how could she? this so heartless~
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whatever. who cares about chemically-intrigued love between 2 humans? waste of time, waste of money, waste of effort, waste of everything. Live for oneself by oneself. freedom! to f*ck around... lol
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stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!!
stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!!
stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!!
stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!! -
no risk no gainOriginally posted by dragg:stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!!
stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!!
stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!!
stay away from love!!! stay away from hurt!!! stay away from emotions!!!
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darn...stand ur ground and FIGHT for urself !!!!!Originally posted by set_n_go:i got a gf for almost 4 years, things were fine and well. one day, my gf asked for a break up cuz she wants to move on and try a new relationship.. i was shocked and i broke down. how could she put a full stop to it and do this to me? or why the sudden she got this thinking bout moving on when things are fine? i thought i know her.. i don't deserve this and its so heartless. i don't mistreat her or anything.
she denies when i asked her whether theres anyone in the story but i found out that shes sort of seeing another guy. i was decieved and naive. my sadness is growing each and everyday.
i want to get over it and i cant. its so hard~ she told me that we can still be good friends. but FRIENDS?? how am i going to accept her as a friend when she do this to me? this is so unacceptable. and i will be more hurt if i see her in the future. sigh... thanks for reading.
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Bro, i have similar experience before. My advice to you is to get on with life and live it to the max. Be rich, successful and fit...make her regret her decision next time and when she come back to you next time just brush her off like what she did to you now. Its PAYBACK TIME!Originally posted by set_n_go:i got a gf for almost 4 years, things were fine and well. one day, my gf asked for a break up cuz she wants to move on and try a new relationship.. i was shocked and i broke down. how could she put a full stop to it and do this to me? or why the sudden she got this thinking bout moving on when things are fine? i thought i know her.. i don't deserve this and its so heartless. i don't mistreat her or anything.
she denies when i asked her whether theres anyone in the story but i found out that shes sort of seeing another guy. i was decieved and naive. my sadness is growing each and everyday.
i want to get over it and i cant. its so hard~ she told me that we can still be good friends. but FRIENDS?? how am i going to accept her as a friend when she do this to me? this is so unacceptable. and i will be more hurt if i see her in the future. sigh... thanks for reading. -
I don't know? I wasn't really quite bother to wonder... Like I've said, not the slightest interest in her nor to walk up to her to waste my time?Originally posted by blu_sky:she grew less attractive or the past makes you think she is less attractive?
But if we were close enough and bumped into each other, I guess I might still say 'hi'? -
You mean you were a fish and ya didn't know it..?? <Originally posted by Bontakun:
Long time I ago I have never encountered missqi behaviour (I term it the fish syndrome), SO I was NOT like dat until now.
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I no fish, but I love eating fish!Originally posted by Devil1976:You mean you were a fish and ya didn't know it..?? <>
No. fish syndrome is a term I give. Nothing to do with me. -
Ya sure nothing to do with you....?Originally posted by Bontakun:I no fish, but I love eating fish!
No. fish syndrome is a term I give. Nothing to do with me. -
Set_N_Go,hmmm u have no choice but to let her go.When a woman wants to go,never make her stay.Her heart is no longer with u.I am sure u dont just want the body.Pls take a break, go away for awhile if u can.For my case,I went to china to visit my cousin not for his advice but just to stay away and to clear my mind.It worked for me.Pls dont torture yourself by thinking what has gone wrong or blame yourself for not being perfect or not able to save this relationship.Yes i understand your pain but u must learn to start a new life without her.i also dont suggest to a new relationship now.If u cant go away now, try to look for friends to keep u company.Go out more often.Pls dont just stay in your room because thats where the demon will haunt u. Its best if u have older married friends/relatives.They usually know how to handle this kind of situation.Pls remember,u have no choice but to move on and that there will always be other women in your life in the near future, believe me i know so.Lastly pls dont beg or force her to come back because she will leave u again sooner than u think.Get through this and u will realise that u have become mentally stronger, not heartless but stronger which is good for u not only in future relationships but in almost everything u do.
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Yes. Nth to do with mee.Originally posted by Devil1976:Ya sure nothing to do with you....?
And Lotussy... Pls do some paragraphing... Its painful for the eyes. Thank you.
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yah, i've already let her go. no point asking her back like you said. keeping myself strong and face reality now. not worth thinking over and over again. it will make me feel worse i know. but im trying to. and i feel much better now. thank you everyone~Originally posted by lotussy:Set_N_Go,hmmm u have no choice but to let her go.When a woman wants to go,never make her stay.Her heart is no longer with u.I am sure u dont just want the body.Pls take a break, go away for awhile if u can.For my case,I went to china to visit my cousin not for his advice but just to stay away and to clear my mind.It worked for me.Pls dont torture yourself by thinking what has gone wrong or blame yourself for not being perfect or not able to save this relationship.Yes i understand your pain but u must learn to start a new life without her.i also dont suggest to a new relationship now.If u cant go away now, try to look for friends to keep u company.Go out more often.Pls dont just stay in your room because thats where the demon will haunt u. Its best if u have older married friends/relatives.They usually know how to handle this kind of situation.Pls remember,u have no choice but to move on and that there will always be other women in your life in the near future, believe me i know so.Lastly pls dont beg or force her to come back because she will leave u again sooner than u think.Get through this and u will realise that u have become mentally stronger, not heartless but stronger which is good for u not only in future relationships but in almost everything u do. -
Devil woah.. that is a cool thing u do..haha..Originally posted by Devil1976:Nope. Didn't bother to. Like I've said, not the slightest interest.
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Originally posted by set_n_go:i got a gf for almost 4 years, things were fine and well. one day, my gf asked for a break up cuz she wants to move on and try a new relationship.. i was shocked and i broke down. how could she put a full stop to it and do this to me? or why the sudden she got this thinking bout moving on when things are fine? i thought i know her.. i don't deserve this and its so heartless. i don't mistreat her or anything.
she denies when i asked her whether theres anyone in the story but i found out that shes sort of seeing another guy. i was decieved and naive. my sadness is growing each and everyday.
i want to get over it and i cant. its so hard~ she told me that we can still be good friends. but FRIENDS?? how am i going to accept her as a friend when she do this to me? this is so unacceptable. and i will be more hurt if i see her in the future. sigh... thanks for reading.
Would you rather things end amicably or having to sour the relationship?
Sometimes, it's not about 'you'... much more than it's about 'her'?
P.S: Would you rather keep someone who is unhappy being with you, or would you rather release her so that she may find the happiness she so desire to seek?
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Here is the thing.Originally posted by set_n_go:yah, i've already let her go. no point asking her back like you said. keeping myself strong and face reality now. not worth thinking over and over again. it will make me feel worse i know. but im trying to. and i feel much better now. thank you everyone~
You let her go. Good. Anyway, she has to go. But if she calls you back again, don't get too soft-hearted again. Most importantly, DON'T take her back!
Guy, you have to be tough on yourself and her. You cannot afford to be weak again.
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A good example of confusion strategy, making everyone think that the man is the bad guy.Originally posted by blu_sky:ya, i cried because i hurt him so badly and i was sad that something, once upon time so beautiful, had ended.
i cried so hard that everyone thought that i was dumped instead.
Usually, the guy is the last to know he's unwanted before he realised he's been dumped for another guy.
Threadstarter, don't worry. You are not the only victim and definitely won't be the last. Nothing is ever guaranteed in love(game).
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Confusion strategy?Originally posted by dokono:A good example of confusion strategy, making everyone think that the man is the bad guy.
Usually, the guy is the last to know he's unwanted before he realised he's been dumped for another guy.
Threadstarter, don't worry. You are not the only victim and definitely won't be the last. Nothing is ever guaranteed in love(game).
doko
Not everyone is a schemer or manipulator.
Crying is a form of emotional outlet. Cant one cry even when he/she is sad? when a one cries, he/she must be scheming?
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What's past has passed. Scheming or victimized, it doesn't matter. What matters is we look forward to better things. With that, we can hope. With hope, we can believe and dare to dream.Originally posted by blu_sky:Confusion strategy?
Not everyone is a schemer or manipulator.
Crying is a form of emotional outlet. Cant one cry even when he/she is sad? when a one cries, he/she must be scheming?
You thinking too much.
Woo hoo~~~!!!
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I know you are nice. But you are not the only who did this remember? Not say scheming, the girl is trying to be nice but because she did this, the guy gets confused again, still trying to think of false hopes.Originally posted by blu_sky:Confusion strategy?
Not everyone is a schemer or manipulator.
Crying is a form of emotional outlet. Cant one cry even when he/she is sad? when a one cries, he/she must be scheming?
You thinking too much.
Im really intrigued by the behaviour of girls, really. They never fail to surprise me.
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well, i am also inside one of this situation. well, really really need time.
although mine is like 2.5 mths back, i can feel that i am gettin better very slowly, but definately much better when she broke off with me at that very moment.
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Im not saying every girl is a schemer. It's just that Im really curious, why so many girls' behave in this manner?Originally posted by dokono:I know you are nice. But you are not the only who did this remember? Not say scheming, the girl is trying to be nice but because she did this, the guy gets confused again, still trying to think of false hopes.
Im really intrigued by the behaviour of girls, really. They never fail to surprise me.
doko
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well, it could be done like you said cos the girl is trying to be nice?Originally posted by dokono:Im not saying every girl is a schemer. It's just that Im really curious, why so many girls' behave in this manner?
doko
or it could because the girl is sad? that the relationship once upon atime so beautiful has ended? cos she hurt the person once upon atime was so close to her?
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haha...there are a lot of possibilities.Originally posted by blu_sky:well, it could be done like you said cos the girl is trying to be nice?
or it could because the girl is sad? that the relationship once upon atime so beautiful has ended? cos she hurt the person once upon atime was so close to her?
or there could be other possibilities? lets keep an open mind?
My guess is girls usually try to be nice so as to try soften the impact on the breakup..so the girl doesn't look like the bad person.
sad that the beautiful relationship ended? it could be but not sad enough to not leave the guy, end up hurting him which brings to my point that they don't want to feel so guilty, hence they need a reason haha..
in the end, she still left him, usually for another guy. this is getting alarming and sad.
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haiz...the gals nowadays are really hard to understand...treat too well..they hiam u for not interesting...treat them bad...they say we treat them unwell..Originally posted by dokono:haha...there are a lot of possibilities.
My guess is girls usually try to be nice so as to try soften the impact on the breakup..so the girl doesn't look like the bad person.
sad that the beautiful relationship ended? it could be but not sad enough to not leave the guy, end up hurting him which brings to my point that they don't want to feel so guilty, hence they need a reason haha..
in the end, she still left him, usually for another guy. this is getting alarming and sad.
doko
want a nu ren as a gf..so hard sia
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Contrary to what you said, no, i did not leave my ex for another guy. i left him because he betrayed my trust. no matter how sad he was or how hard he cried, i couldnt stay anymore cos the moment he betrayed my trust, i stopped loving him.Originally posted by dokono:haha...there are a lot of possibilities.
My guess is girls usually try to be nice so as to try soften the impact on the breakup..so the girl doesn't look like the bad person.
sad that the beautiful relationship ended? it could be but not sad enough to not leave the guy, end up hurting him which brings to my point that they don't want to feel so guilty, hence they need a reason haha..
in the end, she still left him, usually for another guy. this is getting alarming and sad.
doko
Third parties is not the only reason why relationships break down
your above statement is too narrow-minded, thats all i can say.