Molested.
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i sat beside the window so there's only this guy beside me.Originally posted by Mrunknown:hmmm i guess i get wat u 2 meant by that though it might be possible but still about this case , are you sure onli got 1 guy beside you?? and who would like to slide his hand inside ur skirt??
besides,like i said,eversince he started sitting beside me he changed from alighting in yio chu kang to alighting in paya lebar.it's like at least 30mins difference? coincidence it may be but still isnt that a bit odd?? wonder where he worked. -
charge him under OM!!!
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I post and tell her to seek professional help..but she didn reply that msg...Originally posted by MiX Metal:that is because no one knows who she is in real life by posting her problems here ....
You have not gone through what she has, you wouldn't know how hards it is for her to make the step .... Talking is easy .... doing it is different.
well, all the best to her..hopefully, she can overcome her own phobia or fear and move on with her life..
still got people discussing the exact detail how she was being molested..walau..spare a thought for the victim k...image the agony to recall her bad experience...people is trying to forget, yet, some are trying to make her recap everything...
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How many ppl molested u?
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[quote]Originally posted by darknessfall:
I post and tell her to seek professional help..but she didn reply that msg...
well, all the best to her..hopefully, she can overcome her own phobia or fear and move on with her life..
still got people discussing the exact detail how she was being molested..walau..spare a thought for the victim k...image the agony to recall her bad experience...people is trying to forget, yet, some are trying to make her recap everything... [/quote
Thanks for bothering to reply my thread and keeping up with it. Thanks for ur advice and many others' advices as well, i m not sure if i replied to a similar post or pm but ya..mayb i was quite flustered when i saw so many posts asking me to report to police n seek professional help cos that was wat i alr decided not to do when i chose to reveal it here. Thanks folks, i know it was out of good intentions and i appreciate it. but i hav alr made up my mind,to spill it out here,get it off my chest and give myself a second chance in letting it go and getting back on my feet on my own terms.
and well,some details are rather straining to recall. so that's why i didnt really give very explicit description on certain parts of the incidents or describe all the incodents. for those who doubt my account cos of that, i m sorry but i'd hav one less person convinced than to put myself thru mental torments. that's why i dun hav descriptions of all my incidents. some i only see images, dun recall the details so might as well let them go n dun try to piece them back. i talked one particular incident in detail cos that is the one most embedded inside my system. -
i know if i answer this the next qns would b over too long or how frequent were my encounters so i'll try to give a rough "time-line", cant really remember the excat dates and times for mostOriginally posted by Komon:How many ppl molested u?
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one thing i can say , WTF HOW COME YOU KANA MOLEST SO OFTEN????Originally posted by sqully:i know if i answer this the next qns would b over too long or how frequent were my encounters so i'll try to give a rough "time-line", cant really remember the excat dates and times for most
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why r u shouting at me?Originally posted by Mrunknown:one thing i can say , WTF HOW COME YOU KANA MOLEST SO OFTEN????
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sry sqully , just i feel bad for you...
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but sqully if you answer this question wont it dig your bad experience out again?? and you will feel sad..... Hope you can over come your fear and stand out creating a group : ANTI PERVERTS ON BUS/etcOriginally posted by sqully:i know if i answer this the next qns would b over too long or how frequent were my encounters so i'll try to give a rough "time-line", cant really remember the excat dates and times for most
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No shouting in AA.
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haix..after sec 3 i didnt experience for abt 3 yrs plus ba..tot it wouldnt happen again..
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I feel sorry for you, but I think you should try your best to overcome these problems. They may become too much to bear if you keep getting reminded of them. I don't know what to say, but I hope you get the help that you need, be it from your family, friends or even from this forum.
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Sqully nxt time if anione try to touch you in a way u feel bo song just say : f*** off ur bloody hand and then pretend to sleep
but best try to be awake at all times and see the people around you wat they are doing and fear not of embarrass cuz its not that your embarrass its theirs 
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Thats a good way. Or you could just give the person a killer stare.Originally posted by Mrunknown:Sqully nxt time if anione try to touch you in a way u feel bo song just say : f*** off ur bloody hand and then pretend to sleep but best try to be awake at all times and see the people around you wat they are doing and fear not of embarrass cuz its not that your embarrass its theirs 
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i think the bored, unfulfilling life i've led for at least the last 7 months to one yr made it much harder to bear that's why i sort of "broke down" and got stuck in this perpetual state of depression...i m filled with void and loneliness, which amplifies any misery i might have. i hav isolated myself to prevent me from getting distracted from studies.well, i screwed up the big-time exam before my "isolationist policy". but didnt expect it to make things worse, from cheery i became moody and once i m in that daze or depressed mode, i would just go bumping ard aimlessly the whole day, couldnt study at all sometimes. to talk abt this in detail,it would b a seperate issue/thread ba..Originally posted by dontwannagrowup:I feel sorry for you, but I think you should try your best to overcome these problems. They may become too much to bear if you keep getting reminded of them. I don't know what to say, but I hope you get the help that you need, be it from your family, friends or even from this forum. -
Ermm, that's like a lot. Seriously, you have to report to the police since you are hitting adult age soon. Get someone you trust to go with you and report. Either way, speak to a councellor first. See what kind of help they can offer, then consider your options. If they offer the same things as we have been saying, then find one day and go down to the police station. Don't drag it for too long. It won't help.Originally posted by sqully:i know if i answer this the next qns would b over too long or how frequent were my encounters so i'll try to give a rough "time-line", cant really remember the excat dates and times for most
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sec 3: 3 incidents
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He always choose that seat?Originally posted by sqully:i sat beside the window so there's only this guy beside me.
besides,like i said,eversince he started sitting beside me he changed from alighting in yio chu kang to alighting in paya lebar.it's like at least 30mins difference? coincidence it may be but still isnt that a bit odd?? wonder where he worked.
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Originally posted by sqully:i started to notice after some time that he always sits ard me and soon after he started to sit beside me. i tot it was no big deal probably just coindeince then one day even when the seat beside me was occupied,he'd sit somewhere near and wait for the person beside me to alight n he would move to me.
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that's seriously alot. do you feel any better now that you've wrote it down?.. maybe you should go seek professional help or talk to a friend?Originally posted by sqully:i know if i answer this the next qns would b over too long or how frequent were my encounters so i'll try to give a rough "time-line", cant really remember the excat dates and times for most
sec 1 : 1 incident
sec 3: 3 incidents
past 6 or 7 months: 2 or 3 incidents
your inferiority complex will show too.. others might notice it and target you again.. please go seek help.. -
yah i agree , do be careful nxt time and dun always sleep in busOriginally posted by sammiegal:that's seriously alot. do you feel any better now that you've wrote it down?.. maybe you should go seek professional help or talk to a friend?
your inferiority complex will show too.. others might notice it and target you again.. please go seek help.. -
hmmmmOriginally posted by sqully:i think the bored, unfulfilling life i've led for at least the last 7 months to one yr made it much harder to bear that's why i sort of "broke down" and got stuck in this perpetual state of depression...i m filled with void and loneliness, which amplifies any misery i might have. i hav isolated myself to prevent me from getting distracted from studies.well, i screwed up the big-time exam before my "isolationist policy". but didnt expect it to make things worse, from cheery i became moody and once i m in that daze or depressed mode, i would just go bumping ard aimlessly the whole day, couldnt study at all sometimes. to talk abt this in detail,it would b a seperate issue/thread ba.. -
lol but talking about sleeping on the bus, its quite common esp if you're tired after school and just wanna knock out.Originally posted by Mrunknown:yah i agree , do be careful nxt time and dun always sleep in bus -
*kok head*Originally posted by M©+square:hmmmm
only know how to hmmm hor
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Always sit on the outside. People won't sit beside you then. Unless it's those kind of people who need the seats...Originally posted by sqully:i sat beside the window so there's only this guy beside me.
besides,like i said,eversince he started sitting beside me he changed from alighting in yio chu kang to alighting in paya lebar.it's like at least 30mins difference? coincidence it may be but still isnt that a bit odd?? wonder where he worked.