I don't understand
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Not all people want children.Originally posted by rainee:usually the biological clock in a girl will make her wan to have kids de
and mite get baby even when u dun wan it, unless the couple abstain from sex all the way, like dat mite as well dun need to get married
My maternity instinct not kicked in yet!
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it is just a matter of time before it kicks in...Originally posted by blu_sky:Not all people want children.
My maternity instinct not kicked in yet! 
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how do you know?Originally posted by sunny6110:eh... seriously Men will change His stand when He turn 50 lo -
Let you know in 10 years time!Originally posted by rainee:it is just a matter of time before it kicks in... 
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i admit, i sumhow get this instinct when i see cute kidsOriginally posted by blu_sky:Let you know in 10 years time! 
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That's why it's really subjective....?Originally posted by blu_sky:but i think the ultimate thing that a woman can do for a man is to do things satisfy his needs. In this case, i would think that TS think's wife's presence in his life is what he wants most. Then that would be the ultimate thing for her to do for her husband.
Give a person what he needs, not what you think he needs. That is gift.
So what if that is what he wants? If she has the reason to believe that she can offer something of greater significance and value (in her opinion) especially if she is to sacrifice herself in the process of it... Won't it be an even 'louder bang'? -
Seeing is one thing, having them is a totally different issue.Originally posted by rainee:i admit, i sumhow get this instinct when i see cute kids -
50 is on the v conservative side...Originally posted by M©+square:how do you know?
40 He already knows wat is more practical... -
Really?Originally posted by blu_sky:well, i know that there are alot of women who view their children as more important than anything else in this world, including their husbands.
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Well, i will say, for me, stop thinking what is good for me and just give me what i want!Originally posted by Devil1976:That's why it's really subjective....?
So what if that is what he wants? If she has the reason to believe that she can offer something of greater significance and value (in her opinion) especially if she is to sacrifice herself in the process of it... Won't it be an even 'louder bang'? -
a lot of hubbies started to get jealous of their newborn babies after seeing the attention the new mom gives to them...Originally posted by DeadPoet:Really? -
Yes, that is what i gathered from my colleagues.Originally posted by DeadPoet:Really?
well if there is any consolation, i find it puzzling too.
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Are you 50 already?Originally posted by sunny6110:50 is on the v conservative side...
40 He already knows wat is more practical...
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i got a friend who divorced for reasons that are 'caused' by the arrival of their child.Originally posted by rainee:a lot of hubbies started to get jealous of their newborn babies after seeing the attention the new mom gives to them... -
Originally posted by M©+square:Married....
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U sure anot?? I think a lot of hubbies get babies to divert the new mum's attention to the newborn so the hubbies can be "freed"...Originally posted by rainee:a lot of hubbies started to get jealous of their newborn babies after seeing the attention the new mom gives to them...
Life starts at 40~!! -
SighOriginally posted by M©+square:Married.... 
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Try try lah. But don't tell her it is me who ask you to ask one lah.Originally posted by Devil1976:Such answers can really be quite subjective and variable...?
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from wat i heard is the hubby starts to feel like he needs to fight for the wife's attention with the baby...Originally posted by sunny6110:U sure anot?? I think a lot of hubbies get babies to divert the new mum's attention to the newborn so the hubbies can be "freed"...
Life starts at 40~!!
i guess depends on what kinda character the guy has ba...and how much time the wife spent with the baby oso... -
Nope... but looking at my parents, and aunties and uncles...Originally posted by M©+square:Are you 50 already?
I hope you know what i'm getting at.
I juz knew they hv greater Love for Me and my cousins... -
It is good not to have too many secrets in a relationship esp if you are married.Originally posted by sunny6110:And they may not tell the truths... Well... at least... I wun~!!
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getting children so confusing, problematic and expensive. no wonder nowadays less pple want to have kids
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He / she meant Man probably cannot 'stand' by 50??Originally posted by M©+square:how do you know? -
Ok.Originally posted by sunny6110:Nope... but looking at my parents, and aunties and uncles...
I juz knew they hv greater Love for Me and my cousins...
My parents and aunties and uncles are not like your parents and aunties and uncles.
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Dun worry~ Married Men can give you more than wat u want~!!Originally posted by blu_sky:Sigh