Disappointed and Sad
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
That's why CC got much higher rating mah.
In AA... if you see the problem topic exceed like 7 pages - you will know either:
I) TS in denial and everybody talk until tor whe.
II) Story started halfway and in midst of continuing.
III) Thread kanna hijacked.
Cheers 
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You're not the only one who wakes up to find himself / herself all alone on the streets....Originally posted by mitgalant:but her man really is determine to change.
do a search and see how bastard i am. the one topic that i said need help. the one that say john cher and jes.
Yes i knw i am ****ed up.
yes i knw. BUT i truly understand now that i really love her so much. I knw i din cherish what i had in the past and its all too late now. But dun u think the pain she inflict on me is like 2-3 times more painful that what i gave her ?
Pls pls pls tell me, how can i get her back. pls! i wann get her back, i wan her to love me again, i dun wan her body, i wan her heart. her true heart. I KNW I CAN GET HER BACK!! I KNW I CAN I KNW I CAN!!!
i am hopin she will wake up juz like how i have woken up. pls tell me.
Pack up and keep what's still remaining of you...
If you really mean what ya said and love her, then shouldn't pester her no more.....? -
i am nt pesterin her anymore. i never call or sms her.
true, i feel like and the urge to call her. but i am tryin very hard to control my urge.
yet on the other hand, i duno why din she call or sms me. i am sad but every call or sms that came in, i am hopin that it is her.
i admit it seems like no hope. well, i am also slowly acceptin the fact. but i juz dun understand y will she call me and ask me abt directions all these.
plus i really dun think my everythin, i will lose to the guy. i am confident i am better than tat guy. but y cant she juz see that ?
she wanna live in short term future, whereas i had plan our long term future. definately, i think girls would prefer the long term future right ? -
Seems like it's so damn hard to grasp the concept of "it's over" for you huh?Originally posted by mitgalant:i am nt pesterin her anymore. i never call or sms her.
true, i feel like and the urge to call her. but i am tryin very hard to control my urge.
yet on the other hand, i duno why din she call or sms me. i am sad but every call or sms that came in, i am hopin that it is her.
i admit it seems like no hope. well, i am also slowly acceptin the fact. but i juz dun understand y will she call me and ask me abt directions all these.
plus i really dun think my everythin, i will lose to the guy. i am confident i am better than tat guy. but y cant she juz see that ?
she wanna live in short term future, whereas i had plan our long term future. definately, i think girls would prefer the long term future right ?
It's your ego and feelings playing with you here. Your ego cannot take the rejection. Your ego is so high you think you are better than that guy. Your ego don't allow you to accept defeat. Your ego cannot take the fact that just because she called you for directions while making out with the guy, you still think she likes you.
She doesn't like you anymore and you should not either. If she don't love you, why should you should you love her? I know it's very difficult to understand. This concept requires you to get to University and obtain a doctorate to understand.
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Originally posted by blu_sky:hahahaha!!!!!
Thank you for the joke that brightens up this Wednesday morning!!! Tell me when that happens, I will prepare a counterspell... just in case.
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Save the counterspell. You'll never gonna need it!Originally posted by Yunhaier: Tell me when that happens, I will prepare a counterspell... just in case.
Cheers
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Hey mitgalant, I think you should really give up on her cos you already know that she doesn't love you anymore. So why keep on holding on to hopes when you know there's none anymore? Correct?Originally posted by mitgalant:i am nt pesterin her anymore. i never call or sms her.
true, i feel like and the urge to call her. but i am tryin very hard to control my urge.
yet on the other hand, i duno why din she call or sms me. i am sad but every call or sms that came in, i am hopin that it is her.
i admit it seems like no hope. well, i am also slowly acceptin the fact. but i juz dun understand y will she call me and ask me abt directions all these.
plus i really dun think my everythin, i will lose to the guy. i am confident i am better than tat guy. but y cant she juz see that ?
she wanna live in short term future, whereas i had plan our long term future. definately, i think girls would prefer the long term future right ?
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Seriously, you're getting too far off... It doesn't matter what you think anymore... The world doesn't revolve just around you, spend more quality time packing up your life...?Originally posted by mitgalant:i am nt pesterin her anymore. i never call or sms her.
true, i feel like and the urge to call her. but i am tryin very hard to control my urge.
yet on the other hand, i duno why din she call or sms me. i am sad but every call or sms that came in, i am hopin that it is her.
i admit it seems like no hope. well, i am also slowly acceptin the fact. but i juz dun understand y will she call me and ask me abt directions all these.
plus i really dun think my everythin, i will lose to the guy. i am confident i am better than tat guy. but y cant she juz see that ?
she wanna live in short term future, whereas i had plan our long term future. definately, i think girls would prefer the long term future right ? -
clubbing- now she enjoying herself, wait til her $$ all gone to the drinks shopping than her liver failing her that time than she will voice her regrets, til then it's way too late.Originally posted by mitgalant:Hi guys,
i am currently in a relationship of 2.8 yrs. recently i had a major quarrel with my gf. Then we stopped contactin one another for like 1 to 2 months. During this standoff, she starts to get independent and starts goin out with her frens.
Meanwhile over at my side, i am tryin my best to see if i really want this relationship. She assured me that she still want this relationship
After much consideration for a month or so, i finally got back to her. We started doin things like goin out, to the beach etc but suddenly, when i ask her, y is she so cold towards me, she replied me that she no longer feel the same in this relationship
She prefers her singlehood now. She is enjoyin herself now. Every friday night clubbin all these.
She does not seems interested in this relationship now.
What can i do to make her come back to me like the past ? I really really love her alot.
Can give me some advises. Thanks
I've read in health magazine that a liver will only give sysptoms of liver failure when its 70% damaged, so imagine when it does, off goes her liver, she faces a lot of trouble in future, and even might have a lot of illness due to the environment that she is in currently, in toxicifying herself with aloholic drinks, passive smoke (higher chances of lung cancer, stroke, heart attack) and she's not doing anything to help herself
if i were you, seriously speaking, i will look towards her in the eyes, give her 2 tight slaps, look her in the eyes when you say this
"if you continue the lifestyle that you are currently enjoying, very soon you will end up in hospital soon. If not when you grow old, your money will be donated to the hospitals.
and as a ex-bf of yours, i still care very much for you, so i hope you can wake up your idea.
Life is Short, Live it Well (instead of usual phase, enjoy it to the max) "
with that, you ask her if she wants to enjoy a few yrs, slog a few decades, or work hard get a good future good job than enjoy or get into early retirement than enjoy the rest of 10yrs traveling etc.
it's either as per above or she can spend her later prime life (retiress age in the hospital)
just let her choose, look her in the eyes when you say it, after you say it, let her make her own choice, and you leave her there, you walk away go do your things, maybe go home or go work if you are busy.
If she is in her correct state of mind, can still able to think, she will shout your name or come running towards you saying thank you for the care and concern or stuffs like that.
Some times you have to learn to be harsh give ppl some slaps and have them thanking you for that. -
is it true a couple where the girl is a clubber and the guy is a non-clubber cannot last?
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not true.Originally posted by mrwonderful:is it true a couple where the girl is a clubber and the guy is a non-clubber cannot last? -
i think usually is the case la.
same for a large majority of rships when the guy goes NS. 2 years later ive hardly seen any r ship still standing when the guy ORd. this is the BRUTAL TRUTH.
unless guy is stay out job got more hope. stay in vocation very slim chance -
You referring to Clubbing partner with non clubbing partner?Originally posted by mrwonderful:i think usually is the case la.
same for a large majority of rships when the guy goes NS. 2 years later ive hardly seen any r ship still standing when the guy ORd. this is the BRUTAL TRUTH.
unless guy is stay out job got more hope. stay in vocation very slim chance
Or another case altogether?
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Cannot last? not true. i've got afew married couple friends whereby one of them is a clubber and the other party is a homely person, and they are still married as at today. Though i must say that there will be a lot of temptations along the way.Originally posted by mrwonderful:is it true a couple where the girl is a clubber and the guy is a non-clubber cannot last? -
well, guys, she gave me an ans. and i am sad but yet relieve that its over. At least i wont give myself false hope for this near future.
Currently lookin forward to hurry finish my poly and get to NS.
hopefully after NS, fate still allows, we can still be together. maybe when i am in NS for 2 yrs, she on the other hand get to see the outside world and hopefully, she will still come back to me.
Well, it takes two hands to clap and two hands to break a relationship.
Still tryin very very hard to overcome this problem and to find my feet back. true enough time will heal everythin.
should i still continue as her fren ? I really hope i can still be her fren and if should an opportunity arise in the future, i will definately cherish what i have.
along the way, i will also learn to look at things in a more different way. I learnt my lesson, and i know sometimes things only happen once. There wont be a second chance. I lost someone i love so much but i also got some experience that have make me stronger in whatever i do in future.
I pray, god will be help me out, make me stonger day by day and also, one day, she might juz start fallin in love with me again. -
you always contradict yourself dont you? At the beginning you said you are glad you won't give yourself false hope in the future but at the end, you still say that you are praying for her to start falling in love with you again.Originally posted by mitgalant:well, guys, she gave me an ans. and i am sad but yet relieve that its over. At least i wont give myself false hope for this near future.
Currently lookin forward to hurry finish my poly and get to NS.
hopefully after NS, fate still allows, we can still be together. maybe when i am in NS for 2 yrs, she on the other hand get to see the outside world and hopefully, she will still come back to me.
Well, it takes two hands to clap and two hands to break a relationship.
Still tryin very very hard to overcome this problem and to find my feet back. true enough time will heal everythin.
should i still continue as her fren ? I really hope i can still be her fren and if should an opportunity arise in the future, i will definately cherish what i have.
along the way, i will also learn to look at things in a more different way. I learnt my lesson, and i know sometimes things only happen once. There wont be a second chance. I lost someone i love so much but i also got some experience that have make me stronger in whatever i do in future.
I pray, god will be help me out, make me stonger day by day and also, one day, she might juz start fallin in love with me again.
When you say something, mean it.
And with this situation, I think no, it is not wise to continue to be her friends. -
He is juz confused, trying to console/delude himself. Cut the young boy some slack i sayOriginally posted by rainee:you always contradict yourself dont you? At the beginning you said you are glad you won't give yourself false hope in the future but at the end, you still say that you are praying for her to start falling in love with you again.
When you say something, mean it.
And with this situation, I think no, it is not wise to continue to be her friends. -
i tot we have been cutting him some slack for 10 pages oledi?Originally posted by blu_sky:He is juz confused, trying to console/delude himself. Cut the young boy some slack i say -
hehee.... qin cai lah...Originally posted by rainee:i tot we have been cutting him some slack for 10 pages oledi? -
well mrwonderful, i'm a real life example to that.... but we lasted.... so far.Originally posted by mrwonderful:is it true a couple where the girl is a clubber and the guy is a non-clubber cannot last? -
Originally posted by mitgalant:
if u ever find yourself thinking that, then NO you are not ready to be JUST FRIENDS
[b]well, guys, she gave me an ans. and i am sad but yet relieve that its over. At least i wont give myself false hope for this near future.
Currently lookin forward to hurry finish my poly and get to NS.
hopefully after NS, fate still allows, we can still be together. maybe when i am in NS for 2 yrs, she on the other hand get to see the outside world and hopefully, she will still come back to me.
Well, it takes two hands to clap and two hands to break a relationship.
Still tryin very very hard to overcome this problem and to find my feet back. true enough time will heal everythin.
should i still continue as her fren ? I really hope i can still be her fren and if should an opportunity arise in the future, i will definately cherish what i have.
along the way, i will also learn to look at things in a more different way. I learnt my lesson, and i know sometimes things only happen once. There wont be a second chance. I lost someone i love so much but i also got some experience that have make me stronger in whatever i do in future.
I pray, god will be help me out, make me stonger day by day and also, one day, she might juz start fallin in love with me again.[/b] -
God bless you and her soul.Originally posted by mitgalant:well, guys, she gave me an ans. and i am sad but yet relieve that its over. At least i wont give myself false hope for this near future.
Currently lookin forward to hurry finish my poly and get to NS.
hopefully after NS, fate still allows, we can still be together. maybe when i am in NS for 2 yrs, she on the other hand get to see the outside world and hopefully, she will still come back to me.
Well, it takes two hands to clap and two hands to break a relationship.
Still tryin very very hard to overcome this problem and to find my feet back. true enough time will heal everythin.
should i still continue as her fren ? I really hope i can still be her fren and if should an opportunity arise in the future, i will definately cherish what i have.
along the way, i will also learn to look at things in a more different way. I learnt my lesson, and i know sometimes things only happen once. There wont be a second chance. I lost someone i love so much but i also got some experience that have make me stronger in whatever i do in future.
I pray, god will be help me out, make me stonger day by day and also, one day, she might juz start fallin in love with me again. -
to my view, he has given himself enough slack. if his friends and us do the same, he'll never recover...Originally posted by blu_sky:He is juz confused, trying to console/delude himself. Cut the young boy some slack i say
i've seen friends waiting for their partners for 2, 3 4 or even 5 years! what time has been wasted! -
i think being in that stage for a few weeks is fine, or even a few months, depending on the intensity and length of the relationship.Originally posted by smudgey:to my view, he has given himself enough slack. if his friends and us do the same, he'll never recover...
i've seen friends waiting for their partners for 2, 3 4 or even 5 years! what time has been wasted!
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mitgalant, last night i saw a movie on HBO, in it there was a guy who was hopelessly and freakishly in love with a gal even though she loves another...
and as the gal and her love goes out for a date, he pursue/stalk them, again and again he tried to beatup/kill the other guy... finally someway or another he got the gal to promise to marry him. at the wedding, the bride stood in front of every one and told them a brief version of what happened, and asked "when the two ppl are not in love, do you think they should marry?" but before anyone can reply, the groom jumps in to say "even when one of them loves the other very very very much? worships the ground she walks on?...etc"
you are really beginning to resemble that man. pls take a step back and listen to us.