How to approach?

• SpecOps87

  11 Jan 07, 10:53

  3 words dude...Crash and Burn
• aeroo

  11 Jan 07, 20:00

  hi guys, managed to get to know her le.
  
  now another problem.
  
  she like not so interested in smsin me leh.
  
  or am i thinkin too much ??
  
  cos she say she busy at the moment then say msg other time.
  
  u think i think too much or she also not interested ?
  
  if not interested, why she wanna exchange number leh? haiz sian sia. when can i msg her again huh ??
• -LoLs-

  11 Jan 07, 20:27

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  hi guys, managed to get to know her le.
  
  now another problem.
  
  she like not so interested in smsin me leh.
  
  or am i thinkin too much ??
  
  cos she say she busy at the moment then say msg other time.
  
  u think i think too much or she also not interested ?
  
  if not interested, why she wanna exchange number leh? haiz sian sia. when can i msg her again huh ??

  Looks like I've got the exact problem with you.
• Mysteria

  11 Jan 07, 20:29

  Originally posted by -LoLs-:

  Looks like I've got the exact problem with you.

  x2
• aeroo

  11 Jan 07, 20:36

  then can some kind souls out there help us solve the 3 of ur problems ?
  
  haha. happy tat got the number yet sad when this happened.
  
  wonder if we really think too much anot man.
  
  how to make the conversation more excitin huh??
• -LoLs-

  11 Jan 07, 20:45

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  then can some kind souls out there help us solve the 3 of ur problems ?
  
  haha. happy tat got the number yet sad when this happened.
  
  wonder if we really think too much anot man.
  
  how to make the conversation more excitin huh??

  Well.. For my case, then girl can't msg often as her family is those strict strict kind.. Can't msg much. And she don't seem to be really interested in me.
• Mysteria

  11 Jan 07, 21:00

  I am 17 this year, you all how old?
• -LoLs-

  11 Jan 07, 21:32

  Originally posted by Mysteria:

  I am 17 this year, you all how old?

  Age is the secret of all human being.
• Scania N113CRB luver

  11 Jan 07, 21:41

  Originally posted by Mysteria:

  I am 17 this year, you all how old?

  Im same age as you boy!
  
  Btw TS, i think you think too much le. Not interested in sms-ing doesn't mean she's not interested. Unless she always refuse to sms you, but keep sms-ing to other boys, then i think she's not interested.
• aeroo

  12 Jan 07, 08:39

  ya maybe really think too much. well will try again. but this time round, if sms her, i really really very very scare she tell me busy again. argh.
  
  erm guys, how do u make her have a good impression of u? and also make her feel like knowin u more ?
• -LoLs-

  12 Jan 07, 11:17

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  ya maybe really think too much. well will try again. but this time round, if sms her, i really really very very scare she tell me busy again. argh.
  
  erm guys, how do u make her have a good impression of u? and also make her feel like knowin u more ?

  I really wanna know that too.
• AndrewPKYap

  12 Jan 07, 11:22

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  hi guys. i am currently studyin. i recently got to notice this girl from another course of my school. i feel like goin forward and approached her, askin her if we can be frens?
  
  however i am very worried of gettin rejected, plus i am afraid she might find me not good lookin.
  
  she is always surrounded by guys from her class, and thus it will be difficult for me to approach her. plus i wont be in the same lecture class or any class with her. the only time i can see her is when she goes to the food court. which will also be quite hard, cos the timetable is different
  
  can u guys here teach me how to approach her? and how to let her know i sincerely wanna be friends with her?
  
  i am also afraid later if she give me her number, she will reply me those one word answer. and its like very sad.
  
  any ways for me to make myself more presentable to her and make her dun mind knowin me as a fren?

  First you smile at her. If she looks back at you in horror, that is normal. Just keep on smiling every time you see her. One day she will smile back, it is only human. If you smile at her one hundred times and every time she looks at you in horror, then you know that she is not human!
  
  
• blu_sky

  12 Jan 07, 11:47

  Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:

  First you smile at her. If she looks back at you in horror, that is normal. Just keep on smiling every time you see her. One day she will smile back, it is only human. If you smile at her one hundred times and every time she looks at you in horror, then you know that she is not human!
  
  

  Not necessarily. if i find someone weird or sleazy, even if he smiles to me a thousand times i will still ignore him. And i am still a human
• alvin-ncs

  12 Jan 07, 11:53

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  in the utmost confidence firmly ask her "ai sio gan mai" ??

  
• AndrewPKYap

  12 Jan 07, 11:53

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Not necessarily. if i find someone weird or sleazy, even if he smiles to me a thousand times i will still ignore him. And i am still a human

  That was just a joke dear, the other party can be the un-human one.
  
  What's that smiling at me? Is it a monster? Is it a monster?
• choco B

  12 Jan 07, 11:55

  Hard to teach such things
  But don't literally "chase" a girl. Girls can smell desperation and fear.
  Instead try fishing - bait, release, bait, release....
  

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  ya maybe really think too much. well will try again. but this time round, if sms her, i really really very very scare she tell me busy again. argh.
  
  erm guys, how do u make her have a good impression of u? and also make her feel like knowin u more ?

• Scania N113CRB luver

  12 Jan 07, 14:32

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Not necessarily. if i find someone weird or sleazy, even if he smiles to me a thousand times i will still ignore him. And i am still a human

  Lol! If a guy keep smiling at me and is a weirdo, i treat him as a crazy guy. Just a smile and that's it, i walk off.
• mamamamama

  12 Jan 07, 17:16

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  then what will be the most appropriate and the most sincere way?
  
  i cant seems to find a very nice way to talk to her. but yet i really really wanna make frens with her. can say a crash on her ba?

  if i knew, i wouldn't be in agony
  
  lol.
• aeroo

  13 Jan 07, 04:09

  haiz. sad. i think she really not interested sia.
  
  shd i still continue be thick skinned ? or shd i just let go? my frens all keep advise me to be thick skinned. so lidat then can win.
  
  really mah?
• AndrewPKYap

  13 Jan 07, 06:12

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  haiz. sad. i think she really not interested sia.
  
  shd i still continue be thick skinned ? or shd i just let go? my frens all keep advise me to be thick skinned. so lidat then can win.
  
  really mah?

  You are so lucky, some girls don't like you will still "play" with you and then one day you see her holding hands with another boy and you feel like you want to die.
  
  If you still like her, then keep trying discretely without annoying her until you really sianz of trying or you confirm she has a boyfriend liaoz.
  
  Not like you have a choice!
• dokono

  13 Jan 07, 10:58

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  haiz. sad. i think she really not interested sia.
  
  shd i still continue be thick skinned ? or shd i just let go? my frens all keep advise me to be thick skinned. so lidat then can win.
  
  really mah?

  no
  
  doko
• rane

  14 Jan 07, 13:53

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Not necessarily. if i find someone weird or sleazy, even if he smiles to me a thousand times i will still ignore him. And i am still a human

  Hi, blu_sky, I do the same and this is what I am doing to a guy now. Don't know why must some guys be so sleazy, don't seem to want to do it in a way that doesn't make the gals feel uncomfortable. If the sleazy guy happen to read this msg here, then he will know the answer why I hardly respond. Come one changes your ways, sleazy one!
• FBI

  14 Jan 07, 13:58

  if u are scared of rejection.
  
  Don woo gals!
• yuehan

  16 Jan 07, 11:32

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  in the utmost confidence firmly ask her "ai sio gan mai" ??

  that's how i get my girls usually
• Bontakun

  16 Jan 07, 11:36

  Originally posted by aeroo:

  hi guys. i am currently studyin. i recently got to notice this girl from another course of my school. i feel like goin forward and approached her, askin her if we can be frens?
  
  however i am very worried of gettin rejected, plus i am afraid she might find me not good lookin.
  
  she is always surrounded by guys from her class, and thus it will be difficult for me to approach her. plus i wont be in the same lecture class or any class with her. the only time i can see her is when she goes to the food court. which will also be quite hard, cos the timetable is different
  
  can u guys here teach me how to approach her? and how to let her know i sincerely wanna be friends with her?
  
  i am also afraid later if she give me her number, she will reply me those one word answer. and its like very sad.
  
  any ways for me to make myself more presentable to her and make her dun mind knowin me as a fren?

  Move your left leg muscle and have it engineered your left leg forward. Followed by the right leg muscle to move your right leg forward. Rinse and repeat.