Age is definitely a problem..
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why u tell ur parents...Originally posted by lonestar86:i try to..
but my family keeps interfering..
juz tell them no more to shut them up lor... -
i wanna be honest with them..Originally posted by zodi:why u tell ur parents...
juz tell them no more to shut them up lor... -
wa seh...20 yr old still like that ?
if i was leading your life...i might as well move out...or camp at friend's place...
and no...thats not a compliment to you... -
no, i would hate to remind/nag my partner, be it he is younger or older. if you are so reliant on your gf, who is older, you probably is not independent enuff, aint it?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:if you are someone who needs other people to take care of you...need to remind you to pay the utilities bill...remind you to eat dinner...then you probably more suited to have a girl a couple of years older than you...
if you are the other type...independent...like to take care of people...then maybe a younger girl will be more suited...
agree?
i'm a more mature lady. -
some girls like to guys who are independent too...its a matter of preference...not much to do whether you mature or not...Originally posted by blu_sky:no, i would hate to remind/nag my partner, be it he is younger or older. if you are so reliant on your gf, who is older, you probably is not independent enuff, aint it?
i'm a more mature lady. -
Maybe you're right, it is really a matter of preference. Personally, i'll hate to mother my bf.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:some girls like to guys who are independent too...its a matter of preference...not much to do whether you mature or not... -
my gf is also a few yrs older than me. i'll be enlistin in NS soon also, but honestly, i don't really care if she'll be more successful than me in future. times have changed. the men superiority ideology is really stupid now. at least to me. in fact, i'm not ashamed to say that i don't mind living off her. although, i won't do that because i don't want to put all financial burden on her alone.
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They love you that is why they care. You have to understand that. Which is WHY you have to show them you are mature enough to handle the case. They can only interfere to a certain extent. BUT you have to be aware of what you want to do and not cross the line you initially set.Originally posted by lonestar86:i try to..
but my family keeps interfering.. -
i feel so breathless now..Originally posted by Bontakun:They love you that is why they care. You have to understand that. Which is WHY you have to show them you are mature enough to handle the case. They can only interfere to a certain extent. BUT you have to be aware of what you want to do and not cross the line you initially set.
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looks like we r on the same boat..Originally posted by Where Is God:my gf is also a few yrs older than me. i'll be enlistin in NS soon also, but honestly, i don't really care if she'll be more successful than me in future. times have changed. the men superiority ideology is really stupid now. at least to me. in fact, i'm not ashamed to say that i don't mind living off her. although, i won't do that because i don't want to put all financial burden on her alone.
but it's all abit too early to say though..
then did ur parents disagree u being with her??
My parents, in fact my whole family is trying to stop me from seeing her..
IÂ’m sad..
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Tell you to enjoy your relationship. Now you end up suffering. Hai.Originally posted by lonestar86:looks like we r on the same boat..
then did ur parents disagree u being with her??
My parents, in fact my whole family is trying to stop me from seeing her..
I’m sad..
I wanna be with her.. no matter what happen.. -
some people just never learn...maybe they ain't cut out for it...Originally posted by M©+square:Tell you to enjoy your relationship. Now you end up suffering. Hai. -
dun say like tt..Originally posted by M©+square:Tell you to enjoy your relationship. Now you end up suffering. Hai.
some ppl might not even get a chance to be with their love ones...
or the one they like...
Cherish the moments man..
AT least die without regrets..
At least u had it once... -
Tell me, how come they don't get a chance?Originally posted by desp1:dun say like tt..
some ppl might not even get a chance to be with their love ones...
or the one they like...
Cherish the moments man..
AT least die without regrets..
At least u had it once...
Unless you're telling me THEIR admirer all died before they confess.
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Take your time. Its hard on you, but when you become a parent yourself, you will be in their shoes.Originally posted by lonestar86:i feel so breathless now..
they r driving me nuts.. -
slowly.. they r accepting the gal..Originally posted by Bontakun:Take your time. Its hard on you, but when you become a parent yourself, you will be in their shoes. -
i'm enjoying..Originally posted by M©+square:Tell you to enjoy your relationship. Now you end up suffering. Hai.
i'm very happy when i'm with her..
jus tt my family is interfering causing me to be unhappy.. -
Good to noe dat.Originally posted by lonestar86:slowly.. they r accepting the gal..
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but overall they still disagree me being with her..Originally posted by Bontakun:Good to noe dat.
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Takes time..Originally posted by lonestar86:but overall they still disagree me being with her..
hai~~
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happen to see this topic which seem related to my prob..
lonestar86,
hav u really wondered y ur family is so against u & ur gf r/s?
isst really age problem?? or wat??
i bet if u really find happiness, ur family will b happy for u also. regardless of whether ur gf is different races or wide age gap..
in earlier posting, u mentioned tat ur current gf got over 20s over bfs b4 u
n u never hav gfs b4. u told ur mum abt ur gf n did u mention how many bfs she had b4? if so, mayb ur mum is worried tat the girl is jus toying wif ur feeling.. she is afraid u might get hurt since u never hav r/s b4. how long hav u get to know her? u really know ur gf inside out to know wat type of person she is??
dun b like mi n u will regret 4ever... -
regret definitely exist - it depends on one's perspective.Originally posted by friendz:happen to see this topic which seem related to my prob..
lonestar86,
hav u really wondered y ur family is so against u & ur gf r/s?
isst really age problem?? or wat??
i bet if u really find happiness, ur family will b happy for u also. regardless of whether ur gf is different races or wide age gap..
in earlier posting, u mentioned tat ur current gf got over 20s over bfs b4 u
n u never hav gfs b4. u told ur mum abt ur gf n did u mention how many bfs she had b4? if so, mayb ur mum is worried tat the girl is jus toying wif ur feeling.. she is afraid u might get hurt since u never hav r/s b4. how long hav u get to know her? u really know ur gf inside out to know wat type of person she is??
dun b like mi n u will regret 4ever...
forever is a appropriate term for those who don't wish to let go and choose to hold on.
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I am 20yrs different with my husband, i am 17 when i knew him, he is 38yrs.. is it sad????? after so long i am still not appreciated.........all these years. before he follow my wish but as time goes, he is not interested to follow my dreams or wishes, very sad. ..........he is just old maybe? and the young ones are left alone to paddle alone. is it should be like that?
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Hey. You are not da only one who faced such situations. There are others who share your problems and can understand what you faced. (Have a look at other threads or posts by forumites here)Originally posted by lonestar86:but overall they still disagree me being with her..
hai~~
What you need is preserverence and faith in the r/s btwn you and her. You want a listening ear, we are here to lend 1. Muz return after use leh. preferbly wash liao den return. -
Another prob arise..
Few days ago, she found out that IÂ’ve told my family abt the truth of her family background which she doesnÂ’t want ppl to know..
Knowing tt, sheÂ’s furious and disappointed cus she trusted me yet IÂ’ve told my family the truth..
She has began to ignore me..
IÂ’m sad..
IÂ’m really sorry and IÂ’ve plead her for forgiveness but failed to do so..
I know tt I shld not have told my family abt the truth but what done can never be undone..
Now I gonna think of a solution to solve this complicated prob..
hai~~