Y sex is still a taboo issue to gals?
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You still have your rights to your statements!Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Are u gonna kick me in my b@lls shd I be a male for siding with the girls?
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Oh! Paiseh... wrong frequency.Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Pluto means?
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I dun quite agree with this. Even in a marriage, due respect and care also needs to be delivered in this stance. The spouse (either m or f) still hv their rights to decline sex.Originally posted by 798:wat is the advantage and magical of getting marriage?
to have legal sex!
I think above all, efforts count. Both parties must be diligent and sincere enough to want to make a relationship work. Lack of sparks in my opinion, is simply an excuse for not being responsible to take actions to make your love life colourful.Originally posted by rainee:yup most of the time will have disagreements, just that both parties have to work towards finding a middleground or compromise to settle them? -
Great quote! Funny!Originally posted by choco B:It's hard for me to get used to these changing times. I can remember when the air was clean and sex was dirty. ~ George Burns -
haha yea. as long as i sense my other half is making an effort, i will feel that everything I am doing to make the r/s works worthwhile. But once I feel that I am the only one doing all the work, dats when all the problems will startOriginally posted by YouDonKnowMe:I think above all, efforts count. Both parties must be diligent and sincere enough to want to make a relationship work. Lack of sparks in my opinion, is simply an excuse for not being responsible to take actions to make your love life colourful.
The sparks are needed during the initial part of the r/s. So of cos cannot expect it to remain as bright as when both of you just met, but towards the later stage of the r/s, hard work and commitment are needed to ensure the r/s is alive
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Work hard.Originally posted by rainee:yup...will be sad to see an otherwise beautiful r/s torn apart just because of this...
will work hard to not make this happen in mine
Indeed.
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Yeah. it's sup to be a giftOriginally posted by Bontakun:Balance bah. Having sex is akin to having an intimate time with the person you love and respect. Of course they have to know what are they doing. Lets say its a gift if "done" correctly. 
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dats y i just changed my siggy to the path to true love never runs smoothOriginally posted by Bontakun:Work hard.
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Just tell me outright wat pluto means. I came here afterall to be "educated".Originally posted by Bontakun:Oh! Paiseh... wrong frequency. -
Shakesphere's Mid Summer Night's Dream ya?Originally posted by rainee:dats y i just changed my siggy to the path to true love never runs smooth 
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Then read my siggy + this at da end: It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Originally posted by rainee:dats y i just changed my siggy to the path to true love never runs smooth -
if ur spouse is physical unwell or too busy in work, it is alright for him/her to reject.Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:I think above all, efforts count. Both parties must be diligent and sincere enough to want to make a relationship work. Lack of sparks in my opinion, is simply an excuse for not being responsible to take actions to make your love life colourful.
if he/she reject u just because he/she dun feel like doing it, there is something wrong in tis r/s, or he/she dun love u dearly. -
dunno where it comes from, but just sth that comes into my mind as i was replying to this threadOriginally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Shakesphere's Mid Summer Night's Dream ya? -
Do you know you share a similar nick to another forumite here? And he claims he is in Pluto. Thus the misunderstanding.Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Just tell me outright wat pluto means. I came here afterall to be "educated".
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got another forumite same nick as u, well pronounced in the same way anyway...Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:Just tell me outright wat pluto means. I came here afterall to be "educated".
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Originally posted by Bontakun:Then read my siggy + this at da end: It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
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Yup. It's from Shakesphere. Mid Summer Night's Dream decribes of 2 couples. Hermia, Lysander, Helena and Demetrius. It was screened in the threatre once though i had not a chance to watch it.Originally posted by rainee:dunno where it comes from, but just sth that comes into my mind as i was replying to this thread
You can read it here http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0140379/ -
Originally posted by Bontakun:Do you know you share a similar nick to another forumite here? And he claims he is in Pluto. Thus the misunderstanding.
So is a he or a she?Originally posted by rainee:got another forumite same nick as u, well pronounced in the same way anyway...
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Good question. He confuses us many times, but from what I read in his posts and some evidence he showed: its a he.Originally posted by YouDonKnowMe:So is a he or a she?
Congratulations! Its a boy! -
Ding ding ding....
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dunno, i always tot udon is a sheOriginally posted by YouDonKnowMe:So is a he or a she? -
So you prefer a boy for a first born?Originally posted by Bontakun:Good question. He confuses us many times, but from what I read in his posts and some evidence he showed: its a he.
Congratulations! Its a boy! -
I totally agree with rainee with this....Originally posted by rainee:Guys have to understand it is not just about pregnancy, it comes with other stuff as well
most guys(bf), when you are reluctant to have sex, they just think you are worried about pregnancy,
but when a gal considers having sex with you, she is in a sense giving you all she got, she is making herself vulnerable to you,
and the problem is when she thinks she is not ready to do that, her partner either sooths her by showing her a condom, or get pissed/puzzled at her lack of comittment. -
hmmm....Originally posted by Devil1976:If she don't agree then it's consider as RAPE right?
have you all ever done something that you totally do not want to do, but do it because you feel 'obligated' or just do not want to disappoint?
and when u do it, and after you still feel unhappy abt it?
well a lot of gals may be doing it, with this mindset. is it rape? -
hehehe devil wont kill you yet....Originally posted by Bontakun:This can't be more true than it is! Coming from you some more! XO
Pls dun kill me! I am single!
he'll make u sign a soul selling contract, then kill you!!!