The Mushy Gang Crapbox
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*fans fans* french friesOriginally posted by smudgey:sigh....
look at it this way,
if this audition is going to put a strain in your friendship, I rather not do it too....
but i know that the strain is now already there...
give this some time to cool... then talk about it.. and find out what's the real reason behind it...
I find that most of the times, we tend to assume certain things that may not be true or not be the real reasons... so... cool down and talk to her (that is if you think that this friendship is worth saving)
cool down...i agree wif smudge mei on the matter....... lets all cool down for now.......
have a heart to heart talk with her when the time is rite..... you know la...when we
are boiling mad.....we tend to say things that we dun mean ....... -
haiz..im sorry to sound harsh..but there is really no point in talking with her.since the facts r there.Originally posted by smudgey:sigh....
look at it this way,
if this audition is going to put a strain in your friendship, I rather not do it too....
but i know that the strain is now already there...
give this some time to cool... then talk about it.. and find out what's the real reason behind it...
I find that most of the times, we tend to assume certain things that may not be true or not be the real reasons... so... cool down and talk to her (that is if you think that this friendship is worth saving) -
Well, perhaps due to her being young, she hasn't considered your feelings too? Afterall, many who're young tend to be abit self-centred, until they learn to think more for others when they're older.
Why don't you also rope in your own singer? Our Mao is pretty good at singing
Then you can compete, & may the best group win!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Pommes frites:yah..its like...since initially we had already agreed to go together..shoouldn we try our best?although i know (and she knows) im not able to play as well as the musicians there. -
no.i mean what i say.i am looking at the facts.(sorry if i sound very mean...)Originally posted by pinkygal76:*fans fans* french fries
cool down...i agree wif smudge mei on the matter....... lets all cool down for now.......
have a heart to heart talk with her when the time is rite..... you know la...when we
are boiling mad.....we tend to say things that we dun mean ....... -
haha...we r goin on to 23 liao..still young?heeheee...anyway..im already prepared to forget about the whole thing...and forget about the friendship( at least for now).Originally posted by FeowFeow:Well, perhaps due to her being young, she hasn't considered your feelings too? Afterall, many who're young tend to be abit self-centred, until they learn to think more for others when they're older.
Why don't you also rope in your own singer? Our Mao is pretty good at singing Then you can compete, & may the best group win!
FeowFeow -
ooh...feow mei should see the look of disappointment on smudge mei faceOriginally posted by smudgey:LOng island tea???
ya
fri night i was at the bar buying the long island tea... came back feow jie gone....
nevermind.....we will extend the timing to 1.30am in our next round of lancing session -
Currently, it's understandable since you're very angry & hurt over what's happened. But after some time when you've cooled down sufficiently, & you get a chance, let her know gently how much she had hurt you.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Pommes frites:no.i mean what i say.i am looking at the facts.(sorry if i sound very mean...) -
come on lar fries is her choice right.Originally posted by Pommes frites:haha...we r goin on to 23 liao..still young?heeheee...anyway..im already prepared to forget about the whole thing...and forget about the friendship( at least for now).
I understand how you feel and how much you wish to perform with her but sometimes life does not work in that way.
you have the right to get angry with her for the way she treated you.
Just let it all out....hehe..here and you will feel better...
come remember we were all humans ma and we make mistakes...
just treat it as her oversight lor....
I am sure there are other friends who would like to join you right? -
Oh our Mao is a wonderful singer ....... rope him in la....beat yr frenz *hands down*Originally posted by FeowFeow:Well, perhaps due to her being young, she hasn't considered your feelings too? Afterall, many who're young tend to be abit self-centred, until they learn to think more for others when they're older.
Why don't you also rope in your own singer? Our Mao is pretty good at singing Then you can compete, & may the best group win!
FeowFeow
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You'll be surprised, sweetie Some girls don't mature until they're past 25 (excluding our Smudge, of course, who's very sensible & sweet)
Anyway, I think Smudge's advice is better than mine here. Why don't you guys take a break from this & calm down before talking again?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Pommes frites:haha...we r goin on to 23 liao..still young?heeheee...anyway..im already prepared to forget about the whole thing...and forget about the friendship( at least for now). -
Eh, eh, hello? I must see whether the rodent is ok with it 1st or Not hor
You know lah, must have TMM sessions mah
FeowFeowOriginally posted by pinkygal76:ooh...feow mei should see the look of disappointment on smudge mei face
nevermind.....we will extend the timing to 1.30am in our next round of lancing session -
im sorry to say this..but its not a matter of "how much i wish to perform with her"its a matter of how she is treating me.Originally posted by drx:come on lar fries is her choice right.
I understand how you feel and how much you wish to perform with her but sometimes life does not work in that way.
you have the right to get angry with her for the way she treated you.
Just let it all out....hehe..here and you will feel better...
come remember we were all humans ma and we make mistakes...
just treat it as her oversight lor....
I am sure there are other friends who would like to join you right?
her oversight?pls.if i were her...i would still go for the practice and see how it will turn out.i mean...obviously its because she had no faith in me.and thats why she doesnt see the need to practice because it would be a waste of time. -
Aww, I felt bad too, when I had to leave, but I'd made a promise, & I had to stick to it lah
Also hor, he's been so poor thing also, wait for me because he bought me something to eat
FeowFeowOriginally posted by pinkygal76:ooh...feow mei should see the look of disappointment on smudge mei face
nevermind.....we will extend the timing to 1.30am in our next round of lancing session -
ive already sent her an email telling her im very hurt n disappointed!hahahaOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Currently, it's understandable since you're very angry & hurt over what's happened. But after some time when you've cooled down sufficiently, & you get a chance, let her know gently how much she had hurt you.
FeowFeow -
no la...of coz there no denying the facts that you feel veri play-out by yr frenzOriginally posted by Pommes frites:no.i mean what i say.i am looking at the facts.(sorry if i sound very mean...)
for now
but ask yrself...is it worth lossing a good frenz just becoz of a SINGLE EVENT.....A competition??.....
its completely normal to be pissed off for now....... just cool it....... when the whole thing
is over......
find a chance to express calmly how you feel....you knows ....you two may just laugh over it .........
but again watever yr decision is.....to let go of the frenzship....we will respect
yr decision -
TMM session.....of coz cannot neglect the rodent hor...... or else he will be squeakingOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Eh, eh, hello? I must see whether the rodent is ok with it 1st or Not hor You know lah, must have TMM sessions mah
FeowFeow
at you whole weekend long wor -
well...maybe why im really angry is because she is my close friends..
and i did suggest to her that if i don play very well...den maybe she can consider going there alone instead of me playing for her coz i don want to drag her down.
which for me,i juz want to see how things will turn out today...and she had to give this kind of excuses.
which if after today..if i don play very well..i would still encourage her to go there alone coz i don want to drag her down.(which she agreed)
but the thing is that...she didnt even give me a chance. -
hehehe hopefully will upgrade to 2am soonOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Paisei, a rodent squeaked FeowFeow is the 1am Cinderella mah, lucky never left shoe behind
FeowFeow -
as I mentioned, sometimes facts may be subjective...Originally posted by Pommes frites:haiz..im sorry to sound harsh..but there is really no point in talking with her.since the facts r there.
but then again,
it depends if you think that the friendship is worth all these work. -
hahaha.... sometimes i tend to think i have not matured to a certain level too.......Originally posted by FeowFeow:You'll be surprised, sweetie Some girls don't mature until they're past 25 (excluding our Smudge, of course, who's very sensible & sweet)
Anyway, I think Smudge's advice is better than mine here. Why don't you guys take a break from this & calm down before talking again?
FeowFeow
especially when i neglect Somebody feelings oso.......... hey not to mention the fact that i am ALMOST
30 hor....... maturity is not measured by the age factor ba
but french fries we are know how disappointed you are with yr frenz now...... just cool
it for now....i am sure if she values you as a frenz....she will try to make up eventually
for the insensitivity & hurt she is inflicting on you now......
no point confronting or talking abt it now....the more you or she say...the more
frustrated both of you will get......trust me on that -
ya I agree!!!!Originally posted by FeowFeow:Well, perhaps due to her being young, she hasn't considered your feelings too? Afterall, many who're young tend to be abit self-centred, until they learn to think more for others when they're older.
Why don't you also rope in your own singer? Our Mao is pretty good at singing Then you can compete, & may the best group win!
FeowFeow
hehehe
mao and fries!!!
perfect!!! -
so sweet!!!!!Originally posted by FeowFeow:Aww, I felt bad too, when I had to leave, but I'd made a promise, & I had to stick to it lah Also hor, he's been so poor thing also, wait for me because he bought me something to eat
FeowFeow -
ya that's why you must cool down first before you confront her...Originally posted by Pommes frites:well...maybe why im really angry is because she is my close friends..
and i did suggest to her that if i don play very well...den maybe she can consider going there alone instead of me playing for her coz i don want to drag her down.
which for me,i juz want to see how things will turn out today...and she had to give this kind of excuses.
which if after today..if i don play very well..i would still encourage her to go there alone coz i don want to drag her down.(which she agreed)
but the thing is that...she didnt even give me a chance.
give it a thought, years down the road, this might seem so trivial that you'll regret losing a friend over it -
Erm! I don't think he'd be too happy with 2am lah
FeowFeowOriginally posted by smudgey:hehehe hopefully will upgrade to 2am soon -
Originally posted by smudgey:ya I agree!!!!
hehehe
mao and fries!!!
perfect!!!
starting some rumors again huh.haha