Is it immoral to visit a prostitute?
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actually get a gal for the sake of hv sex is not gd... unfair to the gal....Originally posted by sgFish:get a girl. don't throw away your first time with someone you aren't gonna be with for the rest of your life -
My friend tell me he ran away from a club coz the Girl there stalk him for the sake of getting him to marry another girl for the sake of sex.Originally posted by BrUtUs:actually get a gal for the sake of hv sex is not gd... unfair to the gal....
Maybe you can as Outofcontrol to join that club -
if u tat gal, how will u feel if ur bf jz wan u for sex? duno wtf u talking abt...Originally posted by NotFromVenus:My friend tell me he ran away from a club coz the Girl there stalk him for the sake of getting him to marry another girl for the sake of sex.
Maybe you can as Outofcontrol to join that club
i was jz referring tat he should go get a pros since he wanted sex... if he wans love then of course he can go get his girl.... tats all. -
How would you feel if GF only wants U to marry juz for sex?Originally posted by BrUtUs:if u tat gal, how will u feel if ur bf jz wan u for sex? duno wtf u talking abt...
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of course wun be gd but usuali is the other side tat has tat intention...Originally posted by NotFromVenus:How would you feel if GF only wants U to marry juz for sex? -
The whole problem is , the more he believes he is mentally disordered the more he is afraid to socialize.Originally posted by BrUtUs:if u tat gal, how will u feel if ur bf jz wan u for sex? duno wtf u talking abt...
i was jz referring tat he should go get a pros since he wanted sex... if he wans love then of course he can go get his girl.... tats all.
Getting a Pro for him might make matters worse , coz it might hurt him (self-esteem) further. -
Don't go too often. Will be addicted. Beware of HIV. One time happiness. whole life regret.
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McCondom Double.
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it is immoral to visit a prostitute...
i look down on guys who do that....
i cant stand it when guys treat women like object.....
whank n pay money........ BUT WHO IS GONA BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY PREGNANCY CASES !! m mot forggeting std...
Those girls there are human too lors...... i knw some are willing prostitutes....some arent....... and there are men out there who DONT use condoms! worst still condom broke.
they just shoot inside...pay money and bye bye liaos.......who cares about wat happens nxt!
those girls there have to go thru hell....from abortions to birth control pills and everything..who understands their pain?
i just feel sorry for them.
if u cant get urself a gf...must u USE a woman!
if u wan a gf...so many other ways to improve...why must die die go prostitution?
learn to be more outgoing...join activities....enlarge ur social circle..pick up communication skills ( there are workshops)... pick a new course..get to know more pple...... eventually u will find some one for urself....
and i can assure u ........ girls most of hte time dont like guys to find prostitute de....... -
most?Originally posted by babyreyes:
it is immoral to visit a prostitute...
i look down on guys who do that....
i cant stand it when guys treat women like object.....
whank n pay money........ BUT WHO IS GONA BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY PREGNANCY CASES !! m mot forggeting std...
Those girls there are human too lors...... i knw some are willing prostitutes....some arent....... and there are men out there who DONT use condoms! worst still condom broke.
they just shoot inside...pay money and bye bye liaos.......who cares about wat happens nxt!
those girls there have to go thru hell....from abortions to birth control pills and everything..who understands their pain?
i just feel sorry for them.
if u cant get urself a gf...must u USE a woman!
if u wan a gf...so many other ways to improve...why must die die go prostitution?
learn to be more outgoing...join activities....enlarge ur social circle..pick up communication skills ( there are workshops)... pick a new course..get to know more pple...... eventually u will find some one for urself....
and i can assure u ........ girls most of the time dont like guys to find prostitute de.......
ALL the time! -
What about women who look for gigolo ?Originally posted by babyreyes:
it is immoral to visit a prostitute...
i look down on guys who do that....
i cant stand it when guys treat women like object.....
whank n pay money........ BUT WHO IS GONA BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY PREGNANCY CASES !! m mot forggeting std...
Those girls there are human too lors...... i knw some are willing prostitutes....some arent....... and there are men out there who DONT use condoms! worst still condom broke.
they just shoot inside...pay money and bye bye liaos.......who cares about wat happens nxt!
those girls there have to go thru hell....from abortions to birth control pills and everything..who understands their pain?
i just feel sorry for them.
if u cant get urself a gf...must u USE a woman!
if u wan a gf...so many other ways to improve...why must die die go prostitution?
learn to be more outgoing...join activities....enlarge ur social circle..pick up communication skills ( there are workshops)... pick a new course..get to know more pple...... eventually u will find some one for urself....
and i can assure u ........ girls most of hte time dont like guys to find prostitute de....... -
according to marxist theory, morality is an arbitary social construct designed by the bourgeoisie to further oppress the proletariat ...
it most often manifest itself through religious dogma. Religion, is, of course, another mechanism for social control and the opium of mankind ...
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lol!Originally posted by killstyle:you are monk material. really. just liek me
me im wu chen tao zhang -the monk without dust.
want to practice kong fu together? come, we go gym.
im oso monk material
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+ dam uglyOriginally posted by NotFromVenus:cannot lah she is
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shldnt even go to those kind of placesOriginally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:Don't go too often. Will be addicted. Beware of HIV. One time happiness. whole life regret. -
Originally posted by olala:+ dam ugly
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visit only wat...tok cok sing song...what's so immoral?
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Do you have any personal friends who have experience of prostitution?Originally posted by babyreyes:
it is immoral to visit a prostitute...
i look down on guys who do that....
i cant stand it when guys treat women like object.....
whank n pay money........ BUT WHO IS GONA BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY PREGNANCY CASES !! m mot forggeting std...
Those girls there are human too lors...... i knw some are willing prostitutes....some arent....... and there are men out there who DONT use condoms! worst still condom broke.
they just shoot inside...pay money and bye bye liaos.......who cares about wat happens nxt!
those girls there have to go thru hell....from abortions to birth control pills and everything..who understands their pain?
i just feel sorry for them.
if u cant get urself a gf...must u USE a woman!
if u wan a gf...so many other ways to improve...why must die die go prostitution?
learn to be more outgoing...join activities....enlarge ur social circle..pick up communication skills ( there are workshops)... pick a new course..get to know more pple...... eventually u will find some one for urself....
and i can assure u ........ girls most of hte time dont like guys to find prostitute de.......
What you've mentioned, most were not the standard procedures of the sex industry.
Cheers -
Originally posted by outofcontrol225:I am 26 years old and I have never touched a woman before. Never dated, never kissed and never even held the hands of a woman. Basically, it's because of my social anxiety disorder. I used to think that visiting prostitutes is an immoral activity, but ever since my diagnosis, I have drastically changed this view over the past few months. Seriously, I'm considering visiting a prostitute as I can't see myself ever having any kind of fruitful relationship with a woman in the near future. Is it really that sinful? It is legal and I am not a religious person. So, what do you think?
I don't think anyone came close in addressing his problem (other than fudgester); I don't think the issue is regarding the moralistic/religious view of prostitutions, rather it is about him and his failure with female/relationship.
Visiting a prostitute because you cannot see yourself ever having any kind of fruitful relationship with a woman in the near future? Then pray tell me how is 'visiting prostitute' going to solve this problem at all? About you having the inability to seek for fruitful relationships.
In fact, you are succumbing to Mars' temptation of lust and deranging animalistic instinct.
You must understand that paying for such service to satisfy Mars' animalistic desire may not be wrong, but it isn't exactly something glamorous. Worst still, if you are addicted to such paying service, it will surely affect your relationship/mindset/attitude/etc with member of the opposite gender as frequent visits will gradually change the way you perceive women and sex.
And how do you reckon that it would assist you to reduce anxiety with woman? I am almost sure that in the end, you still cannot communicate and handle women. Worst, you would be likely to prefer women in this ‘new world’ instead, where all you need is to employ money and these slatterns could give you the ‘confidence’ you need as a man.
There is no rejectionÂ…no fearÂ… no need for personalityÂ… looksÂ… or anything other than cash, which will probably reduce your anxiety when you are around their presence, but certainly not to the women you meet outside this line.
I am against prostitution not because of moral grounds, but because I personally know someone who works in this industry and it saddens me to understand the kind of things man do to her... which, to me, is classified as blatant violence.
Although I did what I could, but yunhaier is not God. I cannot eliminate karma and I cannot tamper with freewill.
*** If you desire fulfilling relationship, then work yourself towards a better chance at having one, than mundane decisions that probably bring you closer to screwing up your life.
Exercise wisdom, not blind decision.
Cheers -
--> Ladies... wanna meet some nerdy hunks??? Click here now!!! <--Originally posted by outofcontrol225:I am 26 years old and I have never touched a woman before. Never dated, never kissed and never even held the hands of a woman. Basically, it's because of my social anxiety disorder. I used to think that visiting prostitutes is an immoral activity, but ever since my diagnosis, I have drastically changed this view over the past few months. Seriously, I'm considering visiting a prostitute as I can't see myself ever having any kind of fruitful relationship with a woman in the near future. Is it really that sinful? It is legal and I am not a religious person. So, what do you think? -
Ja, it is immoral.Originally posted by outofcontrol225:I am 26 years old and I have never touched a woman before. Never dated, never kissed and never even held the hands of a woman. Basically, it's because of my social anxiety disorder. I used to think that visiting prostitutes is an immoral activity, but ever since my diagnosis, I have drastically changed this view over the past few months. Seriously, I'm considering visiting a prostitute as I can't see myself ever having any kind of fruitful relationship with a woman in the near future. Is it really that sinful? It is legal and I am not a religious person. So, what do you think?
You better off by curing your social anxiety instead. -
no finance, no romance.
yday me and my friends drove ard the lorongs of geylang.. wrong or not??
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Like how.....Originally posted by Bontakun:Its more of a moral thing. Cant be taken lightly. May have a long term effect. kenna addicted ar
Its personal to every individual.......seriously if your single why not? you dn't owe anyone an explanation for it?
It's a contract for service.......of coz go to the legalised one lah, kenna caught....erm u decide lah hor 26yrs old can think liao lah -
Hi outofcontrol, My 2cents worth of assumption & opinion...
Must be tough on you siah... What's worse is knowing that those around you, and even people who're 10 years younger, have tried the "forbidden fruit"... You may even worry that next time your gf may be disappointed at your inexperience in sex blah blah... since you're well pass the age of social acknowlegement of "first timers"... aiye... "Loser" may be the word to describe many males that fall under this category by females.. I can understand your pressure. I believe you did consider many factors before coming to this thought of visiting prostitutes...
IMO, alot of people despise those paying for sex... but look around you.. ONS is happening everywhere in SG too... Just check out the night spots in SG & you'll know... Males & females alike... Only difference is that the ONS is "free".. but not necessary STD free.. At least prostitutes have regular checkups.. LOL Yet I don't always hear the same condemnation on ONS...
Morals aside. Society has already eroded far enough, there's no need for more hypocrisy on my part... It's the 21st century, You're not religious, You're single, You have your urge, You don't owe anybody an answer. If you STRONGLY feel that it's a step towards breaking your stigma, I respect your decision. It's politically correct to advise you against it but, you're old enough to decide and face any consequences. Life's always a learning experience...
I wish you all the best in whatever decision you made! & may all lonely souls out there find their sincerest other soon without resorting to extreme measures to quench their longing thirst... aiye...
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My advice is do not visit the prostitute when you're at this state of mind. It is similar to getting into another relationship after you just broke up. The state of mind is wrong. Morality aside.
If you really want to resolve your problem, go join some activities or arrange to meet with your friends more often. You can also go do some charitable work.