Y sex is still a taboo issue to gals?
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He cannot 'define', he can only 'demo'! <Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:How do you define a good job?
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Female larOriginally posted by M©+square:You m or f?
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However ya wanna look at it...Originally posted by M©+square:A disagreement or correction?
Me not that good to 'correct' people lah...> " -
Ok.Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Female lar
You have your rights to that statement.
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Not easy to find one that touches your heart, yet at the same time have the same mindset as you.Originally posted by Devil1976:Different mindsets and opinions I suppose
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If she don't agree then it's consider as RAPE right?Originally posted by Bontakun:Many people just cannot hold the urge to explore the world of sexual intercourse. They may or may not have considered the responsibilities that comes with it and unfortunately its a social "norm" for this current generation to engage in pre-marital sex.
So guys, if you wanna respect the girls, pls dun do it until you are married or she agreed...Gals, if you respect yourself, say no when necessary.
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Are u gonna kick me in my b@lls shd I be a male for siding with the girls?Originally posted by M©+square:Ok.
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my dear got bring this up osoOriginally posted by Devil1976:Ya, sometimes they also worry when they don't get the sex! ~WAHAHAHaha.... <>
wan to do it, the girl kao peh
dun wan to do it, the girl thinks that maybe the guy interested in someone else, bla bla -
Nothing much often comes that easy for a good relationship...Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Not easy to find one that touches your heart, yet at the same time have the same mindset as you.
The real question is... When that sort of opportunity is offered to you... Would you know to take and treasure it -
Yup. Theoretically speaking.Originally posted by Devil1976:If she don't agree then it's consider as RAPE right? -
Well.. That's what makes life INTERESTING and MISERABLE at the same time now, isn't it....?Originally posted by rainee:my dear got bring this up oso
wan to do it, the girl kao peh
dun wan to do it, the girl thinks that maybe the guy interested in someone else, bla bla -
upgraded means after I have married laOriginally posted by YouDonKnowMe:For me, pregnancy aside, the other concern would be what my partner would see me as. A sex toy? No decent woman would like to be "toyed" with in the first place. I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life with a guy who has no respect with me in the first place. It makes me feel being taken for granted and like an atm machine. Ever heard of this joke line? Why are guys like the atm machine? Because once they withdraw, they lose interest.
I want my partner to be passionately dedicated to me not just in that aspect. 
and yea I wudnt wan to be a sex toy either. If wans a sex toy, can jolly well go pay for one
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Balance bah. Having sex is akin to having an intimate time with the person you love and respect. Of course they have to know what are they doing. Lets say its a gift if "done" correctly.Originally posted by Devil1976:I'm quite sure nowadays that people often don't have sex each time just thinking about creating life....?
To me that would be.... Kinda sad and quite a tragedy....? -
Yes it is. Morally and actuality.Originally posted by Devil1976:If she don't agree then it's consider as RAPE right?
I can't believe I have to search the dict to confirm there is this word called "actuality"...... -______- -
I got read this somewhere before...Originally posted by Bontakun:The guy not doing a good job wor...
"If you can make your woman feels emotionally secured, then she will feel secure enuff to leave you alone most of the time."
Means that if the girl starting to have breakdowns, she must have had some emotional insecurities which had not been addressed by the guy -
You are in Pluto. Waste of time and $$$ and energy to do dat.Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Are u gonna kick me in my b@lls shd I be a male for siding with the girls? 
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Pluto means?Originally posted by Bontakun:You are in Pluto. Waste of time and $$$ and energy to do dat. -
wat is the advantage and magical of getting marriage?
to have legal sex!
for all gals:
the more u do not give in to a guy, the more craving he is. having sex for the 1st time works wonder in any r/s. during the 1st time, it is as if a young boy so eager to unwrap his present, so eager to try out new thing.
disadvantage of having sex before marriage is both of u will get bore. once u given in to the guy u love, he will want more.so ultimately to both of u, it doesnt matter whether u get marriage since both of u are having it. the gals will alway be in disadvantage no matter wat. -
yup most of the time will have disagreements, just that both parties have to work towards finding a middleground or compromise to settle them?Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Not easy to find one that touches your heart, yet at the same time have the same mindset as you. -
It's hard for me to get used to these changing times. I can remember when the air was clean and sex was dirty. ~ George Burns
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Yes it is and if both parties are not ready, this will surface and rip the relationship apart.Originally posted by rainee:I got read this somewhere before...
"If you can make your woman feels emotionally secured, then she will feel secure enuff to leave you alone most of the time."
Means that if the girl starting to have breakdowns, she must have had some emotional insecurities which had not been addressed by the guy
This can't be more true than it is! Coming from you some more! XOOriginally posted by Devil1976:Nothing much often comes that easy for a good relationship...
The real question is... When that sort of opportunity is offered to you... Would you know to take and treasure it
Pls dun kill me! I am single! -
haha i wudnt say that i wan to get married just cos i wan to have legal sex, but besides that, i agree wif the other stuffOriginally posted by 798:wat is the advantage and magical of getting marriage?
to have legal sex!
for all gals:
the more u do not give in to a guy, the more craving he is. having sex for the 1st time works wonder in any r/s. during the 1st time, it is as if a young boy so eager to unwrap his present, so eager to try out new thing.
disadvantage of having sex before marriage is both of u will get bore. once u given in to the guy u love, he will want more.so ultimately to both of u, it doesnt matter whether u get marriage since both of u are having it. the gals will alway be in disadvantage no matter wat. -
Yup. Very true.Originally posted by Devil1976:The real question is... When that sort of opportunity is offered to you... Would you know to take and treasure it
Treasure opportunity. BUt you must be able to see it to know it in the first place. Everyone pls remove the stamp on your eye! Mai ba jiu ta stamp! -
good quote!Originally posted by choco B:It's hard for me to get used to these changing times. I can remember when the air was clean and sex was dirty. ~ George Burns
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yup...will be sad to see an otherwise beautiful r/s torn apart just because of this...Originally posted by Bontakun:Yes it is and if both parties are not ready, this will surface and rip the relationship apart.
will work hard to not make this happen in mine