No disrespect, but you aren't even making sense and certainly come across as self-contradictory. On one hand, you did everything you did because you pined for her; on the other, you haven't even got the courage to let her know what you'd done for her. Just what exactly are you playing at?Originally posted by fire1980:just want her to feel happy/special...![]()
I agree too. You shouldn't keep waiting for her or else you'll miss alot of nicer ladies out there.Originally posted by Agenda:give up..
there are other nicer girls out there![]()
perhaps if you give her up completely, she would come crawling back.. life is just that sadistic![]()
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Originally posted by fire1980:actually i dun really regret it at all... i just a hopeless romantic willing to do anything for someone i love... before i did this i never really expect anything from her in return...![]()
Originally posted by walesa:i sorry for being dense...but what do u really mean by stop being so noble?
No disrespect, but you aren't even making sense and certainly come across as self-contradictory. On one hand, you did everything you did because [b]you pined for her; on the other, you haven't even got the courage to let her know what you'd done for her. Just what exactly are you playing at?
As things stand, you just seem to be incurring even heavier losses on both fronts - on one side, your gestures of goodwill are not reciprocated/acknowledged; on the other, your efforts are all going in vain because you simply choose to pursue her in silence. It's time you stopped being so noble...[/b]
Noble in the sense that you're prepared to mortgage your asset to get her 99 roses, yet not have the courage to admit those roses were from you? You did yourself no favour there(you aren't getting remotely closer to winning her over; neither are you doing your wallet any favours), mind!Originally posted by fire1980:i sorry for being dense...but what do u really mean by stop being so noble?
i dun see it as noble.. maybe too idealistic.
noble would be giving her up altogether. i am not..
I believe all of us here are happy to offer encouragement and some pointers so to hear success stories than to give disheartening and negetive comments.Originally posted by mahawarrior:i dun understand why is so many people asking him to give up and 'let go'. i think maybe he should go all out and fight for his happiness (not to extreme also lah of course) and peservere on...miracles do happen with peserverence.
melt her ice mountain!
Interesting to see why guys like girls who don't like them yet still choose to like them.Originally posted by spectralizer:quite like my story
bcos many ple have this mindset..Originally posted by M©+square:Interesting to see why guys like girls who don't like them yet still choose to like them.![]()