Women please comment
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except with your gay boyfriend?Originally posted by blu_sky:i never flirt with anyone wor....
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I mean boyfriend
doko
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Wah rao eh...Originally posted by blu_sky:This sounds like it is taken out from the bible! 
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i realise doko's posts almost similiar to FeowFeow aka RP. r they the same person?
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I seriously don't think so.Originally posted by 798:i realise doko's posts almost similiar to FeowFeow aka RP. r they the same person?
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i think one thing that bugs me about my ex is he always wants to change me. it makes me feel like he doesnt love me for who i am.
besides, you dun see me asking him to change the habits that urks me.
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i still think doko is feowfeow.Originally posted by Yunhaier:I seriously don't think so.
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Could you elaborate further?Originally posted by starblue:i think one thing that bugs me about my ex is he always wants to change me. it makes me feel like he doesnt love me for who i am.
besides, you dun see me asking him to change the habits that urks me.
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x 2.Originally posted by Yunhaier:I seriously don't think so.
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Not really..? Hardly shocked for long. I kinda have a fast 'recovery' thingy.Originally posted by blu_sky:Shocked still? -
Too many to list that is why they are called 'ex'Originally posted by dokono:I have noticed that a lot of dysfunctional relationships in this forum are males whining about why their girlfriend who used to treat them so well now turn around and change heart or women who complain that their boyfriend don't treat them well and let others dictate the direction of their relationship.
This is getting more frequent in this generation. Breaking up occurs more frequently and divorce rates are increasing. My dad's generation is not this bad.
What exactly happen???
Ladies, please tell us what you don't like about your ex boyfriend/husband. Let us hear your complaints.
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Hi, Doko
Hee, hee, still on the topic of relationship. Let me share with you our experience (mine and my friends). It definitely takes two to clap in any relationship.
Dating: Come across mummy's boys, spend too much time with buddies, stingy and have never bought Valentines' Day/birthday presents, can't be trusted, flirt with other gals, want girlfriend to stay home and not go out, self centred, not caring. Refuse to communicate when there are problems. Bf is insecure.
Marriage: Don't help to do housework and look after kids, everyday come back home late - 2 to 3 am and expect sex (unemployed). Gave hubby $ to start business for 2 times, hubby continued to take things for granted and still ask for more $. Hubby comes home everyday after dinner play computer games and refuse to take care of kids. Extra marital affair. Wife unemployed but still continue to look for job, husband is insensitive and uncaring told wife off saying that she is lazy, refuse to look for job and does not help to provide her financial need during her unemployment.
Well, well, the above are just some of the problems in a relationship. We need to be open to each other's needs, moods, and problems to improve the relationship. If one party refuses to do so, then relationship won't work. Nobody is perfect, but whenever there are issues or problems to be addressed, both parties must be mature, objective, sensitive, understanding and proactive to sort things out.
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I totally agree with Rane.
I left my ex-bf when I found out tt he betrayed behind myback with a dancer n hve a baby together. We were together for 3yrs. But he just knew that dancer for 2 weeks to make a baby when I wasnt ard.
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he married her?Originally posted by badbadman:I totally agree with Rane.
I left my ex-bf when I found out tt he betrayed behind myback with a dancer n hve a baby together. We were together for 3yrs. But he just knew that dancer for 2 weeks to make a baby when I wasnt ard. he supposed to be killed -
Originally posted by badbadman:I totally agree with Rane.
I left my ex-bf when I found out tt he betrayed behind myback with a dancer n hve a baby together. We were together for 3yrs. But he just knew that dancer for 2 weeks to make a baby when I wasnt ard. he supposed to be killed 
Your ex bf is not a worthy man to be with, good that you are not with him anymore. If he can did that to you b4 marriage, then there is very high possibility that he will do it after marrying you. -
Thanks raneOriginally posted by rane: Hi, Doko
Hee, hee, still on the topic of relationship. Let me share with you our experience (mine and my friends). It definitely takes two to clap in any relationship.
Dating: Come across mummy's boys, spend too much time with buddies, stingy and have never bought Valentines' Day/birthday presents, can't be trusted, flirt with other gals, want girlfriend to stay home and not go out, self centred, not caring. Refuse to communicate when there are problems. Bf is insecure.
Marriage: Don't help to do housework and look after kids, everyday come back home late - 2 to 3 am and expect sex (unemployed). Gave hubby $ to start business for 2 times, hubby continued to take things for granted and still ask for more $. Hubby comes home everyday after dinner play computer games and refuse to take care of kids. Extra marital affair. Wife unemployed but still continue to look for job, husband is insensitive and uncaring told wife off saying that she is lazy, refuse to look for job and does not help to provide her financial need during her unemployment.
Well, well, the above are just some of the problems in a relationship. We need to be open to each other's needs, moods, and problems to improve the relationship. If one party refuses to do so, then relationship won't work. Nobody is perfect, but whenever there are issues or problems to be addressed, both parties must be mature, objective, sensitive, understanding and proactive to sort things out.
Hope the above help you to have a clear picture of those things that happen in some relationships.
Dating: On the issue of refusing to communicate when there are problems, sometimes the guy kept asking what happened to the girl, or why she is so moody, anything like that, some women will just not say anything when clearly there is something. My question is, how is the guy going to communicate when the girl don't want to talk when everyone is empahsising on the importance of communication?
Married: Are you telling us your marriage problems or are those problems you have stated those problems of other people?
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So did he take you for granted? or tried to control you?Originally posted by badbadman:I totally agree with Rane.
I left my ex-bf when I found out tt he betrayed behind myback with a dancer n hve a baby together. We were together for 3yrs. But he just knew that dancer for 2 weeks to make a baby when I wasnt ard. he supposed to be killed
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Miss blu_sky,Originally posted by blu_sky:he married her?
could you share with us why you left your ex?
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Incompatibility. why leh...Originally posted by dokono:Miss blu_sky,
could you share with us why you left your ex?
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really incompatibility? I doubt so. I have friends with different interests who are steads with each other.Originally posted by blu_sky:Incompatibility. why leh...
Am I right to say that your love for him is no more?
why?because this is a thread for women to make comments. men are also welcome to make contributions.
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Actually how do you know that i left him? maybe he left me?Originally posted by dokono:Miss blu_sky,
could you share with us why you left your ex?
doko
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If cant get along well, should cut loss.Originally posted by dokono:really incompatibility? I doubt so. I have friends with different interests who are steads with each other.
Am I right to say that your love for him is no more?
why?because this is a thread for women to make comments. men are also welcome to make contributions.
doko
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so he left you?Originally posted by blu_sky:Actually how do you know that i left him? maybe he left me?
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you mind sharing your story? if not, it's okOriginally posted by blu_sky:If cant get along well, should cut loss.
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i met feowfeow before, dun tink they are the same personOriginally posted by 798:i still think doko is feowfeow.
cheers
qijiuba