I need help.
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Bf not even ITE. N levels nia. And he refuses to go for O levels. KNN.Originally posted by XciteZ:
i forgot to tell u the top student who got more than 2 medals is from ITE. -
nvm lor. u work hard for ur poly. go to uni, then next time he becomes house hubby cook meals for kids while you go work.
its still a happy family if can work things out like that. -
hahaOriginally posted by XciteZ:nvm lor. u work hard for ur poly. go to uni, then next time he becomes house hubby cook meals for kids while you go work.
its still a happy family if can work things out like that.
not possible.
I NEED A NEW BF.
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i am sorry but why are you the one who need help? You went into this relationship knowing full well that you did not intend to keep this relationship and is not ready to accept the guy.You are in fact looking down on your bf together with your parents,so since you and your parents have the same view in the first place,then why are you bothered with them giving you hell?Just tell them that you infact is playing with the guy and get it over with?With your attitude,i hope no guys ever fall for you.
Sorry if i sound harsh but you really should not play relationship around like this.I have a guy buddy who is under the same case as you,he went into a relationship with a gal with a much higher education thinking that the girl accepted him for who he was and the girl even told him that she did,but in the end,this girl used this as the reason to break up with him,wtf is that?Now my buddy is so devastated that he is drinking himself to sleep everyday and it is cos of gals like you who play around.So you really do deserve at least part of what you are getting now. -
I still feel so much for him no matter what I say. If I didn't feel for him, I WOULD HAVE BROKEN UP WITH HIM.
And it's because of this feeling and the realization that even if i love him, we still wont last, taht's making me nuts and hypocritcal.
I tried going out with other guys, fling, but still. They are not serious. And I can't bring myself to love them like I do to him. -
it takes time to adjust to a new toothbrush.
don't need to find new bf lah, use this one first.
got enough captial then get new one. -
What capital? =.=Originally posted by XciteZ:it takes time to adjust to a new toothbrush.
don't need to find new bf lah, use this one first.
got enough captial then get new one. -
By saying that you are just waiting for a better guy,you have infact already broken up with him in your heart,it is just a matter of whenOriginally posted by Quinsy:I still feel so much for him no matter what I say. If I didn't feel for him, I WOULD HAVE BROKEN UP WITH HIM.
And it's because of this feeling and the realization that even if i love him, we still wont last, taht's making me nuts and hypocritcal.
I tried going out with other guys, fling, but still. They are not serious. And I can't bring myself to love them like I do to him.
You chose this path yourself but you are not prepared to last it out,so since it has to come to this,let just hope that it end fast and your parents will soon leave you alone.Better to settle this fast than to drag it out like my buddy's case drag until 1 year plus then tell the guy that she infact cannot accept him even thou she said she still had feeling for him,in the end it just end up both party having deeper hurt -
time and money.Originally posted by Quinsy:What capital? =.= -
I'm greedy. hor?
His company. His attention. HAIZ.
Someone shoot me. -
wow use this one first?Originally posted by XciteZ:it takes time to adjust to a new toothbrush.
don't need to find new bf lah, use this one first.
got enough captial then get new one.
unless this guy is also infact also just using the threadstarter,then he deserve it,if not you think humans should just be played around with?Use when useful,dump when no use ah? -
BANG BANG BANG!!!Originally posted by Quinsy:I'm greedy. hor?
His company. His attention. HAIZ.
Someone shoot me.
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cos u dunno the guy well.Originally posted by Aveme:wow use this one first?
unless this guy is also infact also just using the threadstarter,then he deserve it,if not you think humans should just be played around with?Use when useful,dump when no use ah?
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k,that is true as well so well i retract that and just hope what the TS is undergoing now will just end soon and well.Originally posted by XciteZ:cos u dunno the guy well. -
Fukin hell a playerOriginally posted by Quinsy:I still feel so much for him no matter what I say. If I didn't feel for him, I WOULD HAVE BROKEN UP WITH HIM.
And it's because of this feeling and the realization that even if i love him, we still wont last, taht's making me nuts and hypocritcal.
I tried going out with other guys, fling, but still. They are not serious. And I can't bring myself to love them like I do to him.
make up ur fuggy mind and stop using ur bf as some reserve to fall back on if u fail to get togetehr with other guys
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Time to sleep and rest well.
Crying won't do anything good. -
hey hey.
i read ur blog.
no matter what the queen bitch says...
stay strong ok.
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you dont NEED a new bf, u WANT a new bf. there's a difference
my bf's parents dont like me either but he's never thought of finding another gf -
theres alot of nice guys in this forums, give them a chance...Originally posted by Quinsy:I'm greedy. hor?
His company. His attention. HAIZ.
Someone shoot me. -
Remember Karma.... It will strike u unaware and when u are at yr weakest point. Pls repent or bear the full consequences!Originally posted by Quinsy:I'm greedy. hor?
His company. His attention. HAIZ.
Someone shoot me. -
Who? You?Originally posted by BrUtUs:theres alot of nice guys in this forums, give them a chance... -
THANKSOriginally posted by missqi:hey hey.
i read ur blog.
no matter what the queen bitch says...
stay strong ok.
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i don't need or want a new bf but more like need something to tell me i still feel for him.Originally posted by kikq:you dont NEED a new bf, u WANT a new bf. there's a difference
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I don't know if I still feel for him or not. But today while he went out till late on his own while I went home early due ot curfew, I realised that I get anxious about him and got pretty worried where he was.
Someone tell me what this means. -
The problem doesn't lie with who HE is... but the uncertainty that you feel about who you are.
You appear to be confused and it has nothing to do with him. You are confused about the TYPE of person you want to be. You are not sure if you can accept his education level over the long term, you are not sure if you can stay with someone who is not ambitious enough to WANT to change his education level, and you are not sure enough of relationships enough in order to stick to one person. The problem doesn't lie with him or your parents at all.
And until you are sure about your value system - which will determine the type of partner you will stick with - then this confusion will remain. How to develop and maintain your value system? Get more friends, and through them gain a wider range of experiences by proxy and you will develop a better sense of what you want in your life and from your life.
As for now, just because you think about someone and care for someone, doesn't mean you need to have him as your bf. In fact, if you like someone enough to CARE deeply for him (and I am not even talking about love), then I think you shd do the decent thing to leave him alone until you sort out yourself.