Have I done the wrong thing?
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your han yu ping ying wrong sia.. hahaOriginally posted by redpicanto:How u know?
U saw my report book ah? -
I know, but lazy to amend.Originally posted by FBI:your han yu ping ying wrong sia.. haha
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Wow...he's throwing a good girl away. If my girl had only half the initiative to be interested in what I do, I will be very touched.Whenever I try to teach her anything or get her to join my interests, the answer is always,"So Stupid" or "Not Interested". Sighz...Originally posted by Vonderful:I am really confused here. I am not sure if my bf is being mean or I am really what he claimed but i just didn't realise..
As some of you here know, my bf is addicted to WoW, and he commits all his free time to the game. I am sickened by it, but came to terms that an addiction is an addiction, you can't expect to pull a man out of his addiction w/o pissing him off...
And i admit that I complained a lot when he spends everyday on his games and he always say he has no freedom to even play games...
I felt that all these arguments are uncalled for since this might just be a passing phase in our relationship... So to better situation, i decided to join him by learning how to play the game. But he gets impatient when i ask him questions about the games...
Then Elindra from this forum offered to teach me and so i went to get the game today, hoping to learn the basics from her then join him in the game so at least we would have some common topics in daily life, and who knows it might bring us closer...
When i got home, (we stay together), I showed him the game excitedly & he suddenly flared up at me," I already told you that if you want to learn it because of me, and not coz you like it, then NO NEED." Then he just threw the game on the bed...
Have i done the wrong thing? Would guys feel pissed off when you think your gf is pretending to like something? I admit i don't like games, coz i always die after 3 mins in every game, no matter what games... but i was hoping that i would like it once i know how to play... Of coz i might not like it ultimately, but i just wanted to try & find out...
Don't know la... Wierd... I'm fine, just puzzled... Coz sometimes you think you've done a darn great thing when in fact, it was a stupid thing to do. Just want to hear from you guys your opinions... You know, you need people to tell you when you are wrong, if not, you forever think you are right one... I want to hear some guys' point of view...
Thanks Peepz...
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sigh...wait till you have a girl with the same interest as you...but you just can't seem to fall in love with her...Originally posted by SpecOps87:Wow...he's throwing a good girl away. If my girl had only half the initiative to be interested in what I do, I will be very touched.Whenever I try to teach her anything or get her to join my interests, the answer is always,"So Stupid" or "Not Interested". Sighz... -
sweet as it is.
i don't think you really see the real problem or the future that comes with it. -
Aint that common, meeting the perfect Mr Nice Guy with good personality career and treats you so well, and share similar interests, but juz no chemistry.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:sigh...wait till you have a girl with the same interest as you...but you just can't seem to fall in love with her...
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if anyone has a CAREER, u will not be having a relationship.Originally posted by vgal:Aint that common, meeting the perfect Mr Nice Guy with good personality career and treats you so well, and share similar interests, but juz no chemistry. -
Having a career and having a relationship are not mutually exclusive.Originally posted by kopiosatu:if anyone has a CAREER, u will not be having a relationship. -
hmmmm, well if u say soOriginally posted by vgal:Having a career and having a relationship are not mutually exclusive.
there is a difference between a career and a job -
Aint it? there are so many people out there who have careers yet are attached or married. Marriage is a type of relationship.Originally posted by kopiosatu:hmmmm, well if u say so -
Hahah.. you're clueless aren't you..Originally posted by kopiosatu:if anyone has a CAREER, u will not be having a relationship. -
there is a difference between a career and a jobOriginally posted by vgal:Aint it? there are so many people out there who have careers yet are attached or married. Marriage is a type of relationship.
attached / marriage is just a word that covers how a career affects relationships. -
no i'm not.Originally posted by pwnz0r:Hahah.. you're clueless aren't you..
please read between the lines.
its more like you guys don't understand what i'm saying. -
Ya, actually i really dunno what you are talking aboutOriginally posted by kopiosatu:no i'm not.
please read between the lines.
its more like you guys don't understand what i'm saying.
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It's more like you haven't met successful people who have accomplished a great career while having a relationship.Originally posted by kopiosatu:no i'm not.
please read between the lines.
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well if that is what u call successful CAREER and relationship. then good for youOriginally posted by pwnz0r:It's more like you haven't met successful people who have accomplished a great career while having a relationship.
do not jump into conclusions about my personal life since i have said anything about yours -
check pmOriginally posted by vgal:Ya, actually i really dunno what you are talking about
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If it's just a phase, you should be seeing him get oevr this phase one day..? Or at least help him out of it one day? Realise what he has been doing and where he is...? If you just makes him feel that you'll NEVER leave him, I think he'll just SIT BACK in his COMFORT ZONE without realising what's REALLY WRONG....Originally posted by Vonderful:He plays everyday after he comes home from work.. from 8pm- 2am, sometimes earlier la... He doesn't like to go out, so before he started WoW, we would just stay home and we would just watch TV... Or if there are movies on screen that I really want to watch, i would pester him to go watch...
He does help me with dishes, but clothes i wash, (which i think its ok... don't expect a man to wash clothes right.. funny...)...
I never thought of dumping him coz i tell myself it's a phase.. If I want this r/s to survive this period, i have to open my heart... But girls, you know la... sometimes your heart can only open till certain extent, then you start whining again... Haha...
I think GAME ADDICTION is getting to be a WORLDWIDE PHENOMENON and could be causing more social problems than just between couples... Don't be VICTIMS of this PROCESS.... -
Then better to stop and provide him at the right time and don't let him fall into another game addiction...Originally posted by tpkw:don't knock sense into your man, it never helps.
don't worry, every game will die out sooner or later perhaps in a few years time or so. =)
Unless TS is prepared to live with someone like this for the rest of her life...? Or even start picking up to live a life style together only at the very late phase of the relationship....? -
OUCH.Originally posted by kopiosatu:if anyone has a CAREER, u will not be having a relationship. -
Yeah, and his story will be. 'She don't understand, what should i do' (Potential Thread title)Originally posted by Devil1976:Then better to stop and provide him at the right time and don't let him fall into another game addiction...
Unless TS is prepared to live with someone like this for the rest of her life...? Or even start picking up to live a life style together only at the very late phase of the relationship....? -
sad i think u haf done no wrong i feel that he is in the wrong
perhaps what u said is true passing phase
and the phase that your going thru is a 3rd party and thats WOW not WOW per se but ur bf's retarded obsession with it
i suggest break with imediate affect
even a hard core gamer wud do this to friends not much a gf
and if i had a gf like you i would ai si ni -
eww why he like that
if some1 were to do that ill be more than happy..
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yr bf is jus an immature unsensitive little prick tt doesnt appreciate you. next time he gets horny. tell him to go fook his hard drive....Originally posted by Vonderful:I am really confused here. I am not sure if my bf is being mean or I am really what he claimed but i just didn't realise..
As some of you here know, my bf is addicted to WoW, and he commits all his free time to the game. I am sickened by it, but came to terms that an addiction is an addiction, you can't expect to pull a man out of his addiction w/o pissing him off...
And i admit that I complained a lot when he spends everyday on his games and he always say he has no freedom to even play games...
I felt that all these arguments are uncalled for since this might just be a passing phase in our relationship... So to better situation, i decided to join him by learning how to play the game. But he gets impatient when i ask him questions about the games...
Then Elindra from this forum offered to teach me and so i went to get the game today, hoping to learn the basics from her then join him in the game so at least we would have some common topics in daily life, and who knows it might bring us closer...
When i got home, (we stay together), I showed him the game excitedly & he suddenly flared up at me," I already told you that if you want to learn it because of me, and not coz you like it, then NO NEED." Then he just threw the game on the bed...
Have i done the wrong thing? Would guys feel pissed off when you think your gf is pretending to like something? I admit i don't like games, coz i always die after 3 mins in every game, no matter what games... but i was hoping that i would like it once i know how to play... Of coz i might not like it ultimately, but i just wanted to try & find out...
Don't know la... Wierd... I'm fine, just puzzled... Coz sometimes you think you've done a darn great thing when in fact, it was a stupid thing to do. Just want to hear from you guys your opinions... You know, you need people to tell you when you are wrong, if not, you forever think you are right one... I want to hear some guys' point of view...
Thanks Peepz... -
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sigh..some guys..