why guys love to "beo beo" & not make any move?
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seriously i think only idiots approach girls on street =D
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by approaching gals on street...l tink u are juz makin urself look like a idiot...agreed with ghimpeng...the gal will feel very irriated and feel that u are a desperate...Originally posted by ghimpheng:seriously i think only idiots approach girls on street =D
l am a guy...l oso dun like guys go up to gals n ask to make frenz or number...is like disturbing other ppl lo
Gt 1 time..at 7 eleven...the female cashier was approached by a few guys...l was tere to buy newspaper...the female cashier keep saying dun wan...but the few guys still dun wan go...l see liao...very angry..tijiao go up and asked them..can u all zi dong anot..ppl dun wan giv...keep forcing...Desperate iszit? Then they all stare at me..then lan lan go off liao...
Thought that they will camp outside 7 eleven..wait for me....but l go out...all out of sight liao
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see chiobu think she is nice, once u get to know her u know more about her weaknesses, so will slowly destroy ur dream of her as a chiobu
so by staying away from her and just see see from far far,she will forever(hopefully) be that chiobu
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Perhaps you read those break up issues or threads in AA then you can see some link between those break ups and this question you asking.Originally posted by rane:
why? Just asking this in general. Guys can go round noticing, ogling, looking or "following" the gals they are interested but don't have the guts to make any move.
Of course there is also the "no balls to approach" or other factors. Many are mentioned in here. -
Buy the girl a drink before making a move. Or at least offer to buy. I think the biggest turnoff a girl can find is the guy directly asking 'xiao jie, wo men ke zuo peng you ma?'. Some of army-mates just never learnt.......
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only strike at the right time.Originally posted by BadzMaro:beo, plan , strike.
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QUITE POSITIVE...?Originally posted by rane:Hey, guys, thanks for your reply.
When you make the move to make friend with the gals, just treat it as a learning experience. Practice makes perfect. If you are able to gain friendship from her, good. If you are able to make friend with her and later develop to bf and gf, then it is even better!!! If after knowing her as an ordinary friend, u find that she is not that nice afterall, there is nothing to lose from your side. YOu could just continue your friendship with her or just leave her alone.
Don't stress yourself too much on worrrying about rejection, or you have inferiority complex. Be positive!! Approach the person at the right time, right approach!!
But that is what ya think what... Many other girls might not even think the same way as ya do? -
Because....Originally posted by ChoCoChips:if u no approach, 0% chance to know her.
but if u do, maybe not 100%, but at least won't be zero.
but damn, talk is cheap.
i still dun dare to approach.
If you don't approach, 0% chance of kena SUAN and gievn WEIRD LOOK...
If you approach then got such chances...
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Me and a friend were leaving the cinema after watching a movie a few days ago.
He went up to a lady (a stranger) who was in a group. They were just 5 or 6 steps away from us.
Smiled at the lady and said," Which type of movies do you enjoy the most?"
Lady : " Important?"
Friend: " Yes, I would be able to sleep welll tonite if i dont know the answer"
Lady broke into a smile: "Comedies, why?"
Friend : "I'm going to ask you out"
Lady : "Crazy!"
Friend : "What's your number?"
Lady paused for some time, then wrote down some numbers on the movie ticket.
Friend looked at the ticket:
"Is your number XXXXXXXX ?" (he purposely misread one of the digits to verify whether the lady is giving the real number)
Lady : "No, it's XXXXXXXX."
Some distance away there were a group of guys who were beoing and laughing their @ss off when my friend approached her.
I wonder how they feel now.
Four simple words that can change your life :
"Give me your number?" -
"beo beo" doesnt mean we have to approach.. isnt it..
its merely an appreciation of the beautiful things in life..
besides.. if we go up, we get a sharp rebuff, wont that spoil
the image of the "chiobu" ? -
I'm one of those idiots who used to...?Originally posted by ghimpheng:seriously i think only idiots approach girls on street =D
I think one thing about Singapore's culture as compared to more westernised countries and even some other Asian countries is that we tends to look too much into certain things and actions... Personally, I don't see anything quite wrong with a friendly gesture? But often then not, it's the comments and response we might get which discourage us from our actions.. -
Not true...SG very small one..today u approach A ..then tomolo u appoach B then happen that A and B knows each other....then A and B u also dun get.Originally posted by BadzMaro:damned if u do... damned if u dont.
so just DO IT. what u got to lose anyways.. ur dignity in a popuation 4 to 6 mil ++ ppl..
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You are thinking too much I feel.Originally posted by Mid9Sun:Not true...SG very small one..today u approach A ..then tomolo u appoach B then happen that A and B knows each other....then A and B u also dun get.
I've seen such cases happen to my friends..esp in clubbing scenes
What do you have to lose?
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ghimpheng not ghimpeng !!! and somemore they only see chio / cute then approach tt gal like very what lorOriginally posted by xShevchenkox:by approaching gals on street...l tink u are juz makin urself look like a idiot...agreed with ghimpeng...the gal will feel very irriated and feel that u are a desperate...
l am a guy...l oso dun like guys go up to gals n ask to make frenz or number...is like disturbing other ppl lo
Gt 1 time..at 7 eleven...the female cashier was approached by a few guys...l was tere to buy newspaper...the female cashier keep saying dun wan...but the few guys still dun wan go...l see liao...very angry..tijiao go up and asked them..can u all zi dong anot..ppl dun wan giv...keep forcing...Desperate iszit? Then they all stare at me..then lan lan go off liao...
Thought that they will camp outside 7 eleven..wait for me....but l go out...all out of sight liao -
If i were the guy, i will approach the girl that i am interested in.. anyway sg guys are too 'hum ji'.. sometimes what's the point of 'beo n beo'.. sian lol.. no fun.. haha..
hmm.. in fact, i had tried approaching guy that i am interested in.. but singapore guys in general not 'on' enough.. or buay kan one.. -
i admire u for u guts.. u ain't a idiot.. i salute u!! btw me too.. i don't see any wrong in being friendly with others lol.. i will strongly encourage ur actions..Originally posted by Devil1976:I'm one of those idiots who used to...?
I think one thing about Singapore's culture as compared to more westernised countries and even some other Asian countries is that we tends to look too much into certain things and actions... Personally, I don't see anything quite wrong with a friendly gesture? But often then not, it's the comments and response we might get which discourage us from our actions..
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really ? tt guy must be tall and handsomeOriginally posted by qisha:If i were the guy, i will approach the girl that i am interested in.. anyway sg guys are too 'hum ji'.. sometimes what's the point of 'beo n beo'.. sian lol.. no fun.. haha..
hmm.. in fact, i had tried approaching guy that i am interested in.. but singapore guys in general not 'on' enough.. or buay kan one.. -
*takes note*Originally posted by curiousOrange:I wonder how they feel now.
Four simple words that can change your life :
"Give me your number?"
whats the conclusion? did they went out? -
hello people,
there are some guys who just enjoy "beo" gals but with no intention at all to make any move. there are some who "beo" and body language tells wanna to approach but afraid or lack of confidence to do so. I am referring to the latter.
LIke the "beo, plan, strike" strategy. Hey, whatever OK - when u guys approach gals, make sure you make gals feel comfortable in the first place then from there gradually gauage how is she, don't just strike without any "plan" or when she is not ready. I don't encourage guys when they see the gals they like on the streets , straight away they approach the gals (unless you are so tactful so good in gauaging is the gals are OK with your approach).
You guys gotta smile to the gals first (please smile politely not sleazily hor). Then after smiling see if she feels comfortable with you, if she does just speak to her in one or two sentences to begin with, be spontaneous don't force anything out of yourself when you speak. If she responds positively to you, well done - half of your battle is won! For eg, you notice this gal at the bus stop many times and you wanna talk to her. Smile to her, if OK then you talk - like "hello, you going out for CNY shopping?" -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
why you only give friendly gesture with those gals that look chio / cute ? that why i discourage such acts =D
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I'm one of those idiots who used to...?
I think one thing about Singapore's culture as compared to more westernised countries and even some other Asian countries is that we tends to look too much into certain things and actions... Personally, I don't see anything quite wrong with a friendly gesture? But often then not, it's the comments and response we might get which discourage us from our actions..[/b] -
You never bite lips while looking at them?Originally posted by Devil1976:I'm one of those idiots who used to...?
I think one thing about Singapore's culture as compared to more westernised countries and even some other Asian countries is that we tends to look too much into certain things and actions... Personally, I don't see anything quite wrong with a friendly gesture? But often then not, it's the comments and response we might get which discourage us from our actions.. -
haha...paiseh paiseh...like that u oso can notice ah...Ghimpheng oso like bontakun...the eyes machiam like fish like that....Originally posted by ghimpheng:ghimpheng not ghimpeng !!! and somemore they only see chio / cute then approach tt gal like very what lor
ya lo..dun see gt guys go approach fat and ugly gals de
But hor l read in one of the threads ..they say what..must noe the ugly gals 1st then u can catch the pretty babes...cuz hor most of these ugly gals hav very pretty frenz de wor, true or not ah? hahahaha -
bite the lips and show ur tongue...lashing at them like the spiderman villian venom....Originally posted by Bontakun:You never bite lips while looking at them? -
you will not be the last to spell it incorrectly that for sure alot of pple did anyway in the whole of my life even teachersOriginally posted by xShevchenkox:haha...paiseh paiseh...like that u oso can notice ah...Ghimpheng oso like bontakun...the eyes machiam like fish like that....
ya lo..dun see gt guys go approach fat and ugly gals de
But hor l read in one of the threads ..they say what..must noe the ugly gals 1st then u can catch the pretty babes...cuz hor most of these ugly gals hav very pretty frenz de wor, true or not ah? hahahaha
ya ugly gals surely got a few pretty friend de ma then can intro but tt like that very evil le make friend with them just becoz ............... -
well in life mah...sum sacrifces hav to be made at certain time de mah...Originally posted by ghimpheng:you will not be the last to spell it incorrectly that for sure alot of pple did anyway in the whole of my life even teachers
ya ugly gals surely got a few pretty friend de ma then can intro but tt like that very evil le make friend with them just becoz ...............