GF seeing her ex bf
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hmm.. the content?? some mushy stuffs... yea.. maybe my mistake for starting a r/s wit her without being sure tat she had left him... i thought she has already done so, so i didnt care much... sigh... big mistake...Originally posted by dokono:what are the contents? of cos she denies haha.. she wun dare to tell u straight in the face.. The thing is, u shd be aware of the ex bf in the 1st place before u commit...mistake!
no worries... dun let it affect you. any insecurity u show will be a turn off to her. just stay cool dude.
U dun ask her abt the ex-bf any more. U just ask her to settle everything with her ex-bf then come and find you when she is ready?
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for me i will dump her once i check the sms.the sms itself holds evidence and hey dun talk about trust in r/s la,in the end lose out will b u.trust me,from my past experience.
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the moral of the story is: girls can be with you but that doesn't mean they really love you. One moment they treat u cold and the next moment they treat you warm.Originally posted by black.S:for me i will dump her once i check the sms.the sms itself holds evidence and hey dun talk about trust in r/s la,in the end lose out will b u.trust me,from my past experience. -
that girl sure still got feeling with his ex bf,and high chance the baby not his.Take it for urself,if ur ex-gf(very chio one) still got feeling towards her,ask for sex,most pple sure whack one wat.
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sigh... they even called each other mushy names... n i dun even do tat 2 her!! when i confronted her... she said i'm the 1 she loved most among her exes n other stuffs... i felt so fake hearing that...
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yeah yeah she can say whatever she wants. Ask her to show it to u thru her actions, not with words.Originally posted by salvox:sigh... they even called each other mushy names... n i dun even do tat 2 her!! when i confronted her... she said i'm the 1 she loved most among her exes n other stuffs... i felt so fake hearing that...
listen guy: this girl has no integrity. every action she makes shows no intimacy on her part. there's a thing called lip-service whereby the person just say nice things to make u feel happy. Girls are naturals at it. Too many nice guys are like that. I hate to see nice guys like that. Can nice guys be stronger for once? -
Depending on ur age.. which is a critical factor in my suggestion,Originally posted by salvox:sigh... they even called each other mushy names... n i dun even do tat 2 her!! when i confronted her... she said i'm the 1 she loved most among her exes n other stuffs... i felt so fake hearing that...
i suggest that to sit down with her to talk and work out about your future together.
if both of u dont see a common goal or future together, or have doubts that both of u might be together for this long.
dun waste time..
Cos u wont be together for long too.
my opinon here~
cheers~ -
THQ: First of all, you have a very smug attitude. Don't think having money means you own the world. The truth is, money owns you. So LEARN to have more humility. Things like "I care for her so much but she waste my time" just goes to show how selfish, arrogant, et cetera, you are.
But I digress. I suggest you have a nice talk with your girlfriend. Calm down, have a nice talk about your doubts. If you think she cannot give you a satisfying answer:
1. Probe deeper. If you have $1000 notes to THROW at her, please take that note you are about to throw, and hire a PI. Solid evidence. No need to worry, think, crap anymore.
2. Ask her again, telling her how you feel. If she still cannot give you a satisfying answer, then too bad. Abort the baby. Why The baby, whether innocent or not, will be born under an environment full of violence. THQ's family deals with illegal businesses; I reasonably presume violence is a daily element. And no, we don't need another hooligan on the streets; we have enough already.
salvox: If she can lie blatantly in your face and you saw her with your eyes, then please, stop cheating yourself, and stop defying her her rights to engage in sexual activities with her so-called EX-boyfriend. -
Originally posted by binarynwitz:
hmmm... my age?? i'm 20 and she's 19... her ex.. 25 i think.. maybe coz he has a secured job tats y it makes her wan 2 cling on 2 him?? i'm not sure about tat...
salvox: If she can lie blatantly in your face and you saw her with your eyes, then please, stop cheating yourself, and stop defying her her rights to engage in sexual activities with her so-called EX-boyfriend.[/b]
i havent engage in any sexual activities wit her before.. just some kissin n huggin n some petting... and she claims tat she's still a virgin... but i dunno whether she had any sexual activities wit her ex or not la... -
As much as i do empathise with your predicament, and i do agree that your gf is highly suspicious, what she has done does not mean that she had fark her ex. So please do not imagine things and make false accusation.Originally posted by THG:Either way, the child cannot be born. I never fool around outside at all when I'm with her. I stay faithful but infact it's her. Nowdays, girls are the one going out to get fark by guys not guys go out fark girls
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What do you think a man and a woman can be doin in his house for a few hours? Chatting with his parents for so many hours?Originally posted by salvox:i was like WTF?? soon she came out n went into his car.. so i followed them from a distance n see where they were goin.. they went 2 his house!! from 11am till 6pm!!! when she got bk, i confronted her and she told me she went 2 his house 2 see his mom!! she said tat his mom wanted 2 see her... WTF??
after tat she occasionally goes 2 his house like maybe 1 or 2 times a month... i know this because his house and my house is quite near, so i always pass by his house n saw his car there... this thing happened for more den a year...
recently, i found out tat she's still 2gather wit her ex!! i dunno izit my fault 2 "steal" her away from him in the 1st place or izit anybody elses fault?? sigh...
If she knows that you are well aware that she is lying through her teeth, and yet you can buy it, be prepared for more lies. And yes, more blatant lies.
If you want others to respect you, respect yourself. She is not the only one lying to you, for you are lying to yourself too.
Zi qi qi ren.
Heed Dokono's advice, be strong. Make her show her feelings to you through actions, not cheap talks.
If she cant, cut loss.
Yes, this is coming from a gal.
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Abortion
Mommy, I am only 8 inches long, but I have all
my organs. I love the sound of your voice.
Every
time I hear it, I wave my arms and legs. The
sound of your heart beat is my favorite lullaby.
Month Two
Mommy, today I learned how to suck my
thumb. If
you could see me, you could definitely tell that
I
am a baby. I'm not big enough to survive
outside
my home though. It is so nice and warm in
here.
Month Three
You know what Mommy, I'm a boy!! I hope that
makes you happy. I always want you to be
happy.
I don't like it when you cry. You sound so sad.
It
makes me sad too, and I cry with you even
though
you can't hear me.
Month Four
Mommy, my hair is starting to grow. It is very
short and fine, but I will have a lot of it. I
spend a
lot of my time exercising. I can turn my head
and
curl my fingers and toes, and stretch my
arms and
legs. I am becoming quite good at it too.
Month Five
You went to the doctor today. Mommy, he lied
to
you. He said that I'm not a baby. I am a baby
Mommy, your baby. I think and feel. Mommy,
what's abortion?
Month Six
I can hear that doctor again. I don't like him.
He
seems cold and heartless. Something is
intruding
my home. The doctor called it a needle.
Mommy
what is it? It burns! Please make him stop! I
can't get away from it! Mommy! HELP me!
Month Seven
Mommy, I am okay. I am in Jesus's arms. He
is
holding me. He told me about abortion. Why
didn't
you want me Mommy?
Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped. Two more
eyes
that will never see. Two more hands that will
never
touch. Two more legs that will never run. One
more mouth that will never speak -
these words above are words that are made up to make one feel guilty and abort the thought of going abortion. How can a baby be thinking like that when it is so small and young?Originally posted by salvox:Abortion
Mommy, I am only 8 inches long, but I have all
my organs. I love the sound of your voice.
Every
time I hear it, I wave my arms and legs. The
sound of your heart beat is my favorite lullaby.
Month Two
Mommy, today I learned how to suck my
thumb. If
you could see me, you could definitely tell that
I
am a baby. I'm not big enough to survive
outside
my home though. It is so nice and warm in
here.
Month Three
You know what Mommy, I'm a boy!! I hope that
makes you happy. I always want you to be
happy.
I don't like it when you cry. You sound so sad.
It
makes me sad too, and I cry with you even
though
you can't hear me.
Month Four
Mommy, my hair is starting to grow. It is very
short and fine, but I will have a lot of it. I
spend a
lot of my time exercising. I can turn my head
and
curl my fingers and toes, and stretch my
arms and
legs. I am becoming quite good at it too.
Month Five
You went to the doctor today. Mommy, he lied
to
you. He said that I'm not a baby. I am a baby
Mommy, your baby. I think and feel. Mommy,
what's abortion?
Month Six
I can hear that doctor again. I don't like him.
He
seems cold and heartless. Something is
intruding
my home. The doctor called it a needle.
Mommy
what is it? It burns! Please make him stop! I
can't get away from it! Mommy! HELP me!
Month Seven
Mommy, I am okay. I am in Jesus's arms. He
is
holding me. He told me about abortion. Why
didn't
you want me Mommy?
Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped. Two more
eyes
that will never see. Two more hands that will
never
touch. Two more legs that will never run. One
more mouth that will never speak
Anywayz, i called her and still finding excuse why she wants to see her ex bf. I broke off with her already. -
OMG.
U already break off wif her ???
Ehmm then what did she say (about why u want break,her ex'bf,baby) ???
How bout the result DNA ???
What i want to say is everything need thinking before do...
PLease dont do something that can make u regret in this life.. -
We all have regrets in life.Originally posted by wenle:OMG.
U already break off wif her ???
Ehmm then what did she say (about why u want break,her ex'bf,baby) ???
How bout the result DNA ???
What i want to say is everything need thinking before do...
PLease dont do something that can make u regret in this life..
Regrets are lessons which we learn, for better or worse.
His decisions are pricey. But it's his decision afterall.
Cheers -
Wtf? y u broke off so sudden? I hope u r nt doing it coz u r pressurized by all these ppl in this forum..If u fell tat u need her then i think its 2 late coz 2 hearts are already broken..
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Did she try to cling onto you when you two broke off? Did she beg?
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punch her in the kidneys. oh wait she's pregnant rite? give her a good kick on her knees and get the truth out, that two-timing cunt! some women just asking for it
even better, give her a black eye or two for memories sake -
Ppl give u advise u don't listen....Originally posted by THG:these words above are words that are made up to make one feel guilty and abort the thought of going abortion. How can a baby be thinking like that when it is so small and young?
Anywayz, i called her and still finding excuse why she wants to see her ex bf. I broke off with her already.
then why start a thread here??? -
I think it is just a place for him to rant. Vent out his frustration.Originally posted by spycampers:Ppl give u advise u don't listen....
then why start a thread here??? -
Haiz..
and I think he already had a rough idea of what he intend to do before starting the thread.
And why your stories all halfway one? no head no tail. it's like we have not been told the full story you know. -
Great... a girl we can learn from... an example of a girl who actually spares a thought for the man's heart.Originally posted by galfriend:What do you think a man and a woman can be doin in his house for a few hours? Chatting with his parents for so many hours?
If she knows that you are well aware that she is lying through her teeth, and yet you can buy it, be prepared for more lies. And yes, more blatant lies.
If you want others to respect you, respect yourself. She is not the only one lying to you, for you are lying to yourself too.
Zi qi qi ren.
Heed Dokono's advice, be strong. Make her show her feelings to you through actions, not cheap talks.
If she cant, cut loss.
Yes, this is coming from a gal.
Good luck and take care.
Personally, I would not encourage the baby to be aborted because it is simply not fair to both mother and child. -
no...respect women. Love cannot be forced. If the woman doesnt love u at all, it's best to let her go.Originally posted by boredtulan:punch her in the kidneys. oh wait she's pregnant rite? give her a good kick on her knees and get the truth out, that two-timing cunt! some women just asking for it
even better, give her a black eye or two for memories sake -
actually the same applies to men, aint it? if you allow a man to treat you like doormat, can you later blame him for treating you like doormat?Originally posted by dokono:Great... a girl we can learn from... an example of a girl who actually spares a thought for the man's heart.
Personally, I would not encourage the baby to be aborted because it is simply not fair to both mother and child.
Respect yourself, others will then respect you. If he/she still doesnt respect you, leave. -
sometimes, wad we need are chances after all...
IMO, u shld have given her a chance. Anyway wad done is done, we cant
change the past...so forgive her for meeting up with her ex.
Secondly, ask her not to contact him again, if not den maybe den u decide wad to do.
The baby's life is innocent, theres so many childless couples out there waiting to have a child. If the DNA results proved that the child is not yours, make sure that its the EX who's going to bring the child up.
If not, its ur f**king responsibility dude!
Sit down face to face den talk, theres no use getting angry and running away from the problem. SOLVE IT!