Is that love?
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Originally posted by galfriend:Yes, you make a lot of sense.
Making lots of sense actually makes no sense if nothing was implemented. Knowledge is nothing without action; by agreeing with me doesn't mean you understood the essence of my post - it merely means that you are agreeable with what I had said, but that doesn't mean that you would pursue my 'sense'.
Are those 'sense' I have made going to influence you to make wiser decision in love and life? Or is it just polite nodding of head while deciding on that fixedly mindset of yours to keep that unhealthy bondage?
What is your stand now?
Think about it carefully because you got to support those stand with powerful beliefs before it will take root.
It's mundane to tell yourself it's logical to move on and not support them with robust understanding and beliefs on WHY should you do that. It is like telling a soldier to fight in war without motivating him the reason why he should fight - the soldier will not survive the onslaught. Similarly, you will retrace your route and return back to square one.
Learn acceptance - as well as the reason why you must learn acceptance.
Cheers -
Will it help if this is a case of karmic struggle?Originally posted by Yunhaier: Making lots of sense actually makes no sense if nothing was implemented. Knowledge is nothing without action; by agreeing with me doesn't mean you understood the essence of my post - it merely means that you are agreeable with what I had said, but that doesn't mean that you would pursue my 'sense'.
Are those 'sense' I have made going to influence you to make wiser decision in love and life? Or is it just polite nodding of head while deciding on that fixedly mindset of yours to keep that unhealthy bondage?
What is your stand now?
Think about it carefully because you got to support those stand with powerful beliefs before it will take root.
It's mundane to tell yourself it's logical to move on and not support them with robust understanding and beliefs on WHY should you do that. It is like telling a soldier to fight in war without motivating him the reason why he should fight - the soldier will not survive the onslaught. Similarly, you will retrace your route and return back to square one.
Learn acceptance - as well as the reason why you must learn acceptance.
Cheers Can anyone get out of the kamic cycle through self will?
Cheers -
Originally posted by M©+square:Will it help if this is a case of karmic struggle? Can anyone get out of the kamic cycle through self will?
Cheers Eventually, everyone will get out of their own karmic cycle. Debt relationship is another term for karmic relationship; when our spiritual account is balanced, we will stop paying.
If you are asking whether posting replies would help in resolving a potential karmic relationship - seriously, I don't know.
So far, a more notable case to me, I pulled a good friend out of her karmic relationship via 'sheer brute force' and succeeded in that manner. To be frank, I was experimenting if it was possible for her to escape out via self will, so I gave a generous period of time for her to fend for herself, but she was still suffering the same torment after the time frame. So I intervene into this matter and about one month later, the storm was over.
Actually I planned to do that long ago, just that I need the time factor to make sure that she has probably 'paid' what is required of her before I tried to 'force' her out of it.
Of course, it also helps as she trust and listens to me very much.
The reason why I did that is because I encounter much failure to dissuade people when karmic relationship is at its peak - its demonic powers will close doors to external assistance and even wisdom may fail to function properly. I remember one close friend who went emotionally insane and started bedding any guys that came into her path. I tried to stop her insanity, but her Scorpio-extremist traits were too formidable to dispel.
I told her 'You are not well now and when you recovered emotionally, you will regret your action.'
She replied 'I know I will regret... currently, I just don't care...'
This is the apex of karmic struggle - nothing anyone can do about it. She choose complication, so there is nothing much yunhaier can do about it.
When she has recovered, I spoke to her on MSN and she told me that she regretted over that inglorious episode and don't even want me to remind her about her folly by talking about it.
And all within like months when this whole drama happened?
Haiya... tsk...
Cheers -
Something new:karmic r/s.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Eventually, everyone will get out of their own karmic cycle. Debt relationship is another term for karmic relationship; when our spiritual account is balanced, we will stop paying.
If you are asking whether posting replies would help in resolving a potential karmic relationship - seriously, I don't know.
So far, a more notable case to me, I pulled a good friend out of her karmic relationship via 'sheer brute force' and succeeded in that manner. To be frank, I was experimenting if it was possible for her to escape out via self will, so I gave a generous period of time for her to fend for herself, but she was still suffering the same torment after the time frame. So I intervene into this matter and about one month later, the storm was over.
Actually I planned to do that long ago, just that I need the time factor to make sure that she has probably 'paid' what is required of her before I tried to 'force' her out of it.
Of course, it also helps as she trust and listens to me very much.
The reason why I did that is because I encounter much failure to dissuade people when karmic relationship is at its peak - its demonic powers will close doors to external assistance and even wisdom may fail to function properly. I remember one close friend who went emotionally insane and started bedding any guys that came into her path. I tried to stop her insanity, but her Scorpio-extremist traits were too formidable to dispel.
I told her 'You are not well now and when you recovered emotionally, you will regret your action.'
She replied 'I know I will regret... currently, I just don't care...'
This is the apex of karmic struggle - nothing anyone can do about it. She choose complication, so there is nothing much yunhaier can do about it.
When she has recovered, I spoke to her on MSN and she told me that she regretted over that inglorious episode and don't even want me to remind her about her folly by talking about it.
And all within like months when this whole drama happened?
Haiya... tsk...
Cheers
Can you define what is it?
sounds spiritual...
One more question: does horoscopy stuff really work? I don't really believe this stuff controls the fate of humans. For example, Taurus people can display traits of Aries people...something like that.
Care to explain? Thanks!
One more thing, hope to see more Singapore girls like Yun.
doko -
look here, u have already tried your bestOriginally posted by galfriend:I was with him for 5 years. Loved him so much during the 5 years. Tried so hard to make it work, but it just didnt work. Finally we couldnt take it , and we called it off.
It has been more than 2.5 years since we parted. I had 2 bfs after that, which didnt work out. but somehow, i feel that there is still this feeling i have for him, this deep feeling, that sometimes i feel severe pain in my heart. I feel that im waiting for him, but im not so sure. Im juz so confused about this feeling.
Is this love? Do i still love him?
it's the guy who didnt cherish you, no matter how hard u work towards him, there will also be no results.
why not u concentrate on giving your other suitors a chance?
let them have a chance, at the same time you are giving yourself a chance too.
who knows if you might find the right one?
you never know..
my friend last time also being an identical suitation, but with the help of her friends, they match the 2 together when their hearts still have their own person in heart.
just give it a try, the results might prove encouraging.
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you have been with this kind of 5 years...
of course, it isn't easy to just let it go and move on...
but don't you think that it is about time that you did move on and let go...
i was once in your shoes...
dated a girl for 7 years and we broke up due to a 3rd party...
i wasted 2 years of my life doing all sorts of stupid things even hurt the people around me...
how much more time do you want to waste
have you ever thought that you can be happier with someone else
if you keep on waiting, you might never settle down
take courage and move on...
jia you -
It's not the last page. It shouldn't be. But the way you're doing things, you're not reading a story the way it's meant to be read....Originally posted by galfriend:you mean this page which im staring at, refusing to flip passed, is the last page to the story?
Be careful... Before you know it, the book might have just turned yellow... -
You're confused over a relationship precious... But on serious note, that relationship might not even be a proper BGR form for you...Originally posted by galfriend:I do not know if he will honor it, but he did seriously re-mention it lately. Again i stress, i do not know if he is juz stringing me along. And, like wat yun said, we couldnt get past a BGR, i dunno if we can have a happy marriage even if he honors it. But i do not know why im still waiting.
It's not really what ya want for BGR, but looking damn close to what you've thought it might be...
Sometimes humans have a weak mind.. They know it's not real but only more like a delusion, but they just couldn't help looking at and feelings its 'surface perfection'....
It's a 'nothing ventured, nothing gained' situation...Personally, I think the betting stake is no good.. As you keep losing on your end... Unless one of you most willingly re-think what what he / she wants... -
I don't think this would be a wise move for that guy...Originally posted by Magnus:You are probably waiting for a commitment Ask him for it. Concrete actions, no airy promises. Then you will access. -
Hmm..Originally posted by Yunhaier: Making lots of sense actually makes no sense if nothing was implemented. Knowledge is nothing without action; by agreeing with me doesn't mean you understood the essence of my post - it merely means that you are agreeable with what I had said, but that doesn't mean that you would pursue my 'sense'.
Are those 'sense' I have made going to influence you to make wiser decision in love and life? Or is it just polite nodding of head while deciding on that fixedly mindset of yours to keep that unhealthy bondage?
What is your stand now?
Think about it carefully because you got to support those stand with powerful beliefs before it will take root.
It's mundane to tell yourself it's logical to move on and not support them with robust understanding and beliefs on WHY should you do that. It is like telling a soldier to fight in war without motivating him the reason why he should fight - the soldier will not survive the onslaught. Similarly, you will retrace your route and return back to square one.
Learn acceptance - as well as the reason why you must learn acceptance.
Cheers -
Hmm..Originally posted by Yunhaier: Eventually, everyone will get out of their own karmic cycle. Debt relationship is another term for karmic relationship; when our spiritual account is balanced, we will stop paying.
If you are asking whether posting replies would help in resolving a potential karmic relationship - seriously, I don't know.
So far, a more notable case to me, I pulled a good friend out of her karmic relationship via 'sheer brute force' and succeeded in that manner. To be frank, I was experimenting if it was possible for her to escape out via self will, so I gave a generous period of time for her to fend for herself, but she was still suffering the same torment after the time frame. So I intervene into this matter and about one month later, the storm was over.
Actually I planned to do that long ago, just that I need the time factor to make sure that she has probably 'paid' what is required of her before I tried to 'force' her out of it.
Of course, it also helps as she trust and listens to me very much.
The reason why I did that is because I encounter much failure to dissuade people when karmic relationship is at its peak - its demonic powers will close doors to external assistance and even wisdom may fail to function properly. I remember one close friend who went emotionally insane and started bedding any guys that came into her path. I tried to stop her insanity, but her Scorpio-extremist traits were too formidable to dispel.
I told her 'You are not well now and when you recovered emotionally, you will regret your action.'
She replied 'I know I will regret... currently, I just don't care...'
This is the apex of karmic struggle - nothing anyone can do about it. She choose complication, so there is nothing much yunhaier can do about it.
When she has recovered, I spoke to her on MSN and she told me that she regretted over that inglorious episode and don't even want me to remind her about her folly by talking about it.
And all within like months when this whole drama happened?
Haiya... tsk...
Cheers -
Originally posted by dokono:Something new:karmic r/s.
Can you define what is it?
sounds spiritual...
One more question: does horoscopy stuff really work? I don't really believe this stuff controls the fate of humans. For example, Taurus people can display traits of Aries people...something like that.
Care to explain? Thanks!
One more thing, hope to see more Singapore girls like Yun.
doko
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Originally posted by dokono:Something new:karmic r/s.
Can you define what is it?
sounds spiritual...
One more question: does horoscopy stuff really work? I don't really believe this stuff controls the fate of humans. For example, Taurus people can display traits of Aries people...something like that.
Care to explain? Thanks!
One more thing, hope to see more Singapore girls like Yun.
doko Haiyo... that subject is very theoretical and dry. I won't paste my thesis as it will bore everyone here to death. If you are interested, next time got chance then explain to you verbally.
In summary, as quoted from CloUdiSm: '...Relationship, of negative bonds, that isn't meant to be... with intense lessons to be educated...'
*** CloUdiSm segment relationships into three realms - of physical... of emotional and of spiritual. All relationship will have these three components in it simultaneously, yet distinctively felt - and that will determine how the relationship will grow and how vast the individual growth will attain.
The reason why, say a Taurus is behaving more like an Aries, is because of the individual's birth chart. This person may be born under the sign of Taurus (his/her Sun Sign is a Taurus) but his/her other planets are likely to be found in other signs, probably Aries, which contribute to the reason why she behaves more Aries than Taurus.
[Astrologically speaking, although I am sure it will sound completely alien to you, it is when other planetaries (Mars, Mercury, Moon, Venus, Saturn, Neptune, Uranus or Pluto) are jolly well (1) in sign of Aries, (2) planets major in fire element, (3) dignified Aries via aspects, critical degree, planet placing, (4) Aries/Mars being the significator of chart].
Real astrology isn't just about the Sun Sign (often mis-term as horoscope by the common folks - horoscope means another thing altogether) - it so much more than that.
If you are asking me how useful is that: I was taught that Love in inherently spiritual and my personal research cum self study in love reinforced this idea greatly. That is the reason why I got involved with astrology because if doctors are able to use medical art to diagnose health problem, then one would be able, when proficient in the fields of astrology, to identity issues in love and personality.
And it creates a synergy - strengthening objective beliefs and eliminating subjective biasness.
Like all skills in life, it's usually not about the means, it's usually more about the user.... on how they make use of those means to further their end. So if you asking me if it served my purpose I wanted - yes it did.
Cheers -
Hmm..Originally posted by Yunhaier: Haiyo... that subject is very theoretical and dry. I won't paste my thesis as it will bore everyone here to death. If you are interested, next time got chance then explain to you verbally.
In summary, as quoted from CloUdiSm: '...Relationship, of negative bonds, that isn't meant to be... with intense lessons to be educated...'
*** CloUdiSm segment relationships into three realms - of physical... of emotional and of spiritual. All relationship will have these three components in it simultaneously, yet distinctively felt - and that will determine how the relationship will grow and how vast the individual growth will attain.
The reason why, say a Taurus is behaving more like an Aries, is because of the individual's birth chart. This person may be born under the sign of Taurus (his/her Sun Sign is a Taurus) but his/her other planets are likely to be found in other signs, probably Aries, which contribute to the reason why she behaves more Aries than Taurus.
[Astrologically speaking, although I am sure it will sound completely alien to you, it is when other planetaries (Mars, Mercury, Moon, Venus, Saturn, Neptune, Uranus or Pluto) are jolly well (1) in sign of Aries, (2) planets major in fire element, (3) dignified Aries via aspects, critical degree, planet placing, (4) Aries/Mars being the significator of chart].
Real astrology isn't just about the Sun Sign (often mis-term as horoscope by the common folks - horoscope means another thing altogether) - it so much more than that.
If you are asking me how useful is that: I was taught that Love in inherently spiritual and my personal research cum self study in love reinforced this idea greatly. That is the reason why I got involved with astrology because if doctors are able to use medical art to diagnose health problem, then one would be able, when proficient in the fields of astrology, to identity issues in love and personality.
And it creates a synergy - strengthening objective beliefs and eliminating subjective biasness.
Like all skills in life, it's usually not about the means, it's usually more about the user.... on how they make use of those means to further their end. So if you asking me if it served my purpose I wanted - yes it did.
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier: Eventually, everyone will get out of their own karmic cycle. Debt relationship is another term for karmic relationship; when our spiritual account is balanced, we will stop paying.
If you are asking whether posting replies would help in resolving a potential karmic relationship - seriously, I don't know.
So far, a more notable case to me, I pulled a good friend out of her karmic relationship via 'sheer brute force' and succeeded in that manner. To be frank, I was experimenting if it was possible for her to escape out via self will, so I gave a generous period of time for her to fend for herself, but she was still suffering the same torment after the time frame. So I intervene into this matter and about one month later, the storm was over.
Actually I planned to do that long ago, just that I need the time factor to make sure that she has probably 'paid' what is required of her before I tried to 'force' her out of it.
Of course, it also helps as she trust and listens to me very much.
The reason why I did that is because I encounter much failure to dissuade people when karmic relationship is at its peak - its demonic powers will close doors to external assistance and even wisdom may fail to function properly. I remember one close friend who went emotionally insane and started bedding any guys that came into her path. I tried to stop her insanity, but her Scorpio-extremist traits were too formidable to dispel.
I told her 'You are not well now and when you recovered emotionally, you will regret your action.'
She replied 'I know I will regret... currently, I just don't care...'
This is the apex of karmic struggle - nothing anyone can do about it. She choose complication, so there is nothing much yunhaier can do about it.
When she has recovered, I spoke to her on MSN and she told me that she regretted over that inglorious episode and don't even want me to remind her about her folly by talking about it.
And all within like months when this whole drama happened?
Haiya... tsk...
Cheers
ehh.. help me leh~~~ -
Originally posted by dokono:Something new:karmic r/s.
Can you define what is it?
sounds spiritual...
One more question: does horoscopy stuff really work? I don't really believe this stuff controls the fate of humans. For example, Taurus people can display traits of Aries people...something like that.
Care to explain? Thanks!
One more thing, hope to see more Singapore girls like Yun.
doko
OMG!
I also want to see Auntie Yun~ -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
OMG!
I also want to see Auntie Yun~
doko -
ok. Was suggesting that to expedite the process instead of just waiting. Both not young btw..Originally posted by Devil1976:I don't think this would be a wise move for that guy...
Hey.. wonder how's galfriend after many replies over here? -
Think she mentioned that both comfortable with their own age or something like that...? Anyway, if that guy could be pushed, he would have been pushed already by now...Originally posted by Magnus:ok. Was suggesting that to expedite the process instead of just waiting. Both not young btw..
Hey.. wonder how's galfriend after many replies over here? -
Simi tai ji can pm...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
ehh.. help me leh~~~ 
Cheers -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
OMG!
I also want to see Auntie Yun~ 
Cheers -
orh~Originally posted by Yunhaier:Simi tai ji can pm...
Cheers
ni deng wo de pm O~
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doko say he wants to see u mah~~~Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Cheers
i also want~~~~~~ -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:orh~
ni deng wo de pm O~
Cheers -
For the passed week, i have thought thru many of your comments and advices, i am seriously considering that i should give up on this hope. I was in fact thinking of giving one of my suitors whom i do have chemistry with a chance. Last weekend we had a good time during our date.
But somehow, this week, my ex suddenly treat me differently. All along he does treat me nicely. EG im staying in his apartment which he used to rent out untill half a year ago, i need a roof over my head and i thinkin of renting, he offered me his apt as the tenancy agreement was about to end.
This week, he has really been nice to me. EG i went for a interiview in a job, which i need to go to places like vietnam, and he suggested that since it is dangerous, he can company me there if i need to go there. Another incident, we are meeting our friends for drinks in orchard. we both decided we are not driving, he offered to fetch me with a cab from his place to my place then to drinks place. note that we are staying in opp direction from him (eg i stay in bkt timah and his stays in katong).
why he treats me nice? now im confused again.