no offense man but i tink uve taken ur obsession with that yuka gal too far!!! shes kinda cute and stuff, but dats abt it...
plus dat gal ur talking about juz changed her godamn earrings!!! maybe shes an attention-seeker, but who doesnt wan others to give a damn abt them??? plus, ur not realli in a position to judge her. funny thing is, my mum asked me to pierce my ears but i dun wan!!!!
and i wouldnt go so far as to say shes materialistic, its not like shes collecting prada bags and stuff......i think u hav 2 chill man, and see the beauty of life frm a diff view..........hav a nice dayyy
hmm..she's my idol..dat's abt it...
ur mum compelled ya to pierce ur ears?why?
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1.praising her out of the blue?nice move.Originally posted by wd1:yuko-ogura:
i won't scold u like everyone else here. i'll give u some practical advice to help u.
1. Call her. tell her the new earrings are very pretty and make her look very chio! that will make her feel happy n good mood. then u can ask her how come she suddenly change her style.
2. pls dun spend so much time worrying abt EARRINGS. much better if u worry about getting into university all the best!!
2.got shiat results for A lvls..im alrdy worrying abt it.
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to me..she alrdy has both the inner and outer beauty..Originally posted by Sleeping Forest:everybody wans 2 luk gd. tts human nature.
ultimately,its e inner beauty tt is most important. -
thx tortoise..slow reply on ur side but steady post u got..heheh..Originally posted by tortoise55:Hi, I did not read thru all the messages, but from what I had read, I feel that maybe you dun really like her deeply, cos you are unable to accept the changes in her. The one you like in your heart is the her innocent image, but once she changes, you are unable to accept the new her. That mean maybe what you like of her is just her image, her face. You may know her for a year, but do you really understand her fully? If a gal who dun have ear holes is not materialistic, den how about those who have a lot of ear holes? Are they materialistic?
Dun torture yourself by not reply to her msgs or whatever things, just take it one at at time. If you got her msg, reply her, dun alien yourself to her. Maybe she just want to take things slowly in r/s. cos she might had got hurt badly last time. So she dun want to go thru all the hurts again. I had a friend who like gal for 2 - 3 years, who reject him a few times, who had a few bf, but my friend still quietly wait by her side, be her support when her r/s fails, who help her alot. He finally wins her heart with his patience.
So dun lost heart, gd luck
i think ur right..the innocent image of her..it still lingers in my mind even as i think of her now as i typed these words..
stick by her?not that i dun want to..she's vegetarian..i've tried changing my diet for the sake of her,and i bet she doesn't know how much i suffered when my mum screwed me inside out when i suddenly told her i wan to be a vegetarian..her chidings kinda made me reflect a lot..and that is..do i have the ability to love her for who she was?can i truly become a veggie-eater after sticking to the KFC fried chickens and mutton satays for a long period of 18 years?lots of qns with 'can i' and 'do i' juz popped up in my head.
besides,not only our diets differ..our characters may well be at odds as well..she once commented that her behaviour was different from mine..probably due to our frens ard us..
a hint that we cannot be tgt?
perhaps...
she even said im not sensitive..unlike her ex..
not that i dun want to be by her side..she gave me lotsa mixed signals..i dun even noe wad i shld do now..
it's juz like u see the orange-yellow traffic light..u can't decide whether u wan to speed past the darn lights or stop behind the white line.
abt the part where u said abt getting hurt from the previous r/s..i think ur right..she was ditched by her ex after a-year-and-a-half long r/s..heard from her gd fren that she cried for 3 nights after the breakup..imagine her emotional breakdown..
and it was her first r/s..goodness..
heard she really loved him too..maybe it's becux that guy managed to turn into a veggie-eater..kinda touches her...
however..i still want to declare..that if she really opens up to me..i'll gladly changed my diet for her..unconditionally.. -
taking things in my stride now..but i juz can't seem to forget her..Originally posted by coffeeortea:yeah you are, just lay back and take things one at a time. always remember that you have to be clear headed. -
maybe her mum forbids her to have ear holes & wear earrings til she graduate from jc.