Urgent question to ask those who are attached...
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2 gals 1 guy, chances are either 3some or nth. Mostly nth. If 1 gal 1 guy, very fishy right?Originally posted by Devil1976:I don't get this? -
Even if she is my wife I will let her go, no questions asked, no letting her know I am "worried" and ask to enjoy herself and have a good time. Learn to let go and let people live their lives they way they want. Nobody belongs to you.
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how about the $700 ?Originally posted by Devil1976:It really need not be such a big deal as you think.... I mean.. Why not? I've shared room with 2 girls too to cut down cost... -
Something like that.. But it doesn't mean that the guy can't develop and be involved with 1 of the girls only...? And the other girl just as a bystander..?Originally posted by Bontakun:2 gals 1 guy, chances are either 3some or nth. Mostly nth. If 1 gal 1 guy, very fishy right?
In some cases, there're people who just tag along a 3rd person as a form of 'cover up'...? But I'm not suggesting that that's the case here lah... -
This has to see how trusting Shade is towards his GF. No point fretting over it since the plan is made. Trust her or no?Originally posted by Devil1976:Something like that.. But it doesn't mean that the guy can't develop and be involved with 1 of the girls only...? And the other girl just as a bystander..?
In some cases, there're people who just tag along a 3rd person as a form of 'cover up'...? But I'm not suggesting that that's the case here lah...
In da end we dunno what is going to happen over there so...
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I personally don't think that one really should be planning for such leisures if he / she couldn't afford it? And to borrow that sum either means that they're quite close (as friends?), she's naturally more 'open' and trusting people type of character or he can actually quite easily get that sum of $ rolled in, just that he doesn't have the cash at the moment...?Originally posted by ghimpheng:how about the $700 ?
I think this could be a personal deal thing.. Whether one would lend $ to another friend for such a reason.. Of course, it's possible that their relationship might be 'unusual' as some of you in here might actually be thinking...? But out of all possibilities, what we're suggesting are just purely spectaculations...? -
Yes... Personally I would think... If you have no reason to trust her, do you on the other hand actually have reasons to doubt her...? Or is it simply just a purely 'disturbing' image or idea lingering on your mind...?Originally posted by Bontakun:This has to see how trusting Shade is towards his GF. No point fretting over it since the plan is made. Trust her or no?
In da end we dunno what is going to happen over there so... -
If he is not trusting or cannot trust enough, definately will have some "disturbing" images and sorts. It can't be helped but in the end still have to believe nth is going on in the end.Originally posted by Devil1976:Yes... Personally I would think... If you have no reason to trust her, do you on the other hand actually have reasons to doubt her...? Or is it simply just a purely 'disturbing' image or idea lingering on your mind...? -
Erm, I dunno the other girl, but my gf tells me the guy is going to slp on the floor while the girls get the bed. There are only 2 beds in the room.Originally posted by Agenda:Why don't you go together? Is the other girl the 5lutty type? If so, There's a good chance she will pull your gf in if she ever gets horny or high -
i smell bullshit. Do the smart thing dude. 2 girls and one guy? what kind of holiday? If big group still okay. 3 people?
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Well..discuss with ur gf about this yeah?
Option 1) go with ur gf if can but then she will thinks that you are somehow controlling her
Option 2) Trust her and pray hard that things goes good
Option 3) Treat this very cold, see her reaction..a gauge to see how well is this relationship going to be in the future. Not a good option ba..
I don't think you can force her not to go..
That guy seriously asked her for the loan of $700 ah and ur gf agreed too? Maybe you can discuss with ur gf abt tis, after all you are the one she trusts alot too..
Tread this situation carefully..if that guy wants to steal ur gf away, and you dont handle carefully..u will fall into that bloodi bastard trap! -
if is mi i die die wont let her go ah!
not that i dun trust her, but i dun trust the guy.
borrow 700 from a girl, smlJ! -
Well, it is pretty much depends on each individual. LIke some people would think nothing of a gal and a guy sharing bed or even kissing, but some others think hell alot about it?Originally posted by Devil1976:One is... The other's not.. I think? Even back during my poly days, the girls would share a bed with a guy over the chalet... Or something like that? -
yes, i had seen that too. and me too, not suggesting that it the case thoughOriginally posted by Devil1976:Something like that.. But it doesn't mean that the guy can't develop and be involved with 1 of the girls only...? And the other girl just as a bystander..?
In some cases, there're people who just tag along a 3rd person as a form of 'cover up'...? But I'm not suggesting that that's the case here lah... -
Ultimately, you'll still have to ask yourself the same question... Do you trust her..? And if you ain't, why didn't ya stopped her in the 1st place...?Originally posted by shade343:Erm, I dunno the other girl, but my gf tells me the guy is going to slp on the floor while the girls get the bed. There are only 2 beds in the room. -
This smells very fishy. I wouldn't personally trust someone who at that age doesn't know how to save up. If he's schooling it's still excusable, but not if he's doing NS or working.Originally posted by shade343:The guy 23yrs old leh. And he ask her pay $700 for his airfare first, cos he no money now.... -
Hmm...I guess so, I'll try to persuade her to not share rooms with the guy.Originally posted by Devil1976:Ultimately, you'll still have to ask yourself the same question... Do you trust her..? And if you ain't, why didn't ya stopped her in the 1st place...? -
Honestly, if budget is an important element that they are considering (since the guy has to borrow money from you gf for the holidayOriginally posted by shade343:Hmm...I guess so, I'll try to persuade her to not share rooms with the guy. ), i dun see how your persuasion going to work.
You may come across as unreasonable and not understanding. -
Not to scare you, but why is the guy insistant on going along with the 2 girls even though he has no money? There must be a reason why. It can't be for shopping...
Most guys in this guys will just ask the girls to go ahead, but this guy is insistant on JOINING THEM!
For those who tell the TS to take it easy, Ãt's easy to say, but try putting yourself in his shoes. -
Well, the most positive reason will be, maybe he really just want to holiday with them with no hidden agenda? that could be possible.Originally posted by bigmouthjoe:Not to scare you, but why is the guy insistant on going along with the 2 girls even though he has no money? There must be a reason why. It can't be for shopping...
Most guys in this guys will just ask the girls to go ahead, but this guy is insistant on JOINING THEM!
For those who tell the TS to take it easy, Ãt's easy to say, but try putting yourself in his shoes.
Though i really dun have much respect for people who go for holidays despite they cant afford it. And worse, borrow money from gals -
ask the guy to fu*ck spider la no money wana to overseas..
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I didn't really read through what other post
but why r u not paying for yr gf? got to work 12 hr to go hongkong?
if u worry abt her..then go with her
if not..u got to learn to trust her..
as for the 700 bucks..i think it's really up to yr gf lah...if she lend and the guy dun return then i think it's a lesson learnt for yr gf..
cannot everything swee swee 1 -
Yeah, but question is how is the TS going to put this message across to his GF? Throw her the same senario and try to make her understand?Originally posted by blu_sky:Well, the most positive reason will be, maybe he really just want to holiday with them with no hidden agenda? that could be possible.
Though i really dun have much respect for people who go for holidays despite they cant afford it. And worse, borrow money from gals -
Learning to trust her is one thing, but you cannot control the actions and mind of the guy...Originally posted by BufPuf:I didn't really read through what other post
but why r u not paying for yr gf? got to work 12 hr to go hongkong?
if u worry abt her..then go with her
if not..u got to learn to trust her..
as for the 700 bucks..i think it's really up to yr gf lah...if she lend and the guy dun return then i think it's a lesson learnt for yr gf..
cannot everything swee swee 1
Allowing my gf to be alone (let's say the other girl goes out) with another guy is out of the question!
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dat will be mass orgy.Originally posted by blu_sky:why dont you join them?