Y sex is still a taboo issue to gals?
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so have u tried putting ice cubes inside her pus5y?
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I think there is issues in the r/s between your best frd and his gf. that is why the gf got a lot of 2nd thots about sxx...Originally posted by SpeedCam1852:i met my gf thru net...we get along well...we chat happily and we went off a good start..we start dating and finally we bcame bf/gf......we were glad to be together...
at first we had kisses n huggies on our 1st few months...then we started touchin each other....
then we went on further.....n eventually to sex....at first she looks reluctant...but after awhile she got used to e feelin..
soon we began our sexual activities, we had so much explorings on one another...we went on happily 4 2yrs...
but things turn sour....she began to concern bout is it right to haf sex b4 marriage n etc...she also became more irritated wif mi when i ask 4 sex...then it bcame much worse when 1 month her period came late...she went crazy wif sayings of getting pregnant...sayin tat she too young to be tie down...all her true colors came out..sayin y i keep askin 4 sex n so on...sayin tat im a despo n treat her like sex tool....which i nv did...
haiz...now our relationship is hangin on e cliff...i really donno how to say "i luv u" to her if she keeps on being paranoid...i jus do sex wif e one i luv...not jus anyone...haiz pls help...wat should i do to ensure tat im not a sex despo?i don wan to lose her but i cant quit my desires too....im so f-ucked up right now...
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The above story is about my best frd who had serious sex relationship problem with her current gf....i hope he can be helped wif this...
If there is no issue with r/s then there will not be any issues...
gals or rather guys will tend to get more and more comfortable with sxx, there is no reason why she should have 2nd thots now when she doesn't have 2nd thots in the past, unless she somehow feel that your best friend is not the guy for her... and she sort of "regret" "doing" it with someone she is not going to spend the rest of her life with....and what will her "future" bf think of her. -
Your gf has all the right to refuse sex before marriage because it's her future on the line. If she gets pregnant, her life will change drastically.. she will have to bear the stigma for life and not you.. you could choose to run away because u're the guy, but she cannot. Even if you use contraceptive devices, there is still a small chance of getting her pregnant. It's not a scare tactic.. it has happened to many couples.
She's thinking about her future.. but you just can't get past the sex part. Is it any surprise that she's angry?
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in conclusion:
dun have sex before marriage.
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How old r u fellas....? The girl probly feels insecure and the uncertainty she feels could have arisen by the lack of direction in your r/s...... R u fellas working towards a possible marriage? What plans have you got for her?
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Everyone thinks about it. Guys think more often thats for sure... Some survey said so...Originally posted by SpeedCam1852:seriously speakin...everyone thinks like this..."u only jus wan sex""u nv love mi but love my body"
but pause n think....everyone in their deepest mind they also lk tat wat...don say all la at least got 35% of ppl r jus ko shi xin fei.....say don wan sex but in their minds diff....haiz...i admit i sometime say don wan haf sex wif my wife coz of long work....but then again i alwys yearn 4 it in my mind...haha its true...self-control matters e most....agreed?
We can exercise self-control and self-restraint to counteract this. If anyone thinks thats not possible, its either he/she/it do NOT try hard enough or he/she/it is thinking with the "other head".
Bottomline: With great powers come great responsibilities. -
A relationship is not all about sex.. if she worries about it.. abstain from it.. wait till she is ready.
Sex is not addictive.. you can easily overcome it. Or you just try petting with her, ask her help you to release your pent up desires but not through sex la.. You still can have a meaningful relationship without sex.
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once pandora box is open, do u think it's easy to reflash back?Originally posted by Urroh:A relationship is not all about sex.. if she worries about it.. abstain from it.. wait till she is ready.
Sex is not addictive.. you can easily overcome it. Or you just try petting with her, ask her help you to release your pent up desires but not through sex la.. You still can have a meaningful relationship without sex. -
Stupid clone..Originally posted by bboy188:so have u tried putting ice cubes inside her pus5y? 
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Everyone thinks about or imagines a lot of different stuff in their livesÂ…. Just to name a few more sinister ones,
- Hitting someone you detest over the head with a club
- Pushing someone you detest into busy traffic
- When you depressed enough, what it is like to die,
- Cutting your own wrist.
But does that mean we will carry out each and every one of these thoughts?
We are given Brains to process these thoughts. To categorise them to “do it” “don’t do it” we can tell right from wrong.
Just because guys (and some gals) think about sex more often, does this mean they can demand it from their partners? Even forcing your own wife to have sex is considered rape! Not to mention when they are not even legally bind to you.
This is what sets asides a true Gentleman, and a BRUTE!
Which do you want to be?
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I want to be this~~~~~~~~~Originally posted by smudgey:Everyone thinks about or imagines a lot of different stuff in their livesÂ…. Just to name a few more sinister ones,
- Hitting someone you detest over the head with a club
- Pushing someone you detest into busy traffic
- When you depressed enough, what it is like to die,
- Cutting your own wrist.
But does that mean we will carry out each and every one of these thoughts?
We are given Brains to process these thoughts. To categorise them to “do it” “don’t do it” we can tell right from wrong.
Just because guys (and some gals) think about sex more often, does this mean they can demand it from their partners? Even forcing your own wife to have sex is considered rape! Not to mention when they are not even legally bind to you.
This is what sets asides a true Gentleman, and a BRUTE!
Which do you want to be? 
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hey so cute....Originally posted by Bontakun:I want to be this~~~~~~~~~
u still haven't tell me from what anime?! -
I tink I told you before...Originally posted by smudgey:hey so cute....
u still haven't tell me from what anime?!
Full Metal Panic Fumoffu!
Bonta is the mascot of that anime.
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oh ya hor.....Originally posted by Bontakun:I tink I told you before...
Full Metal Panic Fumoffu!
Bonta is the mascot of that anime.
sorrie
smudgey a bit blur blur
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Thus the nick "Smudgey"... Yr memory is smudgey...... -__________-Originally posted by smudgey:oh ya hor.....
sorrie
smudgey a bit blur blur -
Originally posted by Bontakun:Thus the nick "Smudgey"... Yr memory is smudgey...... -__________-
hehehe so bad ah Bontakun!!! -
Originally posted by smudgey:
hehehe so bad ah Bontakun!!!
Ok we are off topic. -
Yes please go back to topic.
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Perhaps the gf realised, now better than later, dat she may end up the loser. Yr fren can toss her away like used doll once he finds her, erm...not amusing to his lust anymore. Secondly, wat if she really become pregnent? Will the guy b responsible enuff to marry her, or will he tell her to abort the baby, which is his anyway. Or maybe, the guy will find some magical excuse to dump her.....Lustful man may not want to be tied down as a family man. Why? Their lust tends to fizzle a notch down wif kids and work commitments. On the other hand, this kind of man will find some lobang outside the family circle to fulfill their lust.
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Doesn't sounds so 'great power' to me...?Originally posted by Bontakun:Everyone thinks about it. Guys think more often thats for sure... Some survey said so...
We can exercise self-control and self-restraint to counteract this. If anyone thinks thats not possible, its either he/she/it do NOT try hard enough or he/she/it is thinking with the "other head".
Bottomline: With great powers come great responsibilities.
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Originally posted by smudgey:me?
hehehe sex can be very meaningful, but only when both parties are ready and willing.... " -
Originally posted by SpeedCam1852:wah so many comments liao....hmmm good points i can c....i also agree too...i mean how can he do tat to her....haiz despo will alwys be despo...n then pls la i not so bad til cursin my frd got std or hiv la....afterall still my frd wat....
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Maybe he's terrible in bed and she just got tired of tolerating him for 2 yearsOriginally posted by SpeedCam1852:soon we began our sexual activities, we had so much explorings on one another...we went on happily 4 2yrs...
but things turn sour....she began to concern bout is it right to haf sex b4 marriage n etc...she also became more irritated wif mi when i ask 4 sex... -
Originally posted by SpeedCam1852:seriously speakin...everyone thinks like this..."u only jus wan sex""u nv love mi but love my body"
but pause n think....everyone in their deepest mind they also lk tat wat...don say all la at least got 35% of ppl r jus ko shi xin fei.....say don wan sex but in their minds diff....haiz...i admit i sometime say don wan haf sex wif my wife coz of long work....but then again i alwys yearn 4 it in my mind...haha its true...self-control matters e most....agreed? .... -
u share similar prob??Originally posted by choco B:Maybe he's terrible in bed and she just got tired of tolerating him for 2 years