Lust or Love
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When you lust, you're no different than a horny bast**d or bit*h. You essentially allow and develop animalistic mating instincts and it causes you to behave like an animal that drives you to latch onto any attractive opposite sex as sex objects.
When you love, you're human cos you know there's only one you give your heart to. It's a heavenly wisdom. Sex is often the last thing on your mind. You're even disgusted about the thought of lusting or having sex with any attractive opposite sex you meet.
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I still believe in my stand. That love is just the evolved instinct of reproduction. It is nature's answer to the survival of a species. It's just that we have developed in terms of intelligence, thus we derive a new "meaning" to this natural urge.
And appearance is the first sign of superior genes. It is natural to want to reproduce with good genes to carry on the bloodline. It is inevitable to lust. But due to the civilised society, Lust is deemed as immoral. Just like animals, they select their partners to procreate. We are animals. It's just that due to our own intellect, we formulate rules and thus restrict our natural urges. And so, Love is just a refined form of Lust. -
hmm.. they need not be mutually exclusive. when u truly loves someone, you would naturally want to be intimate physically, emotionally, spiritually etc..Originally posted by macjoe:When you lust, you're no different than a horny bast**d or bit*h. You essentially allow and develop animalistic mating instincts and it causes you to behave like an animal that drives you to latch onto any attractive opposite sex as sex objects.
When you love, you're human cos you know there's only one you give your heart to. It's a heavenly wisdom. Sex is often the last thing on your mind. You're even disgusted about the thought of lusting or having sex with any attractive opposite sex you meet.
of cos possible to lust without love and love and not lust (rare but possible) -
Some people here have warpped ideas on Lust....
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+1Originally posted by M©+square:Some people here have warpped ideas on Lust.... 
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I find them(the few) holding a ultra holistic viewpoint...which somewhat is extreme?Originally posted by 1bigmess:+1
hmm.....let me reconsider my point.
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I think it's close to impossible. -
If a guy love a girl and have no lust over her then their relationship are in great trouble, trust me...Originally posted by FadeToBlack:Can i ask how many guys actually love a girl whole-heartedly without no lust in mind?
Is it possible for guys actually not to have the slightest lust in mind?
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Aha!Originally posted by erijazz:If a guy love a girl and have no lust over her then their relationship are in great trouble, trust me... -
Oh yeah, too bad seeing you totally turns me off & makes me wanna throw up.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by mahai_gotbigballs:that's because [FeowFeow edited rude & ungentlemanly post] you are a very nice lady... -
Not meaning to be rude, but the way you put it, all couples who've had children oughta wear a chastity belt from now on.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by macjoe:When you lust, you're no different than a horny bast**d or bit*h. You essentially allow and develop animalistic mating instincts and it causes you to behave like an animal that drives you to latch onto any attractive opposite sex as sex objects.
When you love, you're human cos you know there's only one you give your heart to. It's a heavenly wisdom. Sex is often the last thing on your mind. You're even disgusted about the thought of lusting or having sex with any attractive opposite sex you meet. -
Hmm... Reminds me of the silly question... "Do we have egg 1st, or do we have the chicken 1st....?"Originally posted by DrTech:I still believe in my stand. That love is just the evolved instinct of reproduction. It is nature's answer to the survival of a species. It's just that we have developed in terms of intelligence, thus we derive a new "meaning" to this natural urge.
And appearance is the first sign of superior genes. It is natural to want to reproduce with good genes to carry on the bloodline. It is inevitable to lust. But due to the civilised society, Lust is deemed as immoral. Just like animals, they select their partners to procreate. We are animals. It's just that due to our own intellect, we formulate rules and thus restrict our natural urges. And so, Love is just a refined form of Lust. -
Only humans can understand what I've said.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Not meaning to be rude, but the way you put it, all couples who've had children oughta wear a chastity belt from now on.
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Sex is not everything. -
no sex quite poor thingOriginally posted by alexkusu: Sex is not everything. -
Are you a poor thing?Originally posted by 1bigmess:no sex quite poor thing 
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Correction: Only monkeys can understand what you've said
FeowFeowOriginally posted by macjoe:Only humans can understand what I've said. -
u offering help izzit lolOriginally posted by alexkusu:Are you a poor thing? 
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Then i think i should thank God i'm not one....Originally posted by macjoe:Only humans can understand what I've said.
I don't want to have a warpped mind. -
I like to help needy peopleOriginally posted by 1bigmess:u offering help izzit lol 
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Hmm ...... Good question, maybe we should do a survey on this topicOriginally posted by FadeToBlack:Is it possible for guys actually not to have the slightest lust in mind?
Are all guys horny bastards? -
u r so notti!Originally posted by alexkusu:I like to help needy people 
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I am very generousOriginally posted by 798:u r so notti! -
wah my thread kanna hijack..
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yeah true, but once the lust starts in a relationship, there's no stopping anymore...Originally posted by shade343:No. Not all guys go into a relationship because of lust. Some is for companionship. Dont stereotype.