by approaching gals on street...l tink u are juz makin urself look like a idiot...agreed with ghimpeng...the gal will feel very irriated and feel that u are a desperate...Originally posted by ghimpheng:seriously i think only idiots approach girls on street =D
Perhaps you read those break up issues or threads in AA then you can see some link between those break ups and this question you asking.Originally posted by rane:![]()
why? Just asking this in general. Guys can go round noticing, ogling, looking or "following" the gals they are interested but don't have the guts to make any move.
only strike at the right time.Originally posted by BadzMaro:beo, plan , strike.![]()
QUITE POSITIVE...?Originally posted by rane:Hey, guys, thanks for your reply.
When you make the move to make friend with the gals, just treat it as a learning experience. Practice makes perfect. If you are able to gain friendship from her, good. If you are able to make friend with her and later develop to bf and gf, then it is even better!!! If after knowing her as an ordinary friend, u find that she is not that nice afterall, there is nothing to lose from your side. YOu could just continue your friendship with her or just leave her alone.
Don't stress yourself too much on worrrying about rejection, or you have inferiority complex. Be positive!! Approach the person at the right time, right approach!!
Because....Originally posted by ChoCoChips:if u no approach, 0% chance to know her.
but if u do, maybe not 100%, but at least won't be zero.
but damn, talk is cheap.
i still dun dare to approach.
I'm one of those idiots who used to...?Originally posted by ghimpheng:seriously i think only idiots approach girls on street =D
Not true...SG very small one..today u approach A ..then tomolo u appoach B then happen that A and B knows each other....then A and B u also dun get.Originally posted by BadzMaro:damned if u do... damned if u dont.
so just DO IT. what u got to lose anyways.. ur dignity in a popuation 4 to 6 mil ++ ppl..
You are thinking too much I feel.Originally posted by Mid9Sun:Not true...SG very small one..today u approach A ..then tomolo u appoach B then happen that A and B knows each other....then A and B u also dun get.
I've seen such cases happen to my friends..esp in clubbing scenes
ghimpheng not ghimpeng !!! and somemore they only see chio / cute then approach tt gal like very what lorOriginally posted by xShevchenkox:by approaching gals on street...l tink u are juz makin urself look like a idiot...agreed with ghimpeng...the gal will feel very irriated and feel that u are a desperate...
l am a guy...l oso dun like guys go up to gals n ask to make frenz or number...is like disturbing other ppl lo
Gt 1 time..at 7 eleven...the female cashier was approached by a few guys...l was tere to buy newspaper...the female cashier keep saying dun wan...but the few guys still dun wan go...l see liao...very angry..tijiao go up and asked them..can u all zi dong anot..ppl dun wan giv...keep forcing...Desperate iszit? Then they all stare at me..then lan lan go off liao...
Thought that they will camp outside 7 eleven..wait for me....but l go out...all out of sight liao![]()
i admire u for u guts.. u ain't a idiot.. i salute u!! btw me too.. i don't see any wrong in being friendly with others lol.. i will strongly encourage ur actions..Originally posted by Devil1976:I'm one of those idiots who used to...?
I think one thing about Singapore's culture as compared to more westernised countries and even some other Asian countries is that we tends to look too much into certain things and actions... Personally, I don't see anything quite wrong with a friendly gesture? But often then not, it's the comments and response we might get which discourage us from our actions..
really ? tt guy must be tall and handsomeOriginally posted by qisha:If i were the guy, i will approach the girl that i am interested in.. anyway sg guys are too 'hum ji'.. sometimes what's the point of 'beo n beo'.. sian lol.. no fun.. haha..![]()
hmm.. in fact, i had tried approaching guy that i am interested in.. but singapore guys in general not 'on' enough.. or buay kan one..![]()
*takes note*Originally posted by curiousOrange:I wonder how they feel now.
Four simple words that can change your life :
"Give me your number?"
Originally posted by Devil1976:why you only give friendly gesture with those gals that look chio / cute ? that why i discourage such acts =D
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I'm one of those idiots who used to...?
I think one thing about Singapore's culture as compared to more westernised countries and even some other Asian countries is that we tends to look too much into certain things and actions... Personally, I don't see anything quite wrong with a friendly gesture? But often then not, it's the comments and response we might get which discourage us from our actions..[/b]
You never bite lips while looking at them?Originally posted by Devil1976:I'm one of those idiots who used to...?
I think one thing about Singapore's culture as compared to more westernised countries and even some other Asian countries is that we tends to look too much into certain things and actions... Personally, I don't see anything quite wrong with a friendly gesture? But often then not, it's the comments and response we might get which discourage us from our actions..
haha...paiseh paiseh...like that u oso can notice ah...Ghimpheng oso like bontakun...the eyes machiam like fish like that....Originally posted by ghimpheng:ghimpheng not ghimpeng !!! and somemore they only see chio / cute then approach tt gal like very what lor
bite the lips and show ur tongue...lashing at them like the spiderman villian venom....Originally posted by Bontakun:You never bite lips while looking at them?![]()
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you will not be the last to spell it incorrectly that for sure alot of pple did anyway in the whole of my life even teachersOriginally posted by xShevchenkox:haha...paiseh paiseh...like that u oso can notice ah...Ghimpheng oso like bontakun...the eyes machiam like fish like that....
ya lo..dun see gt guys go approach fat and ugly gals de
But hor l read in one of the threads ..they say what..must noe the ugly gals 1st then u can catch the pretty babes...cuz hor most of these ugly gals hav very pretty frenz de wor, true or not ah? hahahaha![]()
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well in life mah...sum sacrifces hav to be made at certain time de mah...Originally posted by ghimpheng:you will not be the last to spell it incorrectly that for sure alot of pple did anyway in the whole of my life even teachers
ya ugly gals surely got a few pretty friend de ma then can intro but tt like that very evil le make friend with them just becoz ...............![]()