quality of mods III
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To all the guys out there...
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:ban quinsy la
gan si lang irritating
Quinsy has no part in this thread. So now you're saying it's wrong to expose molest. =.=!! -
Get it right, I never thought Devil1976 as a bad guy until I opened thread and people supplied me with the knowledge that he has the bad habit of dating girls out.Originally posted by yihao93:i mean....
gal common sense rite go in groups or sth
well, as most of us noe, do not judge a book by its cover
and the internet is dangerous...
y did that gal agree to it after noe -in all these...? 
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but they are attratced to stayOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:guests are not forced to stay are they?
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You don't know anything do you?Originally posted by jojobeach:Good job VK.
I should say, we need more street justice like yours so our perverted males will stop taking advantage and get away with it. -
Another thread follower who reads and doesn't comment.Originally posted by SumOne:You don't know anything do you?
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A CLONE! -
gimme a smile babyOriginally posted by Quinsy:Another thread follower who reads and doesn't comment.
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A CLONE! 
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nice...
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double post.
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open closed open closed , read liao also blurr, how to commentOriginally posted by Quinsy:Another thread follower who reads and doesn't comment.
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A CLONE! 
so just follow 
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:gimme a smile baby
this is the best i can do for now. -
i missed the fun again?? wah lau.. so many ppl fighting which other ar...... this kind of time is when we need our beloved CROCO the most!!!!!... he's the only one that can unite all of us here......
COMMON ENEMY TO ALL...KILL CROCO... UNBAN CROCO LAH SO WE CAN HUNT HIM DOWN AGAIN!!!! -
Do you ??Originally posted by SumOne:You don't know anything do you?
I have been following this thread.
People I know was bullied into silence by people like you.
So I say VK is doing a good job standing her ground. -
Yes I do, because I don't just follow one thread, and more.....Originally posted by jojobeach:Do you ??
The very fact that you said something like that shows you don't know what you are talking about. Especially where your comments about me are concerned. Don't ask me to explain, it's that obvious.I have been following this thread.[/quote]
Knowing this thread in itself is not enough.People I know was bullied into silence by people like you.
[quote]So I say VK is doing a good job standing her ground.Standing her ground but on what basis? And you say you have been following at least this thread and you claim to know what is going on. Yet you miss some of the posts said by people other than VK.
Quite honestly, if you don't know what you are talking about, then just keep quiet. But if you are a clone just out to reinforce a certain agenda, then continue your nonsense.
In any case, I give you the benefit of the doubt you're not a clone, but just someone who is rather clueless at this point of time. -
Either way, he or she is clueless.Originally posted by Quinsy:Another thread follower who reads and doesn't comment.
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ure sucha pest seriously. Go see a shrink pronto. You have serious issues man.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:BTW, the other threads was on issues.
I didnt name names or nicknames in those threads.
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Dear Sumone,Originally posted by SumOne:Standing her ground but on what basis? And you say you have been following at least this thread and you claim to know what is going on. Yet you miss some of the posts said by people other than VK.
Quite honestly, if you don't know what you are talking about, then just keep quiet. But if you are a clone just out to reinforce a certain agenda, then continue your nonsense.
In any case, I give you the benefit of the doubt you're not a clone, but just someone who is rather clueless at this point of time.
This is a forum is it not ? Who are you to tell me to keep quiet ?
Quite honestly, I cannot be bullied into silence like the others because I know what is right and wrong.
Quite honestly, who are you to say that I am talking nonsense ?
Clueless or not, are you the best person to judge ?
And yes, guys like Devil needs to be punished. So the monkeys will wake up from their perverted dreams and know that there is repercussions to their actions.
Once again VK. Good work for fighting the good fight. -
Yes, it is a forum. Still doesn't mean you post indiscriminately.Originally posted by jojobeach:Dear Sumone,
This is a forum is it not ? Who are you to tell me to keep quiet ?
I'm not saying you are talking nonsense, not totally anyway. But it seems you have missed some things and are mistaken about some things. Go figure.Quite honestly, I cannot be bullied into silence like the others because I know what is right and wrong.[/quote]
Nobody is bullying you into silence, but you have a wrong idea about some things.Quite honestly, who are you to say that I am talking nonsense ?
Clueless is really the most apt description at this point of time. Are you the best person to judge that VK's actions are best?Clueless or not, are you the best person to judge ?Apparently there are certain things you do not know or are mistaken about. Which is why I used the word 'clueless'.And yes, guys like Devil needs to be punished. So the monkeys will wake up from their perverted dreams and know that there is repercussions to their actions.
Before you continue to get mistaken, by commenting about VK, it does not mean we condone any inappropriate acts that have happened offline. Moreover, action has already been taken by the relevant people. Certain posts and topics thereafter by VK have been unnecessary and inappriopriate even. Posts and threads that caused more harm than good. Also, VK's intentions have been questionable. Various people have already commented, no need for me to elaborate.
I am not trying to criticize VK again, but just trying to summarise a little. Also to tell you not to blindly approve of her posts.
To clarify, it's one thing to support VK's agendaagainst an individual (which has hopefully eneded) and it's a different thing to speak out or to condone any inappropriate behaviour that has happened.
As I mentioned to VK, I hope that you do not let your impulsiveness cloud your rationality or your anger get the better of you.
[quote]Once again VK. Good work for fighting the good fight.You have no idea what you really are approving. A post like that only confirms it. VK's last few threads and posts have not been about the incident directly anymore. But has had a different agenda to it.
I'm all for standing up for the rights for women to speak out against unwarranted social behaviour. But to support VK's posts and threads is an entirely matter. I hope you can see the difference. -
Dear Sumone,Originally posted by SumOne:You have no idea what you really are approving. A post like that only confirms it. VK's last few threads and posts have not been about the incident directly anymore. But has had a different agenda to it.
I'm all for standing up for the rights for women to speak out against unwarranted social behaviour. But to support VK's posts and threads is an entirely matter. I hope you can see the difference.
Everyone has their own way of fighting for what they believe in. Just because VK didn't carrying out her fight the way you want it, doesn't mean she is wrong.
I also see many response which are personally offensive to her which I feel is also uncalled for, and yet no one defends her. If it is purely personal and you are judging her based on her personality. Then unfortunately I cannot condone it.
Everyone in this forums has their own agenda, if not this forum will not have existed and flourished till today.
Please, I cannot read your mind. So, if you so believe that VK has a hidden agenda. Be our guest, do let tell.
Indiscriminate postings is already rampant in this particular threads. So why do you chose to single me out ? Is it because I did not support your stand ?
Just because I do not agree with you does not make me your enemy.
Everyone is entitled to defend oneself.
The funny part is, you seem to repeatedly judge others based on your own narrow opinion. Questionable or not is merely what it is.. questionable. Have you found the answer to it yet ?
Do not believe this world will conform to your beliefs because you say so. Conformity is detrimental to our safety and freedom. I hope you can understand that as well. -
jojobeach, i sure hope you are not someone's clone....Originally posted by jojobeach:Dear Sumone,
Everyone has their own way of fighting for what they believe in. Just because VK didn't carrying out her fight the way you want it, doesn't mean she is wrong.
personally, I don't question VK's motive.... I think her heart is in the right place, and her intentions are probably one of the noblest.... unfortunately, she get's too emotional (I think she had admitted to this one time or two).
in some of these arguments, good fair points were given but VK would always choose to stay on the side she deem correct, disregarding the truth in these points. In many cases, the one whom she deemed as the victim is always pure and not responsible for what has happened.
I don't think the issue is whether VK is working like sumone, or one of th others or even me.... the issue is when we are trying to solve someone's problem, let's not be part of the bigger problem by being too emotional and go and slash and burn route. Sometimes such methods may even create more distress for the one hurting.
At the end of the day, if I am a counsellor, I must ask the question: am I genuinely trying to help by being constructive and fair, or am I just ranting to get the frustration out of our system? -
Hi Jojo,
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Chin Eng,Originally posted by Chin Eng:At the end of the day, if I am a counsellor, I must ask the question: am I genuinely trying to help by being constructive and fair, or am I just ranting to get the frustration out of our system?
to be fair, the issues regards to Bee_gal/Alexrain was not anticipated by myself.
I have merely put in what are the earlier scenerios I've encountered.
However, it hit a certain nerve, which is probably why everyone hijacked it and turned it into my agenda.
On devils & quinsy, they arent the only trio of people who have gone thru this scenerio. For devil to claim hidden agenda, there is his problem. the rocking boat theory.
I dont stand for bullies, offline, or otherwise. Or I wouldnt be in a Volunteer position for so long. No matter how political or how biased one are to another human being. I do not like the idea that bullying be tolerated.
And if you want a war, I am more then ready to provide one.
My stance has never been soft on these issues. The more crap I received, the more I am willing to see the whole issue thru. -
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Your quote in bold - that underlines your entire tactic... you declare war on anyone that you are peeved with. I have no intention on declaring war on you. What will you and I gain from it? The right to boast? Just because we don't agree on the strategy doesn't mean we need to fight. I think both of us want to help, regardless the differences in approach. Declaring war, again, in aunt agony is not a very good mature way to solve any problem.
Chin Eng,
to be fair, the issues regards to Bee_gal/Alexrain was not anticipated by myself.
I have merely put in what are the earlier scenerios I've encountered.
However, it hit a certain nerve, which is probably why everyone hijacked it and turned it into my agenda.
On devils & quinsy, they arent the only trio of people who have gone thru this scenerio. For devil to claim hidden agenda, there is his problem. the rocking boat theory.
I dont stand for bullies, offline, or otherwise. Or I wouldnt be in a Volunteer position for so long. No matter how political or how biased one are to another human being. I do not like the idea that bullying be tolerated.
And if you want a war, I am more then ready to provide one.
My stance has never been soft on these issues. The more crap I received, the more I am willing to see the whole issue thru.
I am NOT asking you to tolerate bullies, I am only asking that you back off on the emotional part a little, and accept fair reason a little more.
Again I say, I NEVER defended devil for whatever he's done! All I said was each of us, including those of us who think we are victimised, must be responsible for the path we have chosen. actually, come to think of it, it sounds dam funny, the phrase: And if you want a war, I am more then ready to provide one.
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yep. weather is turning better. getting warmer but nicely cool.Originally posted by Chin Eng:Still in orange county? -
Dear Chin Eng,Originally posted by Chin Eng:jojobeach, i sure hope you are not someone's clone....
personally, I don't question VK's motive.... I think her heart is in the right place, and her intentions are probably one of the noblest.... unfortunately, she get's too emotional (I think she had admitted to this one time or two).
in some of these arguments, good fair points were given but VK would always choose to stay on the side she deem correct, disregarding the truth in these points. In many cases, the one whom she deemed as the victim is always pure and not responsible for what has happened.
I don't think the issue is whether VK is working like sumone, or one of th others or even me.... the issue is when we are trying to solve someone's problem, let's not be part of the bigger problem by being too emotional and go and slash and burn route. Sometimes such methods may even create more distress for the one hurting.
At the end of the day, if I am a counsellor, I must ask the question: am I genuinely trying to help by being constructive and fair, or am I just ranting to get the frustration out of our system?
When you are given a charge whom has been molested by someone she trust. Do you tell her " girl you have to take responsibility for your perpertrator's action" ???? What kind of logic is that ??
Do you also tell her " Let's not make a big hoo haa outa it, because it ain't a big deal" What kind of counsellor is that ????
You might as well feed that poor girl to the sharks.
I have seen too many, infact way too many girls being taken advantage of, and yet they meekly back off into the back ground because of fear, shame, uncertainty. Is that deem acceptable by you ???
Perhaps.. just perhaps have you question this.. if VK did not make a big deal outa it, it would just become another story the society shrugs off so easily.
The fact that VK made so much fire outa this is also not entirely her doing. In this case, it takes many hands to raise such an uproar.
Have you ever regretted not standing up and fight after you have been taken advantage of ? I did. And I hated that feeling. The anguish of being weak is unspeakable.
And unfortunately, many of us are weak, that's why people comes into our lives to support us and give us courage. So that we can do what we normally wouldn't have the courage to do.
What VK has done is just that, give the girl her courage.
If it takes this much action to get things done, to move things along. Don't you think we need more stronger rower in the boat ??
No doubt it takes two hands to clap. But like I said before, just because you can or have the opportunity to take, does not mean you should.
For what VK has done, she has indeed shine a very bright light on this Devil.
So let this be a warning to all users in this virtual arena.
The way I see it, the word to describe her is not emotional, infact, more passionate. A rarity among souless Singaporeans.