Have I done the wrong thing?
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1stly u are a good gf i must say.
MMORPG like wow is extremely addictive. if possible get him some counselling. there are specific helplines to cure gaming addicts.
u did nothing wrong in this case. if you want, take up another hobby to occupy ur time while he plays his games. -
hahaha wah thanks.. i feel so happyOriginally posted by Vonderful:Okie, okie.. Jie jie sayang... (since you always wipe tears for jie jie...)
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Funny you....Originally posted by FBI:hahaha wah thanks.. i feel so happy -
Yr bf like me so addicated to games but there has changed.
When time for dinner, my wife eat alone, watch TV herself and watch till she fell asleep. For me, i can play games from morning to night and just have 2 meals will do.( "Pa game Tao Ba Liao") When she disturb me during my games, i will start rising my voice (me hot tempered).
Then one day, I saw her siting on the sofa, look so helpless. So ask her what she doing, she cried and told me i only care for games. We have a talk and I too did some thinking. When free time, go out with her shopping,dinner. Now play games at night only.
U really got to have a nice talk wih yr bf but only when he's not WoWing. Tell him yr feelings. If he continue WoWing, use yr bow and shoot at him. Well, u're a nice gal and i believe yr bf will wakeup his idea and stop be spending time on WoW before he starts losing u. -
cause i have a beautiful jiejie who sayang me.Originally posted by Vonderful:Funny you....
NOw u guys jealous of me or not? -
Firstly I have to say thanks...Originally posted by dibilo:1stly u are a good gf i must say.
MMORPG like wow is extremely addictive. if possible get him some counselling. there are specific helplines to cure gaming addicts.
u did nothing wrong in this case. if you want, take up another hobby to occupy ur time while he plays his games.
Well, i think he would go bonkers if i ask if for counselling... Haha... since right now he still gets up in time for work, (without me having to drag him out of bed...), i think things are under control... (still.....)
I'm on MC these days, nothing much to do except surfing net, but good thing is sometimes I can read and post till i forgot he's playing games...
I think i'd still go on and learn the game on my own... One step at a time.. maybe if he doesn't need to take time off to teach me, he would see me as a gaming partner rather than a burden... I must jia you!!!
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jia you wor.. gals like u really extinct leOriginally posted by Vonderful:Firstly I have to say thanks...
Well, i think he would go bonkers if i ask if for counselling... Haha... since right now he still gets up in time for work, (without me having to drag him out of bed...), i think things are under control... (still.....)
I'm on MC these days, nothing much to do except surfing net, but good thing is sometimes I can read and post till i forgot he's playing games...
I think i'd still go on and learn the game on my own... One step at a time.. maybe if he doesn't need to take time off to teach me, he would see me as a gaming partner rather than a burden... I must jia you!!!
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Haha... i cried before liao... But he went," OK LA OK LA!!! WO BU YAO WAN LIAO LA!!!!" Then he switched off his PC, lie down watch TV with me & ask me," you want me pei you right, now I pei you liao, talk la..."Originally posted by redpicanto: Yr bf like me so addicated to games but there has changed.
When time for dinner, my wife eat alone, watch TV herself and watch till she fell asleep. For me, i can play games from morning to night and just have 2 meals will do.( "Pa game Tao Ba Liao") When she disturb me during my games, i will start rising my voice (me hot tempered).
Then one day, I saw her siting on the sofa, look so helpless. So ask her what she doing, she cried and told me i only care for games. We have a talk and I too did some thinking. When free time, go out with her shopping,dinner. Now play games at night only.
U really got to have a nice talk wih yr bf but only when he's not WoWing. Tell him yr feelings. If he continue WoWing, use yr bow and shoot at him. Well, u're a nice gal and i believe yr bf will wakeup his idea and stop be spending time on WoW before he starts losing u.
You think i'd still enjoy his company like that? I felt bad.... Like i robbed him out of something like that...
So i just went to on his PC & helped him logged on and ask him go play...
I think there's really little i can do.. the more i nag, he more he would resist... So just get through this, hopefully not years la...
But I believe if we get through this, one day when he is no longer blinded by games, he might just look back and realise what a bad egg he has been to me and probably secretly feel sorry perhaps... ? Hehe... -
u are really a nice gal lo..Originally posted by Vonderful:Haha... i cried before liao... But he went," OK LA OK LA!!! WO BU YAO WAN LIAO LA!!!!" Then he switched off his PC, lie down watch TV with me & ask me," you want me pei you right, now I pei you liao, talk la..."
You think i'd still enjoy his company like that? I felt bad.... Like i robbed him out of something like that...
So i just went to on his PC & helped him logged on and ask him go play...
I think there's really little i can do.. the more i nag, he more he would resist... So just get through this, hopefully not years la...
But I believe if we get through this, one day when he is no longer blinded by games, he might just look back and realise what a bad egg he has been to me and probably secretly feel sorry perhaps... ? Hehe...
Now there are still some hope for our sg gals, with examples like u -
pass me a knife...Originally posted by FBI:u are really a nice gal lo..
Now there are still some hope for our sg gals, with examples like u
i want to kill you...
bootlicking won't get u anywhere...
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Must jia you for me k? Going to have expansion soon... Must catch up with him... But i super butter fingers... somemore play on laptop... worse... Brrr...Originally posted by FBI:jia you wor.. gals like u really extinct le
*Dinosaur Jie Jie goes take cornflakes eat.... * -
It seems to be a small matter at the moment but if you don't resolve it right now.... it will soon become a serious matter.Originally posted by Vonderful:Well, actually this is a small matter, it's only games, but i just don't knwo why it's eating into me so much lehz... I wished i could be more understanding & open-hearted, but I just can't sit that and keep quiet about being ignored, neglected and stuff... Girls....
How about to find time to talk about it with your partner? Since you are living together similar to being married, you both share the equal amount of responsibility in doing the house chores. It's very unfair that you are always the one busy doing the house chores for him (with little time to rest and relax) while he spends all his time playing his game.
My husband loves playing video/pc games too and he plays every night for a few hours whenever he can. I don't mind that, one of the reasons is I've got my own hand-held game (Nintendo DS) to play with
but the main reason is that as much as he likes playing his video games, he will always keep the weekend aside to spend time with me and do things with me including house chores, shopping, other activities etc.
I believe the reason you are annoyed with him is not because he's not sharing the house chores but more because he has neglected you and is not making any effort to spend time with you. I am sure that if you reason (don't nag) with your partner and manage to get him to at least to spend time with you on the weekend, I am sure you will be a lot happier even if he's still playing his WoW every night during the week.
Good luck!
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kill me lo.. my ex really made me feel that way.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:pass me a knife...
i want to kill you...
bootlicking won't get u anywhere...
sg gals.. haiz -
ok i support u all they way..Originally posted by Vonderful:Must jia you for me k? Going to have expansion soon... Must catch up with him... But i super butter fingers... somemore play on laptop... worse... Brrr...
*Dinosaur Jie Jie goes take cornflakes eat.... *
I hope there will b a change in him and realize wat u have done.
Dinosaur jiejie?! hahah -
I have tried talking to him & when he takes time off from games, he would be very restless and distracted, and he gives me a feeling that he is just waiting for time to pass so that he will clock enough couple hours to go on to his games in peace...Originally posted by honeymouse:It seems to be a small matter at the moment but if you don't resolve it right now.... it will soon become a serious matter.
How about to find time to talk about it with your partner? Since you are living together similar to being married, you both share the equal amount of responsibility in doing the house chores. It's very unfair that you are always the one busy doing the house chores for him (with little time to rest and relax) while he spends all his time playing his game.
My husband loves playing video/pc games too and he plays every night for a few hours whenever he can. I don't mind that, one of the reasons is I've got my own hand-held game (Nintendo DS) to play with but the main reason is that as much as he likes playing his video games, he will always keep the weekend aside to spend time with me and do things with me including house chores, shopping, other activities etc.
I believe the reason you are annoyed with him is not because he's not sharing the house chores but more because he has neglected you and is not making any effort to spend time with you. I am sure that if you reason (don't nag) with your partner and manage to get him to at least to spend time with you on the weekend, I am sure you will be a lot happier even if he's still playing his WoW every night during the week.
Good luck!
You know what i mean?
Games= Leisure
Couple time= Chore
Anyway, honeymouse.. Your hubby so sweet... * envy * -
then break lorOriginally posted by FBI:kill me lo.. my ex really made me feel that way.
sg gals.. haiz -
break already..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:then break lor
i break de. -
What bootlicking?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:pass me a knife...
i want to kill you...
bootlicking won't get u anywhere... Gals like Vonderful can barely be found in Spore. If i not married, i sure get HP no. from her ah.
P/S: If yr bf also play games n neglected u, how u feel and what will u do? -
if she single i confirm jio her..Originally posted by redpicanto:What bootlicking? Gals like Vonderful can barely be found in Spore. If i not married, i sure get HP no. from her ah.
gals like her really v rare le.. really
Most gals like to hide their personalities, act v nice infront u but their char like sh!t.
They only want men to bootlick them, por them.. -
Short of knowing all the facts of your case, I have not too good feelings about it. Seems like either your bf doesn't have you in his plans or playing WoW is his escapism from something hr doesn't want to face in real life. But whether it's one or the other, it seems to concern you. Since u 2 live together but are presumably not married, some straight talking needs to be done............. Or u have just discovered a new trait in your bf's character u've not known before.....
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Perhaps, try organise a date with him once a week... like going out for dinner and see a movie or something along that line just to get out of the house.Originally posted by Vonderful:I have tried talking to him & when he takes time off from games, he would be very restless and distracted, and he gives me a feeling that he is just waiting for time to pass so that he will clock enough couple hours to go on to his games in peace...
You know what i mean?
Games= Leisure
Couple time= Chore
Anyway, honeymouse.. Your hubby so sweet... * envy *
It's rather common when couples have been with each other for a while they tend to take things for granted. Also, even though you live together/married, it's important to still go out for a date every so often.
Don't give up communicating with your partner, Vonderful. Also, stop spoiling him and start getting him to help you with the housework including preparing dinner etc. Be strong, be firm and be reasonable! -
Jia Yu ! Jia Yu ! Jia Yu ! Jia Yu ! Jia Yu !
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yea...people play games to escape from reality...Originally posted by :Short of knowing all the facts of your case, I have not too good feelings about it. Seems like either your bf doesn't have you in his plans or playing WoW is his escapism from something hr doesn't want to face in real life. But whether it's one or the other, it seems to concern you. Since u 2 live together but are presumably not married, some straight talking needs to be done............. Or u have just discovered a new trait in your bf's character u've not known before..... 
maybe he has some underlying problems.... -
bro, your chinese failed ar?Originally posted by redpicanto: Jia Yu ! Jia Yu ! Jia Yu ! Jia Yu ! Jia Yu ! -
How u know?
U saw my report book ah?