living without live...
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cca is important too... it is also compulsary to join a cca...Originally posted by SGpork:oh ok..
if ur studying n working liao...dont join cca lo..like u said..it make thing worst...
ya lo..very tough life ...so the more u must thrive hard n not like now...giving up or... slowing urself down...
jia you
im also schooling n studying ma..
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why u don't come in to sg single and friend forums where the door is alway open... Share u problem with me through there....
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guai peh peh alert.Originally posted by soulwinner:why u don't come in to sg single and friend forums where the door is alway open... Share u problem with me through there.... -
Originally posted by soulwinner:why u don't come in to sg single and friend forums where the door is alway open... Share u problem with me through there....
huh?Originally posted by Ito_^:guai peh peh alert. -
You need to sort it out.Originally posted by popikachu:cca is important too... it is also compulsary to join a cca...
Drop the things which you need are dragging you down from your goals.
Drop those which you think you don't have to attain now, it can wait.
I suggest you can continue your CCA, but let your instructor/teacher know that you're unable to commit to workload because of family conditions.
Cheers -
'Originally posted by popikachu:huh? neber mind. juz kidding only. it refers to "perverted uncle" if u wanna noe. -
everytime they say a must but there are still alot pple who dont join..
hmm then u should join some sports or more relax 1 ma..why go uniform grup.. -
i drop everything i can liao...Originally posted by M©+square:You need to sort it out.
Drop the things which you need are dragging you down from your goals.
Drop those which you think you don't have to attain now, it can wait.
Cheers
my life now contain ontl a few thing that i can even list them all...
school - studies...
cca- npcc...
working - mac...
sleeping- 3 to 6 hours a day nia...
occationally play bball with friends - only thing that entertain me...
visit sg forum- the few of the place where i can chat so freely...
other then this few things, i really didnt do anything else...
i dont even watch tv or movies... waste of time to me... -
our sch only got less then 10 people without cca...Originally posted by SGpork:everytime they say a must but there are still alot pple who dont join..
hmm then u should join some sports or more relax 1 ma..why go uniform grup.. -
can change to other cca one?Originally posted by popikachu:our sch only got less then 10 people without cca... -
It's probably caused by the pressure caused by you studying and working at the same time.
I would suggest you take a short rest from your CCA. Of the three, your CCA is the least important. Take a rest - go cycle or something. If you don't have a bike, maybe just go somewhere quiet to let out your stress?
Go to beaches, find some corner without people, and just scream to the sea. Cliché, but it works. I suggest Punggol End, but anywhere convenient for you is fine.
If you need someone to talk to, you can PM me. Or on MSN.
Never give up hope on life - once the flame of hopes is extinguished, re-igniting it involves even more. -
Originally posted by binarynwitz:
ya... i think thats what i am feeling...
It's probably caused by the pressure caused by you studying and working at the same time.
I would suggest you take a short rest from your CCA. Of the three, your CCA is the least important. Take a rest - go cycle or something. If you don't have a bike, maybe just go somewhere [b]quiet to let out your stress?
Go to beaches, find some corner without people, and just scream to the sea. Cliché, but it works. I suggest Punggol End, but anywhere convenient for you is fine.
If you need someone to talk to, you can PM me. Or on MSN. Never give up hope on life - once the flame of hopes is extinguished, re-igniting it involves even more.[/b] -
TS:
Are you falling asleep in classes? -
How To Deal With BurnoutOriginally posted by popikachu:no...
i hope to get the best out of everything...
i wanted to get the ambition that is good... i want a future...
i dream, for happiness....
it is just tiredness for all this feeling...
giving up...
real tired...
Burnout: Signs, Symptoms, and Prevention
I think that you can find the rest for yourself.
Go on a Spiritual Journey... -
"Burnout is a state of emotional and physical exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It can occur when you feel overwhelmed and unable to meet constant demands. As the stress continues, you begin to lose the interest or motivation that led you to take on a certain role in the first place. Burnout reduces your productivity and saps your energy, leaving you feeling increasingly hopeless, powerless, cynical, and resentful. The unhappiness burnout causes can eventually threaten your job, your relationships, and your health."Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:How To Deal With Burnout
Burnout: Signs, Symptoms, and Prevention
I think that you can find the rest for yourself.
Go on a Spiritual Journey...
"# Frustration and powerlessness
# Hopelessness
# Being drained of emotional energy
# Detachment, withdrawal, isolation
# Being trapped
# Having failed at what youÂ’re doing
# Irritability
# Sadness"
omg... all of the above is really what is am feeling now...
i really have a burnout ahh?
if it can recover, i really wish to recover but the problem is, all of the dolution is to take a break...
however, i really dont have anytime to take a break... then how?
"Most of us have days when weÂ’re bored to death with what we do at work; when our co-workers and bosses seem irremediably wrong-headed; when the dozen balls we keep in the air arenÂ’t noticed, let alone rewarded; when dragging ourselves into work requires the determination of Hercules; when caring about work seems like a waste of energy; when nothing we do appears to make a difference in a workplace full of bullying supervisors, clueless colleagues, and ungrateful clients.
We all have bad days at work. But when every day is a bad day, youÂ’re flirting with burnout.
Most burnout has to do with the workplace, and itÂ’s present in every occupation. Those most at risk may be service professionals, who spend their work lives attending to the needs of others, especially if their work puts them in frequent contact with the dark or tragic side of human experience, or if theyÂ’re underpaid, unappreciated, or criticized for matters beyond their control."
"# Feeling trapped for economic reasons by a job that fits any of the scenarios above."
i am under this category i think? but i also have this kind of feeling in sch leh...
basically, is from everything... -
pika,
TIME MANAGEMENT
LEARN WHEN TO PLAY AND STUDY 
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You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. -Buddha
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I am slowbro talk to me....
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......Originally posted by popikachu:sainz...
i really dunno what the aim in my life...
there is really nth thats interest me to keep my life going...
really...
nth...
yup, nth...
even if i play all those online game which interest me alot and will make me addict like drug addict one, i got no mood to play it anymore...
why? why? i really got no one to talk to... no one whom i can trust to talk to... no one to share my problem... really no one...
i really wish to end my life asap, dont worry, i am not commiting suicide, but i am just damn tired with life...
a little about me...
i am a person who will go for my best...
i will try my best to give everything for just the best...
and to tell the truth, this is the first time i am telling other i am giving my best...
if you will to know me in real life, you wouldnt find that i am giving me best but i am really giving me best...
ya... i really got no mood to do anything, everything... i really hope i can give up everything... all my studies, work, cca... yup eveything...
i am really tired with life... but what to do? i need a future...
i started to have this feeling for about a year... i endured really long liao...
after this year, i really cant endure anymore liao... i feel that no one know my pain, my suffering... in fact, there really isnt anyone who really know my pain...
thought there are alot of people who care about me but... they dont know what i feel...
this year... the year i couldnt endure anymore... i tried to get myself more time to rest... but i end up getting more stress... i did very very badly for my studies...
i was a student who get high marks in class... top in science in my lvl... i am also known for a guy who is really really good in maths...
but, i fail my maths, a maths, science this year...
but study isnt what i really care about...
it that nothing really keep me to go forward... i really wish that, i was dead...
yup i just said dead...
i dont what is the next step i should take... what will happen to me...
just 2 word in my mind now,
give up...
thanks for reading...
after telling this to you people,
i really feel alot better...
and if you dont know, tears were rolling down my eyes when i wrote this...
i am really, tired with life...
Sorry for getting back to you so real late.. Makes me realise how I had been wasting my time...
You can PM me to talk about it if you trust me enough... Where ya stay? Can even arrange for a meet up or maybe phone chat (though I'm not really that keen into phone chatting) if I can afford the time to?
What sort of online game(s) do you play? Are you still playing them...? Can you... Do me a favor? I think the minimum you can start is by kicking those online game habit... I used to be hooked to them like yourself... And yes.. Like you've described thm to be.. They can be sort of like drugs... Giving different people different effects... If you wanna find some 'online game' just for the 'kick' of it, I'll suggest maybe you can try something milder and less time consuming for a change..? (if you can't kick the habit at one go) Just like I'm currently more into atari games.. Which really are just for 'kick'.. Doesn't really serve much purpose as I don't feel much of any 'urge' to be hooked to online gaming anymore...
Personally, I think what yo might really need now is to join some club or ECA which have activities of your interest for you to spend your life with...? (or better yourself for that matter?) Take basketball for example? And if you find that nothing much in life really interest you too much now, then perhaps it's really time for you to explore yourself and life and find out what really interest you in real time...? -
You're not the only one who is feeling this way... In fact a couple of forummites I know... Some friends... Even I myself in the past...Originally posted by popikachu:no...
i hope to get the best out of everything...
i wanted to get the ambition that is good... i want a future...
i dream, for happiness....
it is just tiredness for all this feeling...
giving up...
real tired...
But understand that sometimes getting the 'best' out of everything isn't always happiness... -
And just exactly what is the answer ya got?Originally posted by popikachu:"Do you know what is important to you?
yup, currently, studies is the most important...
and i also feel that happiness, a aim to move forward is important but, i dont have it...
"If you don't, it's time to figure it out?"
i tried to figure it out long time ago... i got the answer... but, my i just want to give up... -
Maybe you just need to loosen up a bit and go on a more 'relaxed' form of mentality...?Originally posted by popikachu:"Burnout is a state of emotional and physical exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It can occur when you feel overwhelmed and unable to meet constant demands. As the stress continues, you begin to lose the interest or motivation that led you to take on a certain role in the first place. Burnout reduces your productivity and saps your energy, leaving you feeling increasingly hopeless, powerless, cynical, and resentful. The unhappiness burnout causes can eventually threaten your job, your relationships, and your health."
"# Frustration and powerlessness
# Hopelessness
# Being drained of emotional energy
# Detachment, withdrawal, isolation
# Being trapped
# Having failed at what youÂ’re doing
# Irritability
# Sadness"
omg... all of the above is really what is am feeling now...
i really have a burnout ahh?
if it can recover, i really wish to recover but the problem is, all of the dolution is to take a break...
however, i really dont have anytime to take a break... then how?
"Most of us have days when weÂ’re bored to death with what we do at work; when our co-workers and bosses seem irremediably wrong-headed; when the dozen balls we keep in the air arenÂ’t noticed, let alone rewarded; when dragging ourselves into work requires the determination of Hercules; when caring about work seems like a waste of energy; when nothing we do appears to make a difference in a workplace full of bullying supervisors, clueless colleagues, and ungrateful clients.
We all have bad days at work. But when every day is a bad day, youÂ’re flirting with burnout.
Most burnout has to do with the workplace, and itÂ’s present in every occupation. Those most at risk may be service professionals, who spend their work lives attending to the needs of others, especially if their work puts them in frequent contact with the dark or tragic side of human experience, or if theyÂ’re underpaid, unappreciated, or criticized for matters beyond their control."
"# Feeling trapped for economic reasons by a job that fits any of the scenarios above."
i am under this category i think? but i also have this kind of feeling in sch leh...
basically, is from everything... -
pikachu!
you said that this is the first time you have ever told anyone about these issues.
has any teacher or any of your friends in school ever tried to talk to you about this before?
does anyone other than pple in this forum know about your problems?
is there a teacher you can talk to? i think that right now for you, if you can find a teacher to talk to, it will help a lot. they will be able to help you get a school counsellor which i think might be of help to you especially since you have felt this way for a year already. and they might be able to help you financially also.
i hope you will be able to pull through this. you will be a stronger person when ur out of this sh|t. but for now, i would not encourage you to go through this yourself. find a real person you can talk to face to face. its honestly quite hard to help for such issues online... -
erm...not too sure if i should post this here
but just to let you know (though i think you already do)
stress CAN lead to depression
and erm...once you are depressed (as in....clinically depressed), its hard to get out of it. (sorry, i refuse to sugar-coat this)
i hope you havent gotten to that stage yet.
i do urge you to talk to someone who will be able to help!
you need a break. but you are unable due to other commitments.
talking to someone (preferably an adult) who can let the school know about your situation is probably your best bet right now -
You've got lots of soul-searching to do............