Coward, weird, egoistic, problematic or what?
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so got seen the guy recently?
kinda notice this thread has been around for quite some time. -
Hi, Bontakun, ha8n and Ito_^
Thanks for all your posts.
Bontakun - yes, it is healthy to learn from one another to grow in maturity. Experience is a more practical teacher compared to study, agree?
ha8n - yes, know what you mean. Sometimes depends on the situation lah. Takes two to tango!
Ito_^ - your concern is greatly aprreciated. I saw him recently, and he is still who he is. This time, he knew which direction I came from and stared at that direction and me when I arrived. His stare didn't make me feel comfortable. Hey, doesn't he know of a better way to do things. If he has the guts to keep staring, don't understand why he doesn't have the guts to make the right move. Someone help him! -
How about trying to give him a friendly smile if you are realli so curious about him?Originally posted by rane:Ito_^ - your concern is greatly aprreciated. I saw him recently, and he is still who he is. This time, he knew which direction I came from and stared at that direction and me when I arrived. His stare didn't make me feel comfortable. Hey, doesn't he know of a better way to do things. If he has the guts to keep staring, don't understand why he doesn't have the guts to make the right move. Someone help him! -
Clarufy your feelings for him.He's just confused about what to do to make you like him
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Thanks for your suggestion blu_sky, I did smile at him, he didn't look up - he turned his face aside. "Zhen nan gao de nan ren"!Originally posted by blu_sky:How about trying to give him a friendly smile if you are realli so curious about him?
unheardunknown, not a good idea to clarify may scare him off.
I don't know, think it's a matter of time my patience will run out. If he's having problem interacting with females, the thing he should do is to improve on his social skills. Sigh! Anyway, there is more than 1 tree in the forest! -
as much u appreciate our lao advice here , the one question
from the start u never say is wheather u have a bf now , otherwise u r in ..
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rane, dont worry about it so muchOriginally posted by rane:Thanks for your suggestion blu_sky, I did smile at him, he didn't look up - he turned his face aside. "Zhen nan gao de nan ren"!
unheardunknown, not a good idea to clarify may scare him off.
I don't know, think it's a matter of time my patience will run out. If he's having problem interacting with females, the thing he should do is to improve on his social skills. Sigh! Anyway, there is more than 1 tree in the forest!
if he wants he will come, you are a lady , you dont have to make the first move
if he is so gutless , then he is not a real man
a real man
should be confident enough to approach you
like me.
how about dinner tomorrow?
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u gona get into the feathers of real man dude >>>
when so many real men dun make white noises n promises -
Hi, everyone who respond to this thread
Thank you all for your concern. Space1999 I agree with you that man should have confident to approach a lady.
Update - he is still the same. Now whatever he does just don't have any positive impact on me any more. Just the other day, he was still so "wu liao" I was at the eating place that we often see each other. He arrived without ordering any food, just sat there and when I happen to look at his direction as usual attracting attention and just kept looking and smiled. After he caught my attention he went away. This just didn't turn me on. I am sick of his ways. Just find him disgusting, sneaky, coward, immature and hopeless!
A true coward he is! I am avoiding him. To me if a man can't even bring himself to approach a lady in a proper way, I don't think this kind of man is worthy to be given any chance. sometimes I ask myself if he is really man! -
LOL? 2-3 years? sorry but either that guy has a screw loose up his head if not theres something wrong with this post
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Originally posted by ReinaTanaka:LOL? 2-3 years? sorry but either that guy has a screw loose up his head if not theres something wrong with this post There is nothing wrong with the post. That guy is simply sleazy, may possibly have attitude problems, does not seem to have good social skills in getting to know a gal and moreover he refuses to make any move, so!!!! Oh my god, sometimes can't understand his behaviour - guai li guai qi! Come on, Mr Sleazy, be a man OK!
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so much u say about him even till the new year >>
shows the feelings never lost for him >>
from what we saw here , basically u dont know if u want to know/ like him
..as u havent approach and him huh , always stating that u were smiling at him >>
whats more he may have the SAME thinking as u . perceptions and image of u
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are you gonna do something sexual with him if he finally makes a move on you?
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Originally posted by ha8n:so much u say about him even till the new year >>
shows the feelings never lost for him >>
from what we saw here , basically u dont know if u want to know/ like him
..as u havent approach and him huh , always stating that u were smiling at him >>
whats more he may have the SAME thinking as u . perceptions and image of u 
Yeah, I still like him. I only smiled at him once or twice that's all, as most of the time it's either he . . . . . .. or I ...... When I smiled at him he looked away, so so . . . . I very offended, never come across such a guy b4. You gotta know gals enough to understand that majority of us want the guys to make the move to get to know us and be friends. This is very important to me. As long as he dare not make the move, then I will not bother about getting to know him. He gotta be a man to make the move, obviously he is not man enough, ha ha ha! What more whenever there are opportunities, he chicken out instead of taking the chances to make the move.
To me I doubt he is really that shy, let me tell you why. If he is able to wait for me to look at his direction to give me that sort of "ai mei" smile then after which when I saw him smile at me he walked away. His deliberate intent of this smiling really set me thinking is he genuinely that shy that he can't bring himself to make the move. All he is good at and very fond of doing is attracting my attention. I am now accepting the fact that he is like that so it doesn't bother me for I find that his coward actions turn me. The only time it bothers me is when there are opportunities he choose to not make the move. There is more than 1 tree in the forest, ha ha ha!
A very true Coward is he! He puts me off! I am not doing anything unless he make the move. -
Originally posted by Eric Cartman:are you gonna do something sexual with him if he finally makes a move on you?
Huh, do something sexual with him when he makes the move? Ha ha ha, sex is not the top priority. One gotta know the person to determine if one is comfortable with him - he is a nice, caring, understanding, mature, considerate, and a worthy guy to make friend with before deciding on sex. I will definitely not be involved sexually with a guy if I find that I am not comfortable with him. -
so means if u r comfy with a guy u will laOriginally posted by rane: Huh, do something sexual with him when he makes the move? Ha ha ha, sex is not the top priority. One gotta know the person to determine if one is comfortable with him - he is a nice, caring, understanding, mature, considerate, and a worthy guy to make friend with before deciding on sex. I will definitely not be involved sexually with a guy if I find that I am not comfortable with him. -
omg someone kill me
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Hey, Eric, it all depends OK - yes and no. What about u?
By the way, what do you call a male bimbo? Is that himbo? -
hmmm , u smile at him and he look away ( hmm , seems like no guys will do that esp. girls smile at them ) .. so many doubts n treess arh ..then u can forever dont do anything or u can wait till he became a real flirt and came to know u with intention to get u into something else ( u know lar) with him laterOriginally posted by rane: Yeah, I still like him. I only smiled at him once or twice that's all, as most of the time it's either he . . . . . .. or I ...... When I smiled at him he looked away, so so . . . . I very offended, never come across such a guy b4. You gotta know gals enough to understand that majority of us want the guys to make the move to get to know us and be friends. This is very important to me. As long as he dare not make the move, then I will not bother about getting to know him. He gotta be a man to make the move, obviously he is not man enough, ha ha ha! What more whenever there are opportunities, he chicken out instead of taking the chances to make the move.
To me I doubt he is really that shy, let me tell you why. If he is able to wait for me to look at his direction to give me that sort of "ai mei" smile then after which when I saw him smile at me he walked away. His deliberate intent of this smiling really set me thinking is he genuinely that shy that he can't bring himself to make the move. All he is good at and very fond of doing is attracting my attention. I am now accepting the fact that he is like that so it doesn't bother me for I find that his coward actions turn me. The only time it bothers me is when there are opportunities he choose to not make the move. There is more than 1 tree in the forest, ha ha ha!
A very true Coward is he! He puts me off! I am not doing anything unless he make the move. -
Originally posted by ha8n:hmmm , u smile at him and he look away ( hmm , seems like no guys will do that esp. girls smile at them ) .. so many doubts n treess arh ..then u can forever dont do anything or u can wait till he became a real flirt and came to know u with intention to get u into something else ( u know lar) with him later
Hello, ha8n, sure or not you think there is a possibility that he will come to know me with intention and get me into something else? He's been finding ways and means to know me without approaching me personally. He does it in his sleazy ways (sicko!!!) If he is behaving "normally" and makes the move to get to know me and make friend in the proper manner, then his "effort" of getting to know me will not be in vain!
Tell me how could a guy not have the guts to make a proper move to befriend the gal when he has all the guts to stare and look at the gal so boldly? Many told me he is shy, but I doubt his shyness! Prob is I still see him on and off. The last time when I saw him from far (walking to my direction), I walked quickly to avoid him.
All I have to say is I am turned off by his coward actions! Now I can't even stand the sight of him though I find myself still like him, sigh - I know I am contradicting! -
You are physically attracted to him.Originally posted by rane: Hello, ha8n, sure or not you think there is a possibility that he will come to know me with intention and get me into something else? He's been finding ways and means to know me without approaching me personally. He does it in his sleazy ways (sicko!!!) If he is behaving "normally" and makes the move to get to know me and make friend in the proper manner, then his "effort" of getting to know me will not be in vain!
Tell me how could a guy not have the guts to make a proper move to befriend the gal when he has all the guts to stare and look at the gal so boldly? Many told me he is shy, but I doubt his shyness! Prob is I still see him on and off. The last time when I saw him from far (walking to my direction), I walked quickly to avoid him.
All I have to say is I am turned off by his coward actions! Now I can't even stand the sight of him though I find myself still like him, sigh - I know I am contradicting!
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Originally posted by dokono:You are physically attracted to him.
doko Hi, Doko, I doubt I am physically attracted to him. I don't need a pretty face man to be my bf or life partner. Think it is his persistence to know me that makes me still think of him. -
Means ?? who's successful ?? in this relationship of insecured Scare Bears ??Originally posted by rane: Hi, Doko, I doubt I am physically attracted to him. I don't need a pretty face man to be my bf or life partner. Think it is his persistence to know me that makes me still think of him. 
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He doesn't need to be handsome. Attraction is not logical.Originally posted by rane: Hi, Doko, I doubt I am physically attracted to him. I don't need a pretty face man to be my bf or life partner. Think it is his persistence to know me that makes me still think of him.
doko -
Originally posted by dokono:He doesn't need to be handsome. Attraction is not logical.
doko doko, thanks for your response. Yeah, heard the above reply many times.