Coward, weird, egoistic, problematic or what?
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hello prince and bontakun
prince: Thank you. You are rather good in analysing. Thanks for being frank in a gracious way, appreciate it. I am not surprised that the way you look at him differs from the rest as I share the same thoughts, too (I have thought about this before and think this could be possibly why he behaves the way he is). Frankly, I have both positive and negative thoughts about this guy. Sometimes I tell myself to give him the benefit of doubt. I donÂ’t deny I donÂ’t mind getting to know him as an ordinary friend and somehow I am like what you said strangely attracted to him. No worries, to date it is the objective side of me taking control. Some who knows me tell me I am being too objective where affairs of the heart is concerned and this may not be very helpful.
bontakun: thanks for your thoughts. we all learn from what we are going through in life. some are pleasant experiences, others are unpleasant. well, will see what's up to know how to deal with it.
devil1976: why didn't you edit the text of that Not from Venus from the beginning, I mean his/he 1st and second thread onwards. It's obvious he/she is very different from others that respond to this thread. It's so clear that he/she comes here without good motives. Nobody here has any personal attack on the threadstarter except this NOt from Venus. -
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I told you to STAY OUT.
It's OVER. She doesn't want your advice, just take that and leave here. People often just turn deaf ear to certain things, take it like a pinch of salt.
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Hi, Devil1976Originally posted by Devil1976:Thanks for IGNORING MY WARNINGS.
As much as I understand you've got your own points to make, it's really up to the TS to decide whether she wanna take your words. FORCING it down her throat would never work. And like you've mentioned, AA is about CONSTRUCTIVE ADVISING. Good advice or not.. If it's not taken, it's would be pretty much meaningless to insist on one's point... Just take it that your good words are not taken seriously.
Pls go out there. Leave this thread and take a break.
I CAN take more DRASTIC MOVES AGAINST you but I seriously see no point for me to go to that extent.
Instead I do wish to see your contributions in other threads within AA.
Think 'constructive'.
Have a nice day.
Please read the latest destructive post from NOT FROM VENUS, dtd 31 Oct. To date (as at 31 Oct), I have not voiced a word about this childish person, it (NOTFROMVENUS) is the one who from the start keeps attacking me personally. It is very obvious that he is here not to contribute any constructive comments, advice and views. If this sickening person is here manifesting some kind of serious problems or serious personality disorders that it has, then Devil1976 please deal with it directly as you are moderating this thread. It is a waste of space and time to allow a person with ill motive to come here to be destructive. -
Devil1976 - Moderator,
Isn't it childish and unfair to close the thread because of one person. If the one person who requests the thread to be closed IS THE ONLY ONE WHO has been very nasty here, then it's not justifiable to close the thread.
Moderator or Devil1976, I believe by now through reading those posts by people who come to this thread, you will agree that all of them are pleasant, sincere and contribute rather effectively to this thread. I appreciate their response be it positive of negative as they come here with the right motives unlike NOT FROM VENUS. Please step in to deal with this NOT FROM VENUS. -
That is what you think... Care to hear of what I think?Originally posted by rane:devil1976: why didn't you edit the text of that Not from Venus from the beginning, I mean his/he 1st and second thread onwards. It's obvious he/she is very different from others that respond to this thread. It's so clear that he/she comes here without good motives. Nobody here has any personal attack on the threadstarter except this NOt from Venus.
I think he doesn't even know you well enough to just step in and give you a direct trouble.. I think he started off with an intention to convey a certain message to you, which you did not wish to acknowledge (I'm not blaming you, this is your freedom).
It just sort of developed into a FLAME because of some misunderstandings..
All I ask of you is for you to ignore him.
Do not ask further of me. I'm not taking side on this case.
Whoever WISH to CONTINUE shall face the consequences. WARNINGS have already been given. I could just taken action by now. All you need to do now is to PUSH me. -
Do NOT tell me what I should be doing. I've ALREADY TOLD you what you need to do.Originally posted by rane:Hi, Devil1976
Please read the latest destructive post from NOT FROM VENUS, dtd 31 Oct. To date (as at 31 Oct), I have not voiced a word about this childish person, it (NOTFROMVENUS) is the one who from the start keeps attacking me personally. It is very obvious that he is here not to contribute any constructive comments, advice and views. If this sickening person is here manifesting some kind of serious problems or serious personality disorders that it has, then Devil1976 please deal with it directly as you are moderating this thread. It is a waste of space and time to allow a person with ill motive to come here to be destructive.
SIMPLY IGNORE and continue to get your GOOD ADVICES from those forumites who are still contributing so well in their opinions...
If you think he's trouble, why waste the effort on him?
If you want a FLAME WAR, it's not gonna be happening in AA.
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You can call me 'childish', 'unfair', whatever you want... I've already warned you that I would be closing this thread if you CHOOSE to IGNORE my WARNINGS. It's not by his request that I'm acting upon to clsoe this thread.Originally posted by rane:Devil1976 - Moderator,
Isn't it childish and unfair to close the thread because of one person. If the one person who requests the thread to be closed IS THE ONLY ONE WHO has been very nasty here, then it's not justifiable to close the thread.
Moderator or Devil1976, I believe by now through reading those posts by people who come to this thread, you will agree that all of them are pleasant, sincere and contribute rather effectively to this thread. I appreciate their response be it positive of negative as they come here with the right motives unlike NOT FROM VENUS. Please step in to deal with this NOT FROM VENUS.
The MAIN REASON why I'm not closing this thread is because I think you're still benefiting from it. It'll be much of a pity if I DO close it. Like you'e mentioned yourself that good contributions are still coming in... HOPE you'll TREASURE them.
I think it's not TRULY JUSTIFIABLE for me to close the thread for now, UNLESS you're giving me ENOUGH REASONS TO?
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Originally posted by Devil1976
What do you think is Trouble?
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I told you to STAY OUT.
It's OVER. She doesn't want your advice, just take that and leave here. People often just turn deaf ear to certain things, take it like a pinch of salt.
BUT if you're still ITCHING and KEEN to LOOK FOR TROUBLE.
Then TROUBLE you shall have....
At least there are people who took the trouble to reply to Rude Remarks that is unfair to a normal suggestion.
Who is venting Frustrations here? Moderator?
You seem to have been influenced by "INSECURITY" please, as I adviced earlier it is Contagious especially if you start agreeing with one. -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
Hi Devil1976
That is what you think... Care to hear of what I think?
I think he doesn't even know you well enough to just step in and give you a direct trouble.. I think he started off with an intention to convey a certain message to you, which you did not wish to acknowledge (I'm not blaming you, this is your freedom).
It just sort of developed into a FLAME because of some misunderstandings..
All I ask of you is for you to ignore him.
Do not ask further of me. I'm not taking side on this case.
Whoever WISH to CONTINUE shall face the consequences. [b]WARNINGS have already been given. I could just taken action by now. All you need to do now is to PUSH me.[/b]
You are doing a great job in moderating. Just to clarify, I am one who take advice from people who really mean well and reasonable in their sayings, thinking and understanding. That's why I appreciate all those who come here with sincere intention and right motives to contribute whoever. Nobody wants trouble. -
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aiyo headache!
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Space1999, huh you also find it's a headache, aiyo just ignore. Moderator said don't waste effort on that. Go read the other thread - I replied to your question on cup.Originally posted by Space1999:aiyo headache! -
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Hello, Devil1976Originally posted by NotFromVenus:I was saying , Girls always blame it on the men when they themselves have shortcomings , thus justifying their own insecurity , So it is normal that TS would post such a discussion .
So showing that it seems like it is the Guy's fault for not being approachable.
Such a perspective and would deservingly be the target of name calling and personal attacks??
And can justifiably be a threat to her post ?
one word - I N S E C U R I T Y -
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Originally posted by rane:hello prince and bontakun
prince: Thank you. You are rather good in analysing. Thanks for being frank in a gracious way, appreciate it. I am not surprised that the way you look at him differs from the rest as I share the same thoughts, too (I have thought about this before and think this could be possibly why he behaves the way he is). Frankly, I have both positive and negative thoughts about this guy. Sometimes I tell myself to give him the benefit of doubt. I donÂ’t deny I donÂ’t mind getting to know him as an ordinary friend and somehow I am like what you said strangely attracted to him. No worries, to date it is the objective side of me taking control. Some who knows me tell me I am being too objective where affairs of the heart is concerned and this may not be very helpful.
bontakun: thanks for your thoughts. we all learn from what we are going through in life. some are pleasant experiences, others are unpleasant. well, will see what's up to know how to deal with it.
devil1976: why didn't you edit the text of that Not from Venus from the beginning, I mean his/he 1st and second thread onwards. It's obvious he/she is very different from others that respond to this thread. It's so clear that he/she comes here without good motives. Nobody here has any personal attack on the threadstarter except this NOt from Venus.
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Do you feel appreciated or just Oily Buttered Up?Originally posted by Bontakun:
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It doesn't matter. As long as we all learn from one another and mature better emotionally and spiritually. That is all.Originally posted by NotFromVenus:Do you feel appreciated or just Oily Buttered Up? -
as the local serial which hits on the nail on relatnship :
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1st warning ignored. Note that BY RIGHT, NO DEBATE would be entertained.Originally posted by NotFromVenus:What do you think is Trouble?
At least there are people who took the trouble to reply to Rude Remarks that is unfair to a normal suggestion.
Who is venting Frustrations here? Moderator?
You seem to have been influenced by "INSECURITY" please, as I adviced earlier it is Contagious especially if you start agreeing with one.
Originally posted by Devil1976:
Both parties were EQUALLY RUDE. You people want me to be a FAIR MOD? It's REALLY QUITE SIMPLE. TAKE ACTIONS AGAINST BOTH of you. By I CHOSE to GIVE WARNINGS INSTEAD. WARNINGS WHICH WERE TURNED TO DEAF EARS.
[b]MOD. Any post directed to any forumite for purpose for flame or insult would be edited without further warning. No debate would be entertained.[/b]
I'm no longer giving you the benefit of doubt as you've taken it AWAY YOURSELF. As much as I HATE to SLAP anyone, there's ONE TYPE of PERSON I just cannot RESIST. THOSE WHO BEGS FOR IT.
Thanks. It should have been fairly simple starting from the beginning. Anyway, thanks for making things SIMPLE for me AGAIN. -
COOL.Originally posted by rane:Hello, Devil1976
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Who's childish?Originally posted by NotFromVenus:Don't worry, i find that TS is benefiting from enjoying "HER" venting of frustration on abusing the word CHILDISH?
Pls CLose this thread?
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dum dum dum dum dum dum dum dum dum dum
pls close it!