How Do I Tell A Guy I Can't Stop Thinking About Him??
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Just stay friends for now and see how it goes ? No point worrying abt it till you met up with him anyway
And the best cure for forgtting him ? Get a bf. -
im not one to start seeing a guy just to get over another one though.
thats just wrong,that would only hurt the new guy,im not into hurting people. -
duh, just tell him. u have to do it or ull regret for the rest of ur life!!!
heard of the song 'if i let you go' by westlife?
day after day
time pass away
and I just can't get you off my mind
nobody knows
I hide it inside
I keep on searching but i can't find
the courage to show
to letting you know
I've never felt so much love before
and once again I'm thinkin' about
takin' the easy way out
but if I let you go
I will never know
what my life would be
holding you close to me
will I ever see
you smiling back at me
oh yeah
how will I know
if I let you go
night after night
I hear myself say
why can't this feeling just fade away
there's no one like you
you speak to my heart
it's such a shame
we're worlds apart
I'm too shy to ask
I'm too proud to lose
but sooner or later I've gotta choose
and once again
I'm thinkin' about
taking the easy way out
but if I let you go
I will never know
what my life would be
holding you close to me
will I ever see
you smiling back at me
oh yeah
how will I know
if I let you go
if I let you go, oh baby
oooh
once again I'm thinkin' about
takin' the easy way out
but if I let you go
I will never know
what my life would be
holding you close to me (close to me)
will I ever see
you smiling back at me
oh yeah
how will I know
if I let you go
but if I let you go
I will never know
(oh baby)
will I ever see
you smiling back at me
oh yeah
How will I know
(how will i know)
if I let you go
THE ANSWER IS OBVIOUS JUST TELL HIM, IF IT TURNS OUT HES NOT INTERESTED AT LEAST U WUN HAV REGRETS RITE -
wow..............thankyou.
the only thing im scared of is losing him as a friend!! if i tell him i like him,he might not want to be friends with me anymore,then i would die!!! -
u can try like ' Hey theres something ive always wanted to tell you. I have been secretly in love with u for blah blah.....'
Must remain eye contact when u say those things.
but if he rejects u, then u hav to remain calm.... tell him like
'haha i see...but we can still be friends right? hope i didnt freak u out'
must smile when say that...lol if u still can
but most impt is depends on wad kind of person he is and whether he liks u or nt -
alkaline very experience with guys
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not really, but it is my preferred way for it to be done when a girl confesses to me...Originally posted by alexkusu:alkaline very experience with guys -
hahaha....ok...i'll try.....dont think i would be able to smile though......
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There's no how.
If you really like him. You'll ask. You'll tell.
If not, ask yourself this, "Can I stop thinking of him?"
If not, its time for some actions. -
ive been trying for the last 5 months to stop thinking about him....but it doesnt work.i have this photo of himthat i have on a shelf in my bedroom,and everytime i try to take it down,i cant.i just cant bring myself to put it away
i just wish i could sort my feelings out.....wish i could just click my fingers,and know whether or not i actually love him,or if its just an infatuation!!! thats whats the hardest about it!! -
Originally posted by ozzy-gurl:ive been trying for the last 5 months to stop thinking about him....but it doesnt work.i have this photo of himthat i have on a shelf in my bedroom,and everytime i try to take it down,i cant.i just cant bring myself to put it away
i just wish i could sort my feelings out.....wish i could just click my fingers,and know whether or not i actually love him,or if its just an infatuation!!! thats whats the hardest about it!! 
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mcsquare.....your so mean...you either know something,or your just teasing me,making me think that you do!!!
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Just say it out, tactfully.
If you're scared that he has a gf, you still have to ask.
If now, you're friends, this question isn't that difficult to ask.
If he says no, then you can ask does he like you. -
Some people gan cheong until selective reading lar!Originally posted by M©+square:
I tot i said 'IF' a few times? ha
Don't be so mean MCsquare! 
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thankyou...everyone.....i know it will be hard to do......but i will do it when i go out clubbing with him in sg.
is it a good idea to do it then? i just thought,somewhere on equal ground...not my family's house where he might feel uncomfortable if he doesnt want to upset me,and not at his place,so im not feeling uncomfortable.
clubs good place??? cause then i would of had a few drinks,and i'll have some dutch courage.....wont be so scared!!! -
Ozzy gurl : My advice to you is to follow your heart . My friend is in the simillar situation as you . Well what you can do is when both of u chatting ... just harmlessly ask him what does he thinks of you , what if both of u are together, how will he feel. ..etc? You get what i mean right ? From there you see whether you have a chance for him.
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thanks k800i....yeah i get what you mean.........i guess i jut have to swallow my pride hey
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i also in simliar situation just that i am a guy and the girl has a bf already.What should i do?
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Wah! you mean i'm that good?Originally posted by ozzy-gurl:mcsquare.....your so mean...you either know something,or your just teasing me,making me think that you do!!!
Can cast mix signals without saying much.
I improved? -
mcsquare................not funny......this makes me sad
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Ok.Originally posted by ozzy-gurl:mcsquare................not funny......this makes me sad
I shan't be goofy.
......can't take it. 
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M© evolution on The Unseen - Future v.1.6 -
bad thing is you think im joking
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If i could be frank to you.Originally posted by ozzy-gurl:bad thing is you think im joking
I'll say.
You're a girl who's unable to take control any longer. Ready to explode.
Calculate your cost already?
Some extra info. (optional to answer)
How many relationship have you gone thru b4?
How long were each duration?
Ever been cheated before?
How do you fare yourself as a gf? -
im a girl that cant take the pain any longer...im in control.just dont want to be in pain anymore.
what do you mean did i calculate the cost??? this may just be cause im blonde,and tired,and i cant think properly,but,the cost of what??
im just so sik of not knowing how to approach the sunject,if i should at all.
i cant decide whether to or not....so i post here for suggestions! everyone has been great help.....im sorry,everythings just getting to me....i'll be in sg in bout 3 weeks,and i'll HAVE to talk to him about it.....im just scared.......im not even really sure of what i want anymore.
i cant keep my mind on dealing with the government here to arrange my travels even,,,,my mind is constantly on him...its draining me
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wow..ur really serious bout him. What if you travelled all the way only to be rejected by him? Have you thought about that? What if he dosent even want to meet you?