My painful Traumatic...What did girls actually want?
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hm...sometimes i wonder why am i the only one flamed when certain others holds the same view as me
i say its more of biasness and personal grudges -
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LOL How encouraging
Originally posted by Bontakun:
Just a simple note to all those who have questions on things relating to gals (SG or others): Be patient, be kind, try NOT to be self-seeking (though this one is hard) and never fail to give up.[/b] -
Even if one has the looks, charm and money plus gd character and heart, he may still not get the girl he likes. Lets not forget something called 'chemistry'.Originally posted by browniebaobao:wrong.
one can have the looks, charm and money.
but he might not be able to get the girl he likes if he dun have a gd character or heart.
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uh um... im dating a guy earning 30% less than me, and he does not drive. umm... yes, i'm attractive and most of my other suitors drive, some drive luxurious cars while others sports cars. but i choose my current boyfriend becos of chemistry. Money is important, but is not everything.Originally posted by 0lala:hello?
a freakin disgrace?so much guys are having a hard time to accomodate with what our local gals want
are u a gal or a guy?
no im not making offensive remarks
but now if ur working and ur the guy is earn mayb 1.5k,not driving ur average sedans but a van/lorry or bicycle,wuld u consider him?
if u say yes,i believe and i hope that its true
if its not,the edvidence is already pointing towards u yea?
the local gals have their standard of requriement now la
If local gals was as good as ur parents generation,there wuldnt be an influx of local guys seeking oversea brides
Oh yes, im a singapore gal. have i proof your paranoia wrong, mr olala? -
My dear young friend, efforts is no doubt a important ingredient in a good relationship, lets not forget the pre-requisite of a good relationship, ie the right person.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:l used to think if l put in effort and try my best in doing things...it will be okie..
but sad to say...the world we are living now...is not
There are many ugly realities and facts that u hav to face it... u hav
the among factors that l say earlier...u have the upperhand.. -
No need to prove it bcuz i already said that good sg gals are nt extinct in sg and ur bf is one fortunate guyOriginally posted by blu_sky:uh um... im dating a guy earning 30% less than me, and he does not drive. umm... yes, i'm attractive and most of my other suitors drive, some drive luxurious cars while others sports cars. but i choose my current boyfriend becos of chemistry. Money is important, but is not everything.
Oh yes, im a singapore gal. have i proof your paranoia wrong, mr olala?
however i wun wanan risk heartbreaks by attempting to fish the rare ones -
ya right.Originally posted by blu_sky:Even if one has the looks, charm and money plus gd character and heart, he may still not get the girl he likes. Lets not forget something called 'chemistry'. -
Originally posted by 0lala:No need to prove it bcuz i already said that good sg gals are nt extinct in sg and ur bf is one fortunate guy
however i wun wanan risk heartbreaks by attempting to fish the rare ones
Just waiting when you'll eat your own words. -
Originally posted by missqi:the biggest probable reason why u have nv gotten into an r/s before is because nobody wants you.
That persona attack. He is juz voicing his view. No matter u guys can take it or not he have his rite to voice out his comment and do not deserve to be attack personally.
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thats y i said shes a load of bulls
she claims to be pointing at my nonsensical post only?
and heres the personal attack
and wow i didnt know that voicing one opinion and views is considered nonenses
nvm la this gal die die spoilt brat one la
u dun see her providing any advices b4 nor stating any points which have ground for discussion
I SHOULD ASK THE MASS TO SEARCH THRO HER POST MAN
ONLY +1 POST and vulgarities to antagonise ppl
O wait..
this post redundant cuz she says i fail maths and humans so i'm in no position to talk
her influential and only right thats the mindset deemed by herself -
[quote]Originally posted by Simpleheat:
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LOL... Please don stereotype all sg gal just becos of one of yr bad incident! I sometimes laugh at some sg guy who went pub and disco in search of gf and lifetime partner cos their social circle is small and little chance of contacting opposite sex. They expect to find good gal in that place? Yes...if might be but chances are very LOW!!! If u get to know a ger from pub who is a ah lian,demanding and unresonable. Don't blame all sg gal are bad and why yr r/s turns that!
As for the thread starter,why in the first place u like a gal like that? Scold u for no reason??? Don't tell me in the first 3 months,she totally never show any sign of immaturity,unreasonableness and she is yr perfect angel who gives in everything to you. Plus a very kind-hearted gal. Suddenly after 3months ,she can just make a 180 degree turn and change into a devil?
What u like her and make her court her in the first place? Is it just becos she is one of the pretty gal with a hot body? I personally believe what u get is what u sow. She may find her damm pretty and totally forget abt looking carefully abt her character before making the first move on her! This is also one of the fatal mistakes of many sg guy! Who court a gal purely on her look first( cos maybe they can show off her to friends or can be a pure pleasure on bed)
I believe if you understand enough before making a move on her as yr ger. You will save yr self a lot of painful memory. Btw,if i ever encounter such unreasonable ger in the first place,I will have break with her within a week. Yr failure to have a rationale and sounded minded makes u totally blinded in this r/s until you reach the stage of cannot withstand it before break off is also a part of yr fault in this painful r/s. Don put the blame entirely on the other side. Do some soul searching and improve on yr next r/s. Open y r Big Big eyes before u plunge in the love river again
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You mean antogonise?Originally posted by 0lala:are u trying to antangonised me or what?
stop blabbering here,if u wanna talk wise then type else juz st uf
yea continue
If u wan a slap
This is a forum.
If trash like you can blabber here, why can't I come in here?
I am talking sense, which unfortunately senseless people like you do not recognize.
Oh yes, I want a slap.
Come and give me one then.
and what sense have u been talking?
they only sense that is abound is u justifying ur rights to shoot me down
eh fair la...qoute and copy one!juz one post from ur history post and let the mass sees if its something of intellectual discussion
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How to justify which type of gers is good which type is bad Good= listen to your command and never say NO?? Bad = Defy wadever u say and agitated u everyday?? We all here cant define who is good who is bad caz we do not know the exact reason behind.
As for the threatstarter,i do have my fair share of sour r/s. At the end of the day, no point scratching head and ask wad's wrong?? Often or most of the time as most wll agreed here.. We guys are most of the time at fault.. A 'Bad' ger which some label as will tell u all sort of lame reason etc, u r not rich enuf, got no car, no tme for her blah blah blah. While those 'good' ger will tell u, i am still young i wan to study, i wan to concentrate on my career, i am not good enuf for u blah blah..
No point wasting time and standstill trying to figure out wad wrong, juz tell urself whether they are good/bad ger as most have mention, it is their lost for not having u as their BF. Look fwd and carry on with life.. -
eh oldbandit...so lao liao..y still junior?
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hehehe. New bird here mahOriginally posted by 0lala:eh oldbandit...so lao liao..y still junior? -
but ur name says old!!!
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Originally posted by 0lala:but ur name says old!!!
Let juz put it as oldman learning new tricks
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1) we wun noe if u're really attractiveOriginally posted by blu_sky:uh um... im dating a guy earning 30% less than me, and he does not drive. umm... yes, i'm attractive and most of my other suitors drive, some drive luxurious cars while others sports cars. but i choose my current boyfriend becos of chemistry. Money is important, but is not everything.
Oh yes, im a singapore gal. have i proof your paranoia wrong, mr olala?
2) we wun noe if u gotch other suitors and how many
3) we wun noe if the bf u dating now is serious, for fun, short term or ish a veri handsome boy.
NOT flaming u man! just stating the facts. u can't use urself as empirical evidence on a forum cause u can pretty much write anything. -
That's why been a man, dont too stupid..
Maintain a relationship just like fishing...
dont pull only... sometime got loosen too... and then pull again..
So the girl dont get bored.. and she think that u're precious..
If u nice for her everytime, then she will Yue Lai Yue Da Dan de..
When she doing something wrong or bad, then she will think that she's so important for u and u will forgive + tolerate her.. -
I see someone has been arguing with himself.
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well i had my fair share of experience of gals, but i just wanna say some gals have motive for their attitude.
if shes treating u very badly maybe she wants u to suggest the break up.
is ok to be hurt, time is the best medicine it will heal all wounds slowly but surely.
and btw guys, SG gals are not that bad, instead i seen a lot of guys who mistreats their g/f. we better take a look at ourself first -
i can only say
Not everything u see is true. -
hmm looks like when u hav a gf....u must need to know alot of things and must know the techniques of fishing...pull and loosen...seems to be kinda tough rite to get into a r/s? whereas single...dun reali hav to think or do anything...
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Love is not blinded...if one day yr parnter becos of greed,broke the law or killed someone,will you still consider together with this type of person? For me is ' NO' ,if u continue with this type of person, u r foolish. At the end of the day,kena hurt by her. Don't come here and whip whip and complain. Cos u r stupid!Originally posted by oldbandit:[quote]Originally posted by Simpleheat:
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LOL... Please don stereotype all sg gal just becos of one of yr bad incident! I sometimes laugh at some sg guy who went pub and disco in search of gf and lifetime partner cos their social circle is small and little chance of contacting opposite sex. They expect to find good gal in that place? Yes...if might be but chances are very LOW!!! If u get to know a ger from pub who is a ah lian,demanding and unresonable. Don't blame all sg gal are bad and why yr r/s turns that!
As for the thread starter,why in the first place u like a gal like that? Scold u for no reason??? Don't tell me in the first 3 months,she totally never show any sign of immaturity,unreasonableness and she is yr perfect angel who gives in everything to you. Plus a very kind-hearted gal. Suddenly after 3months ,she can just make a 180 degree turn and change into a devil?
What u like her and make her court her in the first place? Is it just becos she is one of the pretty gal with a hot body? I personally believe what u get is what u sow. She may find her damm pretty and totally forget abt looking carefully abt her character before making the first move on her! This is also one of the fatal mistakes of many sg guy! Who court a gal purely on her look first( cos maybe they can show off her to friends or can be a pure pleasure on bed)
I believe if you understand enough before making a move on her as yr ger. You will save yr self a lot of painful memory. Btw,if i ever encounter such unreasonable ger in the first place,I will have break with her within a week. Yr failure to have a rationale and sounded minded makes u totally blinded in this r/s until you reach the stage of cannot withstand it before break off is also a part of yr fault in this painful r/s. Don put the blame entirely on the other side. Do some soul searching and improve on yr next r/s. Open y r Big Big eyes before u plunge in the love river again
Love is blind