haiz....
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would i be really rude if i asked if your boyfriend really loves you? because someone who claims that once to me, something like that happened too. small things, even 1 word, can make the person real angry and ignore me for days. i guess some guys are really petty and that.. to tell you the truth, some of them don't feel committed enough to be with you, and you 2 has only been together for 1 week? or issit a week plus.. nevertheless, i thought such days were suppose to be the honeymoon stage?
forgive me if i sound utterly blunt, but i speak from experience, and i just wish you talked it out with your boyfriend, and that everything is fine.. -
bad news ppl...he says im stick to him like glue n stuffs...i mean he was not happy when i din tell him whr i went n stuffs...now dat i "report" to him every now n then...he thinks im stickin like a glue to him...no freedom...haiz...i guess loves just not for me...i really dunno wad to do now...cant afford to lose him...
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erm...paiseh...we 2gether for 2 weeks not one week...but still short rite? but wad to do when i love him?? hai....
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u do realise that u r wasting ur youth by sticking to him and making both of u feeling unhappy?
i have a couple that just broke up after 6~7 YEARS!!...
situation like urs...
gal luv guy/ guy say "u too sticky" or whatever....blah....blah
1st few yrs still ok, subsequently... problems came...
urs even worst...
2 wks only come out liao... -
he was the one who was afraid to lose me in the 1st place...now...i really dun understand y lydat...he was the one who wans me to tell him whr i go n wif who..haiz
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ask him what he really wants.
he sounds really confused to me. -
he doesn't even wans to answer my calls or even reply my sms Originally posted by Dolce Vita:ask him what he really wants.
he sounds really confused to me. -
sometimes even short relationship can hurt alot...
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yahloh..esp we gals put alot into a relationship...n kena hurt so jialat...hhmm..dun sad dun cry...try to tell him abt how u feel lor...if he doesnt change...dowan him lor....u can oways find someone better...Originally posted by aHGer^83:sometimes even short relationship can hurt alot... 
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i told him ler lor...heee~~~ we patch ler...this evenin...
Originally posted by mapp|ezz:yahloh..esp we gals put alot into a relationship...n kena hurt so jialat...hhmm..dun sad dun cry...try to tell him abt how u feel lor...if he doesnt change...dowan him lor....u can oways find someone better... -
not to pour cold water on u...Originally posted by aHGer^83:i told him ler lor...heee~~~ we patch ler...this evenin...
but when a conflict/problem araises in a relationship, there will be a scar, esp when the relationshiip hasn't had the foundation laid out
when the scar is there, as time goes by it will 'tear'...
then explode...
that's my experiences, might not be agreeable wif everyone's view.
u judge urself
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ppls who read that thread will think u are a despo gal hahahaOriginally posted by Mozzy:erm... u can try put up an advert?
maybe start a thread here?
"Finding a nice bf...blah blah blah"
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i agree ...Originally posted by aHGer^83:sometimes even short relationship can hurt alot...
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i can say ... for the starting of the patch he will showers you with care and concren ... but after some time will it be like the same as what you say in the very 1st post of this thread ???
it is for you to find out ... if it is still the same then i can say you can forget this guy for goodness sake ...
he do not worth your love ...
/me just wait to hear good news from youOriginally posted by aHGer^83:i told him ler lor...heee~~~ we patch ler...this evenin... -
i noe...thnx....well...perhaps dat's the reason y im afraid of relationship...once bitten, twice shyOriginally posted by Mozzy:not to pour cold water on u...
but when a conflict/problem araises in a relationship, there will be a scar, esp when the relationshiip hasn't had the foundation laid out
when the scar is there, as time goes by it will 'tear'...
then explode...
that's my experiences, might not be agreeable wif everyone's view.
u judge urself -
-_-`~Originally posted by aHGer^83:i noe...thnx....well...perhaps dat's the reason y im afraid of relationship...once bitten, twice shy -
Originally posted by Devil1976:-_-`~
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it's great that u understand. well just be brave and carry on!Originally posted by aHGer^83:i noe...thnx....well...perhaps dat's the reason y im afraid of relationship...once bitten, twice shy
who knows for certain that he will not become a better man.
wish u happiness and bliss!
gl and take care, til then. -
anyone who restricts yr lifestyle n both of u cant come up with a compromising solution DUmp that fella... my motto in life..
haiz thats why no bf.. -
hm....but i love him too much to dump him ler...cant bear to do so.. Originally posted by annna:anyone who restricts yr lifestyle n both of u cant come up with a compromising solution DUmp that fella... my motto in life..
haiz thats why no bf.. -
aiya u so young why commit to a guy so quick. Soon u will learn that love doesnt mean BGR stuff.. can mean much more.Originally posted by aHGer^83:hm....but i love him too much to dump him ler...cant bear to do so.. 
the most impt love that u mus have is to love yrself because no one will love u more than u do. when u love yrself, u know what is right for u. When u love yrself u wont harm yrself. U wont take drugs u wont give yrself lung cancer yellow teeth u wont make yrself suffer because of a bloody guy. In a relationship the most impt thing is both parties mus be happy. if one party not happy love him like hell also no point. because he doesnt become happy because of yr love. 
dun dump him loh talk to him la.... u also never go fuck other guys when u go clubbing or what. maybe jus let him know where u r .
that is basic respect.
aiya if u too frustrated thinking abt it jus do what i always do
BO CHUP LA love love la jus break up and SUA! Who say break up already DUn love. ha
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choices lie in u if u tin it worth u r happy den can liao but dat also the bad side so wen tis bad side occur u muz b brave to solve it liao...
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hmmm...but my tinkin is...as long he is happy, im happy lor..if he's not...i will try my very best no matter wad...
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this time...im really lost in sadness blurr in mind...i really dunno wad he wans lor...i think if i ask him...he sure dunno oso...haiz...
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You sounds young? Your relationship too..? Ups and downs are part of life, just like happiness and sadness are waves of a Love Relationship.... Sometimes try not to think too much or make such a big fuss over things when it's not really necessary or your relationship would tend to wear off faster on the long run...Originally posted by aHGer^83:
Anyway, enjoy this very moment of your relationship while it is still SWEET....
"Treasure for what it is today, and search not for where it was tomorrow..."
Happy Loving...