Bye Bye!!
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Haha I am not great le..I am SCARED!!Originally posted by alexkusu:wah, even now still thinkin of his feelings. What a great girl u are eh
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be it 1yr,7yrs or 10yrs...be it an external factor or internal factor...u've come to a stage whereby an answer has been give to you. There isn't much u can ask for..Unfairness it may seems to you...but still, you dun have much of a choice....
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ELLO?!Originally posted by AshedAnna:What am I going to do guys...his birthday's coming up...I've gone out and gotten his favourite things...Im especially excited about this one present, which is a book!
But..I was thinking of something more elaborate..but..I'll leave it all to that girl to plan because she already texted me about what she plans to do for him. My role is to say "ok" to everything, or get insulted if i suggest anything else. So yay, I'm kinda free from everything because she bao ka liao.
U know last year...my godbrother helped me book a suite at the Fullerton along with champagne and roses and all that crap... and in the end....she told me that he was happiest spending it with his friends at sentosa having a bbq?? It happened that way, oh yeah...2k plus of my savings were blown away The only reason why I didn't tell him she said that was because I didn't want to be selfish and take him away from his friends!! Hahahahaha...I am sucha nong...
( i can't believe im laughing right now..)
whos who gf now??
Y is she so eager to do more for him now?was it this way in the past??
if not,then ur better b wary of that gal -
Originally posted by olala:ELLO?!
whos who gf now??
Y is she so eager to do more for him now?was it this way in the past??
if not,then ur better b wary of that gal Apparently Im only bai sui factor. I mean ya lar...its not like I WANT to feel this way...but she realli just need to hold back. Not just my bf kanna. The other guys also kanna but she never hiong the other girlfriends just me. Maybe because her bf and my bf best friends.
Then his old license plate i want one...i freaking clearing space in my rm so I can nail in into the wall..hole also knock already...then she say I WANT I WANT!!! He give her...then he say "sry u drag so long i thought u not serious abt taking it." ???????
U mean he dunno me meh. Thought he will save it for me. But she say until so aggressive i just..take la take la...
Its like freak lo.. I also close to my childhood friend william wat...I where got until so hiong like that...at least I respect his gf..she got aske me what i think he wants for his bday..cus she just got together with him mah..i told her to choose lo..even tho inside i know he want this..i tell her nicely i know lar and i suggest but ultimately she is the gf and she will sure know his preference one..slowly but sure can one. Freaking hell at least I am a friend to her lo.
And i DUN talk about HIS ex anyhow whack one flippant remark liddat. Even if i behave like that girl..im sure my friend will tell me to f off. -
Dun have a choice to do...?Originally posted by dcx:be it 1yr,7yrs or 10yrs...be it an external factor or internal factor...u've come to a stage whereby an answer has been give to you. There isn't much u can ask for..Unfairness it may seems to you...but still, you dun have much of a choice.... sry i am super slow...realli build up alot until i got to whack this forum with one topic..anyhow better i talk abt it here than to him...wait i stress him some more then it get worse...we dun want that now...i just release here can already -
Gal get straight!Originally posted by AshedAnna:Is not I want to listen..she really damn agressive if she wants to do things her way one. Its like I say hey lets do this then she will ten sentences say "no no he dont like this one u dunno meh etc etc etc".
Yar u know maybe I DON'T know him very well or whatever but she freaking at least just KNOW that I am with him, not her lo. But funny le. He get angry with me and give her face one. Why liddat?
tell her off whos wif the man...
ur his gf n y does it seems like shes running the show?
n wat,will throw temper to get her way?
Tell her get a life! -
That guy seems to place a higher piority to her than u..
gal mayb u wanna re analysise the enitre rs b4 moving on?
U have given so much...u can give everything but
never give ur dignity -
were u the one last work SDC?
I thought u break off with him some time back?
how come still talking break up again?
another guy?
sound like the same guy?
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I got ask for separation before la...i got say I wanna break up now meh.Originally posted by zaxis:were u the one last work SDC?
I thought u break off with him some time back?
how come still talking break up again?
another guy?
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Then she will cry father cry mother to her bf and my bf say she treat me like friend blah blah blah then in the end she kanna become victim and I become pai nang. I am seriously freaking cornered lo.Originally posted by olala:Gal get straight!
tell her off whos wif the man...
ur his gf n y does it seems like shes running the show?
n wat,will throw temper to get her way?
Tell her get a life!
I mean...maybe I am being oversensitive or wat..I was happier because last time I can take it one...now Im just si bei irritated because I dunno what the freaking pt is now. Why he side her by just giving me sht for feeling crappy abt the whole thing...I also dunno.
I got think abt it...he say he tired of me pinpointing her...but realli lo i dun mean it but she is the one always talk cck with me...other girls in the group where got liddat one. She also got chiong the other gfs also...but they just keep quiet le. Because she frankly has been around my bf and her bf the longest la...but dun need to hao lian until like she know everything liddat.
Sure, she is a gd friend, she will be there for u one. But if she is really a friend rite, she won't tell me all the stuff abt his ex one. Last time ex already slap me one time. He also nice to her. Now this girl wugong me almost all the time. He still side her. He know I love him. He know I won't go just like that, like his ex liddat. So liddat means can anyhow suka suka push me here and there issit. Funny le...I dun need talk liao..just woof woof can already la. -
Originally posted by olala:That guy seems to place a higher piority to her than u..
gal mayb u wanna re analysise the enitre rs b4 moving on?
U have given so much...u can give everything but
never give ur dignity I think I have also huat that one one side already...Haiya...maybe she is right...at the end of the day, I know I am artist, musician, dunno wat lan jiao talent I have...but still not gd enough. Things will get easier if i just accept her ji jiao because at the end of the day, no matter how much I kanna push around and so obvious some more...nobody will listen to me one.
See ah, got one day...my bf telling joke to her bf la. EVeryone having dinner. Very nice night. Then suddenly because the joke is abt LJ she make one comment abt my bf's one and her bf's one. Maybe its suppsed to be a joke, but she bend over and whisper into her bf ear. But whisper like not soft enough le because I heard. Where got girl anyhow talk abt other ppls bfs didi one. Joke is joke la, not say Im being super sensitive or wat...i won't be if she never give me the crap. But I get very defensive because as the months go by, when he start to tell me basically to shut up la..(not directly to my face but he act like he want me to keep quiet), i feel he is siding her lo..so I inevitably get sensitive lar. Who wont scared, u tell me. -
Then he tells me, dont be scared I won't leave u. But its like..dun leave me is one thing. Dun leave me and in my face side other pple another thing. Which one I prefer sia.
Then, because I am sucha "oversensitive and pinpointing" gf, makes other girls look damn good compared to me la. If he say I should not be scared, then why he so scared tell his friends he's with me one. Why he so embarrassed because why, I got nose piercing issit. My eyes black black like goth kid wanna kill pple one issit. Other gf all clean cut one, I super one kind. U gotta be kidding me rite....I mean...cannot just say say dun be scared liddat..I mean sometimes (no offence to the guys lar just a comment) some guys just expect their girls to take their crap...but they forgot girls will always be girls...no matter how open minded they are, how kind they are or whatever la...(and im not saying myself la, I onli kind to animals ), the guys forgot that girls not bottomless pit one. They got feelings, and they sometimes once in a while, even if its very small while, must feel like princess one. Dun need candlelight dinner all that crap la...just sometimes make them feel happi to be with the guy mah. Dun EXPECT them to be happy, must earn it too...trust me lo...whatever he listen from me, and the feelings he get, is nothing compared to what i tahan for damn long liao...force smile until my jaw also lock there. -
(damn sorry lar i need to realli once and for all thrash it out here)
That time we quarrel abit here and abit there..then meet that girl and her bf for lunch mah...then he say we go see birds at bird park..i damn happi le..then in the end, after we all park car, she say "I WANNA GO REPTILE PARK!!!" Then make the cute cute face. In the end, go lo...Haiya..thing is, I understand if birdpark is expensive, of course I wont want to go in lar. My bf got ask me also whether i wanna see lizard...i just nod lo. if i say no, then wait got one big fuss then how? Cannot win her one.
In the end, see one cock crocodile show, my whole day kanna spoil. I realli dun ask for much one...at least give me the freaking ample comfort la. Make up to me also must go where she wanna go. Princess mah, that one. I servant sia.
Its freaking confusing le. Just damn confusing. Albeit leaving him, which I won't do as of yet because as long as I can come here and cow beh abit to release all this anger...I will be fine one. Maybe just need one person to be patient and understand...but too bad...all of them love her until liddat. Cute mah...little girl..short short fair fair one..pretty or wat i also dunno but nmind..she dun look as fierce as me can liao. -
Maybe she's really out to break the two of u up.
But it's really not worth it to give up someone u love bcos of a B|tch like her.
Apparently ur bf is very biased liao. I think u will also ask yourself, who is his gf? Why is it that you totally have no say about what to do on his birthday etc.. how come a fren can talk about his private part. Were they together before? Or are they sex buddies? It really makes you feel out of place ba.
Cannot blame you for feeling insecure or low self esteem, bcos your lover is siding a fren and not spare a thought for your feelings. I agree with you, girls
are girls after all. Need to feel appreciated or pampered sometimes. -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:Maybe she's really out to break the two of u up.
But it's really not worth it to give up someone u love bcos of a B|tch like her.
Apparently ur bf is very biased liao. I think u will also ask yourself, who is his gf? Why is it that you totally have no say about what to do on his birthday etc.. how come a fren can talk about his private part. Were they together before? Or are they sex buddies? It really makes you feel out of place ba.
Cannot blame you for feeling insecure or low self esteem, bcos your lover is siding a fren and not spare a thought for your feelings. I agree with you, girls
are girls after all. Need to feel appreciated or pampered sometimes. thanks...so the way i am feeling is actually quite justified lar..I knew i dun anyhow suka suka feel crappy for no reason one.
No haha dun think they were anything b4...but I mean see he nowthinks anything and everything will piss me off...which he become defensive...that one i can understand what made him feel this way because he thinks i anyhow say his friend...
But what i wanna say is that I am really okay one, if she fetch him from camp because lets face it..she got car and if she can she will go one...Im also super ok if they hang out...even if its the both of them onli i can go this far to say im ok...but if he reacts the way i describe to u in my posts, towards the feelings i have, i sure cannot trust them together one. I will sure feel something wat. He think i also very free can entertain all this issit? Think all this is freaking carnival for me? I wanna be happy with him le. last time they hang out so much when I in melbourne le. But he last time got show me he is dedicated to me one. His ex slap on the face dunno for what lan jiao also i cannot cry on his shoulder. Im not expecting him to do anything to her wat..just let me cry and be there then i will instant be so happy one.
Then this girl...lan lan got to hang out with her..can one. i can accept the friendship. But if she left side hao lian to me say all these things, he right side heck care me, of course what sort of positivity i got? He tell me dun be so pessimistic, in my mind i thinking...really ah. Pls put urself in my shoes le...so easy to say heck care bochup her all this, but u kanna face with this kind of thing ur confidence sure deteriorate like one kind of sand flow down ur fingers one.
He now thinks the whole fault lies with my lack of self esteem. but in the first place, i damn confident one.
U know, when i come back, i try to improve my chinese, try to listen more chinese songs, admit i got try to be like that girl liddat. End up, I become more stupid, like losing brain cells. what i say becomes more and more idiotic, no more the intelligent poet he once fell in love with. Or rather maybe i just being hao lian but really lo...this sort of thing can shake a girl upside down one. I stay by his side for so long already damn good liao.
So...any guys who got read this thread..remember next time ur girl is feeling low..dun anyhow blame her...because girls dun anyhow feel like this one. Just be there for her, and u can be sure her response will be satisfying one. If u want the girl to be happi, u must make her happi too, cannot everytime anyhow say her and expect her to smile at u one. She also dun need the headache too. -
he's really being insensitive.
I believe if u have a guy fren that behaves like his that girl fren, he sure cannot take it wan. -
Wah my friend read my thread and asked if it is mine...he said I am one super pissed off girl. Hai...why one relationship so nice can become so wai wai xie xie one...u know for the first time i thought someone finally wanted me that much he would even wanna play with the word 'engagement'..in the end i go through all that for nothing...of course i wanna get engaged la..but if he not ready i can understand..but dun always blame me le..dun make me the cause of it allthe time...sometimes i wish he can just freaking one day say "hi dear, u look nice today. U have new earrings? Nice. So what you wanna eat today? Dear, are you tired? I'd love you to come along but if you're tired you can stay home and rest..Dear is everything ok? I'm here for u ok? I LOVE YOU dear. Lets go do whatever you want today, dear. Nmind I just book out, I want to make u smile today."
Liddat nice le...especially if its sincere...(luckily i dun expect this..just daydream abt it onli) so in summary, it is ok to disappoint me but cannot scold his friend la...issit...wah lau...just one day...show me love, real love man...make me feel special le..i dun ask for big car big hse rich rich boy...i also dun ask for my guy to be super duper handsome or wat...siao bo...last time we happi because he and i have mutual respect..he will say "dear im going out with my friends, but i'll be back to talk to u okie?" *heart* on msn. See? I will sure say ok with no hesitation one. because i know in his heart he has me, and he will assure me just like that, make me feel important. Now, i become smart 4 uniform folder, become chef (altho not much), become passenger, become everything good and bad but his GF.
AND WHY IS THIS THREAD ON THE FEATURED ARTICLES IF HE READ I SURE DIE ONE......I only come here anyhow thrash because i cannot talk to wall wat...wait he think i come here onli want to cow beh how..im not like that one...i love life...realli...why pple must come and crash my party one...MUST die die make damn sure she is important also...i know wat. dun need anyhow whack me mah.....i will treat a person right if she knows how to be a friend. I will respond nicely if pple are nice to me. Sincerely. Hai...just wish for even one day...he will understand that he need to put in effort too..where got relationship one person do everything one...that relationship means the other party seriously in wheelchair a vegetable or wat... -
Tell me abt it..luckily i dun haveOriginally posted by browniebaobao:he's really being insensitive.
I believe if u have a guy fren that behaves like his that girl fren, he sure cannot take it wan. i mean, im quite accepting about others also...but its damn stupid lo..right? If i dun act cute means im some kind of loser liddat. She really imply this le. She said me and the other girl are more serious kind...and when she ask question in a cute cute way, we dunno how to respond. Then i asked her, got problem meh? She say.."errrr...no la..i mean what to do right..." then me and the other outcast girl thinking..wat the hell u trying to say. Make us out to be some kind of alien liddat. And everytime the girl is with me, she will b i t c h abt the other girls. Dunno whether she got liddat about me to the others when im not around. Siao man the gossip queen is her lo!!!! Everything i write here is super truth. How else can i be so upset...
If my friend behave liddat, i will slap him le. I did it before for alot less, i can do it one. But my friends are all very considerate one...they won't just anyhow say something that makes the other person feel uncomfortable...and we are the closest friends on earth lo.
Got one time my friend accidentally blurt out something abt me being a piercer at melbourne, and i told her i got pierce my gay friend's didi before...my bf got angry and call me liar when i told him i realli try my best not to touch lo...( i wasnt with my bf then also wat...he with another girl also got touch her down there i also not angry le). I was doing my job le...then i still try to reason for awhile until i break down and tell him how i really felt abt the engagement...he got hug me and i realli cry la...maybe he feel bad...
thing is i dun deserve this engagement thing to call off because he thinks im unstable or wat...how to be stable u tell me...kanna huat here huat there...NOW i am scared the more i dislike her the more he will protect her...so i just keep quiet...freaking hell the one who needs protection is me le. If he dun protect me, i protect myself. Protect myself means i dun talk to her. If he dun like it, then too bad because there is no other way. I cannot counter her also because most likely i will make her cry and she will bo tai bo ji go and cow beh to everyone saying she treat me like friend then why i angry blah blah blah...pple are si bei difficult to understand le... -
he think i really so bo liao anyhow create trouble issit...serious lo..i dun look for trouble if it dun look for me...how he expect me to just let certain things she says, slide? So next time if she accidentally touch his down there, I cannot get upset la because its accident issit? And if i feel upset he will scold me or give me attitude issit? Now u tell me, as a gf, how the hell u feel if ur bf tekan u? (i know this situation is damn ridiculous lar..but say for instance la).
Its like pls lor..i respect peace and harmony...but as long as she dun anyhow poke me, I won't mind one. My limit is really damn long one if i trust a person. BUT, thats the hard part. Earning my trust until that pt takes, i admit, alot of work, because u all should know if u kanna betray many times liao...u will be careful wit ur trust. But i really leapfrog for him le...give him everything heck care...but now he respond to me liddat abt her...i beginning to take it back bit by bit...
I just want to resolve this...if i really lan lan cannot control the external circumstance (her), then have to deal with him (internal). But now he also shut off from me...what i do now? Bite my finger and cut my wrist and cry cry cry? NO!! I just cry onli. -
Thrash it out with him once and for all. If not, u will still suffer even after engagement or marriage.
And if u like this thread to be removed from featured topic or to lock/delete this thread, juz let Devil1976 know about it. -
Thanks thanks...hai...thrash out means fight..Originally posted by browniebaobao:Thrash it out with him once and for all. If not, u will still suffer even after engagement or marriage.
And if u like this thread to be removed from featured topic or to lock/delete this thread, juz let Devil1976 know about it. dun wnna fight any more..i will hold back for now and sit one side and see how things go first...if realli he is not willing to do anything...i will...i guess i will have to go...because realli as much as i still love him..i cannot allow myself to become chew toy... this will be one of the hardest things in my life im going to have to do...but no choice...it is like this now...i wish he smart enough to know all he have to do is let me cry...and if he is realli so sick of this...then...instead of giving me sht which obviously doesnt make it any better...he will figure out something...
Hope he dun anyhow take this url go and send to his fren on msn...if they read i sure die one side...i just wanna let it out here...because ironically...pple i love dun care...luckily for aunt agony and nice pple like u all..otherwise i think newspaper tomorrow write another girl die jump off building liao... -
Choy!! Dun be silly!
well u dun have to fight la, juz talk it out.
If I were you, I will ask him whether he still loves me or not. If this issue can't be solved then pls let me go.. It's very tiring. -
Are you a Taurus?
P.S: Sorry got to rush out... will put up this question and reply my post later. 
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woman.. zzz
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oi, don do anything siil hor..Originally posted by AshedAnna:Thanks thanks...hai...thrash out means fight.. dun wnna fight any more..i will hold back for now and sit one side and see how things go first...if realli he is not willing to do anything...i will...i guess i will have to go...because realli as much as i still love him..i cannot allow myself to become chew toy... this will be one of the hardest things in my life im going to have to do...but no choice...it is like this now...i wish he smart enough to know all he have to do is let me cry...and if he is realli so sick of this...then...instead of giving me sht which obviously doesnt make it any better...he will figure out something...
Hope he dun anyhow take this url go and send to his fren on msn...if they read i sure die one side...i just wanna let it out here...because ironically...pple i love dun care...luckily for aunt agony and nice pple like u all..otherwise i think newspaper tomorrow write another girl die jump off building liao...