why is my gf like this? are all women like this?
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i used to think that during my poly days when guys who are well off/gd look/famous earn more attention than the avg joe.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:What do these gals want?
RICH BF
SHUAI LOOKING
SMART
GOOD QUALITIES
the qualities they expect from guys is juz too much...
but the truth is, not really that a lot of girls are looking at this.. girls are getting more clever nowadays. while the rich/handsome/famous are still getting most girls' attention, but they normally treat it as a flirt/fling. they know of the low-sense of security, therefore when settling down, they still chooses personality, character and security over $/looks/reputation. -
huh? u listen to wat ur juniors say?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:no la...l really nt biased abt sg gals...for most la..l could say....
if l am really biased abt gals..l will say "The gals"...but instead l say Most
But this is quite true lehz...l see and look ard...alot of gals juz behave in this manner ...especially those pretty ones...attitude and behaviour are very bad..
My sch frenz and the guys l noe....after having a few r/s and looking ard...all concluded the same thing as me
Even one of my Junior tell me..ben ah...in this world...as long as u hav the looks and $, u can do anything u wan....wan gals hav gals...what u wan oso okie..everything goes smoothly for u
if u tink l shldnt make this statement..l wont make it anymore le ^^, tat is juz my humble opinion la...l am nt trying to get this idea into anyone oso -
no la...he told me mah...so l juz listen what he say lo...l was kinda shock when he told me cuz he was juz sec 2 and he noe this!!!Originally posted by browniebaobao:huh? u listen to wat ur juniors say?
even my junior noes abt this..so l guess there must be sum truth abt wad l say..
All my guy frenz now dun dare woo chio or cute de becos most hav bad personaity....they wan to find gals average can liao, a bit below average oso can...mst impt is must hav gud character... -
wad u say is true oso..but normally when they settle down...they choose personaity, character and security..but the terrible truth is that they had been used before -_-"Originally posted by alan-:i used to think that during my poly days when guys who are well off/gd look/famous earn more attention than the avg joe.
but the truth is, not really that a lot of girls are looking at this.. girls are getting more clever nowadays. while the rich/handsome/famous are still getting most girls' attention, but they normally treat it as a flirt/fling. they know of the low-sense of security, therefore when settling down, they still chooses personality, character and security over $/looks/reputation. -
i'm in the same situation as you.. girls are always liddat.. that list of things you did for her is A LOT, but to her, it's something you're SUPPOSED to do.. and even if you DID do, it shows you're her boyfriend that's all.. there's no such thing as APPRECIATE in a girl's mind.. at least AFTER you're together.. before you were even together, sending her home is like the greatest thing you can ever do.. being together, sending her home to jurong when you live in pasir ris is your JOB and you're not allowed to stop and neither are you getting any appreciation for the effort.
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My sentiments exactly...Originally posted by CannyOng:15 failed r/s?
She is just just spoiled chio bu who thinks that everybody in the world owns her
And u r a poor honest guy who is mesmerised by her beauty that u think u can ignored all her character fault until the stage u cannot take it!
Good that u wake up. Next time,find a gal who appreciates u!
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throw her away. Or you can do what she's doing to you. Damn dulan girls like this. And guys who try to get near to girls who're already attached are just bastardss
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Some Women are cold-blooded. . .
1 advice for you. . .
What will be yours will always be yours. Dont think so much bout it. No point in
doing that. WHy get yourself saded over a girl. Its not like u can't live w/o her.
You dont have to snatch wat is not fated to be yours -
DO U NOE THAT WAD U JUZ POSTED CAN WHIP UP ANOTHER STORM??Originally posted by Space1999:whatever you do , dont ask her to post here. because there is young and restless moderator looking for prey here..hehe
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Advise u to go and befriend more people older than you, widen your social circle, observe and see more..Originally posted by xShevchenkox:no la...he told me mah...so l juz listen what he say lo...l was kinda shock when he told me cuz he was juz sec 2 and he noe this!!!
even my junior noes abt this..so l guess there must be sum truth abt wad l say..
All my guy frenz now dun dare woo chio or cute de becos most hav bad personaity....they wan to find gals average can liao, a bit below average oso can...mst impt is must hav gud character...
u dun find it funny meh? u listen to a few people and then believe that it's true. -
A cooling-off period will be good for both parties to think through whether the relationship should be continued. It seems clear that both parties have not reached any kind of mutual understanding yet........
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just move on..you will forever be unhappy either wayOriginally posted by sickandtired:just felt like letting it out.
i was there for her when she was feeling down.
i helped her up everytime she fell.
i gave her all my attention even when others had appointments with me.
i sent her home everyday even though i stayed far away and had less than 3 hours sleep.
i was there to help her financially if she needed it.
i was there to console her everytime she complained and cried that she did something wrong at work.
i always put up with her tantrums and never once told her i wanted to break up.
i always let her know where i was or with whom and wat i was doing.
i always bought her clothes or other accessories but she never wore to let me see
even when we did break up once and she wanted to patch back and cried, i was always there for her during the break up and eventually decided to patch back
i never once put up any photos with other gals in any website
but now.. suddenly some guy comes in between us playing the good guy and gives her advise.
now she says she is confused suddenly about our love but she denies being interested in him.
she now just wants to enjoy life with her frenz partying it out
she puts pics of herself n her male colleagues..some of them with arms on her in a website.
she removed our pics together and claims that its nothing.
she never stores my hp no in her hp but stores that of that bastard.
she calls up my female frenz and creates probs and now my female frenz and me dun really tok
i just feel so bored with this relationship. she has a huge character flaw and all her previous 15 relationships didnt work out. her only 2 longest one was 3 month n 6 months. mine lasted 5 yrs with her. i endured all her crapz and complains and everything. now suddenly she says we are not compatible? why then did she wanna patch up after we broke up?i really gave my all and tried my best but now i just feel i have failed. all other gals i know just tell me that i haf done so much for her and they wish that someone would do the same for them. i really dunno where i haf done wrong. i am tired of always suffering and just want to let all this go. but truth is i am afraid. i am afraid to be lonely. afraid that i will not find another person to love or look after. she does things wrong but blames me and i haf to apologise. she brings up the past and when i elaborate about it, it becomes i brought the past up. i feel she will never be happy in life because she always believes i will turn out like her adulterous uncle. she always like to think of negative things. i am so sianz now..
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I have more or less the same prob minus the guy
actually the fact is............girls are reeally the most difficult thing to understand on this surface of the planet -
I think you are better off without her. If judging by what you have said, she is clearly making use of u. (Tts wat i think)
I have some girl friends, just because want to have a bf, will do a lot of things to get them, after tt when in the relationship, the guy will always be there suffering.
So cheap!
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i hear u are 25 this year rite?
Are u studying or working now?
just curious....
maybe you should just move on.... -
Originally posted by FireIce:oh......
>pat pat<
though i no hear her side of the story (u know, it's always fair to hear both sides), i think u shd jus..........be on ur own for a while to straighten out ur tots (and let her do so too)
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most of the relationship problems are gone if you have the following thingsOriginally posted by tek_koh:I have more or less the same prob minus the guy
actually the fact is............girls are reeally the most difficult thing to understand on this surface of the planet
money, money , money
because money can get nice car, nice pad and other luxury in life.
so when you are young, work hard make enough money then marry a girl 10 years younger than you
then you can give her the luxury of life, and she has no complaints . Trust me give her all this , treat her well and i assure you there is no problem.
Some people are in the transition to reach the rich and famous stage. some are destined not to reach it if you hang around in forums whole day and dont work properly.
so its your choice. you can date when you are not so rich and have no car or dont own no properties, but expect the pains of relationship to come when your other half start to want things. its only natural.You dont want to take a bus with two kids and your wife to go grocery shopping isnt it?
I was not born rich , i worked throughout my life and i had relationship along the way , i went through the pains but trust me the moment i made it ,
bought my own house, created a wonderful environment for my partner.a nice sports car.(make me feel 10 years younger =))
holidays at least once a year and i dont mean batam. You will have a very happy relationship.
but of course you have to work for it.
so when you see a happy couple in a nice car, dont be sad. you can achieve that too. Its your choice. work hard or play hard now. when i was working hard stage , i was doing two jobs at the same time. no time to hang around in forum! -
and dont worry about being alone when you are rich and famous,
when you have the money , they can feel the confidence in you, or see the glow i would say.
you will never be lonely, your scope will be much widen and you dont have to scheme to get other girls.
they will come to you . lets be honest , we live in a very materialistic world.
If given the choice of driving your own car, would you prefer to sweat it out in a bus?Or taking a taxi to your date?
work on your own success first, anything else is not important now
the moolah is -
I think many people can relate to your case, it's a classic case of nice guy losing out.
If u have to try so hard in a relationship, it's probably not going to work out anyway. I dont think you would have any problems finding a better girl, I'm sure once ur female friends know u are single again, many will starting flocking to you.
I think you already know where your current relationship is going to end up. How could you possibly be with someone like that for the rest of your life? You will age 10 times faster than her lor. -
Originally posted by xShevchenkox:Well
l dun noe abt other gals from other country...but in singapore...from wad l see
Most gals are spoilt brats, tinking they are princess
If they are chio or cute, they noe that alot of guys will go after them and treat them good..they will become haughty and proud...this is when SERIOUS attitude problems comes into these gals..
What do these gals want?
RICH BF
SHUAI LOOKING
SMART
GOOD QUALITIES
the qualities they expect from guys is juz too much...
That is y guys..juz dun care so much...gt a gf le..so wad? Dun be too engrossed with her...
If she show attitude problem and scold u for no reason...juz scold her back..dun be weak by keeping quiet...If not she will juz become more and more haughty and tink u good to bully..
Treat a gal well..if u tink she has gained ur respect..l believe in fair play...she treats u well, u treat her well...
if not...she is juz gonna get hell from me..
Anyway gals nt really impt la..there are so many gals ard..what for so cling to a gal? If character no match and she has attitude problems...juz leave her lo..break lo...u wont lose much de...
better than u dragging the r/s...by giving into her..it wont helps much...u are juz wasting ur time, efforts and $ as well
You have matured more. Muz be da NS thingy. -
I absolutely agree with you. For a man, career success is very important. There are many other important things also, like character, attitude, outlook, but career success and money must never be overlooked. If you have money, 80-90% of your problems are solved. If money is not important, there won't be ppl jumping off mrt tracks becoz they cant pay their debts.Originally posted by Space1999:and dont worry about being alone when you are rich and famous,
when you have the money , they can feel the confidence in you, or see the glow i would say.
you will never be lonely, your scope will be much widen and you dont have to scheme to get other girls.
they will come to you . lets be honest , we live in a very materialistic world.
If given the choice of driving your own car, would you prefer to sweat it out in a bus?Or taking a taxi to your date?
work on your own success first, anything else is not important now
the moolah is
No self respecting girl is going to stick with a guy who has nothing in life. -
to TS: enjoy ur trip to thailand!
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thats why...
to aviod all this problem..
ill stay single... -
When come to love, one has to give willingly or u give watever u able to give, after giving dun expect anything in return, in that way u will feel much better.......
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Get out of this hell... look for soulwinner... I am someone who have alot of experience of rejection from gal... But now have a pretty and caring gf... So let my encourage u by sharing my sucess story....
