Looking at strangers, who look back
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I think you must be a handsome guy, no need you to get their numbers, wait for them to come and ask you for your phone number, lol...Originally posted by _Aaron_:As i take the buses and trains, and rest my eyes occasionally at the ladies that somehow manage to hold my gaze, i'm somehow confused as to what i should do, when one of them looks back at me.
I usually hold the gaze for a while longer, before breaking off.
I remember once i had this 'staring session' with this girl, who eventually got a seat 2 spaces away, she could have sat beside me but she didn't.
I'm assuming that she just thinks i'm being rude here.
Then there's this situation in the bus, where i caught a girl in a group of 4 looking at me.
I was kinda surprised when she looked over, and i held her gaze for only moments before i returned to my game. When i realised that she's still looking, i started to get a bit self-conscious, and then looked over for a bit.
Hmm, i was a bit too stunned to smile back, if you get what i mean.
And also, just this morning, i caught a glimps of this young lady as i was making my way to the back of the bus, she did look over once, and once more when she was leaving the bus.
These are the isolated incidents i remember.
Guys and girls, i could use some advice.
What do you think i should do the next time this happens?
Do you think the chances of me getting their numbers would be high? That is, if i could ever muster the courage to walk over and ask that is.
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try to smile at her. got one time there's a xmm looking at me, alighting bus also look at me, i told myself to smile to her but i jus couldn't.. hahahOriginally posted by _Aaron_:As i take the buses and trains, and rest my eyes occasionally at the ladies that somehow manage to hold my gaze, i'm somehow confused as to what i should do, when one of them looks back at me.
I usually hold the gaze for a while longer, before breaking off.
I remember once i had this 'staring session' with this girl, who eventually got a seat 2 spaces away, she could have sat beside me but she didn't.
I'm assuming that she just thinks i'm being rude here.
Then there's this situation in the bus, where i caught a girl in a group of 4 looking at me.
I was kinda surprised when she looked over, and i held her gaze for only moments before i returned to my game. When i realised that she's still looking, i started to get a bit self-conscious, and then looked over for a bit.
Hmm, i was a bit too stunned to smile back, if you get what i mean.
And also, just this morning, i caught a glimps of this young lady as i was making my way to the back of the bus, she did look over once, and once more when she was leaving the bus.
These are the isolated incidents i remember.
Guys and girls, i could use some advice.
What do you think i should do the next time this happens?
Do you think the chances of me getting their numbers would be high? That is, if i could ever muster the courage to walk over and ask that is.
constructive comments welcome..~ -
I will be too shy to smile back...
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if i had 2 get phone numbers every time a girl looks at me, i think Singtel will be the happiest phone company in the world liao
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Next time, just whip out your phone and pretend someone sms you or sth. Helps you break the attention.
but is not as bad when they suddenly waved and say HI.. but ur like kuku staring back at them, then they will go 'Oh, I thought you're a friend of mine' and look away embarassed. -
lol.. just tell then straight: yes???
or ' diao si mi?' or Stare bek till she dun dare to look at you.
or just go up to her and make the 1st move la. -
Ah hem......it's "lian", not "nian". Did u fail hanyu pinyin in sch?Originally posted by Haoz30:scarly u have the same prob like me
I always get a lot of looks and stares 1... only when I started working I realised why. A lot of pple say I look like Jay Chou
..... and some say I look like Wu Zong Xian... this fren that fren blah blah blah... Then i realised what happened...
Basket lah! I got the "Da Zhong Nian" meaning my face look like a lot of pple hahah... maybe pple look at u also think u look like super star leh? 
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did you check your zip?Originally posted by _Aaron_:As i take the buses and trains, and rest my eyes occasionally at the ladies that somehow manage to hold my gaze, i'm somehow confused as to what i should do, when one of them looks back at me.
I usually hold the gaze for a while longer, before breaking off.
I remember once i had this 'staring session' with this girl, who eventually got a seat 2 spaces away, she could have sat beside me but she didn't.
I'm assuming that she just thinks i'm being rude here.
Then there's this situation in the bus, where i caught a girl in a group of 4 looking at me.
I was kinda surprised when she looked over, and i held her gaze for only moments before i returned to my game. When i realised that she's still looking, i started to get a bit self-conscious, and then looked over for a bit.
Hmm, i was a bit too stunned to smile back, if you get what i mean.
And also, just this morning, i caught a glimps of this young lady as i was making my way to the back of the bus, she did look over once, and once more when she was leaving the bus.
These are the isolated incidents i remember.
Guys and girls, i could use some advice.
What do you think i should do the next time this happens?
Do you think the chances of me getting their numbers would be high? That is, if i could ever muster the courage to walk over and ask that is.
constructive comments welcome..~ -
Originally posted by dragg:did you check your zip?
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ok u wait....Originally posted by udontknowme:
no need. you just pay for my airticket can already
i oni ask for ecomony seat. no need business. no need first class
then i will treat you to dinner
wait long long also dun have. -
i know u lah, u are straight de, unlike ah lau.Originally posted by Patrik:How u know i not brokeback??? -
i miss the days when these kind of things happen, its fun isnt it?
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I once have this problem that I stare at people and they stare back and after a while, i just drop off and do my things.
later, I realised in a documentary that this is a confidence problem.
for people who lacks this, they will feel this often.
so up to you.. -
I think its part of asian society where looking for longer momments is considered rude.
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:i know u lah, u are straight de, unlike ah lau.
U never know. -
this ish kinky
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Hahaha... no one say i look like superstar before, so i don't think got that problem..Originally posted by Haoz30:scarly u have the same prob like me
I always get a lot of looks and stares 1... only when I started working I realised why. A lot of pple say I look like Jay Chou ..... and some say I look like Wu Zong Xian... this fren that fren blah blah blah... Then i realised what happened...
Basket lah! I got the "Da Zhong Nian" meaning my face look like a lot of pple hahah... maybe pple look at u also think u look like super star leh?
Wait very long liao still no one approach leh.Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:I think you must be a handsome guy, no need you to get their numbers, wait for them to come and ask you for your phone number, lol...
Got smile before, but only once or twice.. most of the time too shy liaoOriginally posted by FBI:try to smile at her. got one time there's a xmm looking at me, alighting bus also look at me, i told myself to smile to her but i jus couldn't.. hahah
Wow, i think i'll scare everyone away... haha.Originally posted by 3strips:lol.. just tell then straight: yes???
or ' diao si mi?' or Stare bek till she dun dare to look at you.
or just go up to her and make the 1st move la.
Later end up gang fight =_=
Always.. always.Originally posted by dragg:did you check your zip?
?? Confidence problem? I don't quite get it.. Are you trying to say i lack confidence?Originally posted by iceFatboy:I once have this problem that I stare at people and they stare back and after a while, i just drop off and do my things.
later, I realised in a documentary that this is a confidence problem.
for people who lacks this, they will feel this often.
so up to you.. -
Send me ur photo.Originally posted by laurence82:this ish kinky 
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Originally posted by Patrik:Send me ur photo.
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nice photo of urs...Originally posted by laurence82: -
Originally posted by laurence82:
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Guys and girls, i could use some advice.
What do you think i should do the next time this happens?
Do you think the chances of me getting their numbers would be high? That is, if i could ever muster the courage to walk over and ask that is.
constructive comments welcome..~[/b][/quote]
Would you like to PM me your photo? I promise i would give you honest opinions. Maybe u r charming? Gota c to find out. Next time dont be rude, smile your killer smile. Guranteed normal people will react same way, and who knows you will get a date? If she does not reciprocate ur smile, drop her. Wrong vibes oredi....
So.. remember to PM me ur photo ok? -
Got... Oh wait... paiseh dats yr pic I LOOKING at...Originally posted by missqi:no guys look at me de.....
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You are decent looking from the first impression you gave me. You see how I look. Do I look aggressive to you? No right?Originally posted by _Aaron_:Guys and girls, i could use some advice.
What do you think i should do the next time this happens?
Do you think the chances of me getting their numbers would be high? That is, if i could ever muster the courage to walk over and ask that is.
constructive comments welcome..~
SMILE. Its nth much but it can at least make your day or their day. We do not what they think BUT we DO know what we think. And we are NOT responsible for their actions or behaviour if we smile at them, unless you decided to give the "The People's eyebrow"...... O_o
If they do not recriprocate, what can you do? Smile BIGGER?
Just take note and who knows? Maybe someone may reply in kind and then...
Smile...
