i'm seriously hurt..
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sorry to correct u but firstly, its "Did she TELL u wat she wants?"Originally posted by nuttawood1990:can share?LOL..Did she told u want she wants?
secodnly, i have shared my part of story in the bar section -
what are u thinking??Originally posted by nuttawood1990:can share?LOL..Did she told u want she wants?
it's not what u think ok??
she's no longer young..
it's abt time she settle down..
but i'm definitely not the man who can give her happiness..
cus i'm only 21..
currently, still serving the nation..
drawing peanuts allowance monthly..
how am i going to support her?? -
ALmost everybody's poor while serving NS... What do you expect...? Unless you're a rich man's son?Originally posted by lonestar86:what are u thinking??
it's not what u think ok??
she's no longer young..
it's abt time she settle down..
but i'm definitely not the man who can give her happiness..
cus i'm only 21..
currently, still serving the nation..
drawing peanuts allowance monthly..
how am i going to support her??
Anyway, I think all these are just besides the point right now.. -
too bad i'm not rich man's son..Originally posted by Devil1976:ALmost everybody's poor while serving NS... What do you expect...? Unless you're a rich man's son?
Anyway, I think all these are just besides the point right now..
if i'm rich, i might have get married with her.. -
nope...Originally posted by lonestar86:too bad i'm not rich man's son..
if i'm rich, i might have get married with her..
I'm glad you are not a rich man's son....
marrying someone to keep them by your side, and before you are financially stable on your own two feet, is the foolish notion.
you are not ready for marriage. mentally not ready...
and maybe that's why she left...
as you said she is looking to settle down.... but you are still young and not ready.... in time you'll realise that it's for the best...
anyways, whatever the reason she left is not the important thing right now...
what's important is what are you going to do now?
are you going to look forward or be stuck in the past? -
i'm goin to look forward..Originally posted by smudgey:what's important is what are you going to do now?
are you going to look forward or be stuck in the past? -
How many of us are?Originally posted by lonestar86:too bad i'm not rich man's son..
if i'm rich, i might have get married with her..
And seriously... Even if given the fact that she married you because you're a rich man's son... Do you think the picture would have been any better? -
i m going to tell ur wife-to-b when u get married next time..Originally posted by lonestar86:jus treat the man/woman who u married as the one u really love..
but deep in ur heart, u know who he/she is..
keke..
tink she might hav 2nd thots marrying u..
brother, u r still young.. n oni been together for 5mths. i consider it ur 1st puppy love lor.. anyway u hav a great future ahead.. move on when u recover. -
ya she doesnt fit into her wife criteria...
and u cannot give her what is want.
then cry over spit milk -
always look on t he bright side of life
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sgforumers are mostly poor people?Originally posted by Devil1976:How many of us are?
And seriously... Even if given the fact that she married you because you're a rich man's son... Do you think the picture would have been any better?
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Not sure... But I certainly belongs to the latter...?Originally posted by M©+square:sgforumers are mostly poor people? 
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seriously, i can tell u that it's not puppy love..Originally posted by friendz:i m going to tell ur wife-to-b when u get married next time..
keke.. tink she might hav 2nd thots marrying u..
brother, u r still young.. n oni been together for 5mths. i consider it ur 1st puppy love lor.. anyway u hav a great future ahead.. move on when u recover. -
why, you want to wait for the SEVEN YEAR ITCH is itOriginally posted by lonestar86:agree, but it's not goin to be so soon..
i need time to recover..
even aft i've fully recover, there will be a deep scare right there on my heart..
forever..
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Hwy bro... nowsday u ahve to understand not all her are serious in relationship now... I guess u don't lose anything to her but i know of the other who lost $$$, time and soul to the gal... I do understand ur wound need healing but it depend on you ... Furthermore, search for someone that will follow u for life...
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
I think almost all of us here had gone through this and we SURVIVED. You will too. In the end, the one I married? During courtship everyday was fun and after marriage in the beginning was a bit rough then, every fun.
[b]seriously, i can tell u that it's not puppy love..[/b]
I think romance and love must be like that one... fun fun fun. Not problem problem problem...
Look for one that is fun fun fun,,, unless you are the problem, then everyone you go out with is problem problem problem... (not because of them but you)
Since you are willing to come online and seek help... I have great hope for you. So bottom line is, go and date as many girls as possible and remember to look for those that is "fun to be with". Not fun to be with according to other people's standard but you find her fun to be with. -
?????Originally posted by lonestar86:i've already mentioned..
i'm not what she wants..
i can't give her what she wants..
there's nothing i can do..
what r u talking about??
is there a difference btw yr second n third sentence?? -
"I am not what she wants" - even if I can give her what she wants (money, status ...) she does not want me (because I am too young)!Originally posted by Kenashi:?????
what r u talking about??
is there a difference btw yr second n third sentence??
i'm not what she wants..
i can't give her what she wants..
"I cannot even give her what she wants" - I cannot give her (money, status ...) -
its been one month liao, hoped u have gotten over it.
Just focus on doing some other things and u should be fine.
Time will heal - guarantee! -
It' Going To Take Some Time lyrics by CARPENTERS
It's gonna take some time this time
To get myself in shape
I really fell out of line this time
I really missed the gate
The birds on the telephone line next time
Are crying out to me next time
And I won't be so blind next time
And I'll find some harmony
But it's going to take some time this time
And I can't make demands
But like the young trees in the wintertime
I'll learn how to bend
After all the tears we've spent how could we make amends?
So it's one more round for experience
And I'm on the road again
And it's going to take some time this time
And I can't make demands
I'll learn how to bend
(music)
It's gonna take some time this time
No matter what I've planned
And like the young trees in the wintertime
I'll learn how to bend
After all the tears we've spent how could we make amends?
So it's one more round for experience
And I'm on the road again
And it's going to take some time this time -
kelian...sigh
another case of used n abused.. -
so basically she want someone who is matured, rich n have some socail standing lah.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:"I am not what she wants" - even if I can give her what she wants (money, status ...) she does not want me (because I am too young)!
"I cannot even give her what she wants" - I cannot give her (money, status ...)
time to get over it, nowadays, most gals want such men.
only those ladies over 30+ may want a jie-di lian -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:
Totally agreed!
Since you are willing to come online and seek help... I have great hope for you. So bottom line is, go and date as many girls as possible and remember to look for those that is "fun to be with". Not fun to be with according to other people's standard but [b]you find her fun to be with.[/b]
No point wasting time thinking about her. I know its tough but time will heal. Go find new targets, once you have locked on to new targets, you will forget about her. -
i will, but not so soon..Originally posted by happycny:Go find new targets, once you have locked on to new targets, you will forget about her. -
yeap bro, cheer up man!!Originally posted by TaCTiCAL999:Any specific reason she leave you?
At least u know her true colors now rather than later. Just imagine if its 1 year or 10 years later u get to know her true colors. It will cut u really deep bro
Cheer up and count urself lucky bro.