Molested.
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I had an experience in chinablack... on the dance floor.... i know i know, it's packed there so it's difficult for any guy to "keep his distance" however as I was dancing there with a gal friend, she and I noticed that there was this one guy that kept dancing behind me, facing me....Originally posted by rainee:hmm...can say I also got "attacked" once when I was in a public place...I was still around 14 years old at that time...then I was sitting in the bus...then suddenly I felt this hand on my arm....then it started to rub my arms!
at first I just kept quiet, praying that it will go away, but it started to move elsewhere, so i grabbed it with my other hand and pinched it hard...then told my mom I wanted to get off the bus. So we got off the next stop and that idiot was grinning at me from the window.
at first it was all cool... I mean, it's a small place if u dance directly behind me, facing me, so be it... but I draw the line with physical contact on purpose!
as I danced, i suddenly felt a hand on my HIP!!! i was so shocked! first instinct, I slapped his hand away, turn around, shouted "hey!" and stare at him with a look that could kill.
that was enough to scare him off... ever since that, whenever he saw us, he'll turn and find a place to blend in...
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Sqully your attack happen on the bus at wat time =.="" busy hours maybe possible watOriginally posted by sqully:I don't think it's funny. How can u comment on rainee like that? -
Sqully,Originally posted by sqully:I don't think it's funny. How can u comment on rainee like that?
mahai_gotbigballs is EXACTLY the kind of "friend" you should NEVER hang around with.
they are just NOT WORTH your time and effort. -
well, i dun mean to dismiss u cos u hav a point but sometimes it can be rather obvious what's accident what's not.Originally posted by Mrunknown:Sqully your attack happen on the bus at wat time =.="" busy hours maybe possible wat
putting his whole arm behind u on the seat esp parallel to ur butt when u lean forward after u feel uncomfortable but weren't sure should close the case for deciding?
and the instance i described with elaboration?pressing ur palm against a girl's knee n sliding it up into her skirt isnt molestation??
in these cases,does it matter when they occur?even if the bus is crowded i dun see any excuse they could do that justified. -
ya but its abit too obvious why dun u just shout molest when he slide his hand into ur skirt and just let him continue wat his doing is it?? or maybe you wan to prevent embarrass??Originally posted by sqully:well, i dun mean to dismiss u cos u hav a point but sometimes it can be rather obvious what's accident what's not.
putting his whole arm behind u on the seat esp parallel to ur butt when u lean forward after u feel uncomfortable but weren't sure should close the case for deciding?
and the instance i described with elaboration?pressing ur palm against a girl's knee n sliding it up into her skirt isnt molestation??
in these cases,does it matter when they occur?even if the bus is crowded i dun see any excuse they could do that justified. -
why i didnt realise at first:Originally posted by Mrunknown:ya but its abit too obvious why dun u just shout molest when he slide his hand into ur skirt and just let him continue wat his doing is it?? or maybe you wan to prevent embarrass??
i was asleep and whenever i opened my eyes his hands were with his briefcase. that time i found out was when i wasnt asleep but he tot i m and i realised he used his briefcase to hide his funny moves from other ppl's eyes. i run away from him the next time i saw him after this.
why i didnt shout:
1)shocked,stunned,froze.
2)ya damn scared of embarrassment
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Sqully, ( Hmm, I wonder what sign are you?
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I don't know how you look like, since I've never seen you, but I've seen some people who are perfectly fine, still think that they are ugly. For etc. one of the applicants for Extreme Makeover. Everybody kept telling him that he was perfectly good-looking, but he kept insisting that he was "ugly". Somehow, even if some people don't think so, there might be that one special person who thinks you are beautiful, no matter how you look like, how bad your hair is, when you've not brushed your teeth...
Even if you were "ugly", there isn't any use to mope over it, because our looks won't change at all. (unless you go for plastic surgery or something) So buck up, and be optimistic! Even if a girl was pretty, but was very proud or bitchy, people still wouldn't like her. Even if a girl was plain or "ugly", she had a good personality, who do you think people would prefer? Looks are pleasant, yes, but they are just one of the more easily shown gems. Personality, charisma... These are just harder to find, but they are gems too. So buck up, and smile! A smile could do wonders...
Buck up on your other aspects too. ^_^ Looks will fade over time, who will like that proud or bitchy girl then? -
Wah seh...Originally posted by rainee:hmm...can say I also got "attacked" once when I was in a public place...I was still around 14 years old at that time...then I was sitting in the bus...then suddenly I felt this hand on my arm....then it started to rub my arms!
at first I just kept quiet, praying that it will go away, but it started to move elsewhere, so i grabbed it with my other hand and pinched it hard...then told my mom I wanted to get off the bus. So we got off the next stop and that idiot was grinning at me from the window.
You so pro sia...
Still dare to grab and pinch?
And it's hard for me to imagine this scenerio. I think I am going to have nightmares tonight. -
And you are kidding in this kind of situation? If you are a female and said this, I say you really need someone to screw you up.Originally posted by mahai_gotbigballs:i doubt given the way you look anyone would want to touch you much less molest you. it was probably his rubber hand that he was using to feel you up, much like a plastic hand extension.
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sqully, indeed it is true. However, for crowded cases, it's much more harder to determine because people are too close (butt's case). Some cases are accidental. From your posts, it sounds like it has been repeated. Logic tells me that it's not accidental, especially the part where you describe about moving up the skirt. It's obvious molestation. You have to report to the police.Originally posted by sqully:well, i dun mean to dismiss u cos u hav a point but sometimes it can be rather obvious what's accident what's not.
putting his whole arm behind u on the seat esp parallel to ur butt when u lean forward after u feel uncomfortable but weren't sure should close the case for deciding?
and the instance i described with elaboration?pressing ur palm against a girl's knee n sliding it up into her skirt isnt molestation??
in these cases,does it matter when they occur?even if the bus is crowded i dun see any excuse they could do that justified. -
For reason one, it's reasonable if you didn't managed to shout.Originally posted by sqully:why i didnt realise at first:
i was asleep and whenever i opened my eyes his hands were with his briefcase. that time i found out was when i wasnt asleep but he tot i m and i realised he used his briefcase to hide his funny moves from other ppl's eyes. i run away from him the next time i saw him after this.
why i didnt shout:
1)shocked,stunned,froze.
2)ya damn scared of embarrassment
3)before i could decide, he got off.
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That pervert is still going around.Originally posted by darknessfall:so many replies already....hmn...
so, sqully, have you stood up brave to face the facts now? Hope you pick yourself up. Being molested is not your fault. But unable to face it is your responsibility!
If it really haunts you so much, seek counsellor help. There are listening ears around. Dont worry about people not believing you! As long as you believe in yourself, it is good enough! Next time, stood up against such perverts! Hit them hard and shout on top of your voice k!!
It will be a long time before he comes back to her again.
There is always a responsibility to report such cases.
Every thing will be done to make reporting less traumatic.
There is even no penalty for wrongful reporting.
That guy will continue until caught.
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Sqully pardon me for questioning but there are lots of doubts which i cant clear , was you wearing mini skirit that time?? or wat its too obvious for everyone to see his hand sliding in ur skirt wat u mention earlier on correct??
if not mistaken , if you wear mini skirt and he slide ur hand in is more possible since u say ur sleeping wat -
she was afraid that everyone would have look at her and wander why she scream or maybe the hand wasnt the person nxt to himOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:For reason one, it's reasonable if you didn't managed to shout.
But for reason two, why? -
ya the pervert molester going around but i think that "he" would come back to her again very soon cuz since she dare not report to police so its his turn to strike more often on girls like Sqully , i wander if suddenly she seen our post then start calling police how will "he" think ?? come and strike again? or run like cowardOriginally posted by mancha:That pervert is still going around.
It will be a long time before he comes back to her again.
There is always a responsibility to report such cases.
Every thing will be done to make reporting less traumatic.
There is even no penalty for wrongful reporting.
That guy will continue until caught.
No report, no action.
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yea...Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Wah seh...
You so pro sia...
Still dare to grab and pinch?
And it's hard for me to imagine this scenerio. I think I am going to have nightmares tonight.
thinking back, i was pretty gutsy when I was younger I wanted to shout, but dun wan to draw attention of everyone in the bus ma... 
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mini?no.i was in sec 3 on the way to sch,so i was in a sch skirt.n i m not one of those who wear micro sch skirt,mine is knee length which would be almost twice the length of what the ah lians don after they alter the skirt n fold it two,three times more. the kind which would pass any spotcheck by discipline master or mistress.Originally posted by Mrunknown:Sqully pardon me for questioning but there are lots of doubts which i cant clear , was you wearing mini skirit that time?? or wat its too obvious for everyone to see his hand sliding in ur skirt wat u mention earlier on correct??
if not mistaken , if you wear mini skirt and he slide ur hand in is more possible since u say ur sleeping wat -
according to what you say then the person must stand up and bend down to see under ur skirt wat , if the person beside you slide hand into ur skirt then its rather impossible unless ur skirt got 1 holeOriginally posted by sqully:mini?no.i was in sec 3 on the way to sch,so i was in a sch skirt.n i m not one of those who wear micro sch skirt,mine is knee length which would be almost twice the length of what the ah lians don after they alter the skirt n fold it two,three times more. the kind which would pass any spotcheck by discipline master or mistress.
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And if the person realli wanna try "sliding" his hand into it he must have stand up infront of u and try to put his hand into the skirt wat and wont it be obvious?? -
huh?no lo.dun need to see under the skirt to slide ur hand in wat.Originally posted by Mrunknown:according to what you say then the person must stand up and bend down to see under ur skirt wat , if the person beside you slide hand into ur skirt then its rather impossible unless ur skirt got 1 hole .
And if the person realli wanna try "sliding" his hand into it he must have stand up infront of u and try to put his hand into the skirt wat and wont it be obvious??
skirt got hole?well,when i was sitting the skirt reaches my knee cap..every skirt got "hole" in the sense that it is "open" in the ends rite?unless u talking abt bubble skirt or ultra tight fit then it's hard to insert ur hand. -
You facing straight in the bus right?? means bus is divided into 2 side left and right , You facing right for example means ur sitting on the left and the pervert also sitting on the left beside you rite?? as you mention earlier on , thus would he be able to slide his hand from the knee to ur skirt?? its impossible wat even how he might as well touch u directly on top and not go around sliding like skiingOriginally posted by sqully:huh?no lo.dun need to see under the skirt to slide ur hand in wat. -
i hav just replied ur pm hope it answers ur qns.Originally posted by Mrunknown:You facing straight in the bus right?? means bus is divided into 2 side left and right , You facing right for example means ur sitting on the left and the pervert also sitting on the left beside you rite?? as you mention earlier on , thus would he be able to slide his hand from the knee to ur skirt?? its impossible wat even how he might as well touch u directly on top and not go around sliding like skiing
u r really interested in the details though. u wanna pick up a trick or two from him is it? -
im not interested in him cuz my cousin got the same experience then notice its wrong person not the person beside her is the person infront of her...
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Ermm, school skirt don't need to have one hole to slide in. You observe around and you will know. I guess sqully was sitting down, not standing up, if not, it is too obvious.Originally posted by Mrunknown:according to what you say then the person must stand up and bend down to see under ur skirt wat , if the person beside you slide hand into ur skirt then its rather impossible unless ur skirt got 1 hole .
And if the person realli wanna try "sliding" his hand into it he must have stand up infront of u and try to put his hand into the skirt wat and wont it be obvious?? -
hmmm i guess i get wat u 2 meant by that though it might be possible but still about this case , are you sure onli got 1 guy beside you?? and who would like to slide his hand inside ur skirt??
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that is because no one knows who she is in real life by posting her problems here ....Originally posted by mhcampboy:so its betta to discuss her woes here and read by hundreds of ppl?? tsk tsk... isnt it betta to report....duhh
You have not gone through what she has, you wouldn't know how hards it is for her to make the step .... Talking is easy .... doing it is different.