Thank youOriginally posted by finrise:Dear All,
No offence... Blu_sky is here to ask a very simple question as whether is her bf too melodramatic.
Dun just get into personal attacks if you are just not gonna give constructive advice..
Every single individuals had their own likings and behaviour.
We are not out there to judge unless u you think u are REAL PERFECT.
Thanks
Thank you. The above is happily resolved alreadyOriginally posted by choco B:I think your bf is joking. He doesn't really believe you will say that to your boss?
If you don't like him saying all that just tell him not to do it
Congrats.... Enjoy ur holiday with your love ones..Originally posted by blu_sky:Thank you. The above is happily resolved already![]()
You and your best friend Charlize have been very active in this thread eh?Originally posted by ditzy:At least you can be sure those in your shoes in the future won't be getting slammed for asking again.![]()
Originally posted by M©+square:Dear Mr Mod,
You and your best friend Charlize have been very active in this thread eh?
Be nice lah.
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Dear Blu_sky,
please forgive the two nottis. they're known to pass insensitive remarks at times. (I do too.)
It's good to know your issue have been resolved. I hope your leave is approved.
Cheers[/b]
Fwah so formal ah!Originally posted by blu_sky:Dear Mr Mod,
you are being too humble. Being one kind soul who provides constructive advice at the right time and encouragement when that is needed, how can you say you pass insensitive remarks too?
As for the 2 of them, i've decided to ignore them![]()
Thank you for gracing this thread with your guest appearance and thanks for your well-wishes![]()
Yes its a lame joke, very lame joke, but a joke nonetheless. So why are we even talking about it?Originally posted by Ito_^:lame cold joke. dats about it.
unless its real and he is really dying from cancer..
*Looks around*Originally posted by Space1999:Sorry moderator.![]()
I think you think too much.Originally posted by Space1999:Yes its a lame joke, very lame joke, but a joke nonetheless. So why are we even talking about it?
I offer my sincerest apology for my remark, but i believe you are the one who started 'slamming' him(i mean your melodramatic and supposedly gay bf) so i am just helping you a long.(though i still think he is gay). Sorry if i am so correct.
I apologise if i touched any raw nerve(short fat and ugly), he may be just short and fat but not ugly or one of those. He is your choice after all in the end.
But in the end , i really think its a silly thread and just trying to spice it up and maybe to analyse what is the real reason for posting all this.
Maybe i am reading too deep into it or i may be correct in what i said. Only you will know. But i think some of the others may agree with what i said, your questions and post is just so silly and petty in comparison with the other problems here.
im just waiting for your next complain=)
Sorry moderator.![]()
Originally posted by M©+square:*Looks around*
Is this for me?![]()
Disclaimer : Mod is not wise and definitely do not want to be seen as enlightened. We are humans afterall.Originally posted by Space1999:![]()
yes it is
you are so wise, please lead us to enlightment
I have nothing against gays and i think they are fantastic people but ..i rest my case , my honour
You are definitely the man!![]()
Originally posted by blu_sky:Thank you and by the way i believe Andy lau swings both ways, last i heard.
I think you think too much.
I've [b]NEVER in anyway said that he is gayish. And no, i do not think so. He is tall and muscular, not Andy Lau, but not ugly like what you have pictured him to be (hey, dunno if you are fat, short and ugly, but not every guy is like that).
If you will not read selectively, you will see that my question is directing at his joke, not him. I like him, but not this joke of his, get it? Condemn the sin, not the sinner, get it? (not sure if you have even heard this saying before).
The idea of the thread is whether if i should tell him i dun like this kind of joke (if the joke is really lame and morbid) or should i juz accept such jokes (if im the sensitive one). Get it? If you still dun get it, like what a lot of others have, there is no way i can reach out to you. Hence, this shall be my last reply to you.
All the best and improve your english or/and your listening skills.
And yes, i still think you think too much.[/b]
Originally posted by blu_sky:im planning to go for holiday with this guy whom im dating. but i cant confirmed on a date yet cos of work commitments. my boss has yet to approved my leave.
then he said things like, tell your boss i got brain tumour and this is my last wish.
Today he said again, tell him i got cancer, he will surely let you go.
i find these very repugnant. is he wu liao in saying such things (probably they are jokes) or am i just sensitive?
She cant, you see this kind of lady if you go to my posting of the female species, expect man to change for them in all aspects. But be patient , i am reaching out to her..she is expressing her feelings to me.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Wu liao... he's also your boyfriend. If his personality is like that, you have made you choice to be with such a man; so either you accept such nonsense from time to time or you request that he evolved.
P.S: I believe he also has his strength that is attractive; everything comes in a package.
Cheers
Si siang....why your replies so manly today.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Wu liao... he's also your boyfriend. If his personality is like that, you have made you choice to be with such a man; so either you accept such nonsense from time to time or you request that he evolved.
P.S: I believe he also has his strength that is attractive; everything comes in a package.
Cheers
Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Wu liao... he's also your boyfriend. If his personality is like that, you have made you choice to be with such a man; so either you accept such nonsense from time to time or you request that he evolved.
P.S: I believe he also has his strength that is attractive; everything comes in a package.
Cheers
117846.98 in reply to 117846.31Originally posted by blu_sky:Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.
Yes, everything comes in package. He has accepted that i do not like to hear such untasteful words (like death, tumour, cancer, btw, he said that cos he thought i look like the female actress of the drama and we are goin korea, so he thought it will be 'fun/romantic' to crack the joke!), and he will not crack jokes with such untasteful(distasteful you mean?) words anymore.![]()
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I do predict a very horrible future for him , the word he absolutely adores you is death sentence for him, i wish you luck. Sorry i wish him luck. He needs it, a LOT!Originally posted by blu_sky:Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.
Yes, everything comes in package. He has accepted that i do not like to hear such untasteful words (like death, tumour, cancer, btw, he said that cos he thought i look like the female actress of the drama and we are goin korea, so he thought it will be 'fun/romantic' to crack the joke!), and he will not crack jokes with such untasteful words anymore.![]()
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To a well-respected man, respected words need to be usedOriginally posted by M©+square:Fwah so formal ah!
I somehow appreciate that your boyfriend could be transparent with his cheekiness(positive sense) and imagination.
Rather sure he's one boyfriend who could give you many surprises since too much of k-drama and movies have fused in his mind.
He might be childish, so if you still want him and accept him.
I'd suggest you to bring the best out of him, because every guys love to do the things they like most and gain acceptance of their partners.
In fact, they are the happiest that way! Of cos, it should take into consideration of the things he does must not hurt you or make you unhappy.
Learn to enjoy it, also bring him down to earth when you find him floating away?
p.s : I wouldn't like my gf a All practical, serious gal.
A good balance between naughty, sweet, crazy, wild, sensitive, strong, stable and attentive is puuuurfect!
(the list could go on and on. So i better stop here)
Cheers!
Originally posted by M©+square:Si siang....why your replies so manly today.I like...
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Ok la... my deduction not too bad.Originally posted by blu_sky:Ya, well, what to do? that joke is really wu liao. Yes, he definitely has other strengths, otherwise i wouldnt consider standing such wu liao jokes. he is caring, smart, kind-hearted, matured and blah blah blah and most importantly, he absolutely adores me.
Yes, everything comes in package. He has accepted that i do not like to hear such untasteful words (like death, tumour, cancer, btw, he said that cos he thought i look like the female actress of the drama and we are goin korea, so he thought it will be 'fun/romantic' to crack the joke!), and he will not crack jokes with such untasteful words anymore.![]()
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