NS really ruined my life! i hate the ARMY!
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x2. When you finished NS then life would be different liao. Presuming that you only live up to 50 years old (which is a really conservative assumption?). Giving up on ~30 years of your life just for the sake of that 2 years...?? You SURE or not...?Originally posted by Ignatiaus:Welcome to National Service
You're not the only guy here who has to go through crap like this
At least you all new batch only 2 years
Last time we all 2 1/2 years lagi more chia lat our life
Now army life more senang compared before
So don't think you are the only one who hates NS and has lost GFs this way
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If I'm not wrong, there is a welfare hotline for SAF. You can try to find that number and keep it in case you need someone to talk to?Originally posted by IReallyHateNs:thanks for the concern, even though u pple dunno me... i really appreciate it -
wah lau eh! Clerk still want to make so much noise. Imagine you have to chiong and at the back of your mind is ur ex-girlfriend with her new boyfriend enjoying themselves while you are in camo, proning in the fields at night with mosquitoes sucking your blood. That is call bad!
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Imagine, going to camp everyday, doing pointless paperwork, but wait, i was copa aka commanding officer personal assistant, thats wasting of time, think of the 2 years, the money i could earn from the society, thats agony, still u folks, have been through combat training, maybe even leadership, at least u all have learn something. Picture this, if u were applying for a government job, example as a police officer, do u think, if i were to declare my pes status, will i even able to obtain a position at all, no wait, there is no if, its impossible.
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The thing, with u people is, u all only focus on your own point of view, if u all have look at a third party point of view, to be honest, from all the post i have read, its all personal, it has no logical sense at all, instead of grumbling about how your girlfriend has broken up with u, or how NS has ruin your life, if she really love you, don't u think, she would have cherish the relationship, this only prove one thing, human are lonely creature, she broken up perhaps there is third party involved, which is the typical case, she wants someone who can be there to share her happiness, joy, sorrow, woes, she needs someone to be there for her, but you can't do there, as u have a national commitment, (N.S) on the other hand, u would probably feel, we have been together for 3 years and now due to this bullshit N.S, u want to break up with you, i hate to say this,assume, this probably is an excuse that she use to break up with you,and btw how old are u, 21, perhaps its has be a breaking point for u, loneliness fall into your world, nobody can console you at all, what can you do at this very moment, suck it all up, and move now, find another better woman. Blame everything on the woman that break up with you, perhaps this will make you feel better.Last but not lest, woman tend to be more sensible than man, they could be thinking, since I am still young, why should i waste my time on someone who is serving NS, can't commit time for me, there are much more man out there, can commit as much time as what you have done before.
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You can choose to blame NS and let all these things affect you.
You can also choose to see this as a fresh start. You can find yourself a better girlfriend, learn to use Open / Microsoft Office and create presentations. You probably find your parents irritating because you're already in a foul mood.
Stay open-minded - not every girl is a leech, or do something if you find that only girls you're attracting or meeting are leeches.
If you need regular guidance anyway, some of the senior regs in your unit are trained para-counsellors. Remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.Originally posted by IReallyHateNs:Since i entered the army few months back, everything is going wrong... i'm a stupid clerk at some stupid camp, i have no money, no time, parents irritate my... and my gf of almost 3 years leave me.. why why why... this f ucked up ns i really hate.. and i still have so many years to go... i cannot take it anymore.. i wanna kill myself...
i really love this girl a lot... why why.... she say i never show her concern, the fact is that she don't even wanna pick up my calls or reply my sms, less talk about meeting me up... now she give excuse.. think all girls are bltches who only want guys with money... find LKY lah.. he old but lots of money.. go sell backside and be a prostitute lah.. ccb!
Doesn't she know its the worse point of my life now... why does she have to do this.. i need alcohol to sleep every night.. and my work place is so negative.. i really wanna die... i dun c what point in living on -
His problem is unable to cope with reality, he is still young, human tend to be at fault, loneliness is what he is now facing, if u all have put yourself into his shoe and look at the words, he has chosen, he is just a mere kid, saying things he really don't mean at all, then he regret about it, what if, his gf was to come back, what will he do? Most probably, he will accept her back, the strong words, he use, just merely wanted attention off people and secondly, he still loves her.
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F*** Clerk ! Who ask you to "KENG" Active unit are so much positive and FUN !
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Some people are assigned to be clerks due to their PES. You should know better.Originally posted by FireToad:F*** Clerk ! Who ask you to "KENG" Active unit are so much positive and FUN ! -
Lu yao zhi ma li
Ri jiu jian ren xin
In every cloud, there's a silver lining. Perhaps it's a good thing that the girl you prize so much reveals her true colours. Save you bigger trouble later..............
NS is a blessing in disguise after all, isn't it.........
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clerk 8-5 !
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When u get over all these, u will become more of a man than u are right now. Reflect on why urself and why things didn't work out.
When u do, u know more of what u really want in life and how better to deal with ppl... -
bing bian is common.
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Dear TS
Pls don't do anything stupid....
I know life sucks nowÂ… and you are miserableÂ…. Things canÂ’t get worseÂ….
Wrong, things can get worseÂ…
If you try to kill yourselfÂ….. if you succeed, great, itÂ’s the end of the road for youÂ…
But what of your parents, your grandparents, your friends??? Can you bear the thought of the pain they will go through?
If you fail, you have just ruined your futureÂ…. ItÂ’s against the law to take your own lifeÂ…. What future opportunities have you destroyed? ItÂ’ll be forever in your records!!
Pls just grit your teeth, endure this periodÂ…. Rally your friends, buddies togetherÂ…. Let them help you through this!!! -
Not all clerks book out daily. And even if they do, they have their own set of problems - like paying for breakfast, dinner and transport daily on basic rank pay. Don't behave like a small-minded creep.Originally posted by menoob:clerk 8-5 !
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haizz...ns is a waste of time. 2 yrs of our time can study and get degree. After army go study no interest liao. Waste time, lose gf,lose freedom...haizz...i wonder if white horse can book out and enjoy while ordinary stay in and suffer.
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since you've seen her true colours which is to leech your money, why bother liking her still? you love women who suck your money?
are you hiding some facts for example you quarreling with her for the past few months? i doubt she really wants to break up with you just because you're in NS or wanna leech your money. maybe she have been bottling up her anger or smth and couldn't take it anymore and took the chance when you're in NS to break with you.
anyway love is also about commitment. if she can't commit herself to you during your NS days, why bother brooding over the breakup? just relax and think about it. -
[quote]Originally posted by IReallyHateNs:
Since i entered the army few months back, everything is going wrong... [b]i'm a stupid clerk at some stupid camp, i have no money, no time, parents irritate my... and my gf of almost 3 years leave me.. why why why... this f ucked up ns i really hate.. and i still have so many years to go... i cannot take it anymore.. i wanna kill myself...
Wow!!
So you are a clerk in the NS huh? So how did you manage to become a clerk in NS? Let me think... You must be pretty unfit not to be in a combat outfit/trooper. Could that be the reason why your gf also left you...you being unfit?
You know, maybe your gf prefers guys who are fit and who are in combat units, rather than have a bf who is a god-forsaken clerk, which is a non-combat outfit..hmmm.
Anyway, perhaps you should count yourself lucky...being a "stupid clerk" may be for your own good. I guess you will get use to it, or are you secretly admiring those combat-fit guys. Well, you can up your image by going to the camp gym of CC gym to tone up your body....which I am sure you will be able to attract some other gals.
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i encourage you to speak to a counsellor in your unit or call up the SAF hotline...
clerk job is already not too bad. at least you get to stay out or at least get nights off(for stay in clerks). somemore can take part time degree outside -
Originally posted by IReallyHateNs:Since i entered the army few months back, everything is going wrong... i'm a stupid clerk at some stupid camp, i have no money, no time, parents irritate my... and my gf of almost 3 years leave me.. why why why... this f ucked up ns i really hate.. and i still have so many years to go... i cannot take it anymore.. i wanna kill myself...
i really love this girl a lot... why why.... she say i never show her concern, the fact is that she don't even wanna pick up my calls or reply my sms, less talk about meeting me up... now she give excuse.. think all girls are bltches who only want guys with money... find LKY lah.. he old but lots of money.. go sell backside and be a prostitute lah.. ccb!
Doesn't she know its the worse point of my life now... why does she have to do this.. i need alcohol to sleep every night.. and my work place is so negative.. i really wanna die... i dun c what point in living on
If your love cannot even withstand the test of NS - I doubt it could take on greater responsibilities in the future... like marriage.
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clerk..... you got into clerk becoz of mental problem issit? Hey look here I was a stay in combatant leh... clerk still complain so much....
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i tell the officier i want to be a clerk so i can sit and enjoy aircon in office all day instead of chionging, but then he dun want give me. U lucky to be clerk
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Hey, let's give him a chance and stop trying to shut him up with our own personal experiences, shall we? Every vocation is a different kettle of fish, and a clerk's life can be stressful. They have to settle your parade state, courses, interviews, promotions, FFIs, etc while you chiong sua, sometimes that means working well beyond 5.30 p.m without proper dinner. And they still get less pay than you do even though they pay for more.
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Stop moaning and deal with it lah.
Who said life was fair, suck it up and move on.
You don't like life in Singapore? Then leave lor.
If you can't leave, then just deal with it like the rest of us have.
Life moves on even if u don't want to, better wake up your idea and get onboard or you will get left behind. -
Pls REFRAIN from giving INSENSITIVE comments people..