childish and wu liao?
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Dear All,
No offence... Blu_sky is here to ask a very simple question as whether is her bf too melodramatic.
Dun just get into personal attacks if you are just not gonna give constructive advice..
Every single individuals had their own likings and behaviour.
We are not out there to judge unless u you think u are REAL PERFECT.
Thanks -
Thank youOriginally posted by finrise:Dear All,
No offence... Blu_sky is here to ask a very simple question as whether is her bf too melodramatic.
Dun just get into personal attacks if you are just not gonna give constructive advice..
Every single individuals had their own likings and behaviour.
We are not out there to judge unless u you think u are REAL PERFECT.
Thanks
Finally there is someone in this thread who is not anal. -
I think your bf is joking. He doesn't really believe you will say that to your boss?
If you don't like him saying all that just tell him not to do it -
Thank you. The above is happily resolved alreadyOriginally posted by choco B:I think your bf is joking. He doesn't really believe you will say that to your boss?
If you don't like him saying all that just tell him not to do it -
Congrats.... Enjoy ur holiday with your love ones..Originally posted by blu_sky:Thank you. The above is happily resolved already 
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You and your best friend Charlize have been very active in this thread eh?Originally posted by ditzy:At least you can be sure those in your shoes in the future won't be getting slammed for asking again.
Be nice lah.
Dear Blu_sky,
please forgive the two nottis. they're known to pass insensitive remarks at times. (I do too.
)
It's good to know your issue have been resolved. I hope your leave is approved.
Cheers -
Originally posted by M©+square:
Dear Mr Mod,
You and your best friend Charlize have been very active in this thread eh?
Be nice lah.
[b]
Dear Blu_sky,
please forgive the two nottis. they're known to pass insensitive remarks at times. (I do too. )
It's good to know your issue have been resolved. I hope your leave is approved.
Cheers[/b]
you are being too humble. Being one kind soul who provides constructive advice at the right time and encouragement when that is needed, how can you say you pass insensitive remarks too?
As for the 2 of them, i've decided to ignore them 
Thank you for gracing this thread with your guest appearance and thanks for your well-wishes -
lame cold joke. dats about it.
unless its real and he is really dying from cancer.. -
Fwah so formal ah!Originally posted by blu_sky:Dear Mr Mod,
you are being too humble. Being one kind soul who provides constructive advice at the right time and encouragement when that is needed, how can you say you pass insensitive remarks too?
As for the 2 of them, i've decided to ignore them
Thank you for gracing this thread with your guest appearance and thanks for your well-wishes
I somehow appreciate that your boyfriend could be transparent with his cheekiness(positive sense) and imagination.
Rather sure he's one boyfriend who could give you many surprises since too much of k-drama and movies have fused in his mind.
He might be childish, so if you still want him and accept him.
I'd suggest you to bring the best out of him, because every guys love to do the things they like most and gain acceptance of their partners.
In fact, they are the happiest that way! Of cos, it should take into consideration of the things he does must not hurt you or make you unhappy.
Learn to enjoy it, also bring him down to earth when you find him floating away?
p.s : I wouldn't like my gf a All practical, serious gal.
A good balance between naughty, sweet, crazy, wild, sensitive, strong, stable and attentive is puuuurfect!
(the list could go on and on. So i better stop here)
Cheers! -
Yes its a lame joke, very lame joke, but a joke nonetheless. So why are we even talking about it?Originally posted by Ito_^:lame cold joke. dats about it.
unless its real and he is really dying from cancer..
I offer my sincerest apology for my remark, but i believe you are the one who started 'slamming' him(i mean your melodramatic and supposedly gay bf) so i am just helping you a long.(though i still think he is gay). Sorry if i am so correct.
I apologise if i touched any raw nerve(short fat and ugly), he may be just short and fat but not ugly or one of those. He is your choice after all in the end.
But in the end , i really think its a silly thread and just trying to spice it up and maybe to analyse what is the real reason for posting all this.
Maybe i am reading too deep into it or i may be correct in what i said. Only you will know. But i think some of the others may agree with what i said, your questions and post is just so silly and petty in comparison with the other problems here.
im just waiting for your next complain=)
Sorry moderator.
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*Looks around*Originally posted by Space1999:Sorry moderator.
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I think you think too much.Originally posted by Space1999:Yes its a lame joke, very lame joke, but a joke nonetheless. So why are we even talking about it?
I offer my sincerest apology for my remark, but i believe you are the one who started 'slamming' him(i mean your melodramatic and supposedly gay bf) so i am just helping you a long.(though i still think he is gay). Sorry if i am so correct.
I apologise if i touched any raw nerve(short fat and ugly), he may be just short and fat but not ugly or one of those. He is your choice after all in the end.
But in the end , i really think its a silly thread and just trying to spice it up and maybe to analyse what is the real reason for posting all this.
Maybe i am reading too deep into it or i may be correct in what i said. Only you will know. But i think some of the others may agree with what i said, your questions and post is just so silly and petty in comparison with the other problems here.
im just waiting for your next complain=)
Sorry moderator.
I've NEVER in anyway said that he is gayish. And no, i do not think so. He is tall and muscular, not Andy Lau, but not ugly like what you have pictured him to be (hey, dunno if you are fat, short and ugly, but not every guy is like that).
If you will not read selectively, you will see that my question is directing at his joke, not him. I like him, but not this joke of his, get it? Condemn the sin, not the sinner, get it? (not sure if you have even heard this saying before).
Yes, my 'problem' is not a big deal as compared to other problems in this forum. So? Does that mean i cannot post here? Is there a term or condition on this forum to say only wat kind of problem can be posted here? Or how serious a problem should be before it can be posted here? How to measure seriousness? KG? G? Miles or watever? Wake up the idea kiddo. Who are you to say that one problem is petty and another problem is big deal? Are you the judge or are you GOD? And if you think it is a petty problem, why do you even spend so much time posting here? Don't post here! Get out then if you please then. I will not ask you to post here. In fact, i will be more than happy not to have your lame, destructive and valueless posts here. What should i say? Get lost?
The idea of the thread is whether if i should tell him i dun like this kind of joke (if the joke is really lame and morbid) or should i juz accept such jokes (if im the sensitive one). Get it? If you still dun get it, like what a lot of others have, there is no way i can reach out to you. Hence, this shall be my last reply to you.
All the best and improve your english or/and your listening skills.
And yes, i still think you think too much.
p/s: and we are not having sex BECAUSE i think the maturity of our relationship has not reached that stage. Yes, he has wanted it but he has come to a compromise that he should respect my wish.
Not every male species only think with their dickhead like you do. -
Originally posted by M©+square:*Looks around*
Is this for me?
yes it is
you are so wise, please lead us to enlightment
and i was not born in year 1999
space 1999 is a name of a great sci fiction television show in the 70 i think , so im nearly my 50. so it just irritates me to see woman complaining about petty issues like this. And make me so angry to see man who are so slow to pick their cherries
Seriously mod, dont you think there must be something wrong with the boyfriend?melodramatic, kdrama, no sex!!= all indication of gay.
I have nothing against gays and i think they are fantastic people but ..i rest my case , my honour
You are definitely the man! -
Disclaimer : Mod is not wise and definitely do not want to be seen as enlightened. We are humans afterall.Originally posted by Space1999:
yes it is
you are so wise, please lead us to enlightment
I have nothing against gays and i think they are fantastic people but ..i rest my case , my honour
You are definitely the man!
Mod is not a judge and do not have absolute powers to give approval to individual opinions. This is a open forum.
Mod may not necessarily be a man.
I may be a gay!
The other Mod is a Devil.
Cheers
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
Thank you and by the way i believe Andy lau swings both ways, last i heard.
I think you think too much.
I've [b]NEVER in anyway said that he is gayish. And no, i do not think so. He is tall and muscular, not Andy Lau, but not ugly like what you have pictured him to be (hey, dunno if you are fat, short and ugly, but not every guy is like that).
If you will not read selectively, you will see that my question is directing at his joke, not him. I like him, but not this joke of his, get it? Condemn the sin, not the sinner, get it? (not sure if you have even heard this saying before).
The idea of the thread is whether if i should tell him i dun like this kind of joke (if the joke is really lame and morbid) or should i juz accept such jokes (if im the sensitive one). Get it? If you still dun get it, like what a lot of others have, there is no way i can reach out to you. Hence, this shall be my last reply to you.
All the best and improve your english or/and your listening skills.
And yes, i still think you think too much.[/b]
Im just glad i am not married to you or i am your boyfriend, must be hell i imagine.(or you must be so god damm pretty)
Must be complains , complains and more.
YOU SEE?We guys ask for sex , we get slammed we dont we still get slammed!WE never win
finish!I rest my case!(hey woman , go and cook for me now!)yes i am a pig -
Originally posted by blu_sky:im planning to go for holiday with this guy whom im dating. but i cant confirmed on a date yet cos of work commitments. my boss has yet to approved my leave.
then he said things like, tell your boss i got brain tumour and this is my last wish.
Today he said again, tell him i got cancer, he will surely let you go.
i find these very repugnant. is he wu liao in saying such things (probably they are jokes) or am i just sensitive?
Wu liao... he's also your boyfriend. If his personality is like that, you have made you choice to be with such a man; so either you accept such nonsense from time to time or you request that he evolved.
P.S: I believe he also has his strength that is attractive; everything comes in a package.
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She cant, you see this kind of lady if you go to my posting of the female species, expect man to change for them in all aspects. But be patient , i am reaching out to her..she is expressing her feelings to me.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Wu liao... he's also your boyfriend. If his personality is like that, you have made you choice to be with such a man; so either you accept such nonsense from time to time or you request that he evolved.
P.S: I believe he also has his strength that is attractive; everything comes in a package.
Cheers
WE just need a breakthrough.
And come on , i want to meet her boyfriend , put some spine into him make him drink some tiger penis soup to make him stronger!
"i still think he is gay , no sex?cmon, are we in the 50s?" -
Si siang....why your replies so manly today.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Wu liao... he's also your boyfriend. If his personality is like that, you have made you choice to be with such a man; so either you accept such nonsense from time to time or you request that he evolved.
P.S: I believe he also has his strength that is attractive; everything comes in a package.
Cheers I like...
Cheers -
Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Wu liao... he's also your boyfriend. If his personality is like that, you have made you choice to be with such a man; so either you accept such nonsense from time to time or you request that he evolved.
P.S: I believe he also has his strength that is attractive; everything comes in a package.
Cheers
Yes, everything comes in package. He has accepted that i do not like to hear such untasteful words (like death, tumour, cancer, btw, he said that cos he thought i look like the female actress of the drama and we are goin korea, so he thought it will be 'fun/romantic' to crack the joke!), and he will not crack jokes with such untasteful words anymore. -
117846.98 in reply to 117846.31Originally posted by blu_sky:Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.
Yes, everything comes in package. He has accepted that i do not like to hear such untasteful words (like death, tumour, cancer, btw, he said that cos he thought i look like the female actress of the drama and we are goin korea, so he thought it will be 'fun/romantic' to crack the joke!), and he will not crack jokes with such untasteful(distasteful you mean?) words anymore.
and please pick one of below=)
1- Miss Feminist
"This woman postulates that all the ills of society are orchestrated by men and the best thing a man can do to improve himself is cut off his testicles and grow a pair of ovaries. She believes that women are angelic creatures who would make the world a utopia if only the male "patriarchy" would allow them to¡Â¡Â.
I have met women like this, trust me, it is only talk with air in it. As far as I know, the few of them (who coincidentally married to rich people) ended up divorced, with kids and struglling to make a living. You forgot to mention¡Âthey always say : "MEN cannot be trusted."
2- Miss Take
She's out for your money -- pure and simple. Miss Take is the ultimate in high maintenance. She expects a man to finance her entire life ¡Â..
This sounds like the typical China whores most Singapore carrots are finincing¡Â.watch your CPF, men!!!!
3- Miss Romance
This type of woman lives in a fantasy world of Lifetime Channel movies and romance novels. Every night she goes home alone ¡Â..
Mostly refer to immature Singapore women¡Âthat is why Korean "romantic" serials are so popular here. They failed to see that the Koreans are famous of being MCP and beats up their wives as hobbies¡Â.
4- Miss Elusive
This woman is closely allied to Miss Romance, but with a dark side. She is usually one of the "walking wounded" -- someone who has been hurt in past relationships and so subconsciously avoids or sabotages new relationships in the present¡Â.
This type always moan "I have been hurt before¡Â.." , hey you deserve to be hurt again until you mature up¡Â..
5- Miss Angry
Like Miss Feminists, Miss Angrys really don't like men. They scorn the male gender and can rattle off all the wrongs and misdeeds of every man they've ever encountered.
Are we talking about BUTCH here?
6- Miss Insecure
This woman seems great at the start because she's very nice, accommodating and treats men well. But her inner insecurities don't take long to surface¡Â.
This is the type which most likely will end up having depression or throwing their/someone¡¯s baby down the block¡Â.
7- Miss Bitch
Miss Bitches are the sulkers, pouters and ball-busters of the female world. They are very unpleasant people who treat their fellow humans poorly, care only about themselves, and aren't concerned at all if they hurt you or anybody else.
We have lots of these in Singapore, they only turn to angels when they see Ang Mo, that is why 1/3 of Singapore men married foreign brides last year
8- Miss Me
A close relative of Miss Bitch, Miss Me is entirely focused on herself. Miss Me needs to be the constant center of attention no matter what she does or where she goes. She is a selfish, self-indulgent¡Â..
If they climb up to be your boss or even worst, your wife, you are fucked for life, man!!! -
I do predict a very horrible future for him , the word he absolutely adores you is death sentence for him, i wish you luck. Sorry i wish him luck. He needs it, a LOT!Originally posted by blu_sky:Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.
Yes, everything comes in package. He has accepted that i do not like to hear such untasteful words (like death, tumour, cancer, btw, he said that cos he thought i look like the female actress of the drama and we are goin korea, so he thought it will be 'fun/romantic' to crack the joke!), and he will not crack jokes with such untasteful words anymore.
another one bites the dust! -
I smell flames in this thread.....
Dun lead to a fire...
Enough haze to cover tis small red dot liaoz....
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To a well-respected man, respected words need to be usedOriginally posted by M©+square:Fwah so formal ah!
I somehow appreciate that your boyfriend could be transparent with his cheekiness(positive sense) and imagination.
Rather sure he's one boyfriend who could give you many surprises since too much of k-drama and movies have fused in his mind.
He might be childish, so if you still want him and accept him.
I'd suggest you to bring the best out of him, because every guys love to do the things they like most and gain acceptance of their partners.
In fact, they are the happiest that way! Of cos, it should take into consideration of the things he does must not hurt you or make you unhappy.
Learn to enjoy it, also bring him down to earth when you find him floating away?
p.s : I wouldn't like my gf a All practical, serious gal.
A good balance between naughty, sweet, crazy, wild, sensitive, strong, stable and attentive is puuuurfect!
(the list could go on and on. So i better stop here)
Cheers!
Oh yes, our relationship is full of sweetness and naughtiness crazy and wild? hmmm... not yet lah... we are still in a young relationship Stable, we both are, and attentive, we strive to be
Sometimes he is abit childish, but thats wat makes of him, CUTE! When need to be (like when i had a tough day at work), he is definitely matured. Yes, he is really sweet!
Nothing wrong with guys liking korean dramas. In fact, the way we met, and how we started are very korean dramatic! Took me by surprise! Afterall, it is this sweet sweet beginning that we still hope we can look back 10 years later, i can tell him, 'oh, the day we met, you looked so cool'! And he can tell me, 'you looked so sweet.'
And yes, we are not having sex yet because we are still in a young relationship. We hope to know each other better (with no distraction of sex) during this period. Sex can be really distracting! We all know that, no? And it can throw a young relationship off balance, no? Well, if we are goin to be together for good, we can have sex for the rest of our lives! Whats with waiting for a few more months?
Well, lets see where this relationship goes. Afterall, it is so young. We will work towards make it work!
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Originally posted by M©+square:Si siang....why your replies so manly today. I like...
Cheers Siao la... I jobless now can.
Disturb me in the morning with a phone call; say got interview, tmd, until I force her via a second phone call (when I have truly woken up), then admit selling insurance.
Wah rao irritating.
Cheers -
Ok la... my deduction not too bad.Originally posted by blu_sky:Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.
Yes, everything comes in package. He has accepted that i do not like to hear such untasteful words (like death, tumour, cancer, btw, he said that cos he thought i look like the female actress of the drama and we are goin korea, so he thought it will be 'fun/romantic' to crack the joke!), and he will not crack jokes with such untasteful words anymore.
P.S: Anyway you have resolved that matter; no more advices needed.
Cheers