why some pple mostly girls cut themselves on their hand ?
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That is very cryptic.Originally posted by M©+square:These unknowns are worth exploring, as to why they need attention.
Cheers
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Rite, I've said my piece.
I leave it up to you guys to explore why they want attention.
i rather pay more attention to people that makes good impacts in my life then those that wont. -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Rite, I've said my piece.
I leave it up to you guys to explore why they want attention.
i rather pay more attention to people that makes good impacts in my life then those that wont.
All the best in meeting worthy friends and staying close to those who're making life worth living.
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I've gathered tt some girls cut themselves bcoz of emo. So.. to all xiao mei meis.. stay away from emo music.
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Thank you.Originally posted by M©+square:
All the best in meeting worthy friends and staying close to those who're making life worth living.
Cheers
and hope you grow up, mature into some nice responsible young man.
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Ahem. Pardon me to say this, but I think you've got this bad habit of telling people 'how much you've seen' when people question the truth because the statements you've made... What I wanna tell you is... No matter how much you've seen personally, doesn't necessarily makes you aware of facts... You can easily have someone who have seen a same old movie over and over again but basically have no idea to exactly what it means...Originally posted by viciouskitty74:From my point of veiw. Possibly.
Have you seen a cut so deep, that you can see the bones?
Or blood all over a floor?
Or blood splattered on the floor, but that someone was later boasting about how the the floor was bloodwashed?
Have you seen what it means to blood wash a household?
The reason why I didn't wanna start any arguement or debate with you is because I know you can be stubborn on your stand. That's ok with me, because I don't think I wanna convince you anyway. Besides, I'm lazy.
Of all that I've spoken, I would still go by the stand of my previous post. -
Perhaps you've personally seen and experienced things which you feel so deeply towards...Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I dont believe in cutting myself.
Why, because I have family members that practise the:
1 Cry, 2 Shout, 3 hang themself stunts.
And for serious cutting, I rather go to a professional tattoo artist or a doctor.
And for another, I seen how ugly most persons look like when they wanted to win any arguements.
By cutting themself. Such people win, not by their real win, but by evoking sympathy, fear & panic.
I even had folks that comes to me, with a plaster on their wrist to tell me they cut themselves....and the whole sad story about how they were arguing and how despair they are.
In the end, they were using that to make use of people.
And I've seen those that was really sick, in pain, with needles sticking into them everywhere...yet they make the effort to be cheerful.
But nope. Things could be really much more complicated than the explanations you've provided. And the fact being so, is also the reason why I'm not going deeper into the topic here.
Being sardonic or even mocking them might work for the minority(?) cases you've mentioned which so happens to be... But if they happens to fall on otherwise... What you've suggested doing could be a very irresponsible thing to do.... -
Yes. Life itself is indeed so.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:That is very cryptic. -
/wrists
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Contact IMH.Originally posted by Devil1976:Being sardonic or even mocking them might work for the minority(?) cases you've mentioned which so happens to be... But if they happens to fall on otherwise... What you've suggested doing could be a very irresponsible thing to do....
make the police report and have the person who is cutting themself admitted.
its irresponsible for those untrained, uncertified and unexperienced to be advising and handing these people.
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yah...i can see how deeply you felt about other peoples experiences which you dont have or wants to go deeper into.Originally posted by Devil1976:Perhaps you've personally seen and experienced things which you feel so deeply towards...
But nope. Things could be really much more complicated than the explanations you've provided. And the fact being so, is also the reason why I'm not going deeper into the topic here.
Being sardonic or even mocking them might work for the minority(?) cases you've mentioned which so happens to be... But if they happens to fall on otherwise... What you've suggested doing could be a very irresponsible thing to do....
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And thats whats this forum is not about.Originally posted by Devil1976:Yes. Life itself is indeed so.
Its about mysticfying everything aspect of any persons life or complaints and feeling so damn good about it. -
Ain't cryptic, gal.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:That is very cryptic.
There are a 1000 and 1 reasons that could cause such people to react this way. Like needing attention, getting a free high from the endorplhins, social fad from watching local serials, trying to emulate their fencing idols,etc... To deal with this matter, we need a socialogist, psychiatrist, psychologist and many other specialists to acertain the underlying reason/s and treat it.
So try give the moderators some benefit of doubt especially when the subject matter is vague when not a single personality is mentioned. -
Go read my previous posts k....Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:Ain't cryptic, gal.
There are a 1000 and 1 reasons that could cause such people to react this way. Like needing attention, getting a free high from the endorplhins, social fad from watching local serials, trying to emulate their fencing idols,etc... To deal with this matter, we need a socialogist, psychiatrist, psychologist and many other specialists to acertain the underlying reason/s and treat it.
So try give the moderators some benefit of doubt especially when the subject matter is vague when not a single personality is mentioned. -
most of the times... these ppl will need professional help...
and also family and friend's support....
all you can really do is shower her with care and affection... and talk to her as much as u can -
some do it to distract themselves from the pain they are feeling, as in emotional pain...Originally posted by M©+square:The severity of reasons why people cut themselves varies.
Mainly, reasons and motivation behind could be deeper than we thought.
These unknowns are worth exploring, as to why they need attention.
They cut themselves because of attention. I agree generally.
But why do they need attention? Surely wanting attention isn't the end of explaination.
Cheers
they may feel so overwhelmed with saddness, or fear, or anger that they wanna escape.... and the only fastest way is to distract themselves with pain...
I've seen this... it's not pretty... and most of the time, the person in qn is not intending to commit suicide... -
let me bring this up.Originally posted by Devil1976:Being sardonic or even mocking them might work for the minority(?) cases you've mentioned which so happens to be... But if they happens to fall on otherwise... What you've suggested doing could be a very irresponsible thing to do....
i resent this post, cos it still does not offer any other solution to the threadstarter. -
We're just a form of 'support'. People choose who they wanna go to for help. Not everybody would wanna go to a professional especially whe no close one(s) they can trust had ever advise them or convince them to do so.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Contact IMH.
make the police report and have the person who is cutting themself admitted.
its irresponsible for those untrained, uncertified and unexperienced to be advising and handing these people.
Is that not cryptic enough?
It's always better to be providing whatever 'correct' help you can than to just simply put it that they should be referred to a professional alone. You'll be surprised how little many of them might be willing to open up to a professional than to a friend or someone they choose to so relate their experience to?
I've thought of such before. But 'forcing' an admission often doesn't really help much. Alot would depends on the victims themselves... -
It'll be very unlikely that I'll be having all the 'mishaps' that all various different people are having or I'll probably not be around anymore?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:yah...i can see how deeply you felt about other peoples experiences which you dont have or wants to go deeper into. 
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Anyway, I believe the topic of interest really is not me here....?
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And my postings are regards to what "I" seen.Originally posted by Devil1976:It'll be very unlikely that I'll be having all the 'mishaps' that all various different people are having or I'll probably not be around anymore? "
Anyway, I believe the topic of interest really is not me here....?
Not about me either. It turns the other direction didnt it. When it should have been focused on the threadstarter. -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:And thats whats this forum is not about.
Its about mysticfying everything aspect of any persons life or complaints and feeling so damn good about it.
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a simple question to why.Originally posted by Devil1976:
And just what makes you say so?
a simple answer to that why.
and some more 'its not so simple and its cryptic'
with an additional, IT IS CRYPTIC. -
Right...Originally posted by smudgey:some do it to distract themselves from the pain they are feeling, as in emotional pain...
they may feel so overwhelmed with saddness, or fear, or anger that they wanna escape.... and the only fastest way is to distract themselves with pain...
I've seen this... it's not pretty... and most of the time, the person in qn is not intending to commit suicide... -
he is right. its one of the cause of self inflicted injuries. which still boils down on getting attention. best explained as diverting attentiion too.Originally posted by Devil1976:Right...
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It's not so a simple situation. Based on such little information.. I rather opt not to give any specific advice. Hope that answer your question?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:let me bring this up.
i resent this post, cos it still does not offer any other solution to the threadstarter.