Living their lives thru others...
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On a 2nd occasion.
Magenta regales me about how there is 2 guy after her. One is a pilot, the other is a businessman. She even sent me pics of the guys. Then after some conjoling, she gave me those guys email addy.
Turns out, that businessman has a messenger and we communicated. All in a friendly style.
Then, as I was leaving for a appointment near his office place. I suggested a coffee meet up. He accepted.
We met and have coffee. Then I turned the topic to Magenta. Here's what he tells me:
No, he never met Magenta.
She found him online and chatted up with him regards to a common interest.
No. he never dated Magenta out and I was the first person that he actually met out for coffee thru online communications.
We then both agree that we will not picha Magenta's story and let her keep her face.
Later Magenta tells me she dump both guys that was after her cos she finds them not suitable. -
On one drinks session with Tiffany. Tiffany mentions that her marriage is on the rocks. She was unhappy with her hubby on several issues (not realted to china woman).
I told her a bit on my story to make her feel better.
On a subsequent drink session, with some new guys. I overheard Tiffany tells them that her marriage is on rocks.....But the reasons is because of China Woman.
Now...I gave her the benefit of the doubt that she might have found out the China Woman problem within the 2 weeks from our earlier drinking session.
So I manage to check with her hubby. And her hubby replies is consistent. Not China Woman problem.
While Tiffany has merely used my story to accentuate her problems, incoporating my stories to her life and trying to gain attention, pity and respect from others.
I cooled off from Tiffany a bit then, cos I was busy with work. Next I know, she finally work out her frustrations with herself and has gone back with her hubby and now live happier. -
Yup. Know a few. In fact, I believe it's a psychological phenomenon?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Known this person recently:
24 year old single chinese male. Accounting Assistant in Singapore. Mother is bankrupt, so is father. Only son.
this young man A. Joins a forum and introduce himself as:
A claims to be a VP of a company. Getting married to a female 8 years his senior. Drives a black Toyota Rav 4.
A was able to tell stories of his high lifestyle, from saying he just scratched his car and how much he was paying for it. Also of stories about his condo, his love for his new wife and how he treats his new wife.
On a subsequent encounter with A's collegue, which I later exchange numbers with. Too many stories did not add up. And A's collegue gave me a call and we compared stories.
Turns out.
A told similar lies to the collegue but of another lifestyle
In most facts, that 'collegue' is the VP of a company, lives in a condo, drives a Black Tucson and has a husband who treat her real well.
What both of us has discovered, is that A has lied about his life, using the lives/experiences of others to make his own.
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Oops!Originally posted by missqi:I know of a 16yr old male in this forum who is like tt also.
Ok.. I admit... I'm imagining that I'm 30, but I'm actually only 16! v
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You just flip off the word schizophrenic while you don't have any idea what it means...Originally posted by Rock^Star:A is either schizophrenic or if not, he has a very very very poor ego...... -
Hmm...
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Wah viciouskitty, so much life experience of people living in the shadow of another huh?
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Yeh go on, correct me in detail...Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:You just flip off the word schizophrenic while you don't have any idea what it means... -
Another person A.
This person is a friend/collegue of someone B.
Now B is having troubles at home with her hub. So occasionally A will cry/confide in B how she hates her hub and her life.
B felt sorry for A, but has no idea how to really advise B.
So A comes to a forum, and post up questions to ask the general public what can be done to help B. And which in turn will help A witht he following intentions: to shake off such a friend or at least make A looks so much wiser then B and will always look towards A for advises and instructions. -
When you are old enough, been thru enough and seen enough.Originally posted by Rock^Star:Wah viciouskitty, so much life experience of people living in the shadow of another huh?
Why not? -
You sure? What if it's just a genuine intention to help....?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Another person A.
This person is a friend/collegue of someone B.
Now B is having troubles at home with her hub. So occasionally A will cry/confide in B how she hates her hub and her life.
B felt sorry for A, but has no idea how to really advise B.
So A comes to a forum, and post up questions to ask the general public what can be done to help B. And which in turn will help A witht he following intentions: to shake off such a friend or at least make A looks so much wiser then B and will always look towards A for advises and instructions.
Looking wiser or not... If done correctly, it's still a help now.. Isn't it?
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This lady H. She has some nephews that are 30+ years old.
One day, One Nephew LKY got intro touble by calling a police hotline and hurling vulgarities.
So the SPF called him up for an interview.
LKY was scared, that he decides to fled to America.
Lady H was told of his intention to flee. So Lady H consults another police neice and the neices tells Lady H that this is no big deal. It will be better if LKY stayed back in SG, go for the interview, apologise and issues will be dropped.
But Lady H didnt want to pass the message cos it makes her look so unglam and not helpful to boost her image as someone who can settle everything. (Lady H has orginally boasted to LKY that she can get somone to 'settle the issue' for LKY.)
So LKY fled to USA. And LKY was homeless, penniless and became a illegal immigrant in USA.
Another relative found LKY in USA and contact that police officer neice, which the police officer neice offers the same advice and which the relative then was able to persuade LKY to return.
LKY has since returned to Singapore and put that issue behind him.
When questioned by police officer neice, the Lady H tries to claim that she didnt pass the advise or the information is because she didnt think it will help LKY.
There are some who arent as geniune in their attempts to help unless it helps themselves. Trust me. I know of such persons aplenty. -
probably bcos he is not leading a life that he desires..
his parents' bankrupcy is a great blow to him and he's running away from reality. Faking up stories and living in his imagination will make him feel better. -
Since, the thread has strayed from "living their lives thru others" to plain braggarts ...
You meet people like that on a daily basis; half truths to untruths.
Friend of mine does that all the time; I took him at his word until his GF left him and everything came tumbling down when I met her - from having gangster relations, to being the grandson of who and who, owning property, buying sports car (doesn't even have licence!) blah blah blah ya ya papaya blah blah blah, being offered a chance to study at Harvard (which he turned down because he wants to pursue his passion - psychology), dating Indonesia's third richest girl who apparently has her own private jet.
FYI, he's now serving his NS - recent stories include tales of great responsibility and high security; he's a clerk but apparently he holds a rank of warrant officer within his unit and that he's in charge of 'top secret' info. of national importance. The ladies seem to really love his stories though.
Meh, so many of them, I kinda just
on the outside, and 
on the inside.
If it turns out what they purport to assert is true, then good for them.
If not ... really doesn't affect me, so why bother?
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Singapore dreaming indeed ...Originally posted by browniebaobao:probably bcos he is not leading a life that he desires..
his parents' bankrupcy is a great blow to him and he's running away from reality. Faking up stories and living in his imagination will make him feel better. -
Not having the intention of starting to gossip about,
The treadstarter is a most probable example of what he/she is talking about. -
Still... No matter how many rotten apples you may find in a basket, it's probably still no conclusion that the basket is only of rotten apples...?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:This lady H. She has some nephews that are 30+ years old.
One day, One Nephew LKY got intro touble by calling a police hotline and hurling vulgarities.
So the SPF called him up for an interview.
LKY was scared, that he decides to fled to America.
Lady H was told of his intention to flee. So Lady H consults another police neice and the neices tells Lady H that this is no big deal. It will be better if LKY stayed back in SG, go for the interview, apologise and issues will be dropped.
But Lady H didnt want to pass the message cos it makes her look so unglam and not helpful to boost her image as someone who can settle everything. (Lady H has orginally boasted to LKY that she can get somone to 'settle the issue' for LKY.)
So LKY fled to USA. And LKY was homeless, penniless and became a illegal immigrant in USA.
Another relative found LKY in USA and contact that police officer neice, which the police officer neice offers the same advice and which the relative then was able to persuade LKY to return.
LKY has since returned to Singapore and put that issue behind him.
When questioned by police officer neice, the Lady H tries to claim that she didnt pass the advise or the information is because she didnt think it will help LKY.
There are some who arent as geniune in their attempts to help unless it helps themselves. Trust me. I know of such persons aplenty. -
And here, is the reason of this thread.Originally posted by Devil1976:Still... No matter how many rotten apples you may find in a basket, it's probably still no conclusion that the basket is only of rotten apples...?
How did all these bad apples been able to cook up such reasonable stories that can be believable.
Because they know of such stories of others. And using the stories of others, was able to make believe that by bringing such stories, they bring out the stories of others.
And my belief that some young ones in this forums, are merely looking for this stories, and then to stand there, point and laugh at those that are really sharing their stories.
There are those who arent in need of help, there are some who does. And there are some who only belives in standing there, to point, laugh and to give comments which they arent even able to do so in the face of others. -
Probably, but then, examples are set. So can I qualify as someone who at least dare to be the starter then a follower/bystander/kaypoh.Originally posted by NotFromVenus:Not having the intention of starting to gossip about,
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honestly, i still have no idea what this topic is about.
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Just a rotten apple thread.Originally posted by Ito_^:honestly, i still have no idea what this topic is about.
A collation of stories of people.
Almost like passing the message. Like you pass a massage, the 2nd and 3 rd person instead of passing the message, changes the messages so that the end message arent what it was originally.
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ah ok.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Just a rotten apple thread.
A collation of stories of people.
Almost like passing the message. Like you pass a massage, the 2nd and 3 rd person instead of passing the message, changes the messages so that the end message arent what it was originally.
Stories of 2nd & 3rd persons who altered the messages to their own needs and wants.
i initially thought you wanted to discuss on just one person's behaviour, den ended up posting lotsa other stories to make fun of. -
This story is about how someone, started a message that all others didnt like her, created stories about how others dont like her, and thus gets all sorts of pities from some more others to like her.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:A young 22 year old female called PL.
Joins also a forum and Jio people out for outings.
On those outings, PL claims that she is very popular and other females dont like her because of her popularity.
She also pinpoints that a certain group of females from that forum does not like her, because she is sooo popular.
Thus, she has no wish to make friends with that certain group of females and only is willing to hang out with the guys.
All in all, the certain group of females didnt know about her, except that she was making hellavu effort to cheapen herself and popularise herself by pinpointing at the group of females to have disliked her.
And her best line: They dont like me, so I dont want to know them or want to subject myself to knowing them.
The group of females disliked her then. But the general feeling: You made yourself out to be disliked. We frankly didnt even know a worm like you ever existed till now. Good luck with your life. -
Thats why I see all of someone gangs is here rite.Originally posted by Ito_^:ah ok.
i initially thought you wanted to discuss on just one person's behaviour, den ended up posting lotsa other stories to make fun of.
You guys havnt learn to spilt out issues for breakdown discussions yet. -
right.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Thats why I see all of someone gangs is here rite.
You guys havnt learn to spilt out issues for breakdown discussions yet.
and you guys should stay focus on one topics at a time in a single topic.
this ain't a crapbox.