No One Wants To Be My GF

• acerchan2002

  4 Dec 06, 15:52

  Hey pal,u r still young,y do u nd a gf for?I'v many Girls who wan to be my GF ,but when i'v GF my $ in my bank kept deducting,when i'v no GF i'v have lots of saving.Single is still the best!!
• claymarble

  4 Dec 06, 15:54

  Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:

  Mmmm, being a girl, I think you better listen to me =).
  Forget the people who tell you to get rich or to smoke.
  It's not good for you, and having all these things won't make girls love you. It'll only make them lust after you. Big difference there xD.
  I'm guessing you're only in sec sch? I think you should wait a bit, maybe look around. Befriend girls, but don't hold the motive of going out with them. Be sweet, be charming, be nice, be whatever. But most importantly, be yourself. If may take a while, but people will start noticing you. The worst thing ever is to pretend to be someone you're not, then struggle to keep up that image. Believe me, I know.

  yes i second that~ whats impt is to be yourself, & be proud of being yourself
  
  people tend to be drawn to people who can radiate confidence around themselves, looks are secondary
  
  i have many frds who are not exactly good looking but can display an air of charisma, & dat more than overshadow the looks part
  
  
• kokzter

  4 Dec 06, 16:08

  study hard, go good skool, in future hav status, by tat time, u got ah gua voice,flabby, baldin, got BO, or whteve reason, still gals flock to u ... thn u can b happi n not bored...
  
  
• v_valentine

  4 Dec 06, 17:58

  last time i thought getting a gf is something to be proud of, like people tend to look at you and talk about you. You feel happy walking in the mall when holding a girl's hand, or holding her shoulders makes singles envy of you. But that is all but the typical perception that crawls into the minds of half-ripe adults(teenager).
  
  Yes, it's true you don't feel lonely when you have someone to accompany you, you feel happy when the girl lies her head on your shoulder, you feel that you are perfect when you kiss a girl and you feel that there is someone to support you when you think that everyone in this wolrd turns against you. All these come when you find your true love. But true love doesn't come easy for almost everyone.
  
  love in teenagers will not last long, because most of them are just trying out their new found ability which enables them to get attracted to the opposite sex. NO harm trying though if you want to find out how it feels. But don't succumb to peer pressure. It's dangerous. Let it come naturally. It doesn't matter whether you got a gf in your teenage life. I never got into a relationship when i was a teenager because i was too ambitious in my studies and tend to be too kiasu.i ended up turning down all the girls who are intersted in me. I was quite regret when thinking about that.
  
  Built your self confidence but don't get too over with it. Self confidence isn't arrogance by the way, but it means you have your own perspective on economy, social and life. Try to Read more newspaper or magazines to equipe yourself. Study hard, get good results. treat people kindly, but reserve some naughtiness in you. That doesn't mean you need to go over the limit, like talking dirty to a girl, or beating people. Try to make some jokes. Create a new personality that you think it suits you, not the one you like, and try to improve in it.
• buses_galore

  4 Dec 06, 20:39

  Thanks Guys!You all have been a great help...Now I am not really eaer to look for a gf...Thanks...
• Hocklez

  4 Dec 06, 20:49

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  agree with ah hock
  
  anyway, again like many said, its too early to consider gf
  
  

  i disagree with you.
  
  it is nv too late to conside gf
• autumncs

  4 Dec 06, 21:03

  Originally posted by buses_galore:

  Thanks Guys!You all have been a great help...Now I am not really eaer to look for a gf...Thanks...

  That should be the spirit! Glad to hear that.... Haha...
  
  Things like relationship should not be rushed... just like the song "Shou Shou De" by Fish Leong (Liang Jingru): "If one receives a piece of cake known as happiness, one would rather taste the cake slowly bit by bit than to swallow the cake in one big gulp."
• laurence82

  4 Dec 06, 21:14

  Originally posted by Hocklez:

  i disagree with you.
  
  it is nv too late to conside gf

  too early
  
  esp for those who keep thinking their gf wanna dump them or not
  
  
• Hamiltonian1125

  4 Dec 06, 21:15

  Originally posted by buses_galore:

  Hi guys...I really am in agony right now lor...I really envy my friends who simply have a way with girls and are surrounded by them...whereas I am so lonely with no friends lor...I am not exactly ugly and not fat in any way...I really feel bored...I think that it is my weird voice it sounds kind of cracky...what shoukd I do cause last year my voice started breaking and it stopped halfway...it has been like that ever since...what to do?I tried to make a gf at church but failed spectaculaly...its just like no girl is interested in me...wa lao eh...
  
  Back to the Point of my voice, who here can recommend anything to sooth it? I tried herbal jelly and the lot but those only helped a little and lasted for a short while...what to I feel really feel depresed...halp...
  

  For a sec sch kid like u, u are wasting precious time. If u cant even support urself financially, pls dont tink of getting a gf and expect ur father to give u $$ to hua tian jiu di...spare a thought for urself and ur parents. As 4 ur throat, eat less oily and fried food and drink more juices. Dont suka suka shout and hurt ur vocal cord. Concentrate on ur academic area instead of dreaming of having a gf.
• digicharat

  4 Dec 06, 22:59

  Originally posted by Texcoco II:

  im ugly, fat, poor, ride bicycle, live in "public" property and i treat people with disrespect but i too have many gfs... tons of girls like me. cos they think I will always be a better catch than the rest.

  god has forsaken me.
  what is this world coming to?
  mei tian li ar!!!
• ItchyArmpit

  4 Dec 06, 23:05

  everyday have to shout to the girls who is queuing up wanting to be my gf
  :" eh queue up, dont fight, dont quarel hor, one by one."
  
  seconds later : " ah no good, next "
  
  haiz...
• ItchyArmpit

  4 Dec 06, 23:10

  ah one more thing
  
  treat ur gf/love to ur gf/ur feeling of love as a bonus, not a thing u are aiming for.
  
  u noe wat is bonus?
  
  bonus is, something extra, but harmless to have, u can also live without it.
• xShevchenkox

  4 Dec 06, 23:16

  nowadays l see gals...l no feeling one..
  
  Wait grow up then jio...Better!!!
• xShevchenkox

  5 Dec 06, 00:55

  Go readup on my threads abt my own personal opinions..single is good oso =)
  
  Not necessary say....u gt gf...u will be happy =)
• mayday80

  5 Dec 06, 15:34

  if u see a girl u like .... go ahead... sec sch is fun like tt.... when u get older things are different.
  
  For example, when i was in jc... there's one hot girl who went out with a biker boy.
  
  When i finally got my bike... all the girls look for boys with cars...
  
  now i got my car... u can't wait forever.... live life the way u like it
• Y_Shun

  12 Dec 06, 18:27

  Originally posted by mayday80:

  if u see a girl u like .... go ahead... sec sch is fun like tt.... when u get older things are different.
  
  For example, when i was in jc... there's one hot girl who went out with a biker boy.
  
  When i finally got my bike... all the girls look for boys with cars...
  
  now i got my car... u can't wait forever.... live life the way u like it

  now you got the car..they want a bus
• autumncs

  12 Dec 06, 18:38

  Originally posted by Y_Shun:

  now you got the car..they want a bus

  later you got a bus, and they want a plane
• mayday80

  14 Dec 06, 06:42

  ya... my co-worker's god-father got private jet... omg
  
  one mountain is always taller than one mountain.
• missqi

  14 Dec 06, 06:53

  
  14 or 15 only scared no gf.
  
• gigabyte14

  16 Dec 06, 04:15

  don't go for a relationship too young, you'll regret it...
  since most relationships broke up easily, i reckon you're sec sch huh
  broke up, den both parties sad, you like that?
  envy is one thing, having it is another thing.
  having someone to look at is different to something to keep.
• rtspkt

  18 Dec 06, 09:51

  cool, you're young and thinking about the future. At least you're trying to do something about it, and not wait till it's too late. So you're mentally prepared.
  
  it's natural to feel loved and wanted yeah, besides parental love and all that jazz.
  
  It's hard to explain and tell anyone why "it's not important now to have a girlfriend" and all that so I shall not try. But it's very easy to know why it feels good to have a close companion.
  
  Since you said you're not too eager to look for a girl already, glad that you're out of the "desperate" stage. Take it slow and easy... Shit usually happens when people do things on impulse. Mentally state what you want to achieve, and plan your road to achieve it. Unlike the movies, there's no (rarely) shortcuts or one shot route to getting it on with the opposite sex. It's patience and experience, which YOU... will go through and learn in your own way.
• walesa

  19 Dec 06, 00:10

  It wouldn't surprise me if someday the threadstarter decides to start a thread entitled "I don't want anyone to be my GF"!
• Devil1976

  19 Dec 06, 08:45

  Originally posted by missqi:

  
  14 or 15 only scared no gf.
  

  People like me then have to be scared.
• missqi

  19 Dec 06, 08:47

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  People like me then have to be scared.

  you?
  
  mai geh geh lah.
  
• Bontakun

  19 Dec 06, 11:14

  Did I pen this down before...?
  
  There is no age restriction as to when you "date" another person. The first time I held hands with a girl was when I was 5.
  
  It is the responsibility of going into one and the specific reasons for going into one that can catch you off guard or make you fall off the cliff. Why do you date? Because many other people of your age are already attached and you feel pressure? You feel "threatened" that you are not part of "that" class if you are still single? You yearned for that "feeling" of loving someone and being loved back, carassing, kissing, and the warm, fuzzy feeling of being together and share many things possible?
  
  Are you mature enough to handle the relationship? You date based on the gut feelings you have for that person. He/she/it is good looking? Or maybe cute and nice? Perhaps its fun being with him/her/it? Or maybe he/she/it is the hot property at the moment? How long do you intend to date that person? Till the feelings died down such that you have an excuse when breaking up, saying "I have no feelings for you anymore"? Or maybe you realised you two are not suited for each other and go seperate ways? Or maybe you found out after some time being with him/her/it that his/her/its character and behaviour is too much for you to handle?
  
  What then? Break up? After all the time you two have been through? So you two have wasted time, energy, $$$ and many other things all for the "fun" of it and then scoot when there is no more spark? Then one or even both of you will be heart broken and then may develop a certain "fear" of getting into another relationship in the near future.
  
  I know... You cannot help it! He/she/it is so beautiful! The greatest creation alive that your eyes have seen! Ya I know that, but you date that person because you want that person to be happy OR you want to be happy at the expense of others?
  
  Consider this: If you date someone with an intention... or rather a hint of breaking up in the end, know that you will be responsible for breaking a person's heart and hurting that person just for your own selfish sake of pleasure.
  
  I am giving a view, not a "warning" and its meant not only for you Tao Suan but to ALL others who have not noticed what they are doing, and those who intend to do it.