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i am no uncle...even if want to call me so old call me auntie can??? be friends then can open up social circle ma, later he and my best friend married..u nv knowOriginally posted by pierre^^:em uncle u got read properly anot
He DUN WAN GUY FREN
HE WAN GF
doko
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uncle to some so cool
at least they r mature n
unlike some adults whom are no longer teenagers but still
teenagers in thinking
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Thanks for your concern TYING, I dare say that I'm alright when I'm chating on MSN. When it comes to real life, it's just like as if a bullet flew pass my head, everything go blank. IQ questions? lol.. I think think I'll stress people out more then they don't feel like chating with me liao. hahaOriginally posted by TYING:lol, i can be your friend!
I share the same problem with you too. But im slightly better because i have more than 1 friends and know how to open up when needed to. Also, i can communicate better over electronic devices.
So maybe. nxt time when got friend don talk face to face, use msn. like tt if dono what to say quickly go google search for iq questions and ask tt fella. and remember to add in lol and haha. -
Chill, chill, don't fight... Friends also canOriginally posted by pierre^^:em uncle u got read properly anot
He DUN WAN GUY FREN
HE WAN GF
doko
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Ya, one can never know what will happen in life. Haha, I can't really imagine if I got married to one of your best friends. Haha, will be comedic.Originally posted by TYING:i am no uncle...even if want to call me so old call me auntie can??? be friends then can open up social circle ma, later he and my best friend married..u nv know But any ways, let's not think too far ahead as I'm only 20 this year. Just wanna know more people 1st, slowly build up relationships, 1st I need to know where and how? -
you can try doing volunteer work. for one you get to meet lots of new people (not just the people you are helping). in addition you will feel a sense of accomplishment from helping the less fortunate.
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Yea, I couldn't agree more. I've seen some adults act like as though they are still in their youth. Steven Lim is a very good example. LOLOriginally posted by ha8n:uncle to some so cool
at least they r mature n
unlike some adults whom are no longer teenagers but still
teenagers in thinking I mean it's good to be young at heart but when important issues arises, one must change and adopt a diff mindset and I know that alot of people can't do that. -
I used to volunteer in the old folks home. While I'm at it, I give my whole heart at helping out these folks, I don't go with a secondary objective in mind thus providing my best services for those old folks. Hope you'll understand, it's not that I'm not flexible of anything, it's just the way I do things.Originally posted by aiglosicicle:you can try doing volunteer work. for one you get to meet lots of new people (not just the people you are helping). in addition you will feel a sense of accomplishment from helping the less fortunate.
Want to be friends, that's a whole new diff story already, just like I said, I don't talk much (unless I'm required to do some talking with the old folks) while I'm helping out the old folks, so they found me offensive or as you guys would put it "dao." Matter of fact, I'm not. Want to talk, after the session then talk but they already found me offensive plus I don't know how to socialise, so how? lol -
So, my topic just died down like this? how come nobody wants to give anymore comments?
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are you a pisces?
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No. Could you kindly enlighten me what has it got to do with horoscope?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:are you a pisces? -
Brother,
No one born talkative, some more talented than other onli. You broaden your horizon lor, u want to talk u must first have an opinion lor. If people talk u have no opinion also cannot lei.
U want more friends u must be genuine and not be afraid to make first move, just start conversation. Read newspaper everyday form an opinion on the issues of the day. next time when people talk about something u have something to say.
Also dont be shy or ashamed of who u are, everyone if a work in progress, most people appreciate someone who is genuinely trying.
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No wonder you seem to have little friends.Originally posted by biteme86:I'm not picky. All I asked for in a friend is loyalty, meaning never to sell me out, basic manners and must have a sense of compromise and respect towards each other, that's all I ask for. If there's anything in common between us would be an added bonus. Too much?
Sorry- loyalty to friends, basic manners and a sense of compromise and respect don't exist anymore.
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That's an understatement.Originally posted by binarynwitz:No wonder you seem to have little friends.
Sorry- loyalty to friends, basic manners and a sense of compromise and respect don't exist anymore.
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you write well...
I see that 
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No matter what just believe in yourself, always.
Mmm I would say just be yourself, but honestly bro, this is Singapore, and Singaporeans can be extremely judgemental. Thus, when socialising, there are just some things you should and should not do. I am not saying this to limit yourself or anything, but I guess it works that way here. Hell man, how many times here in Singapore have people said "wah that guy's face looks irritating" and his chances of making friends are lowered, just like that. know what i mean? -
An optimist, I see.Originally posted by biteme86:That's an understatement.
Well, they might exist. But to single them out among the wolves, ready to devour you at the slightest sight of chance?
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make it a point to contact one secondary school classmate everyday, and try to catch up with their lives.
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Yea, generalisation is getting real dangerous.Originally posted by N|ck:No matter what just believe in yourself, always.
Mmm I would say just be yourself, but honestly bro, this is Singapore, and Singaporeans can be extremely judgemental. Thus, when socialising, there are just some things you should and should not do. I am not saying this to limit yourself or anything, but I guess it works that way here. Hell man, how many times here in Singapore have people said "wah that guy's face looks irritating" and his chances of making friends are lowered, just like that. know what i mean? -
I don't mind taking the first step in starting a friendship with you, do you own a MSN account? Maybe we'll get to know each other better through that channel of conversation.Originally posted by binarynwitz:An optimist, I see.
Well, they might exist. But to single them out among the wolves, ready to devour you at the slightest sight of chance?
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Originally posted by biteme86:Yea, I couldn't agree more. I've seen some adults act like as though they are still in their youth. Steven Lim is a very good example. LOL I mean it's good to be young at heart but when important issues arises, one must change and adopt a diff mindset and I know that alot of people can't do that.
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I've tried establishing contact with afew of them vie friendster but none of them seems intrested to meet up. Guess they want to move on with their lives as they have a career, relationship and other commitments ect.Originally posted by inextremo:make it a point to contact one secondary school classmate everyday, and try to catch up with their lives. -
Me? Hehe, thanks for the compliment.Originally posted by mistyblue:you write well... I see that -
i am also a very quiet person.
i used to find this a disturbing trait. not able to be interesting person to other people.
nowadays, i gotten used to the idea that i am like that loh.. however, i have all the intention to improve myself to become a better conversationalist and interesting person to others.
like learning a computer software, language, or subject,
being a interesting person is also the same thing. you have to learn.
the learning process involves, observations, reflections, writing down ideas in paper, creating hypothesis, reading books on related topics to learn from others, practising conversing. and then u improve bit by bit.
being quiet and boring is not a crime. there should not be any tinge of guilt or low self esteem in yourself.
it is also not a big deal. humans must always be grateful in life especially when you have health, no need to worry about food and shelter everyday.
singaporeans are too greedy, always worrying about small issues of life and fail to appreciate the good things that they have.
worry and cry over issues like friendship, love, lack of money, pride and facial issues. you all really need to grow up and see the world. extreme poverty and poverty is still quite common around the world.
do you all know that about hundred of thousands of poor latin amercians have to illegal migrate to north america every year (not sure of figures) because they have not jobs in their countries. when they reach mexico and some countires without passort which were confiscated or they did not have it, they were bullied, hit and mistreated by some of the police.
i only learn about these after i watch from the discovery channel titled "no borders".
that is the problem with cities people like singapore. worrying and complaining non bread and butter issues. that sadly to say is human nature. however, because it can be changed, i am here to educate you people. -
hey biteme..same situation here.Althought i can say ive got a bunch of good friends both in the army and sec sch etc.For me when im with my good friends i can act very stupid and spontaneous,but in front of strangers or others that im not so familiar with,im very subdued.So much to the point that one of my dumb sergeants asked if i got an attitude problem.U talk about loyalty to friends, basic manners and a sense of compromise..these are the traits i value very much too.But sadly to say not everyone does.In fact i can say im 99% like you,with the number of girls i know being countable in a single hand,and some people even used to think i was gay
.I used to think that this world isnt fair,but i have come to accept it and take things one at a time.Living everything to fate. Best of luck bro.