quality of mods III
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Before i go on, i must clarify that i am neutral about this. But your points, really made me goOriginally posted by xShevchenkox:1.such as trying to date alot of gals forumners out on a one to one basis
when he himself oreadi has a gf?
2.He being a moderator of AA, shld set a good example and be righteous in his way. IT IS a NO NO for ppl to abuse such authority, when giving sound advices here, he shld ensure that he himself is a good person with CLEAR conscience, intentions are all well , and not having bad intentions and with a unclear conscience.
3.Trying to molest gal, means he had the idea of trying to get fresh with the gal he asked out, which l tink is very inapprioriate for a guy to do that
If he had done this to quinsy, l am very dead sure he had done this to other gals he dated before...juz that perhaps the victims dun wan to expose this matter?
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1. asking a gal out for a movie, as a friend. Whats wrong with that even with a gf? Even if its not ok, it should be his gf that is complaining, not you. If his gf is fine with that idea, then i dont see what the fuss is all about other then that being your personal opinion.
2. What authority did he abuse? They went out as friends, not as a mod of AA going out to counsel someone. Its eg. "Teachers should not smoke and club, its just wrong kinda idea"
3. Molesting a gal is OF COURSE not right. But the idea there is that the guy thought he is playing along with the gal. And the gal then did not make a fuss then. Thus, there is the misunderstanding. About this issue, the 2 parties has already reported. We should like close this case. << and what makes you think he done that to other girls before? Prove? Or else i guess this is very bad slander. >>
If you wanna add, morally of course its not right to touch another girl when you has a gf bla bla. but its all up to the 2 parties right?
Overall, of course if someone did anything wrong, that someone ( guy or gal ) should be punished. somehow, put behind bars watsoever.
Reports are done and we should just rest it.
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ya ya ya
you want us to clear out asap isnt it?
ok i go to sleep now...but let start again tomorrow okay?
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Quick go, your wife is waiting for you.Originally posted by Space1999:ya ya ya
you want us to clear out asap isnt it?
ok i go to sleep now...but let start again tomorrow okay?
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Yes, going out with friends as gals is not wrong even if you have a gf. so touching a gal, despite you have a gf, with or without the gal leading you on is right?Originally posted by angrynor:Before i go on, i must clarify that i am neutral about this. But your points, really made me go .
1. asking a gal out for a movie, as a friend. Whats wrong with that even with a gf? Even if its not ok, it should be his gf that is complaining, not you. If his gf is fine with that idea, then i dont see what the fuss is all about other then that being your personal opinion.
2. What authority did he abuse? They went out as friends, not as a mod of AA going out to counsel someone. Its eg. "Teachers should not smoke and club, its just wrong kinda idea"
3. Molesting a gal is OF COURSE not right. But the idea there is that the guy thought he is playing along with the gal. And the gal then did not make a fuss then. Thus, there is the misunderstanding. About this issue, the 2 parties has already reported. We should like close this case. << and what makes you think he done that to other girls before? Prove? Or else i guess this is very bad slander. >>
If you wanna add, morally of course its not right to touch another girl when you has a gf bla bla. but its all up to the 2 parties right?
Overall, of course if someone did anything wrong, that someone ( guy or gal ) should be punished. somehow, put behind bars watsoever.
Reports are done and we should just rest it.
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So, in the name of 'counselling' troubled gals he know from the Aunt Agony forum that he moderates, go and tell the gal to break up with her bf and be with him is moral? -
i did say molest is NOT right. if the guy and his gf are swingers, they probably wont mind? And if the third party is willing too, wats wrong? (I am not saying that someone was leading another someone on willingly. erherm.)Many of us would shake our heads. I would too. But its their personal choice. What can we do if all parties is happy? And in any case, the gf should be the one complaining, if the other 2 were fine with it. Not us. What can we do? Advise the gf to dump the bf?Originally posted by Ladi:Yes, going out with friends as gals is not wrong even if you have a gf. so touching a gal, despite you have a gf, with or without the gal leading you on is right?
So, in the name of 'counselling' troubled gals he know from the Aunt Agony forum that he moderates, go and tell the gal to break up with her bf and be with him is moral?
and the advises here is mostly personal. I would not say if its right or wrong. He is free to to say anything he wants. Morally correct or not, thats another.
As the mod of this forum, he job is to close or edit posts if things OT/flame/racist/suicidal/ etc. Or thats what i think a mod should be doing. Advices should all be purely personal.
Tats all i got to say. Wont be posting in this thread anymore. Time to close! >.<
and erm. hahha. prusssssssssssss one.
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I have a feeling , that someone smart , is trying to incite some decent among AA. N distablise it.
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Angrynor,
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Originally posted by erijazz:This thread has become more and more childlish... flame me, i dun care. Bro......Lets take a chair , sit down, eat pop corn and watch show. Dont get involve
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At first only a couple of ppl...now more and more on this very same boat...
But I guess the only thing is that we restrict to giving advices and that's it. Personal thoughts and everything (inclu. flaming) should be better left unsaid at this juncture. It will just add fuel to the fire, or start another fire... -
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Wah liew... long time not play badminton liao...Originally posted by TONYTAN: Bro......Lets take a chair , sit down, eat pop corn and watch show. Dont get involve 
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Thanks for keeping this thread so alive.
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without the cheese of cosOriginally posted by smudgey:with the cheese??
without the cheese it looks like a really healthy snack!!! -
So everyone will want to find out who is Quinsy, how she looks like, pretty or not, got blog or not, etc. Let's create more threads on this matter!!! She will be more famous than Wendy!!!Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Thanks for keeping this thread so alive.
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How you noe Wendy?Originally posted by Tan Ah Teck:So everyone will want to find out who is Quinsy, how she looks like, pretty or not, got blog or not, etc. Let's create more threads on this matter!!! She will be more famous than Wendy!!! -
Originally posted by GHoST_18:
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Who is Wendy? I only know Quinsy.Originally posted by Bontakun:How you noe Wendy? -
last time she used to put her blog in her profile one, now no more liaozOriginally posted by Tan Ah Teck:So everyone will want to find out who is Quinsy, how she looks like, pretty or not, got blog or not, etc. Let's create more threads on this matter!!! She will be more famous than Wendy!!! -
Can easily find one.Originally posted by rainee:last time she used to put her blog in her profile one, now no more liaoz -
Then you mention Wendy for...? Which Wendy you 'comparing' to?Originally posted by Tan Ah Teck:Who is Wendy? I only know Quinsy. -
is it? where ah?Originally posted by Tan Ah Teck:Can easily find one. -
The short and ugly one. Quinsy more pretty.Originally posted by Bontakun:Then you mention Wendy for...? Which Wendy you 'comparing' to? -
Cannot tell. But she really has a very fierce looking avatar.Originally posted by rainee:is it? where ah?